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Right Where You Are
Khanyisa Twala
21 episodes
9 months ago

I share the big questions that are scratching my brain. Questions about what it means to be human, and how to create the best possible blueprint for being.

My main objective is to embrace my humanity by becoming present with every aspect of my human experience.

Learning to be (becoming) human is a wild journey; especially in a strange (dehumanising) society that seems to have forgotten, exploited and abandoned the human.

But I do believe the answers are there -

in love, in bearing witness, in community and in sovereignty and in freedom.


Welcome to Right Where You Are

by Khanyisa (Learner Human)

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I share the big questions that are scratching my brain. Questions about what it means to be human, and how to create the best possible blueprint for being.

My main objective is to embrace my humanity by becoming present with every aspect of my human experience.

Learning to be (becoming) human is a wild journey; especially in a strange (dehumanising) society that seems to have forgotten, exploited and abandoned the human.

But I do believe the answers are there -

in love, in bearing witness, in community and in sovereignty and in freedom.


Welcome to Right Where You Are

by Khanyisa (Learner Human)

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Episodes (20/21)
Right Where You Are
1. Back in business, baby (Season 3 Welcome)

Hey darling!

Welcome to Season 3 of RWYA. Let’s discuss the new ways that RWYA wants to show up in the world and what I have to offer in this new season.

Let’s talk business and my new desire to venture into the dimension of sale… exciting!


Love you loads

Khanyisa












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1 year ago
37 minutes 18 seconds

Right Where You Are
13. story of the moral (2/2)

Recapping and consolidating season 2🎁

I share a story of a break-up, heart-break (heart-opening) and a mental breakdown (breakthrough).

This is the story of the moral. I hope it gives life and relevance to the beautiful lessons season 2 has offered us.




learnerhuman.com












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1 year ago
59 minutes 16 seconds

Right Where You Are
12. story of the moral (1/2)

Recapping and consolidating season 2🎁

I share a story of a break-up, heart-break (heart-opening) and a mental breakdown (breakthrough).

This is the story of the moral. I hope it gives life and relevance to the beautiful lessons season 2 has offered us.







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1 year ago
32 minutes 4 seconds

Right Where You Are
11. Reading: Existential Kink by Carolyn Lovewell

Reading from Existential Kink by Carolyn Lovewell

Part 2 - Lesson 4 - Exercise 7 -

How to Feel Your Real Feelings (Not Your Fake Ones)


Get your free chapters of Existential Kink: https://carolynlovewell.com/#




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1 year ago
20 minutes 45 seconds

Right Where You Are
10. birth/life/death...

It's my birthday tomorrow!

And I'm thinking about how thin the lines between birth and death and life are

(and how the human tradition of birthday celebration is actually strange)


Journal entry: 12/07/2022 - We Living/Growing/Dying Beings


blogpost: We Living/Growing/Dying Beings


Love youuu<3



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1 year ago
13 minutes 10 seconds

Right Where You Are
9. Jesus take the wheel (you can't park the car there!)

"What if I give Jesus the wheel and we end up crashing?"


In this episode, I share the more chaotic side of the conversation around surrender. Don't be fooled into thinking it's all sunshine and daisies and you'll never suffer again. Instead, realise that the suffering of surrender might hurt less (and even be more magical) than the hurt of attachment/aversion. Pick your flavour...


[updated audio]


Learner Human (blog)

@learnerhuman (Instagram)

Buy Me A Coffee (Donate & show some love)









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2 years ago
24 minutes 44 seconds

Right Where You Are
8. Blessed are those f*cked by the Lord

"To open myself up to God is to invite the big orgasmic, electric current, wanting to happen in and through me"


On Jesus and St Teresa of Avila. On bearing witness to suffering and letting it pierce our hearts. On being the Second Coming of Jesus Christ.


[with music, sound effects, poetry and drama]


Learner Human (blog)

@learnerhuman (Instagram)

Buy Me A Coffee (Donate & show some love)











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2 years ago
31 minutes 52 seconds

Right Where You Are
7. "I am the corrupt politician"

Humans (unconsciously) desire pain, suffering, hatred and crime. The desire become extremely dangerous when it is unconscious.

And why is it unconscious? Because we pretend to be "civil/holy/clean" humans and end up discarding our "dirt"... to our own detriment.

[unscripted, raw and straight from my heart to yours]


"No one is just one person, you, for example, are both Cain and Abel"

-Josè Saramago, Cain (2009)


P.S: I was actually so afraid of speaking about this.



Learner Human (blog)

@learnerhuman (Instagram)

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2 years ago
48 minutes 59 seconds

Right Where You Are
6. Dirtiness is next to Godliness

"God is with me when I'm doom-scrolling on Instagram while taking a dump." God is with me always.


In this episode, we explore the idea of dirt as a cultural phenomenon that establishes order, power relations and cultural dynamic. In every culture, dirt is loathed, rejected and condemned. But what if dirt is natural, or it makes us who we are? What if Dirtiness is Next to Godliness?



Instagram: @learnerhuman

Blog: learnerhuman.com

To show your support/donate: Buy Me A Coffee

Love: you



References:

  • Mary Douglas - Purity and Danger (1966)
  • Michel Foucault - Discipline and Punish (1920)
  • Julia Kristeva - Abjection (concept mentioned in multiple works)
  • Carl Jung - The shadow (concept mentioned in multiple works)
  • Carolyn Lovewell - quoted from Facebook post, concept mentioned in Existential Kink (2020)
  • Yuval Noah Harari, Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind (2011)







All music sourced from Youtube Creative Library

Necessary Attributions:

Ambiment - The Ambient by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 licence. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100630

Artist: http://incompetech.com/

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2 years ago
42 minutes 56 seconds

Right Where You Are
5. earth is dizzy, the humans are spinning (2/2)

A call to love, even if it feels like the world is loveless and burning. An invitation to open your heart, even if it puts you and the risk of betrayal and crucifiction.

Because LOVE IS THE ANSWER. LOVE IS THE ANSWER. LOVE IS THE ANSWER.



Instagram: @learnerhuman

Blog: learnerhuman.com

Love: you



References:

  • George Simmel - The Metropolis (1903)







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2 years ago
28 minutes 59 seconds

Right Where You Are
4. not a vessel for spirit, a straw (2/2)

On surrender, letting go and letting life

•Some Jungian psychoanalysis

•Some Buddhist philosophy

•and Stoic teachings

•2 analogies about water

•and a journal entry







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Blog: https://learnerhuman.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/learnerhuman/




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2 years ago
29 minutes 24 seconds

Right Where You Are
3. not a vessel for spirit, a straw (1/2)

On surrender, letting go and letting life

  • Some Jungian psychoanalysis
  • Some Buddhist philosophy
  • and Stoic teachings
  • 2 analogies about water
  • and a journal entry.






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Blog: https://learnerhuman.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/learnerhuman/







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2 years ago
24 minutes 23 seconds

Right Where You Are
2. both are true (reconciling paradoxes)

Everything I said in episode 1 is true. And the opposite is also... true. Let's play a bit of devil's advocate and find ways to hold polar opposites as true in our hearts. Putting self-responsibility and self-compassion in one basket, creating a magical and revolutionary paradox.


[spontaneous, unscripted & straight from the heart]


People mentioned:

@ayandastood

@simplysayo

@peathefeary

(all on Instagram)


Enjoy💚🌍








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2 years ago
34 minutes 46 seconds

Right Where You Are
1. earth is spinning, the humans are dizzy (1/2)

Long time no see, my friends!

I am back from a much needed hiatus and we’re kicking off Season 2 with a huge caveat for whenever things get... political.

Let’s be honest, it’s quite difficult to observe the human condition and to be Right Where We Are without noticing that everything (and I mean e👏🏾ve👏🏾ry👏🏾thing👏🏾) is intrinsically connected to the realm of the socio-political. 

In this episode, we explore a new way of thinking/talking about politics that is not divisive and does not result in more conflict. This is a paradigm shifting perspective that can create the liberation we so deeply desire. 


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My blog-site: https://learnerhuman.com/

Show notes for this episode: https://learnerhuman.com/2023/07/11/earth-is-spinning/

Follow me on the gram for podcast updates and more conversations: @learnerhuman












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2 years ago
39 minutes 16 seconds

Right Where You Are
0. let's try again, yeah? (Season 2 babyyyyyy!!)

Hello! Welcome to season 2.

The theme for the season is Learner Human.


Because that is what I am. A Leaner Human. Awakening. Becoming. Being


I'm excited for what this journey holds for us


Sincerely

Khanyisa


(Excuse the mic movement noises. I needed to move my body in order to feel present with this process)










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2 years ago
6 minutes 37 seconds

Right Where You Are
6. Don't do your best

We did it Joe! We've come to the end of season 1 of RWYA... Or maybe we didn't do it Joe. Maybe it's too imperfect to let it come to an end. Are we really going to end the season off on episode 6? With only 3 "full" episodes, and another 3 episodes that basically say the same thing?

YES! Yes we are.


This episode is about allowing our creations to be imperfect, incomplete, messy and... human. We explore the importance of showing up imperfectly, in the fullness of our human expression.

In fact, this was the very lesson the spirit of Right Where You Are wanted to teach. And I'm grateful to have had that be the first.


To many more🥂

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2 years ago
27 minutes 59 seconds

Right Where You Are
5. Even if everybody listens (part 2)

This episode is a gesture of appreciation for you, beloved listener. Because in all of space, and all of time, with infinite possibilities... what were the chances that this podcast found you... Right Where You Are.



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2 years ago
11 minutes 56 seconds

Right Where You Are
{ honestly, let it bleed }

A poem.

An extension of episode 3. I believe in love. I believe in life. And I believe that opening is the way of life/love/god/yonk'into nje.


honesty, let it bleed

[ prod. AV, just a guy ]


Episode 4: Dare to live/love

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2 years ago
1 minute 30 seconds

Right Where You Are
2. SHAME ON YOU!

“SHAME ON YOU!” It seems the whole world is constantly screaming these words at us. “You are unworthy, invalid, inferior.”

This episode takes place at the gym, and I speak about shame and my theories on its origins in human history. I then add my take on it as an unhealthy and unnatural emotion, and definitely not an effective one.

This one’s long and filled with some academic references. I’ve added a bibliography below. I’ve also created a Guide on my Instagram (@khanyis.isibhakabhaka). Otherwise, enjoy. And feel free to shoot me a DM with your own opinions or arguments on this.

With love

Khan


Reference list

  • Ways of Seeing by John Berger

The video of the BBC production "Ways of Seeing" (Episode 2): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JU_RToLqOsA

  • Discipline and Punish : The Birth of the Prison by Michel Foucault
  • Visual Pleasure and Narrative Cinema by Laura Mulvey. pp. 6-18
  • Peter A Levine, PhD on Shame - Interview by Caryn Scotto D'Luzia: https://youtu.be/i2CN5nhmfxk

Not mentioned:

  • Performative Acts and Gender Constitution: An Essay in Phenomenology and Feminist Theory, by Judith Butler. Available: https://www.jstor.org/stable/3207893
  • Men, Women and Worthiness: The Experience of Shame and the Power of Being Enough by Bree Brown
  • The Diamond Net. Shame and the Shadow (Shame and Love Series 2): https://youtu.be/gfNLCNM4WJ8









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2 years ago
40 minutes 36 seconds

Right Where You Are
1. Take Up Space, Right Where You Are

This episode takes place in my bedroom, in my childhood home. We dive into the concept of taking up space and some of my philosophical takes on this phenomenon. I then share a bit of my own story on my decision to take up space by allowing my ideas and desires come to life, including the idea of this podcast.


With much love

Khanyisa


Don't forget to breathe

And welcome to Right Where You Are












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2 years ago
23 minutes 56 seconds

Right Where You Are

I share the big questions that are scratching my brain. Questions about what it means to be human, and how to create the best possible blueprint for being.

My main objective is to embrace my humanity by becoming present with every aspect of my human experience.

Learning to be (becoming) human is a wild journey; especially in a strange (dehumanising) society that seems to have forgotten, exploited and abandoned the human.

But I do believe the answers are there -

in love, in bearing witness, in community and in sovereignty and in freedom.


Welcome to Right Where You Are

by Khanyisa (Learner Human)

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