Sick of the same old spiel about following your dreams? Let’s face it – the older we get, the more ‘dream big’ sounds like a broken record. Dreams aren’t just for the wide-eyed; they’re for the battle-scarred who dare to want more. This episode, Eugene and Jones are stripping down the fairy tales and getting to the gritty science of ambition.

We’re tossing out the feel-good fluff and diving headfirst into the evidence – the raw data and hard facts that explain the power of dreaming when you’ve got more yesterdays than tomorrows. It’s about setting sights on goals with guts and making moves that matter, not just chasing shadows.

Get ready for a no-holds-barred exploration of what dreams really do for us, how they shape our reality, and why giving up on them means giving up on ourselves. We're talking tough love, expert insights, and real-life stories of aspirations that burn bright, despite life’s hard knocks.

Bottom line: Dreams aren't a luxury; they're lifeblood. And it's about damn time we figured out how to chase them without running in circles.

Crank up the volume, brace yourself, and let's get down to the business of dreams. Because if you're not aiming for something, you're settling for anything.

We've all been there – trapped in a conversation that's spiraling into an abyss of nonsense. It's like you're both looking at a different picture, each convinced the other's viewpoint is total BS. What's worse? Neither of you will budge. It's not just stubbornness; it's a full-blown battle of bull.

Now, don't get it twisted with gaslighting – that's a whole different beast (catch up on that in episode 9). We're talking about your everyday, garden-variety BS that you wade through in conversations, on social media, and sometimes, even in the mirror.

In today’s episode, we're going BS hunting. I'm going to teach you how to spot the telltale signs of bullshittery in the wild. This isn't just about saving face; it's about saving time, energy, and maybe a few friendships.

But it's not always about sniffing out the lies. Sometimes, you're cornered, and "just walk away" isn't on the table. So what's the game plan then? How do you handle the onslaught of BS when it's flung your way?

Strap in and get ready to become a BS-detecting ninja. We’ll slice through the crap and get to the truth, or at least, get through the conversation without losing our minds.

It’s time to sharpen your senses and your minds. Let's dive into the BS and come out clean on the other side.

Fellas, get ready for a wake-up call. We're diving into a world where society and, let's be honest, sometimes women, can push us into corners. You've seen the advice out there – it's a jungle of contradictions and confusion.

Our last episode tackled the challenge of recognizing and avoiding gaslighting. Now, we're taking it a step further. All the self-improvement in the world won't mean a thing if you can't stand up for yourself against external pressures.

This time, it's about spine – having one strong enough to stand tall in your relationships, whether with your partner, friends, or even your boss. No more bending over backward to please everyone. It's time to dust off and step out of the shadows.

Enough with being pushed around. It's time to stand firm, look forward, and move decisively. Let's get you on track toward a future where you're in control, not just along for the ride.

Turn up the volume, tune in, and let's start this journey. Your path to stronger, more balanced relationships starts now.

Gentlemen, this one's a game-changer. Today, we're tackling a topic that could make or break everything you've learned from us so far. We've focused on self-improvement and control in our past episodes, but what about the people you surround yourself with? What if they're undoing all your hard work without you even realizing it?

Enter gaslighting – a term you might've heard but probably don't fully grasp, especially when it comes to your relationships. And here’s the kicker: research shows that men are often on the receiving end of gaslighting, particularly from women. It's a touchy subject, but we're not here to dance around the hard truths.

In this episode, Eugene and Jones are diving deep into the world of gaslighting. We're not just defining it; we're showing you how to spot it and, more importantly, how to deal with it. This isn't about pointing fingers; it's about opening eyes to a reality many of us are blind to.

Expect a no-holds-barred discussion, backed by facts, personal stories, and maybe a bit of controversy. But it's crucial. Because if you're being gaslighted, all the personal growth in the world won't save you.

So, brace yourselves. It's time to get clued up, stand up for yourselves, and learn how to handle gaslighting – not just for your sake, but for the health of your relationships.

Turn it up, tune in, and get ready for one of our most important episodes yet.

Think saying 'yes' is just about nodding your head and going along? Think again. In this episode, Eugene and Jones are flipping the script. It's time to talk about saying 'yes' – but not just any 'yes.' We're talking about a 'yes' that's packed with confidence and grace, not just obligation and fear.

We're diving into what it really means to embrace opportunities. Forget about just agreeing to stuff. We're exploring how to say 'yes' to things that scare us, challenge us, and push us out of our comfort zones. And we're doing it with style.

Expect raw stories, real talk, and maybe a few laughs as we tackle the art of the confident 'yes.' It's not about being reckless; it's about being fearless.

Our take? Saying 'yes' isn't just agreeing to something. It's about seizing the moment and making it yours. It's about owning your decisions and embracing the unknown with open arms.

So turn it up, tune in, and get ready to learn how to say 'yes' like a boss – with confidence, with grace, and maybe even a little swagger.

Think saying 'no' is easy? Think again. It’s an art, and most of us are about as artistic as a brick. In a world that constantly demands more of us, learning to say 'no' is like finding a secret weapon. But it's not just about refusing stuff; it’s about setting boundaries and standing your ground.

This episode, Eugene and Jones are getting into the nitty-gritty of assertiveness. We're not just talking about turning things down; we're talking about why it's so damn hard and what we can do about it. It's about time we stopped being everyone's yes-men and started looking out for ourselves.

We'll share stories, some wins, and probably a few face-plants along the way. Expect straight-shooting advice, a few laughs, and maybe even a wake-up call or two.

Here's our take: Saying 'no' isn't about being stubborn or rude; it's about respecting yourself and your limits. And guess what? That's not just okay; it's essential.

So crank it up, dive in with us, and let's get real about saying 'no.' It’s about time we all learned to stand our ground – one firm, unapologetic 'no' at a time.

Tired of drowning in a sea of chaos, both physically and mentally? This episode isn't just another minimalist manifesto. Eugene and Jones are here to tear apart the cluttered mess we call 'life' and rebuild it piece by piece.

Many people get lost in the daily grind and hustle, always dealing with the list of top priority items that never seem to end. Then if we are lucky, we get fourteen days of undisturbed leave to unwind, but if you are a parent, then that fourteen days is spent getting even more stressed by dealing with an unreasonable spouse and ungrateful kids.

Many sites talk about the importance of having “me” time which can sound quite high concept from the surface; but this is where Eugene and Jones come in to strip away the buzzwords and get you started on finding your equilibrium; your balance.

If you're ready for a no-BS approach to simplifying your life, this is the episode for you. Tune in, strip away the nonsense, and start finding the balance you've been craving.

In a world that often tells us to blend in, why is it crucial that we stand out? This episode delves into the core of what makes us tick as individuals – our identity and purpose.

Eugene and Jones get real about the journey of self-discovery and the relentless quest to find our place in the world. They explore the vital question: Why do we need to be somebody, not just anybody?

This episode is a wake-up call to anyone who's ever felt lost in the crowd. It’s a reminder that being 'somebody' isn't about pleasing others; it's about carving out your own path and living a life that resonates with your deepest values and aspirations.

Tune in for an episode that's not just about finding yourself – it's about creating yourself.

"Be authentic," they say.

What does that even mean?!

In today’s world, authenticity is just another overused, fancy term that has lost its meaning. It has become more of a sales pitch than a genuine call to be oneself.

In this raw and unfiltered episode, Eugene and Jones tear down the facade of what’s being sold to us as 'authenticity, and discusses the irony of how chasing authenticity often lands us in the realm of the fake.

They're calling out the bluff on the authenticity game everyone seems to be playing.

Pro Tip: Authenticity isn’t about broadcasting every detail of your life or stubbornly clinging to a so-called 'authentic' persona. It’s about being honest, even when it’s not pretty, not packaged, and not perfect.

Join us for an episode that doesn't just scratch the surface. We're going in deep, challenging norms, and maybe, just maybe, finding out what being authentic really means in a world obsessed with a fake version of realness.

"Be yourself." Sounds easy, right? Wrong. It's one of those sayings that gets thrown around a lot, but honestly, it's not that helpful. Think about it – if you're in the middle of figuring out your life, how are you supposed to know what 'being yourself' even means?

This episode, Eugene and Jones are calling out this overused advice. We're tearing down the myth and getting real about what it actually means. Is it useful? Or just a lazy way to say "you're on your own"? And let's talk about the pressure it puts on us. As if life wasn't complicated enough, now we've got to be experts at being ourselves too?

We're going straight to the heart of the matter, using our own stories and those from others in the same boat. We're not just questioning this advice; we're asking what we should be doing instead.

Here’s the deal: Figuring out who you are isn't a one-time thing. It's a constant journey. Sometimes, 'be yourself' is more about rolling with the changes than nailing down who you are.

Join us on our podcast for a no-nonsense chat. Let's all figure this out together – one honest, blunt conversation at a time.

Expectations - boon or bane? Hell, one would even say that a life with no expectations is not a life worth living. Men, we are daunted with what society expects us to be - a traditional provider with a gentle, malleable disposition, yet fiery enough to lead and protect, while still giving the woman space to do whatever she likes.

And then society also throws all sorts of labels at men that confuses the hell out of us. What do they expect from us?

I know this though: There is power in expectations. We just need to learn to harness it to our advantage, and that requires us knowing our boundaries and then breaking them in the ways that we choose.

Here’s a tip: Confidence comes from knowing which expectations to fulfil and which to reject. You can’t please everybody.

Have a listen to our podcast and join the community of other equally midlife and clueless folks trying to do better.

“Time to man up!” Yeah, we hear that all the damned time. “A mature man embraces personal growth.”

Pfft.

Being midlife, the only personal growth most of us are seeing are the size of our waistline.

Doesn’t it just grate on your nerves when people speak in high concepts expecting you to understand?

What Eugene and Jones do in this podcast episode is to breakdown what it means to “man up” and what personal growth means to each of them and how they managed to shift their optics and that changed everything.

Here’s a tip: Don’t listen to the BS that’s being put out there telling you what a real man is. You have to know yourself, your boundaries, and what that personal growth journey means to you.

Have a listen to our podcast and join the community of other equally midlife and clueless folks trying to do better.

“Happiness” is such a simple word but oh so elusive. It’s what everyone truly wants, really; but how we achieve that seems to differ from person to person. A poor backpacker overlooking the mountain ranges feels immense joy as to the young lady who bought her first branded bag with her pay cheque.

What makes you happy?

In this episode, Eugene and Jones discusses what makes them happy.

Here’s a tip: Happiness comes free of charge. Getting there might not be easy though, but that’s why we started this channel so us clueless folks can come together and find that “ah-ha” moment together.