Send us a text We conclude the series of midlife and transitions in this episode that is an uncut version ( keeping it as raw as it is) . Amani Maranga gives his life story as well as touches on portions of wisdom on how to deal with transitions. Kevin Kanyottu discusses the mode that he has used and has observed through the 4As that every person handling transitions goes through Listen on! Support the show For feedback or need to speak with us email us on : umesharepodcast@g...

Send us a text Transitions in life are inevitable. They are the defining moments that fuel our identity, unforeseen incidences, and the opportunities that drive us to change our paths in life. Amani Maranga and Kevin Kanyottu look into the situations that define transitions in their lives. These transitions are defined by new initiatives, bold decisions as well and transitions that happen in the due course of time. Such as growing children; dealing with pre-teens and teenagers, a...

Send us a text This episode concludes the series on mid-life crisis. We cover the physical, emotional as well and social changes that we go through in the mid-life season. The awareness of what is happening in our lives gives us a better idea of understanding what issues we could be facing that lead to the so-called 'crisis' in the ages of 35-55 years. We hear from Zeph Ananda on how he is dealing with mid-life as well as Kevin Kanyottu who helps recap this series by disclo...

Send us a text We continue with the conversation on Mid-life and the second episode in this series looks at acceptance of mid-life as well as awareness. We also get to break down some of the features that would give you a hint that you are facing a mid-life crisis in your life. Pasto Zeph Ananda delves deeper into describing what an identity group us during this mid-life season and the benefits of being in one, having a band of the same age, like-minded individuals that are vulnerable...

Send us a text Many men, including myself in their 40s are faced with the uphill task of defining who they are, what they do, and why they do what they do. This is a season in a person’s life where terms such as half-time, mid-life crisis, checkpoint, crossroads, junction, and others have been coiled to define the experiences that they face in their lives. Men, mostly are faced with the hard task of balancing and juggling many balls in life and end up with stress, disappointment, disill...

Send us a text In our 4th and final episode on the series on divorce and separation we look at the red flags that men should be aware of way beforehand that could lead to resentment in your marriages. Tony Hutia and Steve Kariuki discuss this important topic together with Kevin Kanyottu Support the show For feedback or need to speak with us email us on : umesharepodcast@gmail.com Support show: Mpesa Paybill:800088 A/C: 0722894558 Amount:

Send us a text Malachi 2:16- “For I hate divorce!” says the LORD, the God of Israel. “To divorce your wife is to overwhelm her with cruelty,” says the LORD of Heaven’s Armies. “So guard your heart; do not be unfaithful to your wife. The men discuss this topic and delve deeper into their lives and how the word of God has manifested in their seasons of divorce and separation. We seek to understand what it means when God says he hates divorce citing stories and examples from our own lives. Goo...

Send us a text We continue with the series of Divorce and Separation. Many marriages struggle to the brink of having thoughts on separation and divorce. We hear the stories from Tony Hutia and Steve Kariuki as they decipher further how to deal with these difficult seasons. We also get to discuss some of the red flags that men do not see, prior before their wives make the decision to divorce and separate Great lessons as we hear their contributions. Support the sho...

Send us a text In this series, we will explore the topic of Divorce and Separation. A topic that not many love speaking about. Some say is like a grieving season, a redefining season in one's life. The unseen shadow lurks in many marriages and leaves many couples dejected and disillusioned as they endure the separation or divorce season. We hear from Tony Hutia and Steve Kariuki on how they coped with this season in their life in an attempt to inform and educate married couples ...

Send us a text This episode concludes the final episode of the series: The scenarios that lead to extra marital affairs. In this episode, we speak about the couples that have children who have left their homes and become vulnerable to one another. Without friendship and a bond created when the children were there, there is a likelihood that the environment could become unfamiliar to them. There is also the scenario of having houseboys and house helps that could be outlets for the...

Send us a text In this episode, we continue with Dr Stanley Mukolwe , Musyoki Muindi, Tony Kuria and Kevin Kanyottu looking at two key scenarios, mixed family vacations and teambuilding sessions as fora that could facilitate extramarital affairs. Listen on ! Support the show For feedback or need to speak with us email us on : umesharepodcast@gmail.com Support show: Mpesa Paybill:800088 A/C: 0722894558 Amount:

Send us a text In this series, we continue to look at the scenarios that would present themselves for an extramarital affair to take place. In this episode we look at pregnancy and family tree. a huge number of affairs happen when the wife is in her pregnancy. Dr Mukolwe, Tony Kuria, Musyoki Muindi and myself Kevin Kanyottu take a dive into this scenario on a deeper level. Hear the men as they share from a point of vulnerability and a place of personal examples. These scenarios a...

Send us a text Once again in this episode, we look at the possibility of extramarital affairs. In this episode, we pick up on the love languages ( The 5 languages according to Gary Chapman) and how they can be unmet, and if unknown, they can be the breeding ground for extramarital affairs. When one or more of the 5 love languages are not met, the ingredients that we spoke about in episode 6 could come into play. These ingredients discussed by Dr Stanley Mukolwe, Kevin Kanyottu, Tony Ku...

Send us a text We look at the scenarios that play out when the ingredients of personal conversations, time, money anonymity and touch. The first scenario is how office friendships and acquaintances turn into emotional relationships and then into full blown affairs. Listen ask Tony Kuria, Musyoki Muindi, Dr Stanley Mukolwe and Kevin Kanyottu discuss the scenario of office affairs. Support the show For feedback or need to speak with us email us on : umesharepodcast@gmail.com Sup...

Send us a text Intimate personal conversations, Time, Money, Anonymity, and Touch are the five ingredients for affairs to work. We define what affairs are in this episode. We also hear from the men sharing from their experiences as well as thoughts about these five (5) ingredients. Dr Mukolwe describes these ingredients using interesting relatable scenarios as the men on the table also chime in as they bounce off their examples and real-life experiences on the same. Tune in for more d...

Send us a text In this episode we discuss the growth stages most relationships go through as they grow into the level of marriage. Find out how even couples in seasoned marriages can end up being dysfunctional due to skipping some of the steps /stages that we discuss. Some marriages may have gone through these stages and the couples forgot what they are and begin to have resentment towards one another. Some relationships may also fall and in the process, the partners go through t...

Send us a text Foundation, Fatherhood and Faithfulness! We look at the story of Abraham who was considered the man who was the father of many nations. We define what it means to having a strong and firm foundation, embracing the seed of fatherhood in each and every one of us as well as living a life of faithfulness. This episode sets the base for us to discuss the man and his marriage in the upcoming episodes with the boys coming together to tell their stories on marriage. We a...

Send us a text We give a roadmap that will help you overcome any addiction or habit that affects you. These 7As have been proven to help anyone who is on the verge of getting themselves roped around addictions. Let us partner to ensure we change one man at a time with the power of God working amongst us Support the show For feedback or need to speak with us email us on : umesharepodcast@gmail.com Support show: Mpesa Paybill:800088 A/C: 0722894558 Amount:

Send us a text In this episode we speak to a young man aged 15 years on the effects of gaming and as addiction. We get to hear the adverse effects of it as well as how to build allowable boundaries for parents and children alike. Mutugi has an impressive turnaround story where he was able to grow out of the harmful nature of computer gaming and use it to build a healthy program and balanced life around him and his friends. Lessons herein for parents especially Fathers on how to creat...

Send us a text In this episode we speak to Mr George Kagwe a hardworking Kenyan inter-entre-prenuer ( a term new to us) who deduced some difficult questions on the misuse of smartphones. We explore what life looked like before the digital age for us 35-55 year old men. We also looked at the current technology age and some of the issues we face today in fighting with negative usage of our devices. How they destroy our connections with our loved ones, with God and with our purpose....