Season 3 Out on Friday 11th Feb
We're Back!!!!
Welcome to the world of unhinged and bumbled up,
Are you fed up of dating apps? Fed up of swiping left continously? Want to find a deeper connection? Just not getting that intimacy you want? Subconscious behaviours leading to falling into those same traps?
Are you an anxious attachment style, keep running to those people because they show you a little attention?
are you avoident? When things start to get serious you run the other way?
we have you covered!
Join us as we embark on a journey through the world of online dating, meeting people in person, relationships and much more
Our hosts are:
Phil, that guy who has had his fair share of bad dates that didn't turn into his happily ever after!
Jane, had so many dating disasters that she wrote a book about them, just when she was about to give up, she ended up meeting Mr. Right
They talk about our experiences and opinions on how to survive the minefield that is dating, all with a little (alright a lot of) help from some amazing guests.
For more click here for our website
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Season 3 Out on Friday 11th Feb
We're Back!!!!
Welcome to the world of unhinged and bumbled up,
Are you fed up of dating apps? Fed up of swiping left continously? Want to find a deeper connection? Just not getting that intimacy you want? Subconscious behaviours leading to falling into those same traps?
Are you an anxious attachment style, keep running to those people because they show you a little attention?
are you avoident? When things start to get serious you run the other way?
we have you covered!
Join us as we embark on a journey through the world of online dating, meeting people in person, relationships and much more
Our hosts are:
Phil, that guy who has had his fair share of bad dates that didn't turn into his happily ever after!
Jane, had so many dating disasters that she wrote a book about them, just when she was about to give up, she ended up meeting Mr. Right
They talk about our experiences and opinions on how to survive the minefield that is dating, all with a little (alright a lot of) help from some amazing guests.
For more click here for our website
Unhinged and bumbled up instagram
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This week Phil and Jane will be joined by Andrea Scotland's number one dominatrix according to the sun
She talks all about life as a dominatrix and how her relationship works and so much more, so delve into the work of being a dominatrix
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This week Phil and Jane are joined by Lewis,
Lewis decided that he would take girls on dates, not your average dates though, these were the girls idea and Lewis drove all over the UK to take part in these dates. Then he decided he would take a girl from Tiktok on a date to lapland for christmas and then a big valentines date to Paris.
Did he find love? what happened in Paris? Lots of different girls and one man, what could go wrong?
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In this episode we talk about all the toxic advice that we get told.
we decipher toxic advice and give our opinions on what it we should do instead
so sit back, relax and be careful what you consume in life because it can start to make you like that, that's we do it for you
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Phil and Jane are Joined by the founder of It's Okay Clothing, a mental health awareness clothing brand.
It’s OKAY is a message, a message to display that it’s Okay to feel and be whoever you are without any form of discrimination- this message is something that we want to convey through our empowering, statement designs.
Hi, I’m Aaron - the man that has founded Its Okay.
It’s Okay has been founded as an inspiring awareness clothing brand in 2021, but the foundations of the brand solidified back in 2019 after I was hit with a major bout of depression and had a very close brush with suicide.
Personally, I have always struggled with anxiety and depression for most of my adult life, but in February of that year things became too much.
One of the biggest things looking back now, was being unable to find the right kind support in terms of family, friends and colleagues.
Most people that I had initially tried to talk to would always responded with the same responses, ‘Cheer up’ or ‘Just be happy’ this made me feel so alone and it just made me feel that I had no one to talk to, which is the main reason why I made a decision to end it all.
Luckily for me I received a phone call from my son moments prior to me carrying out my plan. He was for all intention purposes my saviour!
From here I quickly realised I was not alone, I had just chosen the wrong people to confide in. I found myself an amazing therapist and identified some amazing family/friends who supported me, listened, researched, and did not judge. These are the people I cant thank enough for helping me become the man I am today.. Especially my son Kaileb.
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Most of us have watched the tinder swindler, now we break it down and look at what really went on.
We speak about the amount of scams that happened with dating apps and lots more
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In this episode Phil looks at the new tiktok trend that is causing people to quit the dating apps, please listen and lets put a stop to this together
People are screen recording dating profiles (without consent) all their information, Age, Name, Location, Social media handles and more. then putting them on TikTok and judging people.
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On this episode Phil and Jane are joined by Izzie Miller as we talk all things mindset and dating
Izzie is A speaker, content creator, and trained NLP practitioner, Izzie has a mission to inspire others to reconnect with their authentic self and consequently help them to lead a life of freedom, unaffected by external circumstances.
She is the founder of the ‘Neutrality Mentality’ which has led to the relentlessly positive personality she exudes.
Through the writing of her first book and retreats, workshops, courses, and social media, Izzie’s principal goal is to inspire others to achieve this positive change too.
You can follow Izzie at www.Izziemiller.com or Instagram or Tiktok
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Phil and Jane are back for season 3.
This week they talk about Valentines day and what to do if you're single, what they have been upto over the break and what is coming up on season 3 of Unhinged and bumbled up.
So sit back, relax and lets get this episode started
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In this episode Phil and Jane look at Friends with benefits and some rules they have found about them
What are your thoughts? did you agree? anything you want to add?
then let us know
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Welcome to our first ever extra swipe.
As patreon members you get access to all the extras
So sit back relax and enjoy the extra content
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While on a season break, Phil and Jane decided to give you the extra swipe.
on this weeks episode we will be talking all things Long distance relationships
our advice how they can work and so much more
so enjoy and we look forward to seeing you next year for season 3
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The moment you have all been waiting for!
Phil and Jane have Phil's Mum on the podcast.
She is a hypnotherapist that deals in relationships, codependency, weight loss and much more.
Hear Phil squirm as his mum reveals her dating disasters
we talk about the hypnotherapy process and how things that occured in childhood can lead to subconscious traits you have today.
https://www.instagram.com/reflectbackhypnotherapy
reflectbackhypnotherapy@gmail.com
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It seems such a weird concept but years ago, we actually met people offline.
Long before the apps we met people outside... we have just changed the norm to be dating apps
Listen to this episode to find out our take on where to meet people offline, the amazing things out there and how to try something new.
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This week we talk dating apps -
Phil has been deep diving, and found some interesting information.
The amount the dating app industry is worth
how they make money
his thoughts on whether dating apps work or not
Jane has a game for Phil to guess what these dating apps specialise in
We both have found people in the past on dating apps but not sure whether they have changed so much that it has ruined the experience
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We're back with Dr. Abby Medcalf for part 2
we will talk about manifesting
how to deal with a break up
being a half and attracting a whole
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Phil and Jane are joined by Abby Medcalf, they absolutely loved this high energy episode.
We talk about breaking up with your ex and how your brain works, looking at the actual science
We answer your questions that you asked us on instagram
So much information that will absolutely change your world when it comes to dating
Abby can be found at
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This week Phil and Jane will take about break ups
Listen to their own person experiences
How quickly before the got back on the apps
Did they break up or were they the ones who were broken up with
Phil's little rant
Celebrity break ups
Does the media play a part in break ups?
This and so much more
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On this episode Phil and Jane will be talking to Claira Hermet, Claira is a BBC radio presenter, Self love and Confidence coach and hosts her own youtube channel as well as being an inspiring people on instagram with her deep and meaningful posts
Claira tells us all about her around the UK in 80 dates, see her Youtube for more
About her decision to pack up her life and travel around North, Central and south America
Losing her mum and sister to cancer and her decision to get a double mastectomy
We have a special guest segment regarding a daterview in honour of Claira's speed dating
and so much more
To find out more about Claira you can find her on
Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdJML98UTDp_ecMuI3sPkyg
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/missclairahermet/
or you can listen to her on BBC radio london
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Welcome to the extended episode of Unhinged and Bumbled Up. This week Phil and Jane will be talking all things Kinks and fetishes.
Do you know your S&M from your M&S?
What is BDSM?
Find out if Phil and/or Jane have any kinks or fetishes
Phil gets tested on his knowledge of kinks and fetishes by Jane
We talk about ways of exploring new kinks
Why Kink or Fetish shaming is bad
What our instagram followers wanted to know about kinks and fetishes
What percentage of them had kinks or fetishes
Munch - places to explore Kinks
Refuge are the charity Phil and Jane have decided to support this year, giving 50% of profits from their merchandise to them.
Freephone 24-Hour National Domestic Abuse Helpline: 0808 2000 247
or visit www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk (access live chat Mon-Fri 3-10pm)
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On today's episode Phil and Jane explore cuffing season!
It's starting to get cold and cuffing season is upon us, there will be short term relationships, lots of cuddling and being cuffed together for the coldest season of them all... but before all of that, sit back, relax and enjoy.
Learn about where cuffing season comes from
what to expect from it
how to get around the awkwardness
when does it all end?
then if you want another episode we have our friends with benefits episode on patreon
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