The great debate ✨😂

How different people can look at the same event and have such different views of it. How our experiences makes us see the world & being weird & understanding it.

Happy Fathers Day

Realizations I’m making about teenagers, my kids age gap, how raisin a teen makes me think about myself and how I move through the world.

What is the invisible load in motherhood? Who is likely to carry it? How can we fix it? What I am doing this week to make my week less heavy.

I’ll talk about the three things that worry me most about my boys: mental and physical health being not as good as women’s health, boys education being not as strong as girls and men not needing to show up as a true partner in the home.

I am feeling overwhelmed with all the things I am consuming the past couple weeks. I want to take a break in spending and consuming information so call me out if you see me breaking my promise this week 😂 I will talk about types of spending, spending psychology & the pros and cons of consuming so much.

Reasons for my mom guilt this week, my thoughts about it, what I think it means & what I am thinking of trying this week to help make me more present.

Happy Mothers Day. & if it’s not happy, I’m sorry and I see you & it sucks that it is that way sometimes. I wanted to celebrate the moms who are killin it & encourage the ones who feel like they might not be. Motherhood is complex. Sometimes we are sold a lie that it’s inherent & effortless & natural but that’s not the case for majority of people. Without moms the world would exists. I wanted to shout that out incase no one else does in your world today.

This episode is a little gloomy I think, as a warning. I’m talking the post birth, not liking parenting, guilt, not knowing if you are fucking them up, the cons of having kids and then I end with the pros. I do like myself better as a mom then not as a mom. But man, sometimes I really don’t like it.

I’ll talk about student loans, credit cards, raising your credit score, methods to pay off debt. This is a pain point for me, I almost imagine myself talking to my younger self. Sorry if I’m a little preachy. Do what ever works for YOU. 🫶🏻

I go through my findings and things that resonated with me from the book “come as you are” by Emily Nagoski. Self love & stress are the biggest hang ups when it comes to sexy time for women. I talk about intercourse & lack of orgasms. Hope this episode helps you feel more normal 🫶🏻

I talk about some of the benefits of certain habits, what daily habits I have taken up since quitting drinking, my experience walking without music & requests for any daily habits that work for you.

Why people are bullies, a method I use to deal with them now as an adult, what changed my perspective, how I view the world going forward, a method to try to be kinder to yourself I saw on an Instagram reel & examples of me at my shittiest adult bully moments.

My husband and I answer questions from our “the and” questions for long term relationship cards. Find the list of questions on my website www.themomsarenotalrightpodcast.com in the episodes tab, episode #9

I will discuss my relationship with money, how I grew my income, debt snowball method, 401k & ideas on how to leave a tricky relationship. Money means more choices & unfortunately women are more likely to leave the workforce resulting in a wage gap. Take back your power. 🫶🏻

Trigger warning. Intense words and phrases, talking about my experience in middle school, my sons experience, bullying, sports, what I am struggling with, tactics I think have helped, tactics that have not helped. We are all going through it in this adjustment period.

I talk about my experience with friendships throughout my parenting life, play dates, positive effects of friendships on humans & I will give you some ideas on how to create a tribe or make mom friends right now. Spoiler- it will still involve you spending time with strangers. 🥴 Sorry.

In this episode I discuss problematic drinking, what makes you more susceptible to drinking, what helped me quit drinking, how it’s made my life better and things I still struggle with over a year sober.

My New Years Resolution was to have more fun but I’m failing miserably. Learn about the effects of fun on the brain and body, what I attempted and learned by having more fun and check out the 5 fun prompts I posted on my Instagram and Facebook page “The moms are not alright”