Join Andy and Bethany Needham in this episode as they dive into the topic of money in marriage. They discuss the categories of expenses they choose to skip, save on, spend moderately on, and splurge on for themselves and their family. Learn about their strategies for managing finances, including investing in vacations, health, and the occasional indulgence. With humor and personal anecdotes, they aim to provide insights and tips for couples navigating financial decisions together.
00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview01:28 First Jobs and Early Money Memories05:21 Marriage and Money: Skipping the Big Expenses13:07 Frugal Living: Saving Strategies17:55 Teaching Kids Negotiation Skills at Yard Sales18:34 Prioritizing Family Vacations21:02 Spending on Date Nights and Entertainment22:06 Choosing Reliable Cars24:35 Investing in Health and Wellness27:28 Splurging on Gifts and Seasonal Help30:15 Enjoying Extravagant Meals34:04 Aligning Financial Values in Marriage38:04 Concluding Thoughts on Spending and Saving
In this special episode of 'Slightly Off Script,' Andy Needham celebrates 25 years in vocational ministry by being interviewed by his wife, Bethany. The duo discusses Andy's journey from starting ministry at 18 to his current milestones, covering the lessons learned, highs, lows, and personal growth that come with such a long tenure in ministry. They delve into the commitment needed to sustain a ministry career, balancing personal and professional life, and share humorous and humbling stories from Andy’s vast experience. A must-listen for anyone full of valuable insights for a fulfilling life.
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00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview
00:38 Bethany Interviews Andy
02:01 Starting in Ministry at 18
03:57 Affirmation and Early Ministry Experiences
06:50 Highs and Lows of Ministry
12:43 Cringe-Worthy Moments
15:55 Sustaining Faith and Calling
18:43 Understanding Calling vs. Assignment
19:03 Spiritual Life as a Garden
20:28 Redefining Success in Ministry
23:26 Advice for Young People Considering Ministry
27:06 Balancing Ministry and Family Life
32:16 Maintaining a Healthy Marriage in Ministry
38:08 Final Thoughts and Reflections
This holiday weekend, we are taking a quick breather from recording and sharing one of our most downloaded episodes on navigating differences in marriage. Thanks for listening!
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Welcome to 'Slightly Off Script,' the marriage show where hosts Bethany and Andy Needham explore the entertaining and meaningful aspects of married life. In this episode, Bethany and Andy dive into the topic of differences within a relationship, sharing how their unique traits complement each other and sometimes create friction. Through humorous and insightful conversations, they discuss empathy, organization, adventure, spontaneity, and the importance of hard conversations. They also highlight how appreciating and celebrating each other's differences can strengthen the bond between partners. Tune in for relatable anecdotes, practical advice, and an engaging look at how to make the most of what makes you and your partner unique. Plus, get some fun food tips and hear about their latest cravings!
00:00 Introduction and Snow Day Vibes
01:03 Marriage Devotional Insights
02:07 Seasonal Enjoyments and Dislikes
07:50 Powerlifting Aspirations and Sponsorship Ideas
11:47 Embracing Differences in Relationships
17:27 Reflecting on Leadership and Organization
19:22 Balancing Perfectionism and Practicality
20:30 Navigating Household Responsibilities
23:49 Embracing Adventure and Planning
29:32 Fearless Conversations and Conflict Resolution
33:14 Growth Through Marriage and Work
38:02 Encouragement for Married Couples
41:50 Conclusion and Listener Engagement
Navigating Marriage and Career Transitions | Slightly Off Script: The Marriage ShowIn this episode of 'Slightly Off Script: The Marriage Show,' hosts Bethany and Andy Needham dive deep into the challenges and lessons learned from Bethany's first year back in the workforce full-time. Join them as they discuss the surprising skills Bethany discovered, the importance of balancing career and home life, and the unique environment of working in the drug and alcohol recovery field. Listen to their candid conversation about sustaining a healthy marriage through career changes, and how their faith plays a crucial role in navigating this new season in their lives.
Order Slightly Off Script Merch (including the Bethany Needham Band)00:00 Introduction to the Marriage Show00:35 Setting Up the Studio01:12 Weekly Highlights and Market Basket Story02:44 Fall Hangouts and Food Talk03:49 Interview with Bethany: Returning to the Workforce09:47 Transition Challenges and Personal Growth16:56 Entering the Recovery Coaching Field17:37 Reflections on the Recovery Community19:38 Personal Reflections on Capital Recovery20:28 Overview of the Partial Hospitalization Program21:25 Transitioning into a New Role22:21 Learning the Ropes in Recovery Coaching23:54 Navigating Language Barriers in Recovery26:37 Building Trust and Leadership30:30 Balancing Faith and Professional Life33:29 Coping with Loss in the Recovery Field39:36 Marriage and Career Transitions42:38 Closing Remarks and Future Plans
In this episode of 'Slightly Off Script, the Marriage Show,' hosts Bethany and Andy Needham explore the importance of supporting each other's dreams and aspirations within a marriage. They discuss a variety of dreams ranging from big life-changing decisions, such as Andy going full-time with his band, to smaller everyday ambitions like Bethany's passion for home decor. The conversation highlights the importance of communication, mutual support, and balancing one’s ambition with the needs of the marriage. With humorous anecdotes and insightful reflections, they delve into how they navigate these waters together, even touching on their personal experiences and upcoming dreams. Tune in for a heartfelt and entertaining discussion that proves marriage can indeed be 'stupid good and wicked fun.'
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00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview
00:30 Meet the Hosts: Bethany and Andy
01:10 Soup Talk and Studio Upgrades
03:11 Life Updates and Busy Seasons
03:51 Late Night Softball Adventures
06:09 Supporting Each Other's Dreams
08:52 Podcast Beginnings: The Story of 'Hey Girl'
12:37 Going Full-Time with the Band
15:53 Balancing Marriage and Individual Dreams
18:12 Reflecting on New England and Passion
20:12 Balancing Everyday Aspirations in Marriage
21:16 Navigating Support and Materialism
24:20 Finding Joy in Shared and Individual Interests
26:49 Communicating and Balancing Commitments
32:01 Dreams and Future Aspirations
35:51 Concluding Thoughts and Appreciations
In this week's episode of Slightly Off Script, the Marriage Show, hosts Bethany and Andy Needham dive into the topic of maintaining a deep connection in marriage, especially during life’s busiest seasons. From sharing personal anecdotes and discussing their own routines, to providing practical tips for intentionality, meal prep, and managing commitments, this episode offers valuable insights on keeping the marital fire alive amidst the chaos. Join Bethany and Andy as they share their experiences, humorous moments, and actionable advice to help ensure that your marriage remains 'stupid good and wicked fun,' even when life gets hectic.
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00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview
00:41 Meet the Hosts: Bethany and Andy
01:52 Family Updates and Weekend Recap
02:17 Navigating School and Student Teaching
04:34 Preaching at Loon Mountain Ministries
05:05 Debate Over Common Phrases
08:07 Maintaining Marital Connection
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10:56 Intentional Planning and Scheduling
14:35 Short-term Solutions for Busy Seasons
17:13 Balancing Commitments and Saying No
17:55 Balancing Commitments and Avoiding Burnout
18:22 Outsourcing and Setting Boundaries
19:51 Saying No to Non-Essential Tasks
20:30 Guarding Your Marriage
21:13 Auditing Your Commitments
22:08 Work-Life Balance Strategies
27:12 Involving Family in Daily Routines
29:56 The Importance of Getaways
33:10 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
Welcome to Season 2 of the Slightly Off Script podcast! In this episode, hosts Bethany and Andy Needham share their summer adventures, including hilarious moments, vacation highlights, and their favorite new hobbies. Listen as they discuss their cooking quests, powerlifting competitions, and their experience seeing Nate Bargatze and Ben Rector. The couple also delves into how they balanced work, life, and faith while fostering community and play. Don't miss the heartwarming story of them performing at Bethany's workplace and much more. Tune in for a fun and relatable discussion on marriage and life!
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00:00 Welcome to Season Two!
00:15 Audio-Only Format Explained
00:34 Summer Recap and Fun Moments
05:14 Pizza Oven Adventures
09:58 Powerlifting and Achievements
13:25 Invisalign Journey
14:50 Summer Vacation Highlights
15:40 Memorable Moments at the Cottage
16:11 Foggy Morning Moose Encounter
18:32 Summer Adventures and City Escapades
19:53 Dining Experiences in Boston
20:56 Concerts and Community
24:19 Ministry and Music at the Recovery Center
30:09 Looking Ahead: New Rhythms and Challenges
31:50 Wrapping Up and Future Plans
Join Bethany and Andy Needham for a special Road Trip Edition of Slightly Off Script! In this episode, they share their summer adventures, including road trips, family vacations, and a few unexpected moments on the road. Hear about Andy's solo travels with their kids, Bethany's summer activities, and their personal reflections on marriage and life's challenges. Plus, they discuss what's on their summer bucket list and what God has been teaching them lately. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, laughs, and a glimpse into their busy lives!00:00 Introduction and Road Trip Edition00:00 Introduction and Road Trip Edition00:45 Marriage Dynamics and Driving Habits00:45 Marriage Dynamics and Driving Habits02:20 Funny Stories and Traffic Stops02:20 Funny Stories and Traffic Stops04:09 Summer Activities and Family Trips04:09 Summer Activities and Family Trips10:10 Lessons from God and Personal Growth10:10 Lessons from God and Personal Growth15:03 Balancing Work and Marriage15:03 Balancing Work and Marriage19:12 Summer Bucket List and Vacation Plans19:12 Summer Bucket List and Vacation Plans23:11 Conclusion and Upcoming Events23:11 Conclusion and Upcoming Events
In this week's episode of Slightly Off Script, Bethany and Andy Needham dive into their recent trip to Texas, sharing stories about Texas pride and their culinary adventures with BBQ and tacos. They also discuss their upcoming summer plans, including a special 'Summer Road Trip' podcast series and a family vacation to Maine. Tune in for a light-hearted reflection on their podcast journey, anecdotes from their travels, and what to expect in the upcoming months!
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00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview
00:22 Meet the Hosts: Bethany and Andy
02:01 Travel Tales: Texas Adventures
04:19 Exploring Meow Wolf: An Immersive Experience
06:33 Texas Cuisine: BBQ and Tacos
08:26 Podcast Retrospective and Future Plans
10:54 Focusing on Community
11:36 Summer Plans and Outdoor Adventures
12:09 Popular Podcast Episodes and Listener Engagement
14:09 Memorable Moments and Surprises
15:50 Summer Road Trip Series Announcement
18:27 Summer Activities and Personal Goals
20:34 Family Trips and Personal Time
23:34 Gratitude and Apologies
Join Bethany and Andy Needham on this engaging episode of 'Slightly Off Script, the Marriage Show' as they tackle the importance of boundaries in marriage. They begin with a playful acknowledgment of their own off-script moments, seamlessly transitioning into a deep dive on the concept of boundaries across four significant aspects: community, authenticity, mission, and play. They share personal insights, practical advice, and some humorous anecdotes on how maintaining boundaries can lead to a healthier, more balanced married life. From discussing intentional and interruptible quiet times, to the importance of margin in relationships, to setting realistic goals for play and restorative rest, this episode has it all. Don't miss out on their valuable tips and reflections to help foster a thriving marital life.
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00:00 Welcome to Slightly Off Script
00:48 Boy Bands and Pop Culture
02:29 Hair and Health Updates
04:35 Boundaries in Marriage
08:16 Community and Relationships
20:15 Authenticity and Efficiency
24:19 Embracing Interruptions in Spiritual Life
25:07 Creating Margin in Busy Seasons
25:53 The Importance of Setting Boundaries
27:25 The Power of Self-Inventory and Questions
28:39 Navigating Resistance in Relationships
29:55 Balancing Mission and Personal Walk with God
30:42 The Trap of Works-Based Faith
36:18 Restorative Play and Its Importance
42:15 Practical Tips for Intentional Fun
46:14 Conclusion and Listener Engagement
In this episode of Slightly Off Script, the Marriage Show, hosts Bethany and Andy Needham navigate the lighter and more profound aspects of marriage. They humorously discuss a typical day of yard work that led to reflections on communication and mutual understanding. The conversation delves into the serious topic of marital drift, examining its causes, signs, and preventive measures. They emphasize the importance of regular maintenance, setting guardrails, and sometimes seeking emergency help to maintain a healthy and fulfilling marriage. The episode offers insights into recognizing emotional, physical, intellectual, and spiritual indicators of drifting and provides practical advice on how to address and prevent these issues.
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00:00 Introduction and Mulching Mishaps
01:31 Mansplaining to Manslaughter
05:28 Marriage Conversations and Divorce
08:26 The Drift in Marriages
10:56 Causes of Drift
22:03 Unhealed Wounds and Therapy
26:10 Understanding Dashboard Indicators in Marriage
28:42 Mind: Intellectual Health in Marriage
34:07 Body: Physical Affection and Intimacy
36:14 Soul: Emotional Health and Vulnerability
39:34 Spirit: Spiritual Health and Connection
41:01 Maintenance, Guardrails, and Emergency Measures
50:33 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
Welcome to another episode of 'Slightly Off Script: The Marriage Show' with your hosts Bethany and Andy Needham. In this episode, we explore the concept of empowerment in marriage, discussing how couples can support each other's dreams, navigate failures, and celebrate successes. We also delve into the practicalities of managing household responsibilities, shared financial decisions, and balancing personal interests like powerlifting and baseball park visits with family priorities. Tune in to hear real-life stories of how communication, appreciation, and mutual support contribute to a thriving partnership.
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00:00 Introduction and Hosts' Banter
00:55 Middle Age Musings and Health
01:30 Spring Activities and Tattoos
05:57 Empowering Each Other in Marriage
08:15 Marriage on Mission
12:03 Shared Responsibilities at Home
16:18 Empowerment in Vocation and Ministry
25:10 Balancing Passion Projects and Primary Ministry
25:42 Navigating Challenges and Learning Together
27:02 Supporting Each Other's Dreams and Failures
30:29 Defining Success and Enjoying the Process
32:22 Celebrating Wins and Verbal Affirmations
34:26 Checking In and Serving Each Other
35:38 Family Memories and Supportive Relationships
37:39 Powerlifting and Mutual Support
39:53 Home Investments and Unexpected Challenges
45:18 Empowerment and Mutual Sacrifice in Marriage
In this episode of Slightly Off Script, hosts Bethany and Andy Needham discuss the ups and downs of marriage while tackling personal and health challenges. Join them as they navigate through emotional detachment, frustration, and mismatched expectations, sharing their experiences with honesty, humor, and love. With anecdotes about Pilates classes, doctor visits, and unexpected connections, Bethany and Andy emphasize the importance of communication, small moments of affection, and staying united as a team in difficult times. Tune in for a heartfelt and insightful conversation that reminds us all that marriage, while sometimes stupid, can be profoundly rewarding and wickedly fun.
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00:00 Introduction and Hosts' Banter
00:58 Andy’s Pastoral Encounter
02:26 Bethany’s Pilates Experience
06:57 Medical Challenges and Frustrations
12:56 Navigating Weariness in Marriage
21:22 Emotional Detachment in Relationships
21:52 Guilt and Guarding in Marriage
22:50 Sharing Discomfort Unequally
23:23 Resentment and Victim Mode
25:15 Healthy Communication and Boundaries
31:46 Balancing Checking In and Giving Space
34:54 Micro Moments of Connection
38:39 Lament and Joy Mingled Together
41:47 Sticking Together Through Challenges
45:10 Final Thoughts and Farewell
Join hosts Bethany and Andy Needham on this episode of 'Slightly Off Script: The Marriage Show' as they dive into the complexities of new season and expectations around sex. They delve into sensitive yet essential topics like intimacy, God's design for marriage, and the importance of open, honest communication. Expect practical advice, heartfelt stories, and lots of humor. Don't forget to check out their new merchandise and stay tuned for an exciting giveaway announcement!
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00:00 Welcome to Slightly Off Script
00:27 Playful Banter and Mr. Universe
01:31 Weather Woes and Live Podcast Questions
03:03 Dream Destinations and Fun Activities
03:54 Emoji Descriptions and Daily Joys
07:22 Memories and Parenting Phases
13:40 Empty Nest and Relationship Dynamics
23:41 Balancing Ministry and Personal Time
24:29 Recalibrating Relational Rhythms
24:35 Embracing New Opportunities in Marriage
25:40 The Importance of Open Communication
26:14 Defining Marriage Values
27:30 Navigating Intimacy in an Empty Nest
29:29 The Role of Intimacy in Marriage
32:26 Honest Conversations About Intimacy
38:11 Humor and Flexibility in Marriage
38:52 Managing Expectations and Health in Intimacy
47:55 Merchandise and Podcast Wrap-Up
In this episode Bethany and Andy share a series of unexpected events from their daily lives, including a shattered car window mishap that leads to an intriguing police investigation. Bethany interviews Dr. Sandra Dalton-Smith, a rest expert, who provides an in-depth look into the seven types of rest and how they impact our lives, marriages, and families. This conversation offers valuable insights into identifying and addressing various rest deficits, making it a must-listen for anyone feeling overwhelmed by life's demands.
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00:00 Introduction to the Marriage Show
01:47 Bethany's Pilates Adventure
02:36 The Mystery of the Smashed Window
04:33 Dealing with the Aftermath
11:23 A Favor Gone Wrong
14:45 Special Episode on Rest
15:55 Interview with Dr. Sandra Dalton Smith
17:13 Introduction to Rest and Burnout
17:51 The Seven Types of Rest
18:13 Physical and Mental Rest Explained
19:40 Spiritual and Emotional Rest
21:14 Social, Sensory, and Creative Rest
25:27 Rest Strategies for Families and Couples
32:15 Practical Tips for Identifying and Addressing Rest Deficits
38:03 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
42:10 Podcast Outro and Personal Anecdotes
Join hosts Bethany and Andy Needham on 'Slightly Off Script' as they dive into the intersection of marriage and physical health. In this episode, they explore how staying physically active and maintaining good health can positively impact your relationship. From discussing their own fitness journeys to sharing practical tips on nutrition, exercise, and overall wellness, Bethany and Andy provide valuable insights for couples at any stage of their health journey. They emphasize keeping things simple and sustainable, recognizing the impact of hormones, stress, and seasonal life changes, and offer advice on being supportive partners in each other's fitness goals. Tune in for an engaging blend of personal anecdotes, humor, and real-life strategies to build a stronger, healthier marriage.
00:00 Introduction to the Show
00:53 The Guitar Story
02:18 Andy’s Minor Surgery
05:46 Health and Wellness Discussion
09:24 Bethany’s Diet Confessions
15:25 Addressing Root Causes of Health Issues
20:30 Investing in Health
22:10 Personal Fitness Journey
23:23 Investing in Health
26:40 Finding the Right Fitness Routine
30:42 Women and Weightlifting
34:51 Supporting Each Other in Fitness
36:48 Balancing Exercise and Rest
39:02 Mental Health and Fitness
42:05 Setting Realistic Fitness Goals
45:22 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
Join Bethany and Andy Needham in this episode of 'Slightly Off Script,' as they navigate the complexities of marriage and parenting. Despite technical difficulties and humorous surprises, including a playful introduction of 'Bethany Needham Band' merchandise, the couple dives deep into the realities of raising kids while maintaining a strong marriage. They discuss the pressures and expectations from themselves and others, the importance of repentance and forgiveness, and their dedication to 'marriage first parenting.' Tune in for heartfelt reflections, practical advice, and a reminder to walk in grace as imperfect parents.
00:00 Introduction and Host Banter
00:47 Technical Difficulties and Worship Leading
02:58 The Bethany Needham Band Reveal
08:44 Parenting Reflections and Expectations
16:13 Navigating Family Affirmation
16:59 Dealing with Social Media and Parenting Expectations
18:59 Parenting Through Imperfections
23:22 Handling Children's Behavioral Issues
27:11 Owning Mistakes and Apologizing to Kids
35:55 Balancing Marriage and Parenting
40:30 Grace-Filled Imperfect Parenting
43:23 Closing Thoughts and Merchandise
Join hosts Bethany and Andy Needham for a special live recording of 'Slightly Off Script, the Marriage Show' from Jaffrey, New Hampshire. In this episode, the couple tackles a variety of audience-submitted questions about marriage dynamics, including balancing family values, handling young children without reliable childcare, and navigating through serious conflicts. The episode also delves into the importance of community and professional counseling in maintaining a healthy relationship. With anecdotes, personal experiences, and a lot of humor, Bethany and Andy offer practical advice and heartfelt insights into what makes a marriage both challenging and rewarding. Don't miss their first-ever live studio audience experience filled with laughs, honesty, and valuable lessons.
00:00 Welcome to the Marriage Show
00:59 Live Studio Audience Fun
02:26 Q&A Begins: Unique Questions
04:00 Marriage Values and Family
08:26 Date Nights with Young Kids
14:28 Handling Serious Marital Issues
23:06 Roles and Responsibilities in Marriage
28:51 Parenting Teenagers
32:44 Closing Remarks
Welcome to 'Slightly Off Script,' the marriage show where hosts Bethany and Andy Needham explore the entertaining and meaningful aspects of married life. In this episode, Bethany and Andy dive into the topic of differences within a relationship, sharing how their unique traits complement each other and sometimes create friction. Through humorous and insightful conversations, they discuss empathy, organization, adventure, spontaneity, and the importance of hard conversations. They also highlight how appreciating and celebrating each other's differences can strengthen the bond between partners. Tune in for relatable anecdotes, practical advice, and an engaging look at how to make the most of what makes you and your partner unique. Plus, get some fun food tips and hear about their latest cravings!
00:00 Introduction and Snow Day Vibes
01:03 Marriage Devotional Insights
02:07 Seasonal Enjoyments and Dislikes
07:50 Powerlifting Aspirations and Sponsorship Ideas
11:47 Embracing Differences in Relationships
17:27 Reflecting on Leadership and Organization
19:22 Balancing Perfectionism and Practicality
20:30 Navigating Household Responsibilities
23:49 Embracing Adventure and Planning
29:32 Fearless Conversations and Conflict Resolution
33:14 Growth Through Marriage and Work
38:02 Encouragement for Married Couples
41:50 Conclusion and Listener Engagement
In this episode of Slightly Off Script, Bethany and Andy bring levity and laughter while diving deep into the importance of investing in marriage. They reminisce about quirky past moments and share candid conversations about their relationship dynamics. Additionally, they discuss community, authenticity, mission, and play, revealing their strategies for maintaining a strong and fun marriage. Tune in for tips on how to create intentional connections, embrace the art of hospitality, and find joy in simple getaways. From humorous anecdotes to heartwarming insights, this episode is a reminder that marriage can indeed be 'stupid good and wicked fun.
00:00 Introduction and Opening Banter
01:13 Snowstorm and Winter Talk
03:58 Investing in Your Marriage
04:32 Surprise Questions Game
05:14 Memorable Moments and Hairstyles
11:19 Food Preferences and Fun Questions
18:19 Public Restroom Woes
18:57 Investments in Marriage
19:46 Creating a Hospitable Home
21:03 Fire Pit Conversations
23:54 Bible Study Date Nights
25:06 Authenticity in Marriage
26:37 Therapy and Wise Counsel
27:47 Morning Check-ins
29:36 Open Access and Accountability
32:45 Serving Together3
6:33 Bedroom Upgrades
40:17 Intentional Getaways
40:56 Cruising and Relaxation
44:37 Final Thoughts and Farewell
