In this episode, Natalie interviews Adam Breister, LPC-MHSP. Adam is a licensed professional counselor based in Nashville and Franklin, TN. Topics discussed range from the importance of self-compassion to why men might be hesitant to begin attending therapy in the first place.
In today's episode, Natalie speaks on the grief and acceptance that often accompanies the healing journey.
In this episode, we discuss different ways in which you can support friends and loved ones who are trauma survivors. Topics include how to listen, educate yourself, and validate trauma survivors, the importance of understanding triggers and paying attention to body language, knowing when to give space or set boundaries, how to support trauma survivors when you are a trauma survivor yourself, as well as how to support loved ones with Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID).
Links:
- Beauty After Bruises: https://www.beautyafterbruises.org
- The Blue Knot Foundation: https://www.blueknot.org.au
In this episode, Natalie and Sam discuss the importance of having a routine to start and end your day. They share some of the routines they've implemented themselves, as well as some ideas on how trauma survivors can think about their daily routines, and how you can implement routine throughout the day to clear your mind and re-energize your body.
Links:
Calmed by Nature on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c0_ejQQcrwI
In this episode, Natalie speaks on chronic shame and some of the ways in which it can come up in our lives.
Kathy Steele: https://www.kathy-steele.com
In this episode, Natalie interviews Miranda Pool, LPC-MHSP (temp). Topics include trauma in children: signs and symptoms, how to reframe difficult behavior, and how Miranda treats children with trauma.
Calm-A-Llama Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/945661
In this episode, Natalie expands on last week's topic of Karpman's Triangle. This week, we discuss the ways in which this system can play out within a person's own internal system.
In this episode, we discuss the concept of "Karpman's Triangle," an idea developed by Stephen B. Karpman.
Links:
- Treating Complex Trauma and Dissociation by Lynette S. Danylchuk and Kevin J. Connors: https://www.amazon.com/Treating-Complex-Dissociation-Lynette-Danylchuk/dp/1138838276/ref=sr_1_3?dchild=1&keywords=treating+complex+trauma+and+dissociation&qid=1594080208&sr=8-3
In this episode, Natalie discusses the relationships between different parts of self.
In this episode, we discuss the importance of commitment, both in and out of the therapy process.
This week, in solidarity with the black community, we share some resources we think are worth listening to/reading.
- On Being with Krista Tippett: https://onbeing.org/programs/resmaa-menakem-notice-the-rage-notice-the-silence/
- The Secret to Success with Eric Thomas: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-cxwOQn2lrA
- My Grandmother's Hands by Resmaa Manakem: https://www.resmaa.com/books
This week, we simply wanted to express our solidarity with people of color in America.
- George Floyd Memorial Fund: https://www.gofundme.com/f/georgefloyd
- Justice for George Floyd Petition: https://www.change.org/p/mayor-jacob-frey-justice-for-george-floyd
- Donate to Black Lives Matter: https://secure.actblue.com/donate/ms_blm_homepage_2019
Books:
- White Fragility: Why It's So Hard for White People to Talk About Racism: https://www.amazon.com/White-Fragility-People-About-Racism/dp/0807047414
- The New Jim Crow: Mass Incarceration In the Age of Colorblindness: https://www.amazon.com/New-Jim-Crow-Incarceration-Colorblindness/dp/1620971933/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=the+new+Jim+crow&qid=1591063103&s=books&sr=1-1
- How to Be an Antiracist: https://www.amazon.com/How-to-Be-an-Antiracist-audiobook/dp/B07TT85KLQ/ref=sr_1_1?crid=26TGPAON4LMFT&dchild=1&keywords=how+to+be+an+antiracist+ibram+x.+kendi&qid=1591063157&s=books&sprefix=how+to+b%2Cstripbooks%2C150&sr=1-1
In this episode, we discuss the roll of the therapist. Particularly, Natalie talks about expectations of both therapists and clients, and the importance of understanding the roll each plays in the healing process.
In this episode, Natalie discusses the importance of separating the past from the present, particularly in the context of present-day triggers. She shares some helpful tips on how to recognize when you are responding to situations in a reactive way that is rooted in your past difficulties.
In this episode, Sam interviews Natalie about Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID). Particularly, Natalie discusses how she became interested in working with DID, what makes working with DID unique, and some of the challenges people with DID can face when trying to find a professional to assist them on their healing journey.
ISSTD Website: https://www.isst-d.org
Beauty After Bruises: https://www.beautyafterbruises.org
Treating Complex Trauma and Dissociation by Lynette Danylchuk and Kevin Connors: https://www.amazon.com/Treating-Complex-Dissociation-Lynette-Danylchuk-dp-1138838276/dp/1138838276/ref=mt_paperback?_encoding=UTF8&me=&qid=
In this episode, Natalie discusses what it means to be resilient. She affirms that resiliency is not just an attribute one is born with, but one that can be learned as well. Everyone has resiliency factors, and Natalie shares some steps you can take to grow and develop your resiliencies.
Links:
- https://lisadanylchuk.com/books/
- https://drarielleschwartz.com/books-by-dr-schwartz/#.XrC1Zy2ZNhF
- Resiliency Questionnaire: http://www.traumainformedcareproject.org/resources/RESILIENCE_Questionnaire.pdf
In this episode, Natalie discusses several different types of body-based therapies that help trauma survivors to feel more safe in their bodies. Additionally, she talks about how somatic therapies can help you to befriend your body. She specifically talks about sensorimotor psychotherapy, which she is currently being trained in, and Becoming Safely Embodied, which she is also being trained in.
Links:
Sensorimotor Psychotherapy (Pat Ogden): https://www.sensorimotorpsychotherapy.org/home/index.html
Becoming Safely Embodied (Deirda Fay): https://dfay.com
Janina Fisher: https://janinafisher.com
In this episode, Natalie Bowler interviews her husband, Sam, about the healing power of music.
In today's episode, we are joined by Danielle Ryder. Danielle is a licensed professional counselor in Nashville, TN. She discusses some of the challenges that medical professionals and first responders are currently facing, including secondary or vicarious trauma.
To access the pandemic plan discussed in the episode, follow this link: http://safehaventherapy.com/pandemic-plan
In this episode, we discuss telehealth. In particular, Natalie explains some of the challenges that remote therapy presents to both clients and therapists. She shares some helpful tips on how to navigate doing therapy remotely and how to walk through some of the triggers that telehealth can present to some people.
