In this powerful and deeply human conversation, Gina and Melanie sit down with Dee May — Soul Evolution Mentor, writer, and host of The Spiritually Speaking Podcast — to explore Dee’s story of rebuilding her life and finding purpose after surviving horrific domestic abuse. Dee opens up about her journey through multiple emotionally and physically abusive relationships, devastating losses, and the moment she finally found the strength to walk away and begin again. She shares how she rewired her self-worth, reclaimed her power, and turned pain into purpose in creating her 12 Pillars of Self-Love. Together, they unpack the emotional layers of trauma bonds, shame, and fear, while revealing how language, mindset, spiritual awareness and self-love become tools for rebuilding from the inside out.
From breaking free of patterns that no longer serve us to honoring the small daily shifts that rebuild identity, Dee’s story reminds us that even after our darkest chapters, we can rise with more clarity, compassion, and strength than ever before, and that it’s never too late to choose yourself — one brave step at a time.
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Sometimes the best plan is no plan at all. Welcome to an “Un-Prepped” episode of The Why Of It All — part catch-up, part therapy session, part who-knows-where-this-will-go. No structured outlines, no notes, we’re just wingin’ it — because life and healing aren’t scripted…and also…because sometimes we just don’t feel like it.
In this Unprepped episode, Melanie and Gina catch up after three weeks apart , discussing travel, overwhelm, growth spurts, and some big new awarenesses that life has a way of reflecting back to us. From Melanie’s reactive rescue pup (and the surprising mirror she is holding up to her own nervous system) to Gina’s season of deep pruning and spiritual expansion, they unpack what it means to find calm in the chaos. Together, they explore contrasting inner guidance towards pulling back and relaxing vs pushing forward and through, the wounding behind perfectionism, baby steps, and releasing control. If you’ve ever struggled to truly relax, felt guilty for slowing down, or wondered why growth sometimes feels so damn uncomfortable—this one’s for you.
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In this profound and unforgettable conclusion to the 2-part interview, U.S. Army Veteran Corby Maupin reveals the incredible, mind-blowing details of his Ibogaine experience — a nightlong, soul-altering journey that has forever changed the trajectory of his life. What begins as a terrifying confrontation with fear and darkness becomes a breathtaking spiritual awakening, one that led Corby to encounter God in a way that broke his chains — literally and metaphorically — healing his mind, restoring his spirit, and dissolving the effects of years of trauma, PTSD and the need to cope through alcoholism. Corby describes how, over the course of 12 hours, the Ibogaine journey moved him in stages through intense discomfort, followed by absolute, unavoidable terror, followed by profound Universal beauty, and finally to surrender and freedom. His incredible account left us speechless and emotional — Melanie even got teary-eyed, which never happens on our show! Corby's story is that powerful!
If you haven’t already watched Part 1, go back and start there first — it sets the foundation for everything that unfolds in this extraordinary continuation. From the depths of PTSD and substance abuse to the miracle of neurological and spiritual rebirth, this 2 part series captures a transformation so authentic and emotional, it will move you to your core!
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In this profound and unforgettable conclusion to the 2-part interview, U.S. Army Veteran Corby Maupin reveals the incredible, mind-blowing details of his Ibogaine experience — a nightlong, soul-altering journey that has forever changed the trajectory of his life. What begins as a terrifying confrontation with fear and darkness becomes a breathtaking spiritual awakening, one that led Corby to encounter God in a way that broke his chains — literally and metaphorically — healing his mind, restoring his spirit, and dissolving the effects of years of trauma, PTSD and the need to cope through alcoholism. Corby describes how, over the course of 12 hours, the Ibogaine journey moved him in stages through intense discomfort, followed by absolute, unavoidable terror, followed by profound Universal beauty, and finally to surrender and freedom. His incredible account left us speechless and emotional — Melanie even got teary-eyed, which never happens on our show! Corby's story is that powerful!
If you haven’t already watched Part 1, go back and start there first — it sets the foundation for everything that unfolds in this extraordinary continuation. From the depths of PTSD and substance abuse to the miracle of neurological and spiritual rebirth, this 2 part series captures a transformation so authentic and emotional, it will move you to your core!
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In this extraordinary two-part interview on The Why Of It All, US Army Veteran Corby Maupin opens up about his transformational journey, using Ibogaine to heal from the devastatingly traumatic effects of 3 tours of duty in the Middle East. In Part 1, Corby sets the stage, taking us through his early life, his ten years of military service, and the harrowing experiences that left lasting scars on his mind and spirit. From clearing roadside bombs in Afghanistan to living under constant threat in Syria, he reveals the toll that prolonged hyper-vigilance, trauma, and survival mode take on a human being — and the struggle to find peace once he returned home. Through raw honesty and reflection, Corby sheds light on the realities of PTSD, alcoholism, and the desperate search for relief that so many veterans face. He then shares the pivotal discoveries that led him to choose treatment with Ibogaine, a powerful plant medicine gaining traction and interest for its potential to profoundly heal trauma at the deepest neurological level, and he walks us through the early process of beginning Ibogaine therapy. This first installment lays the emotional and psychological foundation for what becomes an extraordinary transformation. Part 2 — coming next week — reveals the Ibogaine journey itself: a life-altering, spiritual, and scientific rebirth you will not forget - and literally had both Gina AND Melanie crying tears of joy.
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If overthinking were an Olympic sport, we’d both be gold medalists. In this episode of The Why Of It All, we dive into the ridiculous, exhausting, and oh so relatable subject of rumination. We unpack the science behind rumination, confess our most recent overthinking episodes, and explore the eight most common styles of rumination. And because we’d never leave you stuck on the mental hamster wheel, we share our favorite tools to interrupt the cycle. If you’ve ever wondered why your brain won’t just let it go, this episode will make you laugh, sigh in recognition, and give you practical ways to interrupt the endless thought loops.
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In this episode of The Why Of It All, Melanie and Gina explore the ever more frequent Collective Trauma Events plaguing our society. They dive into how these pivotal events reshape not just policy but the way we think, feel, and treat each other. They start out by reflecting on three major events they’ve personally lived through (9/11, COVID, and the recent Charlie Kirk assassination) before pivoting to an informative exploration of the sometimes-agenda-driven narratives around Collective Trauma events, followed by the widespread psychological impacts of them. The episode closes with practical tools to support our mental and emotional wellbeing during and after these ground-shaking and social-turmoil-inducing events.
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Sometimes the best plan is no plan at all. Welcome to an “Un-Prepped” episode of The Why Of It All — part catch-up, part therapy session, part who-knows-where-this-will-go. No structured outlines, no notes, we’re just wingin’ it — because life and healing aren’t scripted…and also…because sometimes we just don’t feel like it.
In this slightly cocktail-fueled Un-Prepped episode, Gina and Melanie share the chaos of the day, their first big creative block and their eventual surrender after three and a half hours of failed show prep that was going nowhere. But in true The Why Of It All fashion, through self-reflection, they managed to find their way to acceptance and allowance, and to land on something deeper — the wisdom of “Always Do Your Best,” and giving yourself grace when your best is less than it usually is. This episode is hilarious. It’s honest. It’s a little LOUD at times (Sorry! We did our best to edit the volume down for you!) And it’s a reminder that sometimes laughter and cutting yourself some slack are the best you can do - and that’s OKAY.
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In this Un-Prepped episode, Gina and Melanie start out by catching up after an intense weekend of recording and gush about their new, shared roller skating passion (seriously, it’s impossible NOT to smile when you’re zooming around on a pair of roller-skates!) From there, the conversation turns more reflective: Melanie opens up about a big win on her emotional healing journey — learning to release imposter syndrome and let go of the self-imposed pressure to be anything other than her authentic self. Gina shares her own milestone — recognizing how far she’s come in breaking free from old trauma patterns and no longer allowing herself to be manipulated. Together, they explore the value of self-reflection without judgment, revisit the concept of the growth spiral, and the importance of celebrating wins big and small.
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In this episode of The Why Of It All, Gina gets incredibly vulnerable and opens up about her harrowing experience with a narcissistic abusive relationship — and the difficult journey of finally breaking free. What began with love bombing and charm, quickly spiraled into manipulation, gaslighting, and an addictive cycle of on-again-off-again that eroded self-worth and identity. For years, Gina was caught in the trauma bond — until one devastating moment of clarity finally gave her the strength to leave for good.
Alongside Gina’s personal story, Melanie and Gina also weave in educational insights to ground this conversation in both lived experience and real data. They explore the psychology and prevalence of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), share statistics about how often survivors attempt to leave before finally breaking free, and unpack the brain science behind trauma bonding. Together, they reveal the hidden red flags, cultural misunderstandings, and the long-term emotional and physical toll that narcissistic abuse leaves behind.
This is episode is narcissistic abuse - yes - but it’s also about survival, resilience, and the reclamation of self. Whether you’ve lived through it yourself, love someone who has, or simply want to better understand these hidden dynamics, this conversation offers valuable information, validation, and hope. Healing IS possible.
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What if the path to healing isn’t always about the big breakthroughs—but the tiniest sparks of joy? In this episode of The Why Of It All, Melanie and Gina explore how the small, daily, simple pleasures that often go overlooked can actually rewire your brain, regulate your nervous system, and raise your baseline for happiness if you would simply practice savoring them and making a habit of looking for them.
From that first sip of morning coffee to singing like nobody is watching, these everyday delights are more than fleeting moments—they’re powerful tools for calming the vagus nerve, practicing presence, and building a baseline of nervous system and emotional resilience. Together, Melanie and Gina unpack the fascinating concept of the “hedonic treadmill,” the science behind why singing, humming and breath work create calm in the body, and why you don’t need to wait for life’s circumstances to change before choosing joy.
This conversation is a reminder that healing isn’t just about resolving the past. It’s about being fully present, savoring the ordinary, and building a habit of gratitude and joy that transforms your inner landscape.
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Have you ever crossed paths with someone or experienced a turn of events so perfectly timed it felt orchestrated? In this episode of The Why Of It All, Melanie and Gina explore the mystery and magic of Divine Appointments—those “meant-to-be” encounters, conversations, and experiences that make an impact and sometimes even shift the course of your life.
From strangers who become blessings in disguise, to the uncomfortable experiences that hindsight teaches us “it had to be this way,” and the uncanny nudges that lead you to the right place at the right time—this conversation will leave you seeing your own life through a more intentional, intuition-based, soul-centered lens.
Whether you call it God’s plan, the Universe’s timing, Soul Contracts, or simply synchronicities — We’re exploring what it means to be met by life on purpose.
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In this raw and refreshingly honest episode, Melanie and Gina unpack the reality of “the backslide”—those messy, discouraging moments when it feels like all your healing progress just unraveled. From skipping self-care routines to re-engaging old relationship patterns, they share real-life stories of slipping back into old habits and deprioritizing your own well-being—and how those moments often carry unexpected invitations for growth, self-compassion, and deeper integration. They dive into the concept of the growth spiral—revisiting old wounds from a higher level of consciousness—and how to tell the difference between revisiting a wound for healing versus staying stuck in a destructive loop. They ask, “what if a backslide isn’t a backslide at all? But a part of the natural healing process and an opportunity to gain new perspective and make adjustments in your healing journey?” Along the way, they explore emotional reactivity vs emotional mastery, discipline versus intuition, letting go of shame around the backslide, and why sometimes the most healing thing you can do... is to get yourself a big whiff of puppy breath. Whether you’ve hit a wall, dropped the ball, or ghosted your own healing for a minute—this conversation will help you make peace with the backslide and move forward with more grace, self-compassion, and perspective.
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When the recent catastrophic flash floods in the Texas Hill Country devastated the community of Sandy Creek—just miles from her home—Melanie felt an unshakable pull to help. What began as a spontaneous decision to volunteer quickly became a life-changing two-week journey through disaster relief, grassroots coordination, and transformative perspective shifts. In this raw and powerful episode, Melanie recounts her firsthand experience inside the chaos—from the unimaginable destruction, to the heroic outpouring of volunteer support from the local community and the emotional toll of the "hero response." She and Gina explore the unseen grief of survivors, the profound perspective shift that came from witnessing both total devastation and the very best of humanity in selfless service to others, and the hidden cost of “The Hero Response” and putting your own well-being on hold. This conversation weaves together boots-on-the-ground storytelling, nervous system wisdom, emotional insight, and a call to serve in whatever way you can.
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NO NEW EPISODE THIS WEEK. Instead, we thought we’d offer a rerun of one of our favorite older episodes for our new followers who likely missed it! Enjoy!
Ever feel like your mind is stuck in overdrive? Like stress and anxiety have you constantly on edge? In this episode of The Why of It All, Melanie & Gina dive into meditation and other powerful techniques that help shift your nervous system from fight-or-flight mode into a state of deep rest and healing. We’ll break down simple, science-backed ways to calm your mind, regulate your emotions, and rewire your brain for peace. Whether you're new to meditation or looking to deepen your practice, this episode will give you practical tools to help you feel more grounded, centered, and in control of your well-being.
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For this episode of The Why Of It All, we took a break from the deep dives and trauma talk to bring you something lighter: a lightning round of totally ridiculous, deeply unnecessary questions that somehow still reveal way too much about us.
Would we rather be ghosted or be the ghoster? What's the healing trend that gives us the ick? And why is Melanie calling for a revolution in sushi trends? No one knows—but now you will. This one’s pure fun. We’ll be back with more depth next week—but for now, come laugh, cringe, and get way too much info about your favorite podcast besties.
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In this deeply honest and moving episode of The Why Of It All, we're joined by a special guest whose personal story is as gripping as the truths he works to uncover.
Podcaster Joe Rambo is known in the online Truth Community for his research and pattern-recognition skills, but before all of that, he walked through fire — drug addiction, incarceration and profound loss. Those who already follow his work have heard him speak about his past with authenticity and openness, but in this episode, we invite him to go even deeper in exploring the darkest chapters of his life and how he rose up from rock bottom. This isn’t a story of defeat—it’s one of redemption. Joe shares how he rebuilt his life through faith and personal-accountability, and found healing and a new identity through passion and purpose.
This episode is the perfect echo of The Why Of It All’s core message—that no matter how far you’ve fallen, healing is possible, and your pain very likely holds the blueprint for your purpose.
***PS- We apologize for the issues with Melanie & Gina's audio quality (LOUD!) on this episode. We did not know until after recording that our settings were incorrect. Please be patient with us while we learn as we go!
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In this raw and deeply honest episode of The Why Of It All, Melanie and Gina unpack their personal journeys with anxiety, panic attacks, and the emotional and physical toll of nervous system dysregulation. They discuss their perspective on the difference between coping and healing, the emotional roots of physical illness, and how patterns of avoidance often keep us stuck in suffering. Melanie shares how years of misdiagnoses eventually pointed her inward, and Gina opens up about generational patterns of anxiety and the quiet courage it takes to not lay down and give up. They offer relatable stories, personal insight, and encouragement to anyone navigating their own experience of anxiety. This is a grounded conversation about facing fear head-on and building a new default state of wellness in all aspects of life.
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How do you know when you’ve healed?? So often in the healing space, we talk about the journey — the breakdowns, the breakthroughs, the tools, the triggers. But today we’re asking a quieter, deeper question: “How do you know when you’re healed?”
In this episode, we lean into the subtle milestones of healing — the quiet shifts that often go unnoticed until you look back and realize how far you’ve come. We explore the difference between avoidance and authentic integration, learning to notice the ways your emotional reactivity softens and your self-trust grows. Through honest stories and thoughtful reflections, we unpack how to hold compassion for others without losing yourself, using the rattlesnake analogy to illustrate healthy boundaries with people who show you their true colors.
This conversation invites you to step out of the constant “fixing” mindset and into a deeper awareness of and gratitude for your own growth.
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In this episode of The Why Of It All Podcast, we explore mindful parenting, emotional presence, and healing through connection with our children. We share honest stories about managing kids’ insecurities, modeling accountability, and using the playful “oopsie poopsie” technique to embrace mistakes without guilt. We discuss our kids as some of our greatest teachers, practicing parental self-awareness, open communication, and fostering emotional healing for ourselves and our kids. Perfect for parents seeking growth, mindful parenting tips, and ways to build deeper family bonds.
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