Have you ever given someone your best, only to realize you were just an afterthought to them? In this raw and honest conversation, I open up about the painful but necessary realization that not everyone we prioritize will prioritize us. I share lessons about self-worth, emotional exhaustion, and the power of choosing yourself without bitterness. If you’ve ever loved hard and felt overlooked, this one’s for you. It’s time to stop shrinking for people who can't see your full size. It’s time to come home to yourself.
In this soul-deep episode, we unpack one of the hardest truths about personal growth—sometimes, to truly fix yourself, you have to confront yourself. I talk about the inner war between who you’ve been and who you’re becoming, and why real transformation often feels like breaking before rebuilding. This is for anyone in the middle of healing, wrestling with resistance, or questioning why the path to peace feels so chaotic. It’s raw, reflective, and real.
Come sit with me. Let’s talk about the war within—and why it’s worth fighting.
In this soul-stirring episode, Kobina takes us into an unexpected moment of clarity — a quiet night, no lights, no distractions, just the weight of silence pressing in. What begins as a simple blackout unfolds into a deep conversation about self-worth, identity, and the way we hide behind noise and validation. This is not a story about solitude — it’s a return to self. Through personal reflection and vulnerable truth
A missed call reminded me of something we often forget—people need to be seen. In this episode, I talk about the power of being intentionally thoughtful in your relationships, even when life gets busy… even when people act like they don’t care. Because how you treat your circle shouldn’t be random. It should be on purpose.
Ever thought about how much your intentions actually shape your life? In this episode, we’re breaking down why the "why" behind your actions matters more than the action itself. From relationships to business, personal growth to spirituality, intention is the hidden force behind success, connection, and real impact. Are you moving with purpose, or just going through the motions? Let’s talk about it.
Ever wonder why some people find beauty in everything while others feel stuck in the ordinary? In this episode, we dive deep into the idea that life’s beauty is everywhere—but only if you allow yourself to see it. It’s not about chasing perfect moments; it’s about shifting your perspective. From everyday magic to the beauty hidden in struggle, we explore how changing the way you look at life can change everything.
Life gets hot—just like a busy kitchen. The pressure, the setbacks, the exhaustion—it’s all part of the process. But when people are waiting with their plates out, you don’t have the luxury to quit. In this episode, we talk about what it means to take full ownership of your journey, why no one is coming to do the work for you, and how to keep cooking even when the heat is unbearable. Let’s get into it.
We love to keep count—of wins, losses, and especially offenses. But what if forgiveness isn’t about numbers at all? In this episode, we dive into Jesus’ radical statement about forgiving seventy times seven and why it’s more than just a math problem. We’ll unpack what completion times completion really means, why holding onto grudges traps you, and how endless forgiveness is the key to true freedom. No clichés—just real talk on grace, healing, and letting go.
Why do people mock what they don’t understand? Why does every great person face doubt before they succeed? In this episode, we break down the truth about mockery, why it’s a test, and how avoiding it can cost you your destiny. If you’ve ever held back because of fear of criticism, this is your wake-up call. The world laughs before it applauds—so keep going until they have no choice but to respect you.
We love to celebrate the wins—the success, the glow-up, the big moment. But why don’t we ever talk about what it actually took to get there? The sacrifices, the self-doubt, the nights spent questioning everything. In this episode, we’re unpacking the real journey behind success—the struggle no one claps for, the pain we tend to ignore. Because maybe the journey deserves just as much respect as the destination.
Ever felt like you’re just getting by—barely making it through the day, handling one thing after another, and calling it a win just because you didn’t drown? That’s survival mode. And the wild part? When you’re stuck in it for too long, you start celebrating crumbs like they’re a whole feast. But what if you were never meant to survive? What if you were meant to thrive? In this episode, we’re breaking down why survival mode tricks you into settling and how to shift into a mindset of real abundance. It’s time to stop calling crumbs a buffet. Let’s talk.
In this raw, honest conversation, we explore the hidden weight of control—how our obsession to manage everything often backfires, leaving us stressed, trapped, and disconnected. From relationships to work and even self-control, we dive into real stories, personal realizations, and the surprising power of surrender. Sometimes, freedom isn’t found in holding on tighter but in daring to let go.
In this episode, we dive into the universal struggle of shame and uncover how humility holds the key to breaking free. We explore why shame thrives in secrecy, how pride keeps us trapped, and why embracing humility isn’t a sign of weakness but a pathway to growth, peace, and freedom. This is a candid conversation about letting go of perfection, confronting mistakes, and turning setbacks into stepping stones.
In this deeply personal and thought-provoking episode, we tackle a truth so many of us feel but rarely talk about: the exhausting pressure to prove our worth. Why do we tie our value to success, approval, or external achievements? And what happens when those things disappear? Together, we’ll explore the lies we’ve believed about our value, the unshakable truth about where it really comes from, and how embracing it can set you free. If you’ve ever questioned if you’re “enough,” this conversation is for you.
In this episode, we dive deep into a simple yet powerful truth: when you pray for rain, you’ve got to deal with the mud too. Join us as we unpack what it really means to embrace the blessings we ask for, while facing the challenges they bring. From career success to relationships and personal growth, we explore why the struggles aren’t setbacks—they’re stepping stones. Whether you’re in the middle of a messy season or just preparing for what’s next, this conversation will inspire you to see the mud not as a burden but as a necessary part of your journey. Get ready for some real talk about faith, resilience, and learning to appreciate the rain and the mud.
Ever feel like your biggest struggles aren’t what’s actually happening, but what you’re imagining in your head? In this episode, we dive into how our minds create unnecessary stress, how to spot when you’re overthinking, and why most of the things we fear never even happen. From real-life examples to practical ways to stay present, this is a heartfelt conversation about letting go of imaginary suffering and embracing what’s real.
Why is asking for help so hard? In this episode, we dive deep into the fears, misconceptions, and societal pressures that make us feel like we have to handle everything alone. But here’s the truth: asking for help isn’t giving up—it’s refusing to give up. Join us as we explore how vulnerability, connection, and support can transform our lives, reminding us that true strength comes from leaning on others.
In this episode, we’re having an honest conversation about something we all struggle with—self-doubt. Why do we hold ourselves back from pursuing our dreams? What stops us from taking that first step? Together, we’ll unpack the fears, comparisons, and limiting beliefs that keep us stuck. This is your reminder to silence the inner critic, embrace the process, and give yourself the chance to discover your full potential. If you’ve been waiting for the perfect time to start, this episode will help you realize that the time is now.
