What does it really take to build wealth and live soft life without apology? In this episode, Jennifer (aka your Money Bestie) breaks down how she grew her $300K+ portfolio, why proximity and mentors accelerate success, and the truth about the provider vs 50/50 debate in relationships.
We also unpack beginner-friendly investing strategies (ETFs, dividends, index funds), what liquidity really means, and how to enjoy your money while still building long-term wealth.
💬 Do you believe in 50/50 or that a provider should always provide? Let’s talk.
🔗 LINKS & RESOURCES
‣ Explore Sabi Enjoy → https://sabienjoy.com
‣ Multiply Your Money → https://smartmoneymastery.co
‣ Follow Jennifer on IG → https://www.instagram.com/savvymoneygirl/
🎧 Listen on your favourite app → https://pod.link/1829335834
Want to get featured? Share your story, dilemma, or hot take → https://forms.gle/1nbJfzo6r1b5wWL68💬 Let’s Cruise TogetherIf this episode hit home, subscribe, comment your thoughts on the 50/50 debate, and share with someone who needs this conversation.
⏱️ TIMESTAMPS
[00:00] Cold open: money & relationships
[01:00] Meet Jennifer + her $300K portfolio
[03:05] How she started investing young
[05:10] Proximity > excuses (mentors, rooms, travel)
[07:45] Travel ROI: from airport story to contracts
[10:58] Paying for access: events, mentors & rooms
[16:10] Liquidity vs assets: cash when you need it
[18:35] First steps: savings → T-bills → dividends
[22:40] “Money changes your brain chemistry”
[26:55] Beginner ETF picks (UK & Canada)
[31:15] The provider vs 50/50 debate
[52:00] Cruise control: $55K vs $120K—what’s fair?
[59:10] Final takeaways + your next steps
What if heartbreak was your wake-up call?
In this episode, our guest, Tamilore Adewuyi, opens up about how his breakup set him on the path to content creation, business growth, and a total mindset shift.
From packing weed and driving Uber to quitting survival jobs and building a marketing agency, this is a raw, real story about discipline, vulnerability, and the cost of undervaluing your time.
It’s equal parts hilarious and healing.
Why some breakups are blessings in disguise
How survival jobs teach you more than you think
The $1,500 mistake that every immigrant should hear
Why your time is more expensive than you think
The unspoken pressure to “settle” in Canada
Creating your exit plan when no one’s clapping for you
🔗 Links & Resources
• Find Tamilore → @tamiloreadewuyi
• Group travel & experiences → sabienjoy.com
• Multiply your money → smartmoneymastery.co
🎧 Listen on your favourite platform → pod.link/1829335834
Got a story or dilemma to share? → Submit here
👇 Chapters
(00:00) Introduction
(04:46) From professor dreams to business pivot
(06:05) Why I started content creation
(07:35) Immigrants should value their time more
(09:02) The $1,500 passport mistake
(12:50) Breakup that changed everything
(18:00) Survival jobs: Uber, Door2Door Sales, Amazon
(24:30) “Canada won’t save you”
(36:20) Preparing to quit your 9-5
(41:50) Discipline vs will-power
(49:40) Cruise control - Listener letter: stuck in a “good” job
(54:10) Fun rapid fire + Sabi or No Sabi
💬 Let’s Cruise Together
If this episode hit home, follow Sabi Cruise, leave a quick review, and share it with a friend figuring out life abroad too.
Being “busy” isn’t always a badge of honour; sometimes it’s just burnout in disguise. In this episode, I sit down with Ken Ndubisi, a digital entrepreneur now building in Canada, to unpack what it really takes for immigrants to balance career, online business, and life without losing their peace.
We talk about:
Spotting the line between busy and burnt out
Setting your “enough number” (and sticking to it)
First-born pressure in immigrant families
Job vs business: which path actually works abroad?
Why online business isn’t a scam when done right
Habits and systems that keep us sane
This is for every immigrant hustling for more but also craving balance, soft life, and a sustainable future.
🔗 Links & Resources
🎧 Listen on Your Favourite Platform
Want to get featured? 👉 Share your story, dilemma, or hot take
💬 Let’s Cruise Together
If this episode hit home, don’t forget to follow, leave a quick review, and share it with someone navigating adulthood too.
⏱️ Highlights
0:00 Intro
2:21 Busy vs Burnout
7:10 The “Enough Number”
9:32 First-born Pressure
18:00 Job vs Business Abroad
37:03 Online Biz: Scam or Skill?
49:44 Habits That Beat Burnout
53:58 Rest & Recovery
In this episode of Sabi Cruise, I sit down with Oluwakemi Zabethakay to unpack what it really means to redefine success on your own terms.
From breaking free of societal expectations (career, marriage, house, kids) to embracing bold career pivots, this is a conversation for anyone who feels the pressure to follow “the script” but wants a softer, more authentic life.
✨ This one is packed with real talk, relatable stories, and practical gems.
🔗 Links & Resources
‣ Follow Kemi
‣ Explore Sabi Enjoy
‣ Multiply Your Money
🎧 Listen on Your Favourite Platform → Click Here
Want to get featured? Send your story, situation, or dilemma → Click Here
💬 Let’s Cruise Together → If this episode spoke to you, don’t forget to follow, rate the pod, and share with someone who needs a reminder that success doesn’t have to look the same for everyone.
⚡️ Timestamps
(0:00) Who appointed you in my OWN life?
(2:07) Introducing Oluwakemi: HR pro pivoting her path
(6:42) No career path is linear
(8:08) What ambition really means
(10:37) Contentment vs complacency
(15:03) Societal expectations and pressure to conform
(17:58) Redefining enjoyment and personal freedom
(21:33) Knowing when it’s time to pivot
(27:42) From ideas to execution
(33:42) Why perfectionism holds you back
(36:02) Dropping expectations and living authentically
(40:02) Cruise Control: paying boyfriend rent dilemma
(43:42) Rapid Q&A and Sabi or No Sabi game
What does it really take to chase your dreams while juggling career, friendships, and adulting? In this episode, Bisola and guest Barbara Arisekola get real about starting over as immigrants in Canada, pivoting careers, navigating friendships, and why embarrassment is the price of entry when chasing growth.From struggles with new immigrant life to setting boundaries, support systems, and the unspoken cost of adulting, this conversation is full of honesty, humour, and gems you don’t want to miss.
🔗 Links & Resources
‣ Barb's Brand (Use code WHIZ15) → https://www.producttmanual.com/
‣ Explore Sabi Enjoy → https://sabienjoy.com
‣ Multiply Your Money → https://smartmoneymastery.co
🎧 Listen on Your Favourite Platform → https://pod.link/1829335834
Want to get featured? Share your story, dilemma, or hot take → https://forms.gle/1nbJfzo6r1b5wWL68
💬 Let’s Cruise Together
If this episode hit home, don’t forget to subscribe, leave a quick review, and share it with someone navigating adulthood too.
⚡ Chapters
[0:00] Welcome & Catch up Chat
[1:07] Meet Barbara: Growth Strategist & Founder
[3:02] The Struggles of Being Multi-talented
[6:44] Friendships, Boundaries & People-Pleasing Truths
[11:28] The Immigrant Hustle: Starting Over in Canada
[14:20] Mentorship, Skills & Strategies That Work
[18:36] Embarrassment Is the Price of Entry
[33:32] Staying Focused to Save Your Energy
[35:14] Content Creation Is Not for the Weak
[43:58] Setting Expectations & Protecting Your Peace
[47:37] Rest, Soft Life & Finding Joy
[59:32] Rapid Q&A + Sabi or No Sabi Game
In this episode of Sabi Cruise, I’m joined by the amazing Mimi Ojieh for a raw and honest conversation about the money pressure immigrants face when they move to Canada.
We unpack everything from societal expectations to the subtle (and not-so-subtle) influence of social media; that silent push to buy the car, take the trips, or live a lifestyle that might not match your current reality.
We talk about resisting external pressure, whether it’s coming from friends, family, Instagram, or your own community (or self-inflicted), and how to stay grounded in your goals.
Share your thoughts below 👇
🎙️ Tune in and remember, abroad no be paradise.
🔗 Links & Resources:
🎧 Listen on Your Favourite Platform → Click Here
Want to get featured? Send your story, situation, or dilemma → Click Here
⚡️ Timestamps:
(00:00) Why We’re Talking About Money Pressure for Immigrants
(02:14) Mimi’s Journey: From Nigeria to Canada and First Impressions
(06:42) Hidden Costs of Starting Over Abroad
(10:55) Sapa No Dey Abroad: Reality of Financial Struggles Immigrants Face
(15:28) How Cultural Expectations Add to Money Pressure
(20:40) Adjusting Your Lifestyle Without Losing Yourself
(27:55) Job Hunting Abroad: Why It’s Harder Than People Think
(33:18) Setting Boundaries to Family Support Back Home
(40:02) Breaking the Silence on Financial Struggles in the Immigrant Community
(46:30) Final Advice for Immigrants Chasing Financial Stability
Welcome to the pilot episode of Sabi Cruise!
In this solo episode, host Bisola WhizQueen opens up about her personal journey with travel — not just as a form of enjoyment, but as a soft life practice, a healing ritual, and sometimes… lowkey an escape.
From burnout and rediscovering myself to figuring out how to fund trips without going broke, I’m sharing the real behind-the-scenes of why I travel so often, what it has taught me, and how you can do the same.
💬 Share your comments below. Let’s Cruise Together!
🔗 Links & Resources:
🎧 Listen on Your Favourite Platform → Click Here
Want to get featured? Send your story, situation, or dilemma → Click Here
⚡️ Timestamps:
(00:00) Welcome to Sabi Cruise
(01:11) What Soft Life Means to Me
(02:38) My Early Travel Days in Nigeria
(04:02) My First International Trip to Ghana
(06:30) Dubai and the Start of My Travel Story
(08:44) Why Travel Feels Like Freedom and My Dreams
(10:28) Thrill-Seeking and Adventure Travel
(13:33) Bungee Jumping & Devil’s Pool in Zambia
(19:16) Travelling Solo vs. Waiting for Others
(27:19) Funding Travel and Smart Money Tips
(33:14) Travel Safety and Smart Planning
(38:39) Cruise Control: Listener Letter on Couples & Travel Styles
(45:23) Fun Rapid-Fire Q&A
(49:01) Closing Thoughts and What’s Next
#Episode1 #PilotEpisode #SabiCruise
Sabi Cruise is the podcast where soft life meets real talk.
Hosted by Nigerian-Canadian creative and money educator Bisola WhizQueen, this bi-weekly show dives into the juicy stuff we rarely say out loud — from navigating adulthood and money moves to solo travel stories, culture convos, and living well on your own terms.
Whether you're folding laundry or sipping something sweet, Sabi Cruise feels like that voice note from your best friend: honest, warm, and lowkey transformative.
If you care about financial freedom, intentional living, and embracing soft life (with sense), this podcast is for you.
🎙️ New episodes every other week.
🎧 Available wherever you get your podcasts.
We speak softly. We live well. We sabi better.
