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Secure Marriage Podcast
Paul & Shannon Elmore
300 episodes
2 months ago
Marriage can be tough—miscommunication, constant arguments, feeling distant, or struggling to rebuild trust after a breakdown can leave couples feeling hopeless. On the Secure Marriage Podcast, retired Professional Counselor, Paul Elmore and his wife, Shannon, draw from 30 years of marriage and 20 years of counseling experience to help you fight less, understand each other more, and rekindle intimacy. Whether you're navigating conflict or just want a stronger connection, their proven Secure Marriage Framework provides simple, actionable solutions. Listen, share, and subscribe to transform your relationship today!
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Marriage can be tough—miscommunication, constant arguments, feeling distant, or struggling to rebuild trust after a breakdown can leave couples feeling hopeless. On the Secure Marriage Podcast, retired Professional Counselor, Paul Elmore and his wife, Shannon, draw from 30 years of marriage and 20 years of counseling experience to help you fight less, understand each other more, and rekindle intimacy. Whether you're navigating conflict or just want a stronger connection, their proven Secure Marriage Framework provides simple, actionable solutions. Listen, share, and subscribe to transform your relationship today!
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Episodes (20/300)
Secure Marriage Podcast
Why You Get Defensive When You Hear “You’ve Hurt My Feelings”

Why do we immediately put up walls when someone says ‘You’ve hurt my feelings’?



In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, you’ll discover the psychological reason behind this universal response and learn a simple but powerful reframe that can transform these vulnerable moments into opportunities for deeper intimacy. This insight completely changed how Shannon and I handle hurt feelings—and it will change your marriage too.
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3 months ago
20 minutes 23 seconds

Secure Marriage Podcast
This Simple Trick Will Make Your Spouse Happier

Want to make your spouse smile more, without grand gestures or big talks? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I share the surprisingly simple trick that shifted the tone in our own marriage (and no, it’s not what you think). You’ll hear how this one small change can create big happiness at home—and how you can try it today. Don’t miss it!
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4 months ago
14 minutes 38 seconds

Secure Marriage Podcast
343: When should you start seeing progress in marriage therapy?

If you’re feeling stuck or wondering if your marriage therapy is even working, this is the episode where we break down the hidden signs of progress most couples miss, share why slow growth is often the best kind, and reveal what to do if things feel stagnant. Don’t give up too soon—tune in and discover what breakthrough might be just around the corner!
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8 months ago
25 minutes 11 seconds

Secure Marriage Podcast
342: Doing THIS Creates The Deepest Connection

Ever wonder what truly creates the deepest connection in a relationship? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I unpack the one practice that can completely transform how you and your spouse relate to each other.



Drawing from my twenty years as a marriage therapist and thirty two years from our own marriage we’ll share a simple approach that builds intimacy, trust, and understanding like nothing else. You won’t want to miss these game-changing insights!
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9 months ago
21 minutes 21 seconds

Secure Marriage Podcast
341: Don’t Let Comparison Become the Cancer in Your Relationship

If you’re not careful, comparison can creep in and quietly start sabotaging your relationship. In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I dive into how measuring your relationship against yourself can erode trust, intimacy, and connection. Find out why comparison is more toxic than you think, how to stop it in its tracks, and how to protect your relationship from this silent killer.
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9 months ago
20 minutes 4 seconds

Secure Marriage Podcast
340: Stop Chasing: How to Rebuild Attraction During a Marriage Separation

Are you in the middle of a marriage separation? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I talk about the one thing that’s pushing your spouse further away—and how to rebuild attraction the right way. Even though some of our suggestions are counterintuitive, we’ll show you how to focus on becoming the healthiest version of yourself and create the kind of transformation that draws your spouse back naturally. If you’re feeling lost, we hope this episode will give you a roadmap to hope and healing.
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9 months ago
14 minutes 1 second

Secure Marriage Podcast
339: Why Your Husband Thinks Your Feelings Are Always Wrong

Feeling dismissed when you try to share your emotions with your husband? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I unpack why your husband thinks your feelings are the “wrong” feelings—and, more importantly, how the two of you can bridge the gap. Our hope is that we can help you turn frustration into deeper connection and understanding and this transformative conversation will change how you communicate forever.
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9 months ago
30 minutes 50 seconds

Secure Marriage Podcast
Husbands, Stop Trying To Fix Your Wife

Does your wife just want to vent, but you can’t resist jumping in to fix things? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I tackle why your ‘helpful’ solutions might be backfiring—and what to do instead. Discover the surprising secret to truly supporting your wife, strengthening your connection, and avoiding unnecessary conflict. This game-changing insight will transform how you show up in your marriage!
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10 months ago
24 minutes 9 seconds

Secure Marriage Podcast
Six Steps to Fix A Struggling Marriage

Is your marriage feeling more like a battleground than a partnership? On this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I share the six simple steps that helped us rebuild trust, improve communication, and rediscover joy in our relationship. If your marriage feels stuck, we hope this episode offers a roadmap to lasting change.
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11 months ago
31 minutes 7 seconds

Secure Marriage Podcast
Strengthen Your Relationship: How to Work Together as a Team

“Do you and your spouse struggle to tackle challenges as a team? In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Paul & Shannon share how they’ve learned to align their strengths and overcome ‘me versus you’ mindsets in their marriage. Discover the simple strategies that helped them turn conflict into collaboration—and how you can too!”
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11 months ago
22 minutes 7 seconds

Secure Marriage Podcast
7 Magic Questions to Make You An Empathetic Husband

If you’re a husband that struggles to emotionally connect with your wife, you’re going to want to download our 7 Magic Questions for Husbands. These questions will help you find the right words at the right time so your wife will feel loved and cared for.
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11 months ago
21 minutes 24 seconds

Secure Marriage Podcast
My Wife Doesn’t Like Sex. Should I leave?

It’s been a little bit since our last podcast episode, but… we’re back.



In this episode, we delve into the complexities of intimacy, marriage expectations, and what might really be behind a wife’s lack of desire. Listen in as we offer surprising insights and actionable steps that could save a struggling marriage—and even reignite the passion you thought was lost. It’s our hope that this episode challenges assumptions and provides real hope for couples at a crossroads.
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11 months ago
20 minutes 41 seconds

Secure Marriage Podcast
I Don’t Feel Like I’m Important To My Husband

Once again, I’ve been an imperfect husband. Unknowingly, over the last several months, I’ve been doing something that has made my wife feel unloved and unimportant. In today’s podcast, you’ll hear us work through the issue together, and see what it looks like to get reconnected again.
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1 year ago
21 minutes

Secure Marriage Podcast
Supporting Your Spouse’s Wild Ideas

Sometimes, my wife comes up with some CRAZY dreams and ideas. It’s in those moments that my true character as her husband is revealed.



On today’s podcast, you’ll hear about Shannon’s latest “adventure” and what a joy it was being her biggest cheerleader (minus the pom poms).
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1 year ago
18 minutes 14 seconds

Secure Marriage Podcast
2024 Marriage Cruise Recap

Want to work on having a happier marriage while enjoying the beautiful blue waters and white sandy beaches of the Caribbean? Listen in on the conversations from the couples who went on our 2024 Secure Marriage Cruise and hear how their marriages have changed for the better.
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1 year ago
17 minutes 22 seconds

Secure Marriage Podcast
My Friend is Having An Affair? What Do I Do?

Ever had to make a decision which is guaranteed to make at least one person angry, and there’s absolutely nothing you can do to get out of it?



On today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’ll give you crystal clear instructions on what to do if your friend tells you they’re having an affair, but doesn’t want you to tell their spouse. Buckle up.
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1 year ago
20 minutes 9 seconds

Secure Marriage Podcast
Did my Husband Sabotage My Birthday?

What are you supposed to think (or do)when you’ve told your husband for years that you want to be celebrated on your birthday, and he still completely forgets or does lame last-minute things? That’s what we’re tackling on today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast.



P.S. We’re also taking a painful walk down memory lane and talking about some of the ways I hurt Shannon because of my deep lack of self-awareness.
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1 year ago
38 minutes 41 seconds

Secure Marriage Podcast
How to Melt Your Wife’s Heart Through the Power of Empathy

Do you know how to get emotionally reconnected after a fight? In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’ll walk you through the secret recipe you need to know that will make your wife’s heart melt with love and affection.
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1 year ago
20 minutes 36 seconds

Secure Marriage Podcast
Yelling at Your Wife and Kids is ALWAYS a Bad Idea

We understand that you get frustrated with your wife and kids at times. But losing control and blowing up on your family does damage that can last for years.



In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’ll look at why losing your temper is actually causing more problems than it’s solving, and the two times it’s actually okay to express really strong emotions at your spouse or children.  
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1 year ago
27 minutes 2 seconds

Secure Marriage Podcast
Don’t Let Shame Destroy Your Relationship

If you spend a lot of time beating yourself up internally, chances are you’re pretty critical of everyone else around you, including your spouse. 



On today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’re exploring how shame becomes a toxic element in your relationship and why it’s important to become the healthiest version of yourself.
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1 year ago
28 minutes 49 seconds

Secure Marriage Podcast
Marriage can be tough—miscommunication, constant arguments, feeling distant, or struggling to rebuild trust after a breakdown can leave couples feeling hopeless. On the Secure Marriage Podcast, retired Professional Counselor, Paul Elmore and his wife, Shannon, draw from 30 years of marriage and 20 years of counseling experience to help you fight less, understand each other more, and rekindle intimacy. Whether you're navigating conflict or just want a stronger connection, their proven Secure Marriage Framework provides simple, actionable solutions. Listen, share, and subscribe to transform your relationship today!