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To Date Or Not
Mariya Spektor
33 episodes
1 week ago
Dating is weird. Let's talk about it! From sex, trauma, dating stories, marriage, divorce, to everything in between, there are no bounds. Hosted by Social Media Director and Spin Instructor, Mariya Spektor, To Date Or Not is a safe space for all things in the shit show we call 21st century dating.
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Dating is weird. Let's talk about it! From sex, trauma, dating stories, marriage, divorce, to everything in between, there are no bounds. Hosted by Social Media Director and Spin Instructor, Mariya Spektor, To Date Or Not is a safe space for all things in the shit show we call 21st century dating.
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Episodes (20/33)
To Date Or Not
33: Living Meat-Based feat. Nicole
Curious about the Carnivore Diet? Let's talk about it. Meet Nicole; this tech queen and podcast host has been meat-based since April 2020. Due to her previous issues with chronic knee pain and unbeatable inflammation, she was in a bind to find something that would heal her body (and mind). Enter: the carnivore diet. In this podcast, we chatted all things surrounding the standard American diet, inflammation, chronic pain, mental health, PMS, libido, infertility, birth control, toxins, and so much more. Buckle up because you're about to be mind blown about the revolutionary success of expanding your food knowledge and living a toxic-free life. Resources discussed: Joe Rogan Podcast: #1050 Dr. Shawn Baker Joe Rogan Podcast: #1164 Mikhaila Peterson Joe Rogan Podcast: #1784 Diana Rodgers & Robb Wolff Shawn Baker MD on Instagram Mikhaila Peterson on Instagram Kelly Hogan on Instagram Toxic-free skincare Connect with Nicole on Instagram, subscribe to Meat Based on YouTube, and listen to Meat Based on Spotify.
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3 years ago
1 hour 9 minutes 52 seconds

To Date Or Not
32: Situationships feat. Tinah
In a situationship? Let's talk about it. Meet Tinah; a 23-year-old savvy social marketer, podcast host, and the queen of situationships; they're basically an undefined romantic relationship. In this episode, we dive into pros and cons, toxicity, the "situationship breakup," and everything in between. Follow the @inyourtwentys and @tinah.ogalo on Instagram! Get weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram.
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3 years ago
1 hour 4 minutes 22 seconds

To Date Or Not
31: Chronic Pain & Egg Freezing feat. Nancy
What's it like dating with chronic pain? Let's talk about it. Meet Nancy; she's 31 years old and a first-generation immigrant that loves to pole dance as well as train on Lyra, silks, and hammock. Plot twist? Nancy lives with suspected endometriosis and IBS, ultimately leading her to an egg-freezing journey in November. We dive into the diagnosis, pain reduction, talking to your partner about your chronic pain, stress, reproduction, and everything in between. Resources discussed: Fertility Clinic Blog: extendfertility.com/blog Dr. Natalie Crawford: nataliecrawfordmd.com Get weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram!
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3 years ago
1 hour 27 minutes 2 seconds

To Date Or Not
30: This is Not Goodbye feat. Me, Myself, and I
Life is weird. Let's talk about it! When it comes down to it, this has been a hell of a year. From finding love to promotions and passion projects, 2021 did not disappoint. So while this isn't a forever goodbye, this is a soft pause on this beautiful project I've built. Episode 30 gives you a little more insight as to why! Get weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram!
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3 years ago
11 minutes 4 seconds

To Date Or Not
29: Living With a Partner feat. Brad
Living together? Let's talk about it. Surprise, surprise. It is my first time living with a significant other. Brad moved in three months ago, and to be honest, it has been nothing short of delightful. And while not every couple is fortunate to have the same experience, we go through the bad, the ugly, and what's been statistically proven as couples decide to make the big step. Get weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram!
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3 years ago
2 hours 18 minutes 12 seconds

To Date Or Not
28: Dump Him, He's Toxic feat. Hannah
How to date after a long-term, toxic relationship? Let's talk about it.After a 9-year relationship that ultimately led to years of unhappiness, Hannah is determined to find life and love again. We dive into stories of toxicity, what life is like in the dating world in 2021, the impact of social media, where the hell to meet people these days, and so much more.Trigger warning: this episode contains discussions of depression and suicide.Get weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram!
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4 years ago
1 hour 28 minutes 6 seconds

To Date Or Not
27: The Art of Communication feat. Nick
Communication in your relationship? Let's talk about it! When it comes to communicating with your partner, colleague and good friend, Nick, has been through the ups and downs. This New York native gives us his hot take on making your relationship thrive, his learnings, communication patterns, and so much more. Get weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram!
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4 years ago
1 hour 20 minutes 31 seconds

To Date Or Not
26: Lesbian Dating feat. Lauren
Lesbian dating? Let's talk about it. What's okay to ask a same-sex couple vs. a straight couple? What are the differences in same-sex dating in the UK vs. the US? When is the appropriate time to come out? Why does representation matter? From coming out stories and common questions to lesbian stereotypes, Lauren and I dive into all things lesbian dating. Get weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram!
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4 years ago
1 hour 26 minutes 22 seconds

To Date Or Not
25: The Orgasm Gap feat. Jessica
The orgasm gap? Let's talk about it. Studies have found that heterosexual women are the demographic having the least orgasms during sex. Jessica is back to discuss all things sex and the considerable difference between the number of orgasms men and women are having in heterosexual relationships. Buckle up; things are getting a little moist up in here. Get weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram! Resources: What is The Orgasm Gap? [Forbes] Psychology and the Orgasm Gap [Talkspace] We Need to Talk About the Orgasm Gap [TED] What Young Women Believe About their Own Sexual Pleasure [TED] Sexual Behavior in the Human Female by Alfred Charles Kinsey, Institute for Sex Research The Vibrator [Scientific America]
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4 years ago
1 hour 28 minutes 35 seconds

To Date Or Not
24: Polyamory feat. Curtis
What is polyamory? Let's talk about it. Curtis is back to talk about all things polyamory. From his own personal experience of multiple partners to other subjective stories, we're breaking down the meaning, differences, psychology, dark side, positives, and so much more. Get weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram!
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4 years ago
1 hour 25 minutes 36 seconds

To Date Or Not
23: A Series Of Unfortunate Events feat. Curtis
Dating. Deception. Death. Let's talk about it. When it comes down to relationships, it's not all butterflies and rainbows. Good friend Curtis and I dive into multiple dark, twisted, and vulnerable stories of his past. And yes, funny sex stories included. Trigger warning: Episode discusses addiction, abuse, and suicide. Get weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram!
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4 years ago
2 hours 31 minutes 31 seconds

To Date Or Not
22: Same-Sex Marriage, Adoption, and Sex Ed feat Noah
Same-Sex Marriage, Adoption, and Sex Ed within the gay community? Let's talk about it. Host of The Noah-it-All podcast and good friend Noah and I sit down to dive into all things within the gay community. We cover a range of topics surrounding the Obergefell v. Hodges ruling, adoption as a same-sex couple, sex-ed within the gay community, and all things "naughty sex." Buckle up because we've got some fascinating stats you're not going to want to miss. Get weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram!
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4 years ago
58 minutes 19 seconds

To Date Or Not
21: Prostitution feat. Anonymous
Prostitution? Let's talk about it. There are many negative connotations when it comes to sex work and we're breaking them down. Good friend, Anonymous, and I dive into the definition of prostitution, the legality behind it, personal experience, and opinions/education on the matter. Get weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram!
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4 years ago
1 hour 4 minutes 9 seconds

To Date Or Not
20: Arranged Marriage feat. Janx
Arranged marriage? Let's talk about it. Meet Janki (Janx for short). Her parents were arranged, but Janx is fully Americanized. The two of us dive into her parents' story, her thoughts on arranged marriage, beauty standards in India, traditional Indian marriages, what's taboo, and so much more. And not to mention, this baby pod has finally hit 20 episodes! If you've got a killer story to share, DM ya girl. Get weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram!
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4 years ago
1 hour 12 minutes 46 seconds

To Date Or Not
19: History of Dating Apps feat. Elissa
The history of dating apps? Let's talk about it. When it comes to our apps, how much do we really know? Good friend Elissa and I dive into the origins of the dating apps we all know and love today. From dating scandals, lawsuits, and weird ideologies, we cover the works. Get weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram!
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4 years ago
1 hour 58 minutes 22 seconds

To Date Or Not
18: OCD, Depression, Anxiety, and Couples Therapy feat. Lorena
May is Mental Health Awareness Month. Let's talk about it. When it comes to your personal journey, it's important to be honest and open with yourself. Facing mental health may difficult, but it can also become a rewarding avenue to communicating with yourself and your partner. In this episode, Lorena and I dive in to navigating intrusive thoughts, loving yourself, overall mental health battles, couples therapy, and so much more. Get weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram!
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4 years ago
1 hour 10 minutes 44 seconds

To Date Or Not
17: [TW] SA & Women's Rights feat. Jessica

April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month. Let's talk about it.This week, Jess and I dive into the stats behind sexual assault, experience with sexual violence, consent, untested r*pe kits, sexual discrimination in the workplace, and so much more.Everyone is affected by sexual violence and it's important to stay informed. If you're looking to further your own personal research, please see discussed resources below:-End the Backlog-Antonin Scalia & the ERA (photo)-Legally Speaking: Antonin Scalia-Equal Means Equal: Resources on Women's RightsGet weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram!


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4 years ago
2 hours 11 minutes 35 seconds

To Date Or Not
16: Dating Horror Stories feat. Courtney
Dating horror stories? Let's talk about them. Whether you're dealing with first dates, hookups, or apps, Courtney has a horror story for it all. We're exposing some major "what the fu*k moments" in her dating life that I promise will have you shook. From getting fucked in the belly button, to being ghosted mid-date, we're giving you an exclusive, jaw-dropping lowdown. Get weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram!
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4 years ago
1 hour 28 minutes 6 seconds

To Date Or Not
15: Talking Finances With Your Partner feat. Chelsie
When is it appropriate to discuss finances in your relationship? Let's talk about it. There's a negative connotation around "money talk," but there doesn't need to be. Best friend Chelsie and I dive into how to talk about debt, expenses, financial priorities, values, and long-term financial goals with your partner. We also discuss how to be a better communicator and having the "exclusive" conversation. You won't want to sleep on this! Get weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram!
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4 years ago
1 hour 42 minutes 46 seconds

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14: Getting Remarried With Kids & Generational Dating feat. Gina
Anyone else curious about generational dating? Let's talk about it! In this episode, Gina and I dive into what it's like to divorce and find love again while navigating a family. We also cover the differences in dating between the Gen X, Gen Y, and Gen Z timeline. If you've got a similar story, DM me. Get weird with me at @ToDateOrNotPodcast, @Mariyeah, and #ToDateOrNotPodcast on Instagram!
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4 years ago
1 hour 13 minutes 38 seconds

To Date Or Not
Dating is weird. Let's talk about it! From sex, trauma, dating stories, marriage, divorce, to everything in between, there are no bounds. Hosted by Social Media Director and Spin Instructor, Mariya Spektor, To Date Or Not is a safe space for all things in the shit show we call 21st century dating.