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The Third Option
Rick Manis
185 episodes
1 day ago
In the midst of a world stuck in right versus wrong, left versus right, good versus evil, we are having conversations about a THIRD option. It's the option of the Jesus-kind of LOVE and it's something we aren't hearing enough about. Join us in exploring current topics concerning culture, politics, religion and social issues with the THIRD OPTION in mind.
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In the midst of a world stuck in right versus wrong, left versus right, good versus evil, we are having conversations about a THIRD option. It's the option of the Jesus-kind of LOVE and it's something we aren't hearing enough about. Join us in exploring current topics concerning culture, politics, religion and social issues with the THIRD OPTION in mind.
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Episodes (20/185)
The Third Option
Letting Go of Ingrained Beliefs

Let's talk about letting go of ingrained beliefs and the challenges that come with it.

Rick and Judi discuss the importance of love and empathy in transforming beliefs, the dangers of labeling and boxed beliefs, and the continuous journey of personal growth and understanding. The conversation emphasizes that growth requires changing our minds and being open to new information, ultimately leading to a deeper understanding of ourselves and others.

  • Letting go of ingrained beliefs is challenging.
  • Growth requires changing our minds.
  • We don't want to be put in a box.
  • Love has transformed my beliefs.
  • Empathy allows us to understand others better.
  • Healing is more important than reprimanding.
  • We all have room to understand something better.
  • Our beliefs are subject to change.

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5 days ago
33 minutes 8 seconds

The Third Option
Stuck in the Middle with You

Let's explore the complexities of politics through the lens of love and understanding.

Rick and Judi discuss the divisive nature of current political discourse, the importance of independent thinking, and the need for empathy in political discussions.

They emphasize the significance of love as a guiding principle in navigating political identities and the media landscape, advocating for a more restorative approach to politics that transcends party lines.

  • We come from what we call the third option, which is love.
  • The politics of hate inflames division and fear.
  • Independent thinking allows for a broader perspective.
  • We need to seek objective news sources that promote understanding.
  • Party loyalty can lead to a loss of individual thought.
  • Embracing love can lead to restoration in politics.
  • God's perspective sees humanity beyond political divides.
  • Love should be the main guiding principle in politics.
  • Finding common ground is essential for unity.
  • We hope to encourage open-mindedness in political discussions.

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1 week ago
30 minutes 14 seconds

The Third Option
Why Hate Works

Rick and Judi explore the pervasive nature of hate in society, particularly in politics and media, and contrasts it with the transformative power of love. They discuss how fear and hate are often used as tools for manipulation, while emphasizing the importance of empathy, understanding, and kindness as a 'third option' to overcome divisiveness. Drawing on the teachings of Jesus and the legacy of Martin Luther King Jr., Manis advocates for a love-driven approach to conflict and disagreement, encouraging listeners to embrace a more compassionate perspective in their interactions with others.

  • Hate is often a tool used in politics and media to manipulate emotions.
  • Most political ads focus on fear and negativity rather than positive messages.
  • Catering to hate appeals to our basic survival instincts.
  • The wisdom from above is characterized by peace, gentleness, and mercy.
  • Disagreement does not necessitate hatred; we can still love those we disagree with.
  • Martin Luther King Jr. emphasized that hate cannot defeat hate, only love can.
  • The wisdom of the world often leads to confusion and division.
  • A soft answer can turn away wrath and promote understanding.
  • Love is a powerful force that can drive out fear and anger.
  • Embracing empathy and understanding can lead to personal and communal growth.

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2 weeks ago
32 minutes 36 seconds

The Third Option
Is There a War Between Good and Evil?

In this conversation, Rick and Judi Manis explore the concept of love as a third option in a world often divided by extremes. They discuss the implications of viewing life as a battle between good and evil, emphasizing the importance of reconciliation and understanding over contempt and division. The dialogue highlights Jesus' role in promoting love and unity, urging listeners to embrace a more compassionate perspective that transcends societal conflicts.

  • There is a third option that is love.
  • Love is radical and a powerful stand.
  • The battle between good and evil is a flawed perspective.
  • Jesus came to reconcile, not to conquer.
  • Contempt and anger hinder true understanding.
  • Division arises from a lack of love and understanding.
  • True love calls for restoration, not dominance.
  • Navigating conflict requires compassion and empathy.
  • Fear and anger can distort our perception of others.
  • We can disagree without labeling others as evil.

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3 weeks ago
33 minutes 44 seconds

The Third Option
Clipping the Christian Wings

Rick and Judi Manis discuss how religious dogma can inadvertently limit believers' freedom, likening it to clipping a bird's wings. The hosts emphasize the importance of living in a 'birdhouse' of liberty rather than a 'birdcage' of fear and control. They encourage listeners to seek a personal relationship with God, allowing for growth and astonishment at His goodness. The conversation highlights the transformative power of grace and the need to embrace freedom in faith.

What they say:

  • If the grace you're living in is not astonishing, there's more to see.
  • Christian dogma can inadvertently clip our wings and limit our freedom.
  • We are meant to live in a birdhouse, not a birdcage, experiencing liberty.
  • Religion can create a spirit of fear that binds us.
  • Ministers should teach people to think for themselves and seek their own relationship with God.
  • The astonishment of God's goodness can lead to personal growth and transformation.
  • We should not be afraid to venture outside our dogma and explore God's love.
  • Experiencing God's grace can feel risky but is ultimately rewarding.
  • True freedom in Christ allows us to extend grace to others more easily.
  • Astonishment at God's love leads to a deeper understanding of our worth and purpose.

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1 month ago
28 minutes 18 seconds

The Third Option
Resisting Astonishment

Why do many believers resist being astonished at how good God is. Rick and Judi delve into the barriers created by dogma, tradition, and misunderstanding of scripture, as well as the impact of peer pressure within religious communities. The conversation emphasizes the importance of maintaining an open heart towards God's grace and love, encouraging listeners to embrace a more profound and vibrant relationship with God.

  • Astonishment is being greatly surprised by God's goodness.
  • Many believers resist being astonished due to preconceived notions.
  • Dogma can create a box that limits our understanding of God.
  • Traditions can make the expression of God ineffective.
  • Misunderstanding the Bible can hinder our relationship with God.
  • We often read the Bible with biases that affect our understanding.
  • It's essential to listen to God rather than just speak to Him.
  • Peer pressure in religious communities can stifle authenticity.
  • God is bigger than our traditions and beliefs.
  • The journey towards love and acceptance is vital in faith.

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1 month ago
32 minutes 4 seconds

The Third Option
Astonished at What He Does Compared to Who He Is

In this conversation, Rick and Judi share personal stories of miraculous transformations and the profound realization of God's unconditional love. The discussion delves into the eternal perspective of God's goodness, moving beyond temporary circumstances, and challenges restrictive doctrines that limit our understanding of God's grace. The conversation culminates in the astonishing teachings of Jesus, which reveal a God whose love and mercy surpass human expectations.

Main Points:

  • Astonishment at God's goodness is a profound realization.
  • God's actions are not the only measure of His goodness.
  • Personal transformations can lead to a deeper understanding of God.
  • Unconditional love from God is a countercultural revelation.
  • Eternal perspective allows us to see beyond temporary circumstances.
  • Restrictive doctrines can hinder our understanding of God's grace.
  • Jesus' teachings reveal a God of mercy and love.
  • Knowing God is more important than just doing for Him.
  • Faith works by love and astonishment at God's goodness.
  • We can experience heaven on earth through God's love.

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1 month ago
28 minutes 52 seconds

The Third Option
Astonishment Changes What We Do

In this episode, Rick and Judi talk about astonishment, in relation to God's goodness and love. They discuss how experiencing astonishment can lead to personal growth and a deeper relationship with God, moving beyond mere doctrinal knowledge to a more organic and authentic connection. The conversation touches on the importance of rituals, the role of ministry, and the transformative impact of the cross, ultimately encouraging listeners to embrace their own astonishment and authenticity in their spiritual journeys.takeaways

  • Astonishment is a key aspect of spiritual growth.
  • God's goodness is often beyond our expectations.
  • Personal experiences of God can lead to deeper understanding.
  • Rituals can sometimes lead to stagnation in spiritual life.
  • Astonishment can change how we relate to God and others.
  • Communion with God can be a continuous, organic experience.
  • Ministry should promote personal vision and freedom.
  • The cross represents a profound source of astonishment.
  • Authenticity in spiritual life is essential for growth.
  • Astonishment leads to a more fulfilling relationship with God.

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1 month ago
30 minutes 31 seconds

The Third Option
Astonished by God

Rick and Judi explore the concept of astonishment in relation to God and personal growth. They discuss how being astonished by God's goodness and love can lead to deeper intimacy and understanding. Through personal anecdotes and reflections on Jesus' teachings, they emphasize the importance of remaining open to new revelations about God's character, challenging traditional religious systems, and fostering connections with others regardless of differing beliefs. The conversation highlights the transformative power of astonishment in one's spiritual journey

Takeaways:

  • Astonishment goes beyond mere surprise; it involves a deep sense of wonder.
  • Experiencing astonishment can propel spiritual growth and intimacy with God.
  • Astonishment often comes from unexpected revelations about God's goodness.
  • Personal experiences of love can lead to a greater understanding of God.
  • Religious systems can sometimes box in our understanding of God.
  • Jesus' teachings were astonishing and challenged existing religious norms.
  • Astonishment can lead to a more inclusive view of others' beliefs.
  • Growth in faith often involves being open to new insights about God.
  • The gospel is fundamentally good news that brings joy and peace.
  • Continual astonishment is a sign of spiritual maturity and openness.

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2 months ago
27 minutes 56 seconds

The Third Option
Understanding Yourself: A Story of Abuse and Forgiveness

Rick and Judi explore the themes of understanding, empathy, and self-acceptance through Judi's personal story of struggle and healing.

They discuss the importance of recognizing one's own worth, the challenges of forgiveness, and the transformative power of God's love and grace.

The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion towards oneself and the journey of overcoming past traumas to embrace a more authentic life.

  • Understanding and empathy for oneself is crucial.
  • Many people struggle with self-acceptance due to past experiences.
  • Shame and inferiority complexes can hinder personal growth.
  • Forgiveness should not be forced; it must come from a genuine place.
  • God's love is unconditional and not based on our actions.
  • Healing involves acknowledging and processing past traumas.
  • Compassion for oneself is essential for true healing.
  • Hurt people often perpetuate cycles of hurt.
  • Authenticity is key to receiving and giving love.
  • Transformation is possible through understanding and grace.

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2 months ago
25 minutes 34 seconds

The Third Option
Changing the Narrative: A Story From Homophobia

Rick Manis shares his personal journey of understanding and empathy, particularly in relation to his past homophobia and how his faith has evolved.

He discusses the importance of love, grace, and acceptance, emphasizing the need to see the beauty in diversity and the complexity of human experiences.

Through his reflections, he highlights the transformative power of unconditional love and the necessity of rethinking dogma to embrace humanity fully.

  • Understanding is a facet of God's love.
  • Personal transformation can be a slow but steady journey.
  • Empathy is essential for growth in love.
  • Wrestling with theology can lead to deeper understanding.
  • Seeing individuals rather than groups fosters connection.
  • Unconditional love transcends dogma and tradition.
  • Grace allows us to love without demands for change.
  • The complexity of human experiences challenges black-and-white thinking.
  • Beauty exists in diversity and should be celebrated.
  • Love is the ultimate fulfillment of our spiritual journey.

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2 months ago
33 minutes 22 seconds

The Third Option
Understanding and Empathy: A Story of Racism

In this conversation, Rick and Judi Manis explore the themes of understanding and empathy, particularly in the context of racism and social issues.

Rick shares his personal journey from a racist upbringing to a more empathetic perspective shaped by his Christian faith.

They discuss the importance of open conversations about race, the role of empathy in understanding others, and how Jesus' teachings can guide us in loving those who are different from us.

The conversation emphasizes the need for humility and the willingness to learn from others' experiences to foster understanding and compassion in society.

  • Understanding drives away contempt and fosters empathy.
  • Rick shares his journey from a racist upbringing to understanding.
  • Christianity played a significant role in changing Rick's perspective.
  • Empathy is crucial in understanding the experiences of others.
  • Conversations about race can lead to greater understanding.
  • Jesus' teachings emphasize love for all, including enemies.
  • Open conversations are necessary for healing and understanding.
  • Personal stories can illuminate broader social issues.
  • Contempt does not change hearts; love and understanding do.
  • The journey towards understanding is ongoing and requires humility.

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2 months ago
31 minutes 30 seconds

The Third Option
The Spirit of Understanding

In this episode, Rick and Judi Manis explore the concept of the Spirit of Understanding, emphasizing its importance in fostering empathy, compassion, and forgiveness in relationships.

They discuss the societal lack of understanding and the contempt that arises from it, advocating for a third option that transcends division.

The conversation highlights the nature of God's love as a source of understanding and the personal growth that comes from embracing differences. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to engage in further discussions and share the message of understanding.

  • The Spirit of Understanding is a facet of God's love.
  • Understanding leads to empathy and compassion in relationships.
  • Contempt arises from a lack of understanding between individuals.
  • The third option is to embrace love over division.
  • Forgiveness is rooted in understanding others' weaknesses.
  • God's love holds all things together, including our differences.
  • Personal growth in understanding can lead to greater compassion.
  • Understanding others helps dissolve contempt and division.
  • Perfection is about love in the midst of flaws, not absence of flaws.
  • Curiosity and questioning lead to deeper understanding and growth.

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2 months ago
35 minutes 31 seconds

The Third Option
Jesus Prays for All Believers

Rick and Judi Manis explore the profound themes of Jesus' prayer for his disciples and all believers, emphasizing the importance of personal connection with God, the nature of true unity in Christ, and the transformative power of grace and love. They discuss the misconceptions about God stemming from childhood experiences and religious teachings, advocating for a deeper understanding of God's unconditional love and acceptance. The conversation culminates in the assurance that Jesus continues to declare God's name and love through believers, inviting them into a relationship of wholeness and unity with the Father.

Interesting points:

  • Jesus emphasized the oneness between Him and the Father.
  • The prayer of Jesus extends to all who believe.
  • Personal connection with God is foundational to faith.
  • Revelation is key to understanding our relationship with God.
  • Separation from God is a mindset, not a reality.
  • Jesus reveals the true nature of the Father as loving and accepting.
  • Perfection in Christ is about love, not the absence of flaws.
  • Salvation is about wholeness and being united with God.
  • Believers are called to express God's love and grace.
  • Jesus' prayer reflects His desire for unity among all believers.

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3 months ago
30 minutes 26 seconds

The Third Option
Jesus Prays for His Disciples

In this episode, Rick and Judi Manis delve into John 17, where Jesus prays for his disciples before his crucifixion. They explore the significance of belief, the union of God and man through Jesus, and the role of Judas in the narrative. The discussion emphasizes the joy and strength that comes from faith, the importance of sanctification through truth, and the empowerment provided by the Holy Spirit. The episode concludes with a prayer for awareness of God's presence and strength in the lives of believers.

Takeaways:

  • Jesus' prayer for his disciples highlights their belief and commitment.
  • Belief in Jesus sets the disciples apart from others.
  • The union of God and man is exemplified in Jesus.
  • Judas' role was essential for fulfilling scripture.
  • Jesus prayed for the world, not just his immediate followers.
  • The joy of the Lord provides strength in difficult times.
  • Sanctification comes through the truth of God's word.
  • Empowerment by the Holy Spirit is crucial for believers.
  • Jesus' teachings were meant to be lived out in the world.
  • The kingdom of God within believers is a source of hope and strength.

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3 months ago
32 minutes 37 seconds

The Third Option
Jesus Prays for Himself

In this conversation, Rick and Judi Manis explore the profound themes found in John 17, focusing on Jesus' prayer for himself and the implications of glory, identity, and eternal life. They discuss how Jesus' prayer reveals his relationship with the Father and emphasizes the importance of understanding our identity as children of God. The conversation highlights the goodness of God and the restoration of our true selves, culminating in the completion of Jesus' work on earth.

Some points made:

  • Jesus' prayer in John 17 is a heartfelt communication with the Father.
  • The concept of glory is tied to honor and the weightiness of God's presence.
  • Eternal life is defined as knowing the Father and Jesus whom He sent.
  • Our identity as children of God is restored through Jesus.
  • God's goodness is the foundation of our blessings, not our actions.
  • Jesus prayed for himself to prepare for the challenges ahead.
  • The Father is always present and never leaves us, even in difficult times.
  • Revelation of our identity comes from the Father, not from human understanding.
  • Jesus' work was to reveal the Father and restore humanity's identity.
  • We are called to glorify the Father through our lives.

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3 months ago
28 minutes 9 seconds

The Third Option
Jesus Promises the Holy Spirit

Listen as Rick and Judi Manis delve into John 14, discussing the promise of the Holy Spirit and its implications for believers. They explore themes of love, obedience, and the transformative power of the Holy Spirit in guiding individuals towards righteousness and a deeper understanding of God's grace. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing the Holy Spirit's role in the believer's life, fostering a relationship that is rooted in love rather than fear, and the significance of identity in Christ.

Key topics:

  • Jesus promises the Holy Spirit as a helper.
  • The Holy Spirit will be in you, guiding you.
  • Obedience is a response to love, not fear.
  • The Holy Spirit reveals the goodness of the Father.
  • Christ in us is what makes us whole.
  • Love covers a multitude of sins.
  • The Holy Spirit convinces us of our righteousness.
  • The Spirit leads us into wholeness and peace.
  • His grace is sufficient for all our flaws.
  • The Holy Spirit takes what is God's and makes it ours.

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3 months ago
30 minutes 41 seconds

The Third Option
Jesus Reveals the Father

In this episode of The Third Option, Rick and Judi Manis explore the profound theme of union with God as revealed through Jesus Christ. They discuss how Jesus introduces the concept of God as a loving Father, contrasting it with the Old Testament understanding of God. The conversation delves into being rid of the orphan mentality, the importance of understanding God's unconditional love, and the journey to knowing the true Father. They emphasize the impact of fatherhood on identity and the transformative power of recognizing oneself as a beloved child of God.

Here are some points that are made:

  • Jesus is the revelation of the Father.
  • The concept of God as Father was not common in the Old Testament.
  • Jesus introduces a loving Father to humanity.
  • Understanding God as Father helps heal the orphan mentality.
  • God's love is unconditional and transformative.
  • Salvation is about wholeness and completeness.
  • We are God's children, loved and valued.
  • The journey to knowing God involves revelation.
  • Forgiveness is an expression of God's love.
  • Jesus' life demonstrates the heart of the Father.

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4 months ago
30 minutes 48 seconds

The Third Option
The Fear of Strange Doctrines

In this conversation, Rick and Judi explore the concept of strange doctrines within Christianity, discussing the fear surrounding them and how traditional beliefs can sometimes be misleading. They emphasize the importance of grace, humility, and love in understanding God and navigating differing beliefs. The dialogue encourages listeners to embrace a relationship with God that is rooted in peace and rest, rather than fear and division.

Some Takeaways:

  • The fear of strange doctrines can lead to division in Christianity.
  • Strange doctrines often arise from a dissatisfaction with traditional beliefs.
  • The gospel is meant to bring fullness and rest to the soul.
  • Many traditional teachings may actually be strange doctrines.
  • God's goodness is meant to satisfy His people.
  • We should not fear differing beliefs; God is bigger than our understanding.
  • Love and humility are essential in navigating theological differences.
  • The pursuit of fulfillment can lead to chasing strange doctrines.
  • We are all learning and growing in our understanding of God.
  • The foundation of God stands sure despite differing doctrines.

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4 months ago
32 minutes 47 seconds

The Third Option
Sitting With God

In this episode of The Third Option, Judi Manis shares a deeply personal testimony about her experience with depression and the transformative power of sitting with God. She emphasizes that God's presence is most profoundly felt in our moments of weakness and vulnerability. Through her journey, she learned that true connection with God does not depend on our actions or accomplishments but rather on our willingness to be still and receptive to His love and guidance. The conversation explores themes of grace, the role of the Holy Spirit, and the importance of renewing our minds with God's truth, ultimately encouraging listeners to embrace their weaknesses and trust in God's unwavering support.

Some key points:

  • Sitting with God can be a transformative experience.
  • God meets us in our weakest moments, not just in our strengths.
  • True connection with God is about being still and receptive.
  • Worship and service should come from a place of fullness, not obligation.
  • The Holy Spirit plays a crucial role in guiding and comforting us.
  • Renewing the mind is essential for experiencing God's truth.
  • God's love for us is unchanging and unconditional.
  • In our weakness, we have everything we need through Him.
  • Curiosity about God's nature can deepen our faith.
  • Quick fixes in faith rarely lead to lasting change.

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4 months ago
29 minutes 45 seconds

The Third Option
In the midst of a world stuck in right versus wrong, left versus right, good versus evil, we are having conversations about a THIRD option. It's the option of the Jesus-kind of LOVE and it's something we aren't hearing enough about. Join us in exploring current topics concerning culture, politics, religion and social issues with the THIRD OPTION in mind.