From the heart of your truth, a powerful decision emerges. This is the third episode in a 5-part series introducing the framework of the Art of Self Marriage, told through Danette’s own self marriage story. Grow through your breakup: www.crashbloom.com Get Letters from Danette: https://www.radicalcreativesanctuary.com/contact/ Enjoy colouring ASMR with Danette on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@radical_creative_sanctuary

From the spark of attraction, your truth is illuminated. This is the second episode in a 5-part series introducing the framework of the Art of Self Marriage, told through Danette’s own self marriage story. Grow through your breakup: www.crashbloom.com Get Letters from Danette: https://www.radicalcreativesanctuary.com/contact/ Enjoy colouring ASMR with Danette on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@radical_creative_sanctuary

The Art of Self Marriage begins with The Spark. This is the first in a 5-part series introducing the framework of the Art of Self Marriage, told through Danette’s own self marriage story. Grow through your breakup: www,crashbloom.com Get Letters from Danette: https://www.radicalcreativesanctuary.com/contact Enjoy colouring ASMR with Danette on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@radical_creative_sanctuary

It can seem like everyone else is writing a novel or launching a business or even falling in love - everyone but you. And you've had an idea, a dream, for so long now that it's starting to feel embarrassing. Should you just give up? NO!

When self love feels out of reach, you have a wonderful opportunity. These two words are like magical french doors opening just when you think you have nowhere left to grow.

Why you might be breaking up right now, and how you can use language to soften the blow. Also – how do you flirt with self love from across the room? Get your new favourite breakup book here: www,crashbloom.com Get Letters from Danette: https://www.radicalcreativesanctuary.com/contact/

If you’re looking for a phrase for 2025, this might be it. In this episode, Danette explores why people still seem to want to get married, what running from an imaginary bee can teach us about commitment, and invites you to consider what might be possible if you stopped casually dating yourself. Get the book: […]

Ever wonder what this Birthday Letter Ritual is all about? In this episode, Danette opens her Birthday Letter in real time and reflects on the richness in this wonderful self-love ritual that YOU can begin, today.

When you’re not a total mess, but also not quite okay, it can be unsettling to find ourselves swimming in uncertainty when our broken heart begins to heal. It doesn’t mean you’re not doing it right. There is no correct “speed” for moving forward. Listen if you’ve been healing from a loss and moving forward […]

Twinkle lights, gingerbread and…dread? The holiday season can be complicated for those of us who are approaching the first Christmas without a loved one – by death or by breakup. When we share our lives so closely with someone, it can be startling to imagine special days of the year without them. How do you […]

Do you ever have a personal epiphany more than once? It might be tempting to feel like you failed to hear it the first time. But what if it was by design? What if there are some “aha!” moments that require time to release, like a vitamin? Listen to this episode if you are judging […]

After an unplanned pause, Danette returns to the Soft Shoulder with reflections on what it means to tend to your grief in a self loving way, the importance of language in this process and the tenderness of loss. Get the book: www.crashbloom.com Get Letters from Danette: http://www.radicalcreativesanctuary.com/contact

No music? No problem! Danette embraces imperfection by recording this personal message for you while cooking pasta in her kitchen. If you are in a fog and having a hard time finding your way out, listen in. May this episode be a tiny flashlight helping you move closer to your own light. Get the book: […]

Hey Hey Paula! You’re an awesome human deserving of love, romance and respect no matter what. This podcast is to help you reflect on what you want from relationships, while kindly inquiring where you got that desire from in the first place. What changes when you make yourself your primary partner? Are you a rebel […]

After over 20 years of self marriage, Danette can tell you how deciding to be in a conscious, committed relationship with herself helped her move through breakups and become more of herself in the process. Get the book: www.crashbloom.com Join Self Love Colouring Club: www.radicalcreativesanctuary.com/colour Danette is not on social media – all the love […]

Whether you like it or not, you’re already in a lifelong relationship with yourself. Literally, till death do you part. If you look at your relationship with yourself as a marriage, how would you say it is going? This episode is a guided reflection on what your #couplegoals could be for yourself. Yours is a […]

At least, not as complicated as we might be making it seem. At least, just as complicated as loving anyone at all. Get the book: www.crashbloom.com Join Self Love Colouring Club: www.radicalcreativesanctuary.com/colour Danette is not on social media – all the love + good news is in the emails. Sign up here: www.radicalcreativesanctuary.com/contact

In celebration of Danette’s new book Crash Bloom: a creative guide for growing through your breakup (just in time for Valentine’s Day) this episode offers a reminder that sometimes we all need a little cocoon time in our lives. Not just when healing from a breakup. If you need a little hope that your wings […]

Finally ready to face that decluttering project that has been looming in your subconscious? Feeling the new-year-new-energy feels and have the urge to make some changes in your living space? BUT – you aren’t sure where to start and you don’t have time to read the (maybe?) hundreds of books Danette has read on this […]

It’s been a minute! Danette emerges from her unexpected and unannounced break to share where she’s at and let things get a little weird. This is the last episode of 2023 – may you remember how loved you are as you bring this year to a close. Thank you so much for listening and allowing […]