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Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Ken Bechtel
255 episodes
1 month ago
Here on Speaking of Partnership, Ken Bechtel interviews leaders from all walks of life such as Alison Armstrong, Drs. Joy and Roy Martina, Ken Page, Dr. Margaret Paul, Bryan Reeves about their personal trip ups and triumphs in partnership. Whether you are looking to create or enhance a personal, professional, romantic or family partnership, Speaking of Partnership is for you. Our guest open up and share stories, often never revealed before, about their biggest trip up and their proudest moment in partnership. We wrap up each show with specific guidance and resources you can apply immediately to take your partnerships to the next level.
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Here on Speaking of Partnership, Ken Bechtel interviews leaders from all walks of life such as Alison Armstrong, Drs. Joy and Roy Martina, Ken Page, Dr. Margaret Paul, Bryan Reeves about their personal trip ups and triumphs in partnership. Whether you are looking to create or enhance a personal, professional, romantic or family partnership, Speaking of Partnership is for you. Our guest open up and share stories, often never revealed before, about their biggest trip up and their proudest moment in partnership. We wrap up each show with specific guidance and resources you can apply immediately to take your partnerships to the next level.
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Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Follow Your “Yes” – Stepping out of those toxic environments
Do you follow your “Yes?” Following your “Yes” is about you taking a step forward in your partnerships by taking action and applying at least one thing you heard from our guests during their interviews this week. On today’s episode, all of this week’s guests have generously provided BONUS MATERIAL, not included in the interviews you listened to earlier this week. Each one has provided incredible examples of the power of following your “Yes”. Enjoy! Pablo Rosario Not Following – Pablo relates back to a four and a half year relationship he had in his early 20’s. He says that it should have been much shorter than that. As it progressed, things were going downhill. It was getting to the point where his partner was being a bad teammate. He kept debating on whether to leave or not. Find out what happened next by listening to the show. Following – This situation ended up being one of the turning points in Pablo’s life. He left all of his relationships and ended up moving to the other side of the country. He got a job offer in California. He is from New Jersey and knew nobody in California. He decided right away that he was going to move. Find out what happened next by listening to the show. Listen to Pablo’s full interview here Connect with Pablo – His Website Instagram Reba Riley Not Following – This is when Reba decided to go into business with her best friend. Her “yes” was that she needed to tell her friend the truth, but she didn’t do that. Because of this, they ended up losing their friendship for a year. Find out more by listening to the episode. Following – With Reba’s book, “Post-Traumatic Church Syndrome”, she was originally with another publisher. She ended up getting an opportunity to meet with another agent. Meeting with this agent was going to take travel and time, but she had a strong sense that she needed to do this. She ended up meeting with the agent and it ended up being one of the best decisions she’s ever made. Find out what happened next by listening to the interview. Listen to Reba’s full interview here Connect with Reba – Her Website Instagram Facebook Twitter
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6 years ago
26 minutes 20 seconds

Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Reba Riley – Are you proud of the partnership that you’re in?
Reba Riley is the author of the Simon & Schuster bestselling memoir “Post-Traumatic Church Syndrome: one woman’s desperate, funny, and healing journey through 30 religions before her 30th birthday” She has overcome chronic illness, depression, and spiritual injury & now travels nationally speaking on the topics of healing, courage, and radical kindness. Guiding Principle, Quote, or Mantra Brave is a verb. Kindness cures. Love is bigger than everything. When You “Tripped Up” in a Partnership One of Reba’s biggest “trip ups” came with her best friend. They had decided that they were going to start a business together and it didn’t go well. This was about ten years ago and they had a great idea. What they discovered in the process is that they’re fantastic friends but horrible in working together. What tripped her up was that she felt like she couldn’t be honest at times with her friend. Find out what happened next by listening to the show. Your Proudest Moment in Partnership One of Reba’s proudest moments in partnership came with her editor for her book, ‘Post Traumatic Church Syndrome’. What her editor did was take her raw talent and experience, and taught her how to craft it into a story. In a period of over 18 months, her editor did everything in her power to help her along the way. Nearing the end, Reba asked her for her honest opinion on what she thought of the book and everything, and she replied with “I’m so happy and proud to have my name involved with this book.” Find out what happened next by listening to the show. The Best Partnership Advice You’ve Ever Received Love is bigger than everything. And a funny marriage one – Separate bank accounts, separate bathrooms. A Book or Resource That You Recommend Post Traumatic Church Syndrome – Reba Riley The 5 Love Languages – Dr. Gary Chapman Interview Links – Her Website Instagram Facebook Twitter
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6 years ago
38 minutes 34 seconds

Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Pablo Rosario – Your partner is not a mind reader
Pablo Rosario is a men’s relationship coach and speaker with over 6 years of experience helping executives, business owners, and CEO’s find more fulfilling relationships. With a background in psychology, and neuro-linguistic programming, he specializes in the topics of relationships, communication, overcoming inner conflict, passion and confidence, and has helped hundreds of men find happiness and fulfillment in their relationships and life. Guiding Principle, Quote, or Mantra It’s you and me versus everyone else. I envision my partner and I being a team. When You “Tripped Up” in a Partnership Pablo reminders a time when he was younger, around 22 years old, and he was in a relationship. He was in the process of trying out something new where he would speak his mind, would be more honest, and wouldn’t hold back. He told the woman he was dating that he thought she was wearing too much makeup. This didn’t go so well. Find out what happened next by listening to the show. What is the Biggest Thing That Men “Trip Up” on with Women? Pablo explains that the biggest thing men “trip up” on with women is vulnerability. Pablo struggled with this in the past as well. For a lot of men, it makes them really uncomfortable. Men have this idea that they’re not allowed to show it. Find out more about this topic by listening to the show. The Best Partnership Advice You’ve Ever Received Your partner is not a mind reader. A Book or Resource That You Recommend Getting the Love You Want – Harville Hendrix The Truth – Neil Strauss Interview Links – His Website Instagram His email
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6 years ago
36 minutes 28 seconds

Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Follow Your “Yes” – Try to quiet the noise
Do you follow your “Yes?” Following your “Yes” is about you taking a step forward in your partnerships by taking action and applying at least one thing you heard from our guests during their interviews this week. On today’s episode, all of this week’s guests have generously provided BONUS MATERIAL, not included in the interviews you listened to earlier this week. Each one has provided incredible examples of the power of following your “Yes”. Enjoy! Greg Lee & Antonia Van Becker Not Following – From a young age Greg was able to help people relieve themselves from pain; he always knew what to do. So, he studied massage therapy and he also had a huge passion for music. He felt like he was really having trouble making money with it. Throughout the next 9 years, Greg tried different positions but was never truly in love with any of the positions, and he knew that. It started to take a toll on him, getting aches and pains, and then ended up getting quite sick. Around the same time he was fired from his position. Although all of it was a shock, it was a wake up call for him to follow his passions. From there, things started to fall into place. Find out what happened next by listening to the show. Following – Back at the end of Antonia’s corporate job in the 90’s, she had a vision in a healing session she had with a healing mentor. She could not get the vision out of her mind so Antonia started writing. She kept writing and writing, and she pinned pointed the vision was taking place in Ireland. So, she decided to go to Ireland. She wanted to figure out where this book was set. Find out what happened next by listening to the show. Listen to Greg and Antonia’s full interview here Connect with them – Their Website 3 Powerful Ways To Tap Into Your Body’s Wisdom FB Group – Vibrant Healing Wisdom Niajae Wallace Not Following – One of the biggest things Niajae would recommend is really checking in with yourself. What do you want? What are your desires? And hold onto your identity. Try to quiet the noise. With social media we’re constantly comparing ourselves. We’re constantly looking for someone else to answer your own questions. Niajae started meditating to balance out her life. Before she started doing this she felt like her life was chaotic. Find out more by listening to the episode. Following – Niajae relates back to when she decided to sell her brick and mortar business. She wasn’t able to do all of the things she truly desired with this business so she followed that intuition to sell it. When this happened she was able to follow her desires. Listen to Niajae’s full interview here Connect with Niajae – Her Website Facebook Instagram
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6 years ago
31 minutes 4 seconds

Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Niajae Wallace – You can’t pour from an empty cup
Niajae is a coach and motivational speaker that believes you can have it all. She coaches entrepreneurs to help them step into their power and inspires through her mindset and self-development podcast named Abundance Hack. Guiding Principle, Quote, or Mantra You can’t pour from an empty cup. You have to take care of you first. When You “Tripped Up” in a Partnership Niajae has been single for a good part of her adult life. Niajae does a lot of research and realized that she was neglecting unconditional love and acceptance because of her upbringing. Her biggest “trip up” is getting into relationships before she has dealt with her own personal traumas, many of them relating to her childhood. Find out what happened next by listening to the show. Your Proudest Moment in Partnership During the time when Niajae was selling her business, there was a moment nearing the end where she started to cry. At that same moment, her teammates were also crying and they had this huge group hug together that was very touching. Although they were all crying, it was a very proud moment knowing that they’ve made a very positive impact.  The Best Partnership Advice You’ve Ever Received Knowing your partner’s love language and being able it speak it fluently.  A Book or Resource That You Recommend Attached – Amir Levine Interview Links – Her Website  Facebook  Instagram
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6 years ago
40 minutes 41 seconds

Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Greg Lee and Antonia Van Becker – Go to bed loving each other
Antonia Van Becker and Greg Lee are the founders of Self Health Institute, Inc. and their mission is to empower clients by giving them the tools to heal the energetic blocks that are holding them back. They love helping clients get past overwhelm, self-doubt, and chronic health issues so they can be a powerful presence and have the success they’ve dreamed of. Together since 1979, their 40-year relationship imbues their healing practice with self-love, body/mind consciousness, and emotional/energetic balance and awareness. They live their dreams in the wilds of West Marin, California. Guiding Principle, Quote, or Mantra Greg – “I don’t have to do it all. It doesn’t all have to be perfect. And I think other people know how to do stuff too.” When he’s off in the weeds is when he’s looking at what other people are doing and not what he’s doing. When You “Tripped Up” in a Partnership Antonia & Greg have been together for 40 years, so in that time they’ve had many trip ups in their partnership. One of those more difficult moments came when their kids were teenagers. When you’re together you have so many partnerships. One of those major partnerships is how to parent together.  Greg and Antonia described themselves as “night and day” when it comes to how they think. With that, they both had very different parenting styles. This was a huge challenge for them at points. Find out more by listening to the show. Your Proudest Moment in Partnership One of their proudest moments came with their daughter. You know your kids pretty well but not everything. This was a time of total compassion and their daughter in a time of finding herself.  Near the end of high school she went to them and expressed that she thought she was gay. They told her that they had an idea that it may have been the case. Their daughter jokingly said “why didn’t you tell me?”.  It was such a proud moment of acceptance, trust, and love.  The Best Partnership Advice You’ve Ever Received Greg – “Don’t go to bed with a sour taste of yourself or your partner.” Antonia – “Be here now.” Interview Links – Their Website  3 Powerful Ways To Tap Into Your Body’s Wisdom FB Group – Vibrant Healing Wisdom
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6 years ago
37 minutes

Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Follow Your “Yes” – Are you justifying your relationship?
Do you follow your “Yes?” Following your “Yes” is about you taking a step forward in your partnerships by taking action and applying at least one thing you heard from our guests during their interviews this week. On today’s episode, all of this week’s guests have generously provided BONUS MATERIAL, not included in the interviews you listened to earlier this week. Each one has provided incredible examples of the power of following your “Yes”.  Enjoy! Anna Kowalska Not Following – On a second date with a gentleman, Anna’s “Yes” showed up as a very strong NO.  Instead of following this guidance she made every excuse to justify the relationship with this person and completely ignored the NO she felt in her body. The relationship went on for a year and it spun her into a direction that was very self-sabotaging.  Eventually he broke up with her in a very unpleasant way. Not following her “Yes” cost her a year of her life, an unpleasant break up and not taking a different path that was more of a “Yes” for her. Following – A couple of years ago Anna got very strong guidance to move to Colorado.  At the time she lived in New York and had only been to Colorado a couple of times, but this guidance was undeniable. Within six weeks she resolved her live in New York, packed her clothes and her dog in her car and moved to Colorado to an apartment she rented site unseen to start a new life. Not once has she questioned her decision to follow her “Yes.” Listen to Anna’s full interview here Connect with Anna – Anna’s website Special Offer on a Scientific Hand Analysis Facebook Instagram Marie-Elizabeth Mali Not Following – Marie-Elizabeth’s example of when she didn’t follow her “yes” was in her marriage. Her body was starting to get sick. Numerous problems started popping up so she started working out in every which way. But, it was a way to avoid feeling.  All the drivenness was to ignore what was happening. Her body was trying to give her signs. Find out what happened next by listening to the show. Following – In 2015, Marie-Elizabeth went to a meditation retreat. In the retreat they were being asked what they wanted. She was starting to get guidance on where she wanted to be. The silence and being still was so clear that she couldn’t ignore it. Within 6 weeks she had sold her place and made the move. She moved to LA, where she wanted to be, and with a community she wanted to be part of. Find out the rest of the story by listening to the episode. Listen to Marie-Elizabeth’s full interview here Connect with Marie-Elizabeth – Website Free gift – 4 Key Things To Do in a Midlife Crisis Facebook Instagram Twitter LinkedIn Pinterest YouTube
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6 years ago
23 minutes 4 seconds

Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Marie-Elizabeth Mali – Is what I’m doing serving the union?
Marie-Elizabeth Mali is a Midlife Transformation Specialist who shows people how to let the love and pleasure they cultivate in their relationships, expand their professional success. She is also a published poet and an underwater photographer who has a thing for sharks. Guiding Principle, Quote, or Mantra Is what I’m doing serving the union? When You “Tripped Up” in a Partnership Last Friday, she was in Los Angeles with her partner and it was their last day there. They had made plans to meet up at the Air BnB at 4pm. They went their separate ways and she was there at 4pm. 4:30 came around and she was still waiting so she sent him a text.  Find out what happened next by listening to the show. The Best Partnership Advice You’ve Ever Received Stay open and curious. Your partner is not you. Interview Links – Website Free gift – 4 Key Things To Do in a Midlife Crisis Facebook Instagram Twitter LinkedIn Pinterest YouTube
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6 years ago
42 minutes 1 second

Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Anna Kowalska – Your hands are the window to how your heart is wired
Anna Kowalska is an Artist and Scientific Hand Analyst. She has transformed her life to create freedom for what she truly desires and works with her clients to help them do the same. Anna uses Scientific Hand Analysis to identify an individual’s Soul Agreement/Purpose and unique and personal road map to living it. She creates individual and group experiences that combine intuition, creative expression and powerful guidance to facilitate creative and spiritual opening. She is the Creator of the “Dance & Paint”, “Heal Your Heart” and “Free Your Wings” experiences. How did you get started doing this work? Five years ago Anna was looking for an expression of her and her work in the world that would fully satisfy her.  Something that she would never doubt again, because at the time she was doubting everything. What she learned from the scientific hand analysis she received has set her free to follow her purpose without doubting it. Scientific Hand Analysis vs. Palm Reading Scientific Hand Analysis shows you how your brain is wired.  The lines in your hands are correlated to the neural pathways in your brain. Go here to watch the reading: What does your Heart Line show you? The Heart Line reflects how you express love and how you receive love.  Plus any heart lessons you are experiencing. My dominant hand reflects how I am in the outer world and my other hand reflects how I am in my inner world and my inner circle or closest loved ones. The main lines that are in your hand are: Heart line – how you express and how you love. Head line – your style of thinking and how you process information. Life line – your energy level.  Your lifestyle. Fate line – your career path and follow through. Also your fingerprints indicate your purpose, your lesson and your life school.  This is your North Star in your life. Interview Links – Anna’s website Special Offer on a Scientific Hand Analysis Facebook Instagram Note: Click HERE now to check out Anna’s Sacred Success Salon event where 20 experts give you the inside scoop on how to own your true power, live your unique purpose and claim your prosperity.
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6 years ago
50 minutes 11 seconds

Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Follow Your “Yes” – What’s your path of peace?
Do you follow your “Yes?” Following your “Yes” is about you taking a step forward in your partnerships by taking action and applying at least one thing you heard from our guests during their interviews this week. On today’s episode, all of this week’s guests have generously provided BONUS MATERIAL, not included in the interviews you listened to earlier this week. Each one has provided incredible examples of the power of following your “Yes”.  Enjoy! Emilia Nagy Not Following – It isn’t the big things that Emilia has had hard times following, but rather the small things in her daily life. In the moment it doesn’t always have the biggest impact, but overtime it really does. Some of those “micro yeses” are taking a walk when her body is telling her to or going outside and being in the sun. She often says “no” when she really should be saying “yes”. Following – There was a time when Emilia signed up to host an exchange student. They ended up receiving a request from a girl who lived in Italy. There was a lot going on at the time when they received this request. Her initial thought was that she wasn’t good enough to host this beautiful girl and her family. In her heart she wanted to say “yes” but she had all these things going on. Find out what happened next by listening to the interview. Listen to Emilia’s full interview here Connect with Emilia – Sacred Love Activation Meditation Her Website   Michelle Marchant Johnson Not Following – Michelle had been through a painful ending to an off and on relationship she had had for 10 years. She met a “bad boy” at a party and wanted to numb the pain she was in from the breakup, so even though she knew getting involved with this guy was not a good idea, she did it. Ultimately, she had to get over the original painful breakup with the “bad boy” break up added on top of it. These things happen because we are operating from the 3 F’s – fear, fantasy or falsehood. Following – Michelle was not happy with her corporate job but they were giving her raise and increasing her benefits and she had another option that didn’t pay as much and would be less stressful. Then she listened to her Yes and chose the path of peace.  And it absolutely ended up being the right decision for her at that time. Listen to Michelle’s full interview here Connect with Michelle – www.lovelifecoaching.com Michelle’s Facebook Page
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6 years ago
19 minutes 23 seconds

Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Michelle Marchant Johnson – The support you receive when you ask
Michelle Marchant Johnson is a relationship coach, speaker and author.  In her business, LoveLifeCoaching.com she specializes in helping women learn how to express their feminine joy, energy and presence and how to invite interaction, attraction, and commitment from a man. Her articles have been featured on many internet sites and she was recognized by DatingAdvice.com as one of the Top Ten Midlife Relationship Experts.  She is currently writing a book entitled “Meet Him and Keep Him.”  She is the host of the Ready for the Right Guy Global Telesummit  and co-creator of a proprietary system for single women called How to Meet a Great Guy. Michelle is also an advanced stage breast cancer survivor who believes life is precious and is meant to be lived with purpose, love, and joy. Guiding Principle, Quote or Mantra “Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” – Rumi When You Tripped Up When Michelle became a first-time bride at 43 she realized both she and her husband had been living very individual lives for a long time.  Her trip up was when she let her expectations go unspoken and then got upset at him because he did not pick up on what her expectations were and address them. “I created my own personal drama.” What she learned is that her husband is actually very willing to help her in almost every case if she expresses her wants or needs to him in a way that he can respond. (These are some great stories I am sure you will relate to no matter if you are a man or a woman.) The “DUH” moment that changed your partnerships forever Michelle had a “DUH” moment one Christmas day when she went out to shovel snow from the driveway because her husband had not done it yet, even though he said he would. Her ah-ha was that it is not only what she does in her partnership, but also the intention behind it.  And considering how that intention might come across to her partner. She learned that it is very important be honest with herself about her intentions and to communicate them to her partner. Proudest moment in partnership Michelle was diagnosed with Breast Cancer 4 years ago.  And she felt like she was loosing all of her femininity. While she was always a very strong and independent woman, she was in a place where she needed support. She learned how to be in touch with her needs and desires and how to express and ask for what she wanted in a more powerful way.  Being receptive to this support allowed her develop and deepen friendships like never before. What is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received? Seek first to understand and then to be understood. Best Partnership Book or Resource The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change The Art and Practice of Loving: Living a Heartfelt Yes Payoff of Partnership – Michelle knew she wanted to start her coaching business and when she got up the courage to tell her husband that she wanted to leave her corporate job he surprised her. Her husband not only was supportive, but he actually became her most ardent supporter, fan and even a partner.
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6 years ago
39 minutes 32 seconds

Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Emilia Nagy – Vulnerability is not weak, it is courageous
Emilia Nagy is on a mission: to lead fierce visionaries into unapologetic conscious love, divine service, and global impact (by partnering powerfully with an amazing man – and all men)! Emilia stands for the spiritual, political, social and economic power of all women, supported fully by the men who love them. She is also the founder of Worthy of Love and the Sacred Partnership Love Movement. Emilia is certified by Alison Armstrong and has been a featured speaker in numerous podcasts and summits. She lives in San Diego with her husband, soulmate and twin flame, Emil, their 5 yr old daughter Alessandra and their Rottweiler Bernie. Your Guidance Principle, Quote, Or Mantra in Partnership Real, honest love is so natural and organic. A Time When You “Tripped Up” in a Partnership Her trip up happened over a series of relationships, not just one. In her 20’s and early 30’s Emilia just kept dating the same kind of people. It was either men who were emotionally unavailable or feminine men. But, really what it was was Emilia pointing the finger. She never wanted to be vulnerable because she thought that it meant that she would only get hurt. Find out what happened next by listening to the episode. Your Proudest Moment in Partnership Emilia’s proudest moment came with her husband. One day they went for a bike ride, then went to eat and then made their way home for the night. While in the car she realized that she was starting to sabotage the relationship because it was going so well. Find out where this moment changed from bad to great by listening to the podcast. Best Partnership Advice You’ve Ever Received Partnerships take vulnerability. You can’t have one without it.   Best Partnership Resource Making Sense of Men – Alison Armstrong Interview Links – Sacred Love Activation Meditation Her Website If you’re someone who is struggling to find happiness in your relationships and feel like you’re repeating the same mistakes each and every time, then check out THE FOUR STEP GAME PLAN MY CLIENTS USE TO FINALLY HAVE A LASTING RELATIONSHIP WITH A SUPPORTIVE, AFFECTIONATE AND LOYAL PARTNER… Without having to constantly sacrifice who they are to keep things going!
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6 years ago
37 minutes 38 seconds

Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Follow Your “Yes” – I’m definitely going for it
Do you follow your “Yes?” Following your “Yes” is about you taking a step forward in your partnerships by taking action and applying at least one thing you heard from our guests during their interviews this week. On today’s episode, all of this week’s guests have generously provided BONUS MATERIAL, not included in the interviews you listened to earlier this week. Each one has provided incredible examples of the power of following your “Yes”.  Enjoy! Todd Creager Not Following – One that comes to mind for Todd is when he was married for about 8-10 years at the time. He was a practicing therapist and was asked by a group of therapists to go consult with them on some couples cases. There was a practice called EMDR that Todd was interested in because he saw this group using it. He ended up pushing it off and almost 15 years after finally used it, and it was wonderful. Find out why Todd waited so long and didn’t initially follow his “yes” by listening to his interview. Following – Todd and his wife had a child and then she wanted a second, but Todd wasn’t sure if he wanted a second. Him and his wife talked about it a bit and he then waited for a while and thought about it. What gave him that “yes” is when he thought about his current child by herself without a second, and he felt a dip in energy. Then, he thought about what it would be like with two children, and he felt an increase in energy. Find out the rest of the story by listening to the podcast. Listen to Todd’s interview here Connect with Todd – His Website for articles, books, and resources. Instagram Mark Rosenfeld Not Following – Mark remembers one of the first times he was working through his social anxiety, he met this woman and it was probably the first proper date he had been on. They ended up getting along really, really great. It was his first time and he ended up getting very insecure. He started trying to look up how to keep her interested and what to do next, and one of the things said to be distant. Find out what happened next by listening to the show. Following – With Mark’s past partner, they were starting to have some difficulties. She was wanting different things and wanted to go in different directions. He was starting to get the feeling that maybe they weren’t right as a couple. They ended up doing this compatibility exercise and a lot of their ideas weren’t matching up. Find out the rest of the story by listening to the podcast. Listen to Mark’s interview here Connect with Mark – Mark’s Youtube Channel Mark’s Email The video Mark mentions in the interview
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6 years ago
21 minutes 47 seconds

Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Mark Rosenfeld – Is this person adding value to my life?
After struggling with severe social anxiety throughout high-school and early years of college, Mark, after several failed attempts, turned things around in 2009 and was soon teaching confidence in life and dating to other shy men. He began work on Make Him Yours in 2014, sharing his expertise to help women stop the frustrating patterns in their dating lives and start attracting the men they deserve. Since then, Mark has risen to become Australia’s most popular dating and relationship coach, with over 25 million video views and more than 10 years of Mark’s content now consumed by viewers every month. Mark has run events around the world and been featured on JJJ, ABC, News.com.au, Style Magazine, Thought Catalog, Elite Daily and The Good Men Project.  And as an interesting bit – he is also a former male stripper and veterinarian. Your Guidance Principle, Quote, Or Mantra in Partnership Is this person adding value to my life? And balanced with that is… Is this problem something I can live with? A Time When You “Tripped Up” in a Partnership There was one partnership that was very short but it taught Mark a lot. It met a woman a long ways away from where he and she are from. They had incredible chemistry at first sight. Passion was racing at 100m/h. They would go back and forth to see each other but what he realized is that they were simply meeting to get high off each other. It was actually the first time in about two years that anxiousness reappeared in Mark’s life. Find out what happened next by listening to the episode. Best Partnership Advice You’ve Ever Received Find the win-win. Interview Links – Mark’s Youtube Channel Mark’s Email The video Mark mentions in the interview Instagram If you’re someone who is struggling to find happiness in your relationships and feel like you’re repeating the same mistakes each and every time, then check out THE FOUR STEP GAME PLAN MY CLIENTS USE TO FINALLY HAVE A LASTING RELATIONSHIP WITH A SUPPORTIVE, AFFECTIONATE AND LOYAL PARTNER… Without having to constantly sacrifice who they are to keep things going!
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6 years ago
31 minutes 11 seconds

Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Todd Creager – Choose to yield but don’t give in
Todd Creager is a marriage and sex therapist who helps couples create loving and passionate long-term relationships. He is the author of “The Long, Hot Marriage.,” and “Love, Sex and Karaoke, 52 Ways to Ignite Your Love Life” which is an Amazon Bestselling book for couples.  He has an e-book titled “The Little Black Book of Infidelity.” and an entire self-improvement program to help heal from infidelity. His most recent online program is “Divorce-Proof Your Marriage.” He has a private practice in Huntington Beach, CA and has been helping couples and individuals for 34 years. Todd has been a guest as on many radio and TV shows and is a professor at USC.  Last but not least, he has been married for 34 years to his wife Sherry and has 2 lovely daughters ages 26 and 23. Your Guidance Principle, Quote, Or Mantra in Partnership We are all powerful centres of interpersonal influence. A Time When You “Tripped Up” in a Partnership Todd works a lot with infidelity and people betraying other people. Todd’s happy to say that he has never cheated on his wife but he does remember a time when he was beginning his business he had zero balance on a couple of his credit cards. He was trying to avoid conflict by not telling her. Find out what happened next by listening to the episode. Your Proudest Moment in Partnership Todd is a therapist and is married, and his wife would tell him how bad of a listener he is. He is in fact a great listener with his clients but she was right about their relationship. Anytime she would have any feedback for him, he would get very defensive about it. Listen to the podcast to hear a specific story in his marriage where this was happening and how it changed and became one of his proudest moments.   Best Partnership Advice You’ve Ever Received Choose to yield but don’t give in. That Book or Resource You Recommend to Our Listeners The Long, Hot Marriage – Todd Creager Getting the Love You Want – Harville Hendrix Interview Links – His Website for articles, books, and resources. Instagram If you’re someone who is struggling to find happiness in your relationships and feel like you’re repeating the same mistakes each and every time, then check out THE FOUR STEP GAME PLAN MY CLIENTS USE TO FINALLY HAVE A LASTING RELATIONSHIP WITH A SUPPORTIVE, AFFECTIONATE AND LOYAL PARTNER… Without having to constantly sacrifice who they are to keep things going!
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6 years ago
32 minutes 56 seconds

Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Follow Your “Yes” – Are you just going through the motions?
Do you follow your “Yes?” Following your “Yes” is about you taking a step forward in your partnerships by taking action and applying at least one thing you heard from our guests during their interviews this week. On today’s episode, all of this week’s guests have generously provided BONUS MATERIAL, not included in the interviews you listened to earlier this week. Each one has provided incredible examples of the power of following your “Yes”.  Enjoy! Dr. Diana Kirschner Not Following – She was at a yoga retreat and people were always asking her for guidance with love. She knew it was her calling so she followed that. Later on she kept getting the feeling that she needed to write a book. That book would be pushed off because she thought she didn’t know how to write it. By pushing that off she developed a low line of depression. Find out what happened next by listening to Diana’s interview. Following – Some years after she had that vision to write a book, she finally decided that she would take action and follow that guidance. She started practicing and taking classes on writing to help her towards that vision. Find out the rest of the story by listening to the podcast. Listen to Diana’s interview here Connect with Diana – Website Facebook – Dating to True Love Mentor Carin Rockind Not Following – One that comes to mind is a time in her current marriage. When her and her husband first met, she had just graduated and was on her way to live in New York. She had no interest in staying in Philadelphia, followed that guidance and moved. They did the long distance relationship for a while but knew that something had to happen to be together. Find out what happened next by listening to the show. Following – The clearest “yes” Carin has ever had was following her purpose. She started reading a lot about positive psychology. She was terrified to leave the corporate world with benefits, but she knew if she didn’t that she wouldn’t be happy. Find out the rest of the story by listening to the podcast. Listen to Carin’s interview here and the 2nd Episode here Connect with Carin – Website Instagram Facebook
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6 years ago
24 minutes 45 seconds

Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Carin Rockind – Be you and only you
Note: This is a two part special featuring Carin Rockind. This is part 2/2. The first episode aired Wednesday, May 1st, 2019. Carin Rockind is a leading expert on life purpose, women’s thriving and positive psychology, the science of human flourishing. She is the creator of PurposeGirl; a movement to empower purpose driven living and the founder of Women’s Global Happiness Day, the first-ever worldwide initiative to eradicate the women’s depression epidemic, which had 98 events in 19 countries on 6 continents in its inaugural year of 2018. Having overcome armed robbery, domestic abuse and divorce, Carin has a way of connecting with others and showing them how to be the creator of their own lives, overcome challenges, grow from trauma and turn pain into purpose. As the former “Happiness Guru” on SiriusXM’s morning show for women, and a keynote speaker for conferences and companies, she has helped thousands of people live to their fullest potential. She is currently on faculty at The Flourishing Center in New York and she is the host of the globally ranked self-help show, The PurposeGirl Podcast. Carin is a runner, writer, and dancer who lives outside of Philadelphia with her husband, Josh and their labradoodle, Charlie. Your Proudest Moment in Partnership When Carin first started doing this work, she was doing it all on her own. She was terrified to trust anyone else and thought everything would be easier doing it on her own. She thinks it may have stemmed from an early relationship when she was 17 where she was physically abused. So, when it came to her business she wasn’t wanting to collaborate with others. Find out where things turned for the better by listening to the episode. Best Partnership advice You’ve Ever Received Be you. What Book or Resource Would You Recommend? Positive Psychology – It’s the science of what makes life worth living Authentic-happiness.com – VIA survey Interview Links – Website Instagram Facebook If you’re someone who is struggling to find happiness in your relationships and feel like you’re repeating the same mistakes each and every time, then check out THE FOUR STEP GAME PLAN MY CLIENTS USE TO FINALLY HAVE A LASTING RELATIONSHIP WITH A SUPPORTIVE, AFFECTIONATE AND LOYAL PARTNER… Without having to constantly sacrifice who they are to keep things going!
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6 years ago
26 minutes 12 seconds

Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Carin Rockind – Every moment of our life is for purpose
Note: This is a two part special featuring Carin Rockind. This is part 1/2. Part two of the interview will air as a bonus episode on Friday, May 3rd, 2019. Carin Rockind is a leading expert on life purpose, women’s thriving and positive psychology, the science of human flourishing. She is the creator of PurposeGirl; a movement to empower purpose driven living and the founder of Women’s Global Happiness Day, the first-ever worldwide initiative to eradicate the women’s depression epidemic, which had 98 events in 19 countries on 6 continents in its inaugural year of 2018. Having overcome armed robbery, domestic abuse and divorce, Carin has a way of connecting with others and showing them how to be the creator of their own lives, overcome challenges, grow from trauma and turn pain into purpose. As the former “Happiness Guru” on SiriusXM’s morning show for women, and a keynote speaker for conferences and companies, she has helped thousands of people live to their fullest potential. She is currently on faculty at The Flourishing Center in New York and she is the host of the globally ranked self-help show, The PurposeGirl Podcast. Carin is a runner, writer, and dancer who lives outside of Philadelphia with her husband, Josh and their labradoodle, Charlie. Guiding Principle, Quote, or Mantra “If there was a gun put to your head, what would you regret not having done?” And “Every moment of our life is for purpose.” A Time When You “Tripped Up” in Partnership Carin mentioned that she was married at a young age. Carin’s parents have been happily together since they were 14 years old. They’ve now been married for 54 years and are so happy. Her grandparents were the same thing; they were happily married for their whole lives, were holocaust survivors, and past away within a couple of weeks of each other. Because of this, Carin had this beautiful image of what two people looked like when they loved each other and were happily married. Find out the rest of the story by listening to the podcast. Interview Links – Website Instagram Facebook If you’re someone who is struggling to find happiness in your relationships and feel like you’re repeating the same mistakes each and every time, then check out THE FOUR STEP GAME PLAN MY CLIENTS USE TO FINALLY HAVE A LASTING RELATIONSHIP WITH A SUPPORTIVE, AFFECTIONATE AND LOYAL PARTNER… Without having to constantly sacrifice who they are to keep things going!
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6 years ago
33 minutes 9 seconds

Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Dr. Diana Kirschner – Why do we subconsciously shoot ourselves in the foot?
Psychologist Dr. Diana Kirschner appeared regularly on the Today Show and starred in a PBS Special on finding love, based on her international bestseller, Love in 90 Days. It is the book that Hoda Kotb of The Today Show (who is now in a great relationship) used and praised as a great dating guide. Love in 90 Days has helped tens of thousands around the world to create high-value self-confidence and lasting soulmate love. Now to celebrate its 10th year Anniversary, Love in 90 Days is out in an expanded edition and it comes with $1000 in bonus gifts. Who has it harder? Singles who have never been married OR People who have been divorced and out looking for a partner again. In either case it depends a lot on what has happened. There are many different kinds of wounds and betrayals. Diana says that it’s really hard to tell which situation is tougher. She admires anyone who is able to pick themselves up and move forward. What is the biggest myth that is holding women and men back from finding success in love? If it’s meant to happen it will just happen. What’s one of the biggest changes you’ve noticed in the past 10 years in the dating world? The biggest change by far has been the use of dating apps. It’s become a fast lane, ghosting, bread crumb type environment. 49% of people who show interest in you on a dating app will disappear on you. It has become very easy to get bummed out and bitter about the whole thing. The upside of apps are that your chances have never been better to find a great partner. To learn more about this, listen to the episode.   Best Partnership Advice You’ve Ever Received Have the greatest relationship with yourself that you can. Interview Links – Website Facebook – Dating to True Love Mentor I know you want the kind of love that lights a fire in your heart and touches your soul, the kind that makes you reach for the stars. The kind where you feel at home and taken care of by a soulmate you can trust completely. How do you find that kind of love?  There is a special new book that can make it happen for you. Hoda Kotb of The Today Show and Dr. Christiane Northrup used it to find their Beloveds. It has helped 10s of thousands of women find high-value self-confidence and lasting passionate soulmate love. The book is Love in 90 Days by Dr. Diana Kirschner, just out in an expanded 10th Anniversary edition. It is a must-have. And amazingly enough, it comes with $1000 in Bonus gifts from 35 leading beauty and love experts. You can get Love in 90 Days with all the gifts here:  https://lovein90days.com/book-bonus-sign-in If you’re someone who is struggling to find happiness in your relationships and feel like you’re repeating the same mistakes each and every time, then check out THE FOUR STEP GAME PLAN MY CLIENTS USE TO FINALLY HAVE A LASTING RELATIONSHIP WITH A SUPPORTIVE, AFFECTIONATE AND LOYAL PARTNER… Without having to constantly sacrifice who they are to keep things going!
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6 years ago
26 minutes 23 seconds

Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Follow Your “Yes” – Don’t die with your song left unsung
Do you follow your “Yes?” Following your “Yes” is about you taking a step forward in your partnerships by taking action and applying at least one thing you heard from our guests during their interviews this week. On today’s episode, all of this week’s guests have generously provided BONUS MATERIAL, not included in the interviews you listened to earlier this week. Each one has provided incredible examples of the power of following your “Yes”.  Enjoy! Dan Millman Not Following – Dan actually wrote about this a bit in his second book about not following that guidance. Dan was married at a young age; he was 21 and she was 19. When he got married he felt a depression that night. He felt he had made an error in getting married at that point in his life. Find out what happened next by listening to Dan’s interview. Following – When Dan was about 10 years old his parents took him to see Peter Pan. Dan wanted to so badly fly but he wasn’t in tune to know that you can’t just flap your arms and fly. Then he discovered the trampoline when he was 11 and that for him was the closest thing to flying. Turns out that jumping on a trampoline led him to a lot of the successes in his life in gymnastics. Find out the rest of the story by listening to the podcast. Listen to Dan’s interview here Connect with Dan – Website Facebook Dr. Duana Welch Not Following – There’s a line that comes to mind for Duana when she thinks of this, and that’s “Don’t die with your song left unsung.” People regret what they haven’t tried at all. She felt the need to share relationship science with everyone 25 years ago, but she only started 10 years ago. Find out what kept her from sharing her knowledge for so long by listening to the episode. Following – This was when Duana realized that her current husband wa the man for her. When she first met him in person she knew he was the man she would want to be with. She didn’t immediately go with that because she was hurt in the past. She faced her fears and they ended up being married 4 months later. Find out the rest of the story by listening to the podcast. Listen to Duana’s interview here Connect with Duana – Facebook and Facebook – Love Factually Twitter Instagram All things Love Factually, including free content My Blog + Coaching
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6 years ago
17 minutes 42 seconds

Speaking of Partnership: Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership
Here on Speaking of Partnership, Ken Bechtel interviews leaders from all walks of life such as Alison Armstrong, Drs. Joy and Roy Martina, Ken Page, Dr. Margaret Paul, Bryan Reeves about their personal trip ups and triumphs in partnership. Whether you are looking to create or enhance a personal, professional, romantic or family partnership, Speaking of Partnership is for you. Our guest open up and share stories, often never revealed before, about their biggest trip up and their proudest moment in partnership. We wrap up each show with specific guidance and resources you can apply immediately to take your partnerships to the next level.