One video. Thousands of hate comments. A viral YouTube roast. And nearly 5,000 new followers in a week. 🤯
In this episode, I share the full story behind my now-viral Instagram video on why I don’t believe in traditional “boyfriend/girlfriend” relationships anymore—and why it stirred up so much controversy online.
More importantly, I set the record straight on what I actually meant and I address 8 of the most popular misconceptions of my hot take on dating.
Spoiler: I’m not telling anyone to rush into marriage. I’m not anti-commitment. I’m not sleeping with a bunch of dudes. And I’m definitely not saying I’m right and everyone else is wrong.
Here’s what you’ll hear inside:
✨ Why I believe slapping on the boyfriend/girlfriend label too soon clouds judgment
✨How the traditional approach to dating is a waste of time and what I am doing instead
✨ The real difference between exclusivity, engagement, and true commitment
✨ Why dating openly (responsibly) can actually build trust, security, and discernment
✨ My response to the “you just don’t want risk” critique (and why it’s actually the opposite)
✨ Clearing up the myths about loyalty, double standards, and intimacy
This episode isn’t about telling you how to date. It’s about sharing a recent epiphany that landed so hard for me that I had to put it out there. If it resonates, amazing. If not, no big deal. Different strokes for different folks.
Either way, you’ll walk away with a fresh perspective on love, commitment, and why the way we “do dating” might need a bit of a reframe.
What I’ve been keeping to myself since my separation that I finally came clean about at my recent women’s retreat.
In this episode, I open my heart and share the truth I have been carrying shame about, as well as the profound breakthroughs and realizations I’ve had since my women’s retreat that have set me free.
This is my journey back to power. From separation to sovereignty.
Are YOU ready to heal, release, rise and reignite?
My next Reignite Retreat is happening in January 2026 in Mexico, at a luxury villa that has literally been on my vision board for yeeeaars! It’s a space for transformation, deep remembrance, and rising together as women.
**Early bird pricing is now open, and a 6-month flexible payment plan is available for a limited time.**
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Stephanie Kwong the Co-Founder/CEO of the Rapid Rewire Method – a groundbreaking and radically effective mental-emotional and spiritual process that guarantees rapid integrative healing, change, and transformation. She has spent over 14 years in the personal development industry, having trained and worked as a Subconscious Rewiring Coach. Her mission is to show the world why these tools are truly capable of cultivating joy, fulfillment, and liberation by quickly ending cycles of suffering. By helping her past clients identify and remove mental and emotional roadblocks, Stephanie has shown them the path to achieving the personal, professional, and financial results they want. Her work proves that shifting from a life of limitation and stress to one of power and freedom is possible, and with the Rapid Rewire Method, that shift is fast, painless, and sustainable.
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Being that April is “STI Awareness Month”, I am taking this opportunity to share my personal story with Herpes and shed light on the TRUTH about HSV in an effort to support others with their own journey, spread awareness and stop the spread of misinformation.
I never imagined I’d be recording this, but here I am, not just ready but excited to share my story with you. We’re going to unpack all the myths, share facts, and the profound lesson in resilience and self-worth that I learned through one of the darkest moments of my life.
This episode isn't just about my journey. It's about breaking the silence and the spread of misinformation that perpetuates this stigma. We MUST be willing to have healthy dialogue and conversation around this.
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I DID NOT think I’d be doing a podcast episode on this…. But here we go!!😂 I’m telling you the story about how an ex from many years ago leaked naked photos of me on the internet and what happened. This episode is going to show you how to thrive beyond betrayal and literally become UNF*CKWITHABLE. Some key highlights from this episode:
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Taylor Simpson is a thought leader in the fields of wealth energetics and feminine leadership. She is the host of “The Embodied Woman” Podcast, Founder of UNTAMED, a Motivational Speaker and Philanthropist. Her work has been featured in Forbes, Vox, ABC & Fox News, The Washington Post, and many others. She is passionate about helping women activate their truth, expand into their fullest potential, and unapologetically own all of who they be.
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Kathrin Zenkina is a #1 Amazon Bestselling Author, Master Manifestation & Mindset Coach, and the CEO of Manifestation Babe. At age 22, in the midst of applying to medical school, she experienced a profound awakening. She chose to completely change the trajectory of her life and leave behind all the comfort and security she had known to move to Los Angeles where she found herself with $15k in debt, a failing online business, and living on her grandma’s couch. It was then that she decided to begin her one-year manifestation experiment which led her to develop the ultimate success mindset and the multiple millions of dollars that followed.
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Brianna Rose is a Kundalini business icon and creator of the Light Leader® Movement. Her global online business has transformed thousands of women's lives teaching them to create impactful online empires, live a lifestyle of financial freedom, and change the world. Through Brianna's success methodologies, her clients align with their purpose, write magnetic content that captures the hearts of their soulmate clients, unlock their energy systems to activate their intuition, and exponentially grow their businesses to 6 figures (and beyond!). Her work has been featured in Forbes, Huffington Post, LearnVest, and more.
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Tia Lynn is a TEDx Speaker, host of the podcast "Sexy Biz Babe", a women’s empowerment coach, and clothing line owner of Static Threads. She loves to help women own their sexy confidence, have more pleasure, and make money by being their fully expressed selves. Her methods are known to help women break out of shame, own their confidence in the bedroom and boardroom, and have the best sex of their lives.
In this episode, we talk about Tia’s reignition story. Some key highlights:
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I’ve had quite the rollercoaster ride when it comes to sisterhood and female friendships. Here’s what I’ll be covering in this episode —
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Jenna Phillips Ballard began her career in 2006 as a certified personal trainer and mindset coach for celebrities like Ben Stiller, Katy Perry, Jerry Piven, Saudi Arabian royalty, and the Marciano family (founders of Guess). During this time she was one of LA’s most sought-after fitness experts and a guest on shows such as Dr. Phil and The Doctors. She has been featured on KTLA, Good Morning LaLa Land, and The American Dream Show and featured in Lucky, Harper’s Bazaar, Allure, and Madame Figaro magazines.
In 2009, she discovered the world of emotional intelligence, experiential training, and somatic practices. She then realized she had a bigger calling and began studying human behavior, leadership, and a variety of transformational methods.
She co-founded Ascension Leadership Academy (ALA) together with her husband in 2016 and has since then been on a mission to inspire and empower as many women as possible to fully love themselves and tap into their magic so that they can live their best, fully-expressed lives and have it all.
In this episode, we talk about one of Jenna’s many reignition stories. Some key highlights:
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Charlie Reign (formerly known as Kristel David) is a proud mother of 5 daughters, a thought leader, relationship guide, producer, writer, and actress. She is on a mission to revolutionize the happily ever after of life and relationships. After navigating a challenging divorce following an 18-year marriage to an NFL husband, Charlie is more determined than ever to empower women in making wise choices when it comes to their life partners. Through her content, curriculums, conversations, and events, she dedicates her time to educate, entertain, and empower people worldwide.
Charlie firmly believes that everyone deserves a quality life experience, filled with love, happiness, and the ability to gracefully handle life's inevitable challenges.
In this episode, we talk about Charlie’s reignition story. Some key highlights:
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Check out www.turningintoher.com to learn more about Charlie and what she is creating.
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This is the first episode of Reignited; a brand new series on my show featuring potent conversations with incredible individuals who have risen from the ashes of who they once were and reimagined, rediscovered, realigned, and reignited the most liberated expression of who they are now.
It has been almost 2 years since I released my last podcast episode and it feels so good to be back as this newly upgraded MOM version of me!
In this episode, I share about how I have been deep in my own process of shedding the layers of who I once was and rediscovering, realigning, and reigniting this new version of me.
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Gabriela is the founder of the Latino Wall Street movement which provides financial education in Spanish to the Latino community. She was selected for the Forbes Finance Council and has been on the expert panel since April 2020. She has also been nominated by Yahoo Finance as the Top 10 Women Entrepreneurs of 2020 and has recently delivered a TED talk about breaking stereotypes as a Latino woman in the finance industry. Gabriela has collaborated with the industry leaders and celebrities in the Hispanic community to raise awareness about the underrepresentation of Latinos in finance. Her mission is to eradicate poverty and create generational wealth so that we can all contribute more to our families and communities and thus together achieve a better world by focusing on the transformation of the Latino community.
In this episode, you will learn about…
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Are you ready to level up and become a fully-expressed, fully-activated Female On Fire? Go to www.femaleonfire.net now!
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Sami Wunder is a leading international dating and relationship coach who specializes in helping high-achieving women attract and keep romantic love. She founded her multi-seven figure relationships brand after exiting a successful career as a gold medalist economist with a Masters in Public Policy. Since then, Sami has improved the love lives of thousands of women, including celebrities, senior executives, and entrepreneurs, in over 55 countries across the globe. Her expertise has been featured on media outlets including Forbes, Glamour, TIME, Marie Claire, Business Insider, and the BBC. Through her comprehensive approach, Sami Wunder has enabled more than 270 single clients to get married and more than 300 partnered clients to bring their marriages back from divorce in the past five years.
In this episode, you will learn about…
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Bibi Brzozka is a love, sex and relationship coach, holistic sexuality speaker and conscious living specialist. She has presented her trailblazing, disruptive approach to sexuality and energetic lovemaking throughout the world. Her heart-opening, taboo-crushing course creates spaces for conversation and plants seeds for exploration of conscious sexuality. Bibi is also the Wellness Director at Nômade Hotel in Tulum where she creates and curates distinctive holistic programming.
In this episode, you will learn about…
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Lisa Fabrega is a leadership coach who helps ambitious people expand their capacity to handle more growth, wealth & success. For more than ten years, she has helped entrepreneurs, corporate executives, Academy Award nominees and Nobel Prize organization candidates break through boundaries that have been holding them back from their next level. Her signature approach enables clients to reach their highest levels of success and impact. Lisa has addressed thousands of people both on stage as a keynote speaker as well as when she appeared on podcasts including The Unmistakable Creative, Her Rules Radio and Tell Me A Story with Debra Silverman. She’s also been featured on CNN, Yahoo! News, The Huffington Post, and Forbes.
In this episode, you will learn about…
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Are you ready to level up and become a fully-expressed, fully-activated Female On Fire? Go to www.femaleonfire.net now!
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Sigrid Tasies is an Embodiment and Leadership Coach, Speaker, Author of “Intimacy Within”, Host of the top-rated podcast “Sacred Leaders”, Humanitarian and Modern Medicine Woman. She supports mission-driven entrepreneurs to embody their deepest truth and alignment, to amplify their impact in the world from the inside out. As an expert in the integration of purpose and success, Sigrid bridges ancient wisdom and modern leadership to help those who are ready to up-level their game in life, leadership and entrepreneurship, through looking at the person behind the business and aligning with a higher version of themselves.
She's an amazing, potent, powerful woman and I'm sooo excited for you to learn from her today, to experience her wisdom and her beautiful energy!
In this episode, you will learn about…
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Beth Weissenberger is the Co-Founder of Handel Group®, a seventeen-plus-year executive life coach who has taught thousands of clients to “human-better”. She is the one who the top of the top CEOs, venture capitalists, and gurus go to. From Live Nations’ Michael Rapino to Gary Vaynerchuk to NFL players Justin Pugh and Nolan Carroll to singer Michelle Williams, to name-drop a few. She founded Handel Group with her sister, Lauren, 15 years ago and has developed it into a multi-platform business with Corporate, Life Coaching, Education, Sports and Product Divisions.
Beth’s coaching style, mad skills, and tool kit, plus the humor and honesty she wields as she owns her own dark side is exploding now, as the world implodes, and the truth about humanity can no longer be contained, even in a pandemic. She has worked with public and private companies delivering doubled and tripled sales, integrating previously “warring” divisions, and identifying obstacles to signing multi-million dollar contracts in short time frames. Beth’s ability to evolve corporate culture and bring about exponential financial growth has become her legacy.
In this episode, you will learn about...
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Destinee Berman is a seven-figure launch strategist who specializes in working with offline business owners, entrepreneurs, experts and educators. Destinee’s clients have used her Skinny Launch™ model to generate more than $17M from launches through her innovative and modern approach to marketing as well as her 15 years of prior experience running large-scale marketing campaigns in Silicon Valley for brands like Twitter, HP and Microsoft. She has taught hundreds of students in 23 countries across the globe. Destinee’s expertise has been featured in media outlets including Business Insider, Forbes, Greatist, Digital Marketer and more. She is also the host of her podcast, Make The Shift.
In this episode, you will learn about…
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