Is singleness a spiritual gift? We say no. In this candid round-table, Natasha, Monique, and David unpack the church cliché and get honest about desire, hormones, and holiness. We dig into 1 Corinthians 7:7–9 (“better to marry than burn”) and show why Paul isn’t offering a lust-management loophole or promising a supernatural removal of sexual desire. Instead, we explore singleness and marriage as good gifts—seasons in which God calls us to devotion and self-control (a fruit of the Spirit, Galatians 5:22–23), not a pass on discipleship. We talk temptation vs. sin (Matthew 5:27–28), why marriage won’t “fix” porn or lust patterns, and practical pathways like fasting for training our desires toward Christ. Plus: a teaser for our upcoming series on the Fruits of the Spirit from a single-life lens.
What if singleness isn’t a waiting room but a calling worth celebrating? Natasha takes us through powerful excerpts from Timothy Keller, David Platt, and Elisabeth Elliot—three influential Christian thinkers who each bring clarity, theology, and comfort to the often-misunderstood topic of singleness. Tune in for a refreshing, gospel-centered look at what it means to live fully devoted to Christ.
It’s Thanksgiving, and Natasha and Monique ask the question: Am I living my singleness so people see Christ in me? We unpack contentment over bitterness, authentic fruit vs. “glued-on apples,” and how daily practices (Scripture, prayer, worship), healthy community, and service make our lives quietly radiant (1 Cor 7:32–35; Matt 5:16). Honest stories, real hope, and a challenge to live different on purpose.
In this episode, Natasha, Monique, and David tackle the churchy reflex to “qualify” people’s choices—especially when someone says they don’t want marriage or children. We unpack Scripture (yes, be fruitful and he who finds a wife), look at 1 Corinthians 7, and share stories like Jim & Elisabeth Elliot and Amy Carmichael to show that following Jesus can faithfully look different. Instead of pressure or “you’ll change your mind,” we talk about responding with encouragement so people are free to keep listening to God—now and later.
In Part 2 of our series on church hurt in singleness, Natasha, Monique, and David explore the subtle but painful cuts singles experience in the church—those “helpful” comments, lingering expectations, and the silence around what it means to live fully as a single believer. We discuss how these messages can leave singles feeling sidelined, how churches can do better, and how healing can begin when honesty, forgiveness, and discipleship meet.
In Part 1, Natasha, Monique, and David unpack how purity culture shaped expectations about marriage and sex, why so many singles felt sidelined, and how to begin healing without walking away from the Church—or Scripture.
Can a woman (or man) truly live life to the fullest without marriage? In this episode of the Route 77 Podcast, we explore the cultural pressures, biblical perspectives, and personal testimonies surrounding marriage and singleness. From Genesis to 1 Corinthians 7, we’ll unpack whether fullness comes from a spouse—or from Christ Himself. Whether you’re single, married, or somewhere in between, this conversation will encourage you to embrace your season and live abundantly right where you are.
Marriage is a beautiful gift—but it was never meant to be the mission of your life. In this episode, Natasha, Monique, and David unpack the subtle danger of making spouse-hunting your full-time purpose. From church conferences to everyday choices, it’s easy to let the pursuit of “The One” eclipse joy, growth, and God’s greater calling.
Through Scripture (Matthew 6:33), personal reflection, and practical insights, they will explore how to recognize when marriage has become an idol, why that mindset leaves us empty, and how to re-center our lives on God’s kingdom—whether single or married.
Your identity and worth aren’t found in a wedding ring. They’re found in Christ.
What does the Bible actually say about the “right age” to get married? Spoiler: it’s less about a number and more about wisdom, maturity, and God’s timing. In this episode, we unpack common assumptions about marrying young, share biblical examples, and push back against the idea that it’s a more spiritual path. Whether you marry at 20, 40, or not at all—you’re not missing God’s plan. Let’s talk freedom, not pressure.
Love is more than a feeling — it’s a choice, and how we express it matters. In this episode, we explore the 5 Love Languages — words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch — through the lens of Scripture. Discover how each one reflects God’s heart and how you can use them to strengthen your relationships, whether you’re single, dating, or married. Learn to speak love fluently, God’s way.
Saying "I love you" can feel exciting, romantic — and sometimes, dangerous. In this episode of the Route 77 Podcast, Natasha, Monique, and David explore the emotional and spiritual weight behind those three little words.
Why do we say it so soon? What does it actually mean in a dating relationship? And how can premature declarations of love create confusion, pressure, or even manipulation?
From personal stories to biblical wisdom, we unpack how to guard your heart, use your words wisely, and understand what love looks like when it’s grounded in truth — not just emotion.
Whether you're dating now or reflecting on the past, this conversation is for anyone who wants to love well and speak wisely.
What is a red flag in dating—and how do you know it’s not just a one-off mistake? In this week’s episode, Natasha and Monique get real about the warning signs they missed in past relationships and why recognizing red flags early can save you years of heartache. From poor conflict resolution to spiritual immaturity, they unpack personal, relational, and biblical red flags—and how to respond with wisdom, not panic. Whether you’re dating, healing, or supporting a friend through it, this episode offers clarity, conviction, and a bit of laughter along the way.
What happens if you find yourself unequally yoked? Whether you're thinking about dating a non-believer, already in a relationship, engaged, or even married to someone who doesn't share your faith—this episode is for you. We talk honestly about the biblical command not to be unequally yoked, what that really means, and how to navigate the messy, real-life situations many Christians face. We also explore friendships and business partnerships, and why those are a bit different. Join us for a conversation that's compassionate, practical, and rooted in Scripture.
We’ve all heard the verse: “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers.” Most people think of it only when it comes to marriage. But is that all it applies to? In this episode, we unpack what it really means to be “equally yoked,” why this matters so much in dating, and how it can shape our closest friendships, business partnerships, and everyday decisions. Join us as we share personal stories, biblical insights, and practical advice on choosing relationships that help us walk in step with our faith.
We all know the warning to “wait for marriage,” but too often the conversation stops at sex. What about the emotional, spiritual, and mental intimacy that builds long before? In this episode of the Route 77 Podcast dating series, Natasha, Monique, and David dig into how other forms of closeness can push boundaries, set up unrealistic expectations, and even lead to the very physical temptation you’re trying to avoid.
We’ll share personal stories, practical guardrails, and biblical wisdom like Proverbs 4:23—“Above all else, guard your heart.” If you’re dating, thinking about it, or want to disciple someone who is, join us as we talk about protecting your whole heart in the pursuit of godly love.
In this episode of the Route 77 Podcast, Natasha and Monique tackle the real question: Why do we date at all? Is it just for fun, to avoid loneliness, or because we feel pressure from church culture? Or is there a deeper, biblical purpose behind it?
Together, they explore the importance of spiritual maturity, the danger of dating too early—especially for new believers—and how emotional and spiritual entanglement can cause more harm than we realize. With personal stories and straight talk, this conversation invites you to rethink your reasons and reset your expectations.
Whether you're dating, waiting, or just wondering what comes next, this episode offers a Christ-centered perspective you don’t want to miss.
Is it ever too early to date? This week on Route 77, Natasha, Monique, and David open up about their own experiences with dating (and misdating), especially during those wild teenage years. From emotional highs to heartbreaks, we unpack why emotional maturity, timing, and spiritual grounding matter before stepping into a relationship. Whether you're a teen, a parent, or just someone wondering if you're ready, this episode is for you.
Verse of the Week: Proverbs 4:23 – “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”
What if the thing stealing your joy isn’t your circumstances—but your impatience with them? In this episode, we’re unpacking the subtle danger of restlessness, especially for those navigating life as a single person. Inspired by a paraphrased quote from Elisabeth Elliot, we explore how constantly reaching for what’s next can blind us to the goodness God is offering right now.
Through Scripture, stories, and honest conversation, we’ll talk about trusting God’s timing, finding peace in the unknown, and learning how to wait well—not because we have all the answers, but because we know the One who does.
Have you ever wondered if your singleness is your fault? Like maybe you’re too this, not enough that, or just plain missing the secret ingredient? In this episode, we explore the real (and often unspoken) question behind our struggle with being single: Did I do something wrong… or what?
We take a look at Jesus' response in John 9, debunk the blame that society and the church sometimes throw at singles, and share our own honest reflections. Spoiler: Singleness isn’t a punishment—and God’s not holding out on you.
What happens when the longing for children meets the reality of singleness—and modern science offers a way forward? In this episode of The Route 77 Podcast, we explore the complex and emotional question: Should a single person pursue parenthood through IVF, artificial insemination, or other fertility options?
We’re not talking about single parenting through divorce or loss—we’re talking about intentionally creating a child outside of marriage. Is it just a technological advancement, or are we bypassing God’s design for family?
Join Natasha, Monique, and David as they wrestle with Scripture, share personal stories, and ask the tough but necessary questions about ethics, desire, and trusting God when the dream of parenthood feels just out of reach.
