This episode contains blunt commentary and some triggering truths. If you think divestment is hate — you should probably stop here. But if you’re tired of your image being tied to dysfunction, pull up a seat, sis.In this powerful and unapologetic episode of The Divested Diary, Sharika breaks down the crucial difference between being Black — and being a part of the self-destructive culture often excused under the N-word. From glorified dysfunction to toxic loyalty, she’s calling it out and drawing the line.Because we’re not all the same — and we shouldn’t be treated like we are. It’s time to separate, to elevate, and to stop defending the indefensible. This one’s not for the fragile. It’s for the free.Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84 (https://twitter.com/SharikaSoal84)Divested Diary Website (https://divesteddiary.com/)  Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary (https://divesteddiary.com/) to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher

In this powerful episode of The Divested Diary, we explore what it truly means to be an American through the lens of personal experience, resilience, and a deep connection to the country. Host Sharika Soal shares a heartfelt perspective on being Black, adopted, and growing up within the American foster care system. This episode delves into the complex feelings of identity, struggle, and hope as Sharika reflects on the hardships she's faced as a Black conservative woman in America.Sharika reminds us that being American goes beyond race or political alignment. It’s about living, breathing, and enduring everything that shapes this country—the trauma, the triumphs, the patience, the rage, and the never-ending fight for something better. Whether you’re from a small town or a bustling city, if you’ve struggled, survived, and still have hope for change, you embody the spirit of America.

In this eye-opening episode of The Divested Diary, Sharika takes a deep dive into the political career of Kamala Harris and why she believes it's time for Black women to divest from supporting the current Vice President and 2024 Democratic presidential nominee. Sharika unpacks Harris' policies, actions, and how they’ve affected the Black community—particularly Black women.With an honest critique of identity politics and the expectation that Black women should automatically support Black female politicians, Sharika challenges this narrative, urging listeners to consider what true representation looks like and how to make informed political choices. Tune in to hear her compelling case for why divestment from Kamala Harris is a necessary step toward a stronger future for Black women.Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84 (https://twitter.com/SharikaSoal84)Divested Diary Website (https://divesteddiary.com/)  Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary (https://divesteddiary.com/) to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher

In this episode, Sharika Soal discusses the BET Awards and Democrats.In the past, the BET Awards celebrated black excellence, featuring elegant gowns and high-class attire that represented integrity and sophistication.Howe...

The host discusses how black men gang stalk and disrespect black women online. This fuels the divestment movement, where black women separate themselves from black men and culture. The host argues that black women who take care of themselves do not tolerate this behavior. She says it is embarrassing to be associated with men who disrespect black women. The host wants black men to stop making black women feel disrespected if they want loyalty and support.Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84 (https://twitter.com/SharikaSoal84)Divested Diary Website (https://divesteddiary.com/)  Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary (https://divesteddiary.com/) to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher

Sharika Soal discusses why black women should disassociate from transgender advocacy. She argues they face high rates of violence from black men yet focus on transgender issues rather than their own safety. Soal cites statistics and hypothetical scenarios to suggest black transgender women don't need black women's assistance. The message encourages black women to prioritize issues directly impacting their community over transgender causes.Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84 (https://twitter.com/SharikaSoal84)Divested Diary Website (https://divesteddiary.com/)  Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary (https://divesteddiary.com/) to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher

In this episode, Sharika discusses how the black family unit can often be a toxic environment. She advocates for black people, especially women, to "divest" or distance themselves from unsupportive family members who hold them back. Sharika shares her own experiences with toxic family dynamics and encourages listeners to prioritize their mental health and success over dysfunctional relationships, even with their mothers or close relatives.  Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84 (https://twitter.com/SharikaSoal84)Divested Diary Website (https://divesteddiary.com/)  Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary (https://divesteddiary.com/) to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher

In this thought-provoking episode, host Sharika Soal delves into the complex reasons why many black women choose to date outside their race. She begins by sharing her own experiences, noting that even failed relationships with non-black men were les...

In this episode, the host discusses a viral video showing a fight between a black teenage girl and a white teenage girl that left the white girl critically injured. Sharika argues this incident highlights the need to address issues of black-on-white...

The podcast episode discusses a horrific crime where six black individuals are accused of kidnapping, torturing, sexually assaulting, and murdering a 20-year-old black woman named Mahogany Jackson in Birmingham, Alabama. According to details provide...

In this episode, host Sharika Soal discusses her frustration with George Floyd still being discussed as a martyr four years after his death.  Sharika argues that Floyd was committing a crime when he died, and his past includes violently robbing a home with three other black men while a toddler was present. Not wanting a man with a past so disturbing being the general representation of their race isn't irrational and to treat people that way is gaslighting.  Soal also criticizes how black men continue to hold Floyd up as a symbol of black excellence when he was an unemployed man and addicted to drugs.Sharika Soal wants black heroes to be people who actually improve society and do good things rather than criminals.Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84 (https://twitter.com/SharikaSoal84)Divested Diary Website (https://divesteddiary.com/)  Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary (https://divesteddiary.com/) to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn | Pandora | Deezer | Google | Stitcher

In this episode, Sharika Soal discusses how modern dating has been radicalized. She advocates for dating within political affiliations, sharing her own experience rejecting an ex-boyfriend due to his liberal views on white supremacy and racism. Shar...

In today's episode of the Divested Diary, I had the opportunity to delve into a topic close to my heart. As a black woman myself, I wanted to address the issue of the "ghetto personality" and its impact on our lives. Before you jump to conclusions, ...

In today's episode of the Divested Diary, we delved into adoption, which is often overlooked and rarely discussed in the Black community. As a Black woman, it is crucial to shed light on this issue and provide a brutally honest perspective. Adoption in the Black community is not something that is widely talked about or embraced. It is a topic that often gets overshadowed by other pressing issues. However, it is essential to address the reality of why adoption happens within our community and the consequences it has for our children.  One of the reasons adoption occurs within the Black community is due to the prevalence of drug abuse and neglect. It is heartbreaking to see children being removed from their homes because their parents chose drugs over their well-being. We cannot blame white people for these choices; it is a matter of personal responsibility. Adoption is a sensitive and often overlooked topic within the Black community. It is time for us to have open and honest conversations about the reasons behind adoption and the need for accountability. We cannot brush issues like incest and child abuse under the rug. Our responsibility is to address these problems and work towards creating a safer and healthier environment for our children.Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84 (https://twitter.com/SharikaSoal84)Divested Diary Website (https://divesteddiary.com/)  Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary (https://divesteddiary.com/) to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope. Be a Part of the Change: Your support is not just a donation; it's an investment in the lives of women and children striving for a better future. Let's work together to build a world where every woman has the resources and support they need to succeed. Act now: Visit Divested Diary. Your involvement could be the hand-up that someone needs to transform their life. Let's turn challenges into opportunities and struggles into success stories.  Listen to Divested Diary Wherever You Listen to PodcastsApple | Spotify | iHeart | Amazon | TuneIn |

In today's episode, we delved into a topic that has been weighing heavily on my mind: the importance of not teaching our children to hate white people. As a mother and a member of the black community, I believe it is crucial for us to divest from this harmful mindset and focus on unity and understanding instead. It is disheartening to see how anger and resentment from events that occurred centuries ago have seeped into our present-day interactions. We cannot allow ourselves to label innocent five-year-old white children as evil simply because of their race. It is an extreme and unfair judgment that only perpetuates division and animosity. Moreover, this kind of behavior affects our relationships with others and hinders our progress. By teaching our children to hate white people, we are setting them up for a life filled with frustration and aggression. We need to realize that not every white person is out to harm us or oppress us. We must be careful not to generalize and demonize an entire race based on the actions of a few individuals. Furthermore, this mindset of hatred and aggression towards white people can have serious consequences for our children's future. It can hinder their success in various aspects of life, such as finding employment, building business relationships, and even securing housing in certain areas. We need to be mindful of how we portray ourselves and our community, as it directly impacts our opportunities for growth and prosperity. Some may argue that teaching our children to be aware of the dangers they may face is necessary. While educating them about potential risks is important, we must also teach them to differentiate between individuals and not generalize based on race. Instead of instilling fear and hatred, let us focus on teaching them about good and bad touches, empowering them to protect themselves from any danger they may encounter. It is crucial for us to acknowledge that slavery is over, and we cannot hold present-day white individuals accountable for the actions of their ancestors. We must move forward and strive for equality and unity. By teaching our children to hate white people, we are perpetuating a cycle of animosity that serves no purpose other than to divide us further. We must also address the issue of violence and hatred within our own community. It is disheartening to see instances where black individuals target and attack white individuals solely based on their race. This behavior is morally wrong and counterproductive to the progress we seek. We cannot fight against racism by perpetuating it ourselves. It’s time for us to divest from teaching our children to hate white people. We must focus on unity, understanding, and building bridges instead of perpetuating division and animosity. Doing so can create a better future for our children, one where they can thrive and succeed without hatred and prejudice. Let us choose love and acceptance over hatred and division. Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84 (https://twitter.com/SharikaSoal84)Divested Diary Website (https://divesteddiary.com/)  Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit

In today's episode of The Divested Diary, we delved into a thought-provoking discussion about the portrayal of Black women in the modern world and media. As I shared my perspective, it became evident to me that our image is in complete shambles, and it's time for us, as Black women, to take accountability for how we are being portrayed to the masses. Throughout the episode, I highlighted the rise of entertainers like Sukihana, Sexy Red, Cardi B, Megan Thee Stallion, and Nicki Minaj. While their success is undeniable, I couldn't help but question the impact of their explicit and raunchy content on the perception of Black women. I specifically mentioned Nicki Minaj's "Anaconda" song, which I found to be X-rated for a teenage audience. It is disheartening that in 2023, there is still a consensus that Black women are perceived as ghetto, loud, aggressive, and lacking intelligence. However, I challenged the notion that this perception is solely the result of external forces, such as racism. Instead, I argued that it is time for us to divest from the idea that there is a boogeyman in a white cloth perpetuating these stereotypes. As an educated Black woman, I believe we should pride ourselves on our ability to analyze situations and develop conclusive insights. Therefore, it is perplexing to me that many educated Black women continue to perpetuate negative stereotypes through their online presence. I emphasized that it is not racism that we are experiencing in 2023 but rather a consequence of the behaviors exhibited during movements like Black Lives Matter. I urged Black women to consider the consequences of their actions and their impact on our image. While it is essential to demand respect regardless of race, continuously screaming at white people and expressing anger and hate towards them will only breed resentment. I emphasized the need for a shift in our narrative, where we showcase our intelligence, homemaking skills, and contributions to society rather than focusing solely on our grievances and twerking. To illustrate my point, I shared an example of a TikTok video I came across where a Black woman threatened to beat her nine-year-old daughter with a belt for messing up her hair. I expressed disappointment in the comment section, where many Black women were laughing and encouraging such behavior. I emphasized that our actions matter and contribute to the negative perception of Black women. I call for Black women to take responsibility and accountability for our image. I emphasized the importance of change and urged us to become the role models we want our daughters, nieces, and future generations to look up to. It is time to divest from negative stereotypes and embrace a classier and more empowering image. Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84 (https://twitter.com/SharikaSoal84)Divested Diary Website (https://divesteddiary.com/)  Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary (https://divesteddiary.com/) to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials,

In today's episode of the Divested Diary, I had the opportunity to discuss a controversial topic that needs to be addressed. As someone who believes in equality and justice, I feel compelled to speak out against the idea of reparations for certain i...

In today's episode, we delve into the topic of Black politics. It's a subject that often leaves me questioning why the ghetto seems to seep into every aspect of Black life, even in the highest positions of power. Recently, the Democratic representative Jamal Bowman of New York made headlines when he was charged with triggering a fire alarm in a House office building without any emergency. Seeing someone in such a position of influence engage in reckless behavior is disheartening. It raises the question of whether there is a standard that Black politicians should uphold, especially when it comes to basic knowledge like understanding what a fire alarm is. But this issue goes beyond one individual's actions. It feels like Black politics has become one big scam, focused more on defeating the white man than addressing the real issues affecting the Black community. As a conservative, I struggle to understand the point of supporting movements like Black Lives Matter or aligning with liberal ideologies that perpetuate the narrative of victimhood. Instead of focusing on safe schools and improving the education system in impoverished areas, Black politicians often get caught up in symbolic gestures like advocating for the right to wear cornrows. While these issues may have cultural significance, they do little to address our communities' systemic problems. Furthermore, it's disheartening to see Black politicians constantly collecting money for causes like Black Lives Matter without ensuring that the funds reach the people who need them. Reparations, for example, may sound appealing, but throwing money at the problem won't solve the deep-rooted issues within the Black community. Instead, Black politicians should be using their power and influence to address the violence and crime that disproportionately affects African Americans. The staggering number of Black-on-Black murders cannot be ignored, and it's time for our leaders to prioritize the safety and well-being of our communities. Black politicians should focus on tangible solutions to uplift the Black community. It's time to move away from the outdated rhetoric of fighting racism and instead focus on empowering ourselves and taking responsibility for our own actions. We need leaders who are willing to call out the ghetto-ness within our community and work towards building a better future. Black politics needs a shift in focus. We need honest and unapologetic leaders willing to address the real issues affecting our community. It's time to move beyond the victim mentality and work towards real change. Let's return respect and integrity to the Black community and strive for a better future together. Connect with Sharika:Twitter: @SharikaSoal84 (https://twitter.com/SharikaSoal84)Divested Diary Website (https://divesteddiary.com/)Join the Movement at "Divested Diary: Empowering Women's Voices."Are you ready to make a difference? Join us at "Divested Diary" in our mission to uplift and empower women, especially Black women who face unique societal challenges. As the backbone of their families and often the primary financial providers, these incredible women deserve our support and recognition. What Can You Do? Visit Divested Diary (https://divesteddiary.com/) to learn more about our cause. Whether sharing our message, donating, or simply offering encouragement, your contribution can significantly impact you. From providing cars for better mobility to supplying educational materials, every bit of help turns a struggle into a powerful testimony of resilience and hope.

Today's episode is a thought-provoking one as we delve into the topic of why women should stop dating the "ghetto thug." Now, before we dive in, let me clarify that when I use the term "ghetto," I am not exclusively referring to the Black community....

As I sit here, preparing to write about the latest episode of my podcast, "The Divested Diary," I can't help but feel a mix of frustration and disappointment. In today's episode, I tackled the topic of Black media and its impact on the image and rep...