The concept of love languages is tossed around on social media frequently, and has permeated western culture - but to what cost? In this episode, host Sarah Stancombe is joined by expert Steven Ing, MFT to discuss better ways of understanding intimacy and communication. Steven Ing, MFT has 30 years of experience as a Marriage and Family Therapist, and helps people figure out how they can have healthy sexuality and intimacy. He has literally written the book on human sexual needs, We’re All Like This, used in university-level human sexuality classes. His books, articles, and public presentations create conversations about human sexuality that are safe...but not too safe. Steven Ing, MFT's insights have led to a humane take on our beautiful human sexuality and how all the rest of us can have ridiculously happy lives and sex lives too! Steven Ing, MFT is the creator and host of the true crime podcast, Sex Crime Central. He is also a contributor to Huffington Post, The Advocate, SheKnows.com, The Rage Monthly, Psychology today, and Gannett newspapers. A published author, TEDx Talk presenter (called “What’s Your Magic Sex Number?”), and a podcast guest who talks about sexuality in a way that won't embarrass you. Steven Ing, MFT is reframing an important conversation in society — one about the intelligent management of human sexuality. In this episode, Steven Ing, MFT dispels the myth that love languages are good for a relationship. They may in fact make one or both people feel trapped, or unable to express their love freely. The book published on love languages that promoted the now popular concept is not based in reality, and the author had no scientific background. Instead, humans should be free to express their love freely, as it is such a fluid experience.  Together, Sarah and Steven Ing, MFT discover the idea of managing sexuality intelligently - something that is essential to living a blissful life, rather than a catastrophic one. Sadly this is not taught widely enough, even though it affects every single human being.  View Steven Ing, MFT’s work on his website: stevening.com Steven Ing, MFT’s Psychology Today profile: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/contributors/steven-ing-mft Books by Steven Ing, MFT, accessible on Amazon:We’re All Like This: https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/1933975075?ref_=mr_referred_us_au_au Polliwog: https://www.amazon.com.au/Polliwog-Steven-Ing/dp/1960621017  Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs.  Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit http://re.lmsl.net/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs  You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgMAmazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255

In this episode of Reloscope, host Sarah Stancombe is joined by expert Sheila Kohler to discuss love languages and how cultures and time change how people view their relationship and experience love.  Sheila Kohler is the author of eleven novels, three collections of short stories and a memoir. Her work has been translated widely abroad and has been awarded many prizes including the O. Henry twice. She has taught creative writing at Princeton since 2007. She was a fellow at the Lewis B. Cullman Center for Scholars and Writers and a frequent visiting writer at the American Academy of Rome. She is writer in residence at the American Library in 2025. Her novel, “Cracks” has been filmed with Jordan Scott and Ridley Scott as directors and was recently reissued by Open Road. Open Road will republish six of her early novels in 2025. In this episode, Sheila Kohler tells some fascinating stories of her life experiences that illustrate how other people live and love together. Cultures are a big part in how people express love to their friends and family - what is acceptable may different vastly from culture to culture. Sheila Kohler also explains the two different types of love - one where you project what you romantically desire onto someone you barely know, and the other - getting to know someone deeply in a relationship, seeing their perspective on life, and having empathy for them. Together, Sarah and Sheila Kohler discover how people can better communicate during quarrels. Remember that many quarrels occur over trivial things. Do your best to communicate why you are experiencing a strong reaction to something, and put yourself in the other person's shoes. Sheila Kohler suggests roleplaying the quarrel as the other person, together. It will probably make you laugh, and provide an understanding of where the other person is coming from.  Visit Sheila Kohler’s work via the following links:Website: https://sheilakohler.com/about/Sheila Kohler’s publications, which can be purchased on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com.au/stores/Sheila-Kohler/author/B001JP7UOO?ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true Psychology today article: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dreaming-for-freud/201503/how-to-learn-the-language-of-loveConnect with Sheila Kohler via LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheila-kohler-3b2b241a/  Books mentioned in the episode, available on Amazon: La Vita Nuova by Dante: https://amzn.asia/d/015sUeH  Love in the Time of Cholera by Gabriel García Márquez:https://amzn.asia/d/azby8Tu  This Strange Eventful History by Claire Messud: https://amzn.asia/d/gnldYHq  The Pole by by J M Coetzee: https://amzn.asia/d/gghNtyELove in the Time of Cholera by Gabriel Garcia Marquez: https://www.amazon.com.au/Love-Cholera-Gabriel-Garcia-Marquez/dp/0241978920  Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs.  Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit http://re.lmsl.net/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbjaCqZj5gyYEBdnJL__VCQ     Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationships.science.labs/   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationships.science.labs/    Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs   LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationships-science-labs/  TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@relations.science.labs    You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationships-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM   Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f  iHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/102784435  Podbean: https://relationshipsscienceinsights.podbean.com/    PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/340180

In this episode of Reloscope we tackle the topic of jealousy from a psychological standpoint. It is something that everyone probably experiences at some stage in life, but that some people may need to manage more intentionally than others. Expert Mary Lamia, Ph.D. joins host Sarah Stancombe to discuss everything from triggers to real world examples of couples working through jealousy. Mary Lamia, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist, psychoanalyst, and professor, who works with adults, couples, adolescents, and preteens in the San Francisco Bay Area. Extending psychological knowledge to the public has been her endeavor for many years. Her opinion has been sought in hundreds of television, radio, and print media interviews and discussions, and for nearly a decade she hosted a weekly call-in talk show, KidTalk with Dr. Mary, on Radio Disney stations. She is a frequent media commentator, and blogs for Psychology Today and Thrive Global. She is an author and co-author, with six books of her own. In this episode, Mary Lamia, Ph.D. explains how many emotions are an evolutionary way of our mind protecting itself. She also describes the impact of shame, and how while it can present learning opportunities, it is often responded to in a defensive manner (which of course, is completely normal, and very human). Importantly, Mary Lamia, Ph.D. explains that jealousy in a relationship is born out of a rupture of interest, and most commonly a devaluation of self felt by one party.  Together, Sarah and Mary Lamia, Ph.D. discuss triggers and whether or not we should communicate them with others. It can be hard to continue a conversation if one party has been triggered by something that has been said. However, by opening the conversation up about the strong feeling that has been activated, progress can be made. Visit Mary Lamia, Ph.D.’s work on the following platforms:Website: marylamia.com Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/contributors/mary-c-lamia-phd  View her books on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com.au/stores/author/B001UES5SO  Connect with Mary Lamia, Ph.D. via LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mary-lamia-ph-d-4582b97/  Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs.  Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit http://re.lmsl.net/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbjaCqZj5gyYEBdnJL__VCQ     Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationships.science.labs/   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationships.science.labs/    Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs   LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationships-science-labs/  TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@relations.science.labs    You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationships-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM   Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f  iHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/102784435  Podbean: https://relationshipsscienceinsights.podbean.com/    PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809   Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationships-sc-4911255/episodes/recent  

Some are anxious, some are avoidant but in the end, everyone wants to have a secure attachment and a healthy relationship. This week on Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast, host Sabrina Oktavelia consults clinical psychologist Phoebe Rogers in understanding attachment styles in romantic relationships. Phoebe Rogers is an experienced Clinical Psychologist with a Master of Psychology (Clinical) from the University of Wollongong and a Graduate Diploma in Relationship Counselling. Specializing in CBT, ACT, and Schema Therapy, they work with individuals, couples, and families to navigate emotional challenges and create healthier relationship dynamics. After seeking a relationship coach for their own struggles, they discovered the transformative impact of Schema Therapy—an approach they now use to help others find love and fulfillment. In this episode, Phoebe Rogers sheds light on the reason behind the prominence of healthy attachment styles in successful relationships. Additionally, she delves into the effect of upbringing, dysregulated nervous systems and internal thoughts in the development of insecure attachment and the ways to unlearn those insecure attachments.  Together, Sabrina and Phoebe Rogers explore the various practices couples can incorporate into their daily lives, and discuss the habits to unlearn insecure attachment. So, tune in this week for an insightful episode teeming with expert advice on attaining a healthy attachment for your relationship! Visit Phoebe Roger’s work:Website: https://www.therelationshipspace.com.au/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/phoebe-rogers-17902886/  Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs.  Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit http://re.lmsl.net/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbjaCqZj5gyYEBdnJL__VCQ     Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationships.science.labs/   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationships.science.labs/    Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs   LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationships-science-labs/  TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@relations.science.labs    You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationships-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM   Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f  iHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/102784435  Podbean: https://relationshipsscienceinsights.podbean.com/    PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809   Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationships-sc-4911255/episodes/recent  

Intimacy doesn’t retire—it evolves. This week on Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella consults psychology researcher Ashley Macleod on the various ways in which sexual intimacy evolves with age, contrary to popular belief. With a robust background in health research and service improvement, Ashley Macleod has a passion for promoting social understanding through data-driven insights. Through her background in psychology, as well as her fervor for making knowledge accessible for all and recognizing the value in everyone’s unique experiences, Ashley Macleod has fortified her reputation as a strong advocate for others. Her research has involved health equity, sexuality throughout the lifespan, residential aged care, and more. In this episode, Ashley Macleod reveals that, as most individuals age, they grow more familiar with their sexual likes and dislikes, rendering more fulfilling connections on both an emotional and sexual level. To add, she sheds light on the various tools and solutions available for those with limited physical capabilities, be it mobility restrictions, skin fragility or pregnancy. Together, Marie and Ashley Macleod uncover a range of habits that offer support in maintaining sexual intimacy with age. So, whether you’re approaching your silver years or simply curious about the practicalities of your future romantic ventures, tune in for valuable perspectives and expert advice on embracing sexuality at every stage of life! Visit Ashley Macleod’s work on the following platforms: ORCID: https://orcid.org/0000-0002-4694-1768 The OASIS: https://www.facebook.com/TheOASISprojects/ Connect with Ashley Macleod via LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashmacleodphd/ Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs.  Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit http://re.lmsl.net/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabsLinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationships-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM   Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f  iHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/102784435  Podbean: https://relationshipsscienceinsights.podbean.com/    PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809   Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationships-sc-4911255/episodes/recent  

Whether it’s an inside joke or an evening tradition, rituals reinforce shared meaning between couples. This week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella consults couples therapist Zach Brittle, LMCH how rituals and shared meaning make or break a relationship. Based in Seattle, Washington, Zach Brittle, LMCH is a Certified Gottman Therapist and Certified Relational Life Therapist. The best-selling author of The Relationship Alphabet, as well as the Marriage Therapy Journal, Zach Brittle, LMCH’s writings and ideas have graced the pages of media outlets by the likes of Men’s Health and the Washington Post. Currently, Zach Brittle, LMCH hosts a relationships podcast, Marriage Therapy Radio. In this episode, Zach Brittle, LMCH sheds light on the reason behind the prominence of shared meaning in successful relationships. Additionally, he distinguishes couple routines from rituals, emphasizing on the importance of both recurring activities in a relationship. Together, Marie and Zach Brittle, LMCH canvass the various ways in which couples can easily incorporate rituals into their daily lives, and discuss opportune times to reassess such rituals. So, tune in this week for an insightful episode teeming with expert advice on rejuvenating your relationship with shared meaning and rituals! Visit Zach Brittle, LMCH’s work:Website: https://www.zachbrittle.com/ Marriage Therapy Radio Podcast: https://www.marriagetherapyradio.com/  Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs.  Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit http://re.lmsl.net/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated:  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs     Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs    You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms:  Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationships-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM   Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f  iHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/102784435  Podbean: https://relationshipsscienceinsights.podbean.com/    PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809   Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationships-sc-4911255/episodes/recent  

Ever wondered how a simple swipe turns into a potentially life-changing connection? This week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella interviews licensed marriage and family therapist Anna Elton, LMFT, CST, PhD on what flirting looks like in the digital age. Aside from her therapy practice, Anna Elton, LMFT, CST, PhD is a PhD candidate in clinical sexology, mental health advocate, and the author of numerous therapeutic books. With a passion for destigmatizing mental health issues, Anna Elton, LMFT, CST, PhD has not only shared her expertise in family therapy and mental wellness on a slew of major media networks, but has also founded non-profit organization I Care We All Care.  In this episode, Anna Elton, LMFT, CST, PhD delves into how digital flirting has transformed through the years, from the classic ‘poking’ on Facebook, to the more recent phenomenon of ‘sliding into [one’s] direct messages’ or liking someone’s Instagram story. But that aside, Anna Elton, LMFT, CST, PhD reveals the downsides of technology in courtship, such as the blurring of boundaries and gray areas. Together, Marie and Anna Elton, LMFT, CST, PhD discuss some useful flirting etiquette guidelines and how they apply to online mediums. So, tune in this week for an enlightening episode on what to do and avoid on your digital flirting endeavors! Visit Anna Elton, LMFT, CST, PhD’s work on the following platforms:Website: https://annalmft.comPsychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/contributors/anna-elton-lmft  Connect with Anna Elton via Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annalmft/  Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs.  Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit http://re.lmsl.net/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbjaCqZj5gyYEBdnJL__VCQ     Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationships.science.labs/   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationships.science.labs/    Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs   LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationships-science-labs/  TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@relations.science.labs    You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationships-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM   Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f  iHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/102784435  Podbean: https://relationshipsscienceinsights.podbean.com/    PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809   Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationships-sc-4911255/episodes/recent  

Some take mere weeks to move on from a breakup, while others take years, but one thing is certain: getting over a past love is never easy. This week on Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast, host Lu Ngo interviews divorce coach Sallyanne Hartnell on what it takes to find closure and acceptance after a relationship ends. As a multi-award-nominated divorce coach and strategist, Sallyanne Hartnell supports clients through every stage of a relationship transition, from separation to divorce and beyond. With a balance of nurturing emotional support and objective, practical guidance, Sallyanne empowers her clients to manage intense emotions and make grounded, well-considered decisions. In this episode, Sallyanne highlights that, while our partner should not be expected to fulfill all of our needs, it may be time to reevaluate the relationship if our non-negotiable needs are not being met, our personal values are diminished, or our boundaries are repeatedly crossed. Together, Lu and Sallyanne weigh up habits that may prove effective in finding acceptance post-relationship. So, tune in this week to learn how to close one chapter and open the next with confidence and clarity! Visit Sallyanne Hartnell’s work on the following platforms: Reflect Coaching: http://www.reflectcoaching.com.au/ Reflect Reclaim & Liberate Podcast: https://reflectreclaimliberatewithsallyannehartnell.buzzsprout.com/  Connect with Sallyanne Hartnell via the following links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reflectcoaching/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sallyanne-hartnell-5a5b933a/ Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs.  Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit http://re.lmsl.net/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbjaCqZj5gyYEBdnJL__VCQ     Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationships.science.labs/   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationships.science.labs/    Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs   Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationships-science-labs/  Tiktok: http://tiktok.com/@relations.science.labs    You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationships-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM  Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f  iHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/102784435  Podbean: https://relationshipsscienceinsights.podbean.com/    PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809   Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationships-sc-4911255/episodes/recent  Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL3JlbGF0aW9uc2hpcHNzY2llbmNlaW5zaWdodHMvZmVlZC54bWw  

Are you tired of swiping left and right with no real connection? So are we. This week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Lu Ngo consults dating coach Karina Chapman on the principles of conscious dating and why it matters for authentic connection. Based in Adelaide, South Australia, Karina Chapman is a natural storyteller and facilitator with a background in the business, education and communication industries. With a passion for connecting with people, Karina believes that we are all connected, and has developed a method of connection dubbed the ‘Conscious Connection’ that helps individuals connect with any type of person they’d like to attract, whether it’s clients and employees for their business, friends, or the romantic partner of their dreams. In this episode, Karina Chapman reveals that she views conscious dating as a deliberate journey of dating, outlining the various aspects of conscious dating and how they contribute to attaining authentic connections. Additionally, she sheds light on her background in hairdressing and education, and how those roles highlighted the power of making authentic connections with people. Together, Lu and Karina Chapman exchange personal anecdotes of their dating experiences, and discuss useful habits that will be sure to support individuals in their conscious dating journeys. So, whether you’re single, dating, or simply curious about building deeper relationships, tune in to this episode for insights on transforming the way you approach love and connection! Visit Karina Chapman’s work: https://karinachapman.com/ Connect with Karina Chapman via LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karina-chapman-6a48b19/ Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs.  Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit http://re.lmsl.net/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated:  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs/      Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs/     TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs/  You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms:  Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613/   Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM/ Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/  Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255/ 

It is rather enigmatic, how we tend to feel intensely drawn to some people, while others leave us with nothing but a strong desire to walk away. So, this week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella consults social and personality psychologist Dylan Selterman. An associate professor in the Department of Psychological and Brain Sciences at John Hopkins University, Dylan teaches courses on social attraction, the psychology of happiness, and introductory psychology. Additionally, he studies romantic attraction and dating, patterns of dreaming, psychological well-being, morals, ethics, and political psychology. On top of that, Dylan Selterman has published original research in numerous journals, from Social Psychological and Personality Science, to The Journal of Sex Research. He also has a monthly column, The Resistance Hypothesis, and a podcast called A Bit More Complicated, to his name. In this episode, Dylan Selterman starts by sharing his definition of attraction, and elaborating on both internal and external factors that influence attraction. He reveals that while personality traits play a role in attraction and forming relationships, it’s not quite in the manner most people assume it to be. Together, Marie and Dylan Selterman touch on concepts like ‘opposites attract’ and the halo effect, and weigh up activities and exercises that may prove useful in maintaining attraction in long-term relationships. So, tune in this week for an episode chock full of attractive insights! Visit Dylan Selterman’s work on the following platforms: Website: https://www.dylanselterman.com/  John Hopkins University: https://pbs.jhu.edu/directory/dylan-selterman/  Connect with Dylan Selterman via the following platforms:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seltermosby/ Threads: https://www.threads.net/@seltermosby/ Twitter: https://x.com/seltermosby/  Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs.  Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit http://re.lmsl.net/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs/      Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs/     TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs/  You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613/   Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM/  Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/   Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255/ 

Ever wondered why your early relationship experiences tend to unfold similarly? This week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella picks the brain of postdoctoral research fellow Marissa D. Nivison, Ph.D. to find out how attachment shapes our relationship beginnings. Having received her Ph.D. in developmental psychology from the University of Minnesota, Marissa D. Nivison, Ph.D. currently researches childhood maltreatment at the University of Calgary. Her research largely focuses on how early childhood relationships with parents shape attachment quality across the lifespan, including romantic relationships. Following the completion of her postdoctoral fellowship, Marissa aims to obtain a tenure-track professorship at a leading research university.  In this episode, Marissa D. Nivison, Ph.D. reveals that, from a child’s infancy, parents lead by example when it comes to relationship attitudes and behaviors. Additionally, she sheds light on what individuals can do to navigate through relationship transition periods with certainty. Together, Marie and Marissa D. Nivison, Ph.D. address the role of healing relationships in a change of attachment styles, from anxious or avoidant, to secure. So, tune in this week as we explore the fascinating world of attachment theory and its impact on the early stages of romantic relationships! Visit Marissa D. Nivison, Ph.D.’s work: https://scholar.google.com/citations?user=psKNvKwAAAAJ&hl=en&oi=ao/  Connect with Marissa D. Nivison, Ph.D via Twitter: https://x.com/MarissaNivison/  Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs.  Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit http://re.lmsl.net/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbjaCqZj5gyYEBdnJL__VCQ     Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/    Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs   Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs/  Tiktok: http://tiktok.com/@relations.science.labs    You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM   Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f  iHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/102784435  Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/    PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809   Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sc-4911255/episodes/recent 

Technology has revolutionized the way we communicate and form relationship, offering a slew of opportunities. However, it has also introduced new challenges to trust and jealousy. This week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella interviews communication and technology professor Marco Dehnert, Ph.D. on how technology shapes our emotions. Situated at the University of Arkansas, Marco Dehnert, Ph.D.’s work focuses on how people communicate through and with machines, such as social robots, AI companions, or virtual reality. His research is regularly published in peer-reviewed international journals and handbooks. Additionally, Marco Dehnert, Ph.D.’s work integrates methods, concepts, and theories from a variety of disciplines and areas, including communication studies, social robotics, new materialism, as well as sexuality studies. In this episode, Marco Dehnert, Ph.D. reveals the common triggers behind jealousy when technology is involved, such as social comparison, adding that algorithms play a huge role in limiting alternative perspectives.  Together, Marie and Marco Dehnert, Ph.D. discuss both the positive and negative effects of technology on relationship. So, tune in this week for a deep dive on the complexities of modern relationship, and learn healthy habits on maintaining connections in a technology-centric world. Visit Marco Dehnert, Ph.D.’s work: https://www.marcodehnert.com/  Connect with Marco Dehnert, Ph.D. on the following platforms:Twitter: https://twitter.com/MarcoDehnertLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marco-dehnert-624b1a18b/  Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs.  Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit http://re.lmsl.net/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbjaCqZj5gyYEBdnJL__VCQ     Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/    Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs   Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs/  Tiktok: http://tiktok.com/@relations.science.labs    You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms:  Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM   Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f  iHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/102784435  Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/    PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809   Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sc-4911255/episodes/recent 

Ever wondered why you find yourself drawn to certain ‘types’ of partners? This week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella sits down with Georgi Gardiner, a gender & sexuality studies professor, to investigate the uncanny occurrence. Specializing in epistemology and meta-philosophy, Georgi Gardiner currently sits on the philosophy faculty at Tulane University. Previously, she held roles on the faculty and as a research fellow at the University of Tennessee and St. John’s College, Oxford University respectively. Fascinated by how people gather and how innovative gatherings can help individuals flourish, Georgi Gardiner also works on the philosophy of attention, sexuality, love, relationships, circus, risk, and the occult. In this episode, Georgi Gardiner reveals that media, advertising, and language are among some of the main societal and cultural factors that shape our understanding of love, attraction and relationships. She sheds light on collective belief, and how its strength in any given culture may contribute to the mutability of one’s preferences. Together, Marie and Georgi Gardiner weigh up ways to reflect on society’s influence on our romantic preferences. So, tune in this week for an insightful discussion about the culprits behind love’s blueprint, and discover tools for self-reflection! Visit Georgi Gardiner’s work on the following platforms:Website: https://sites.google.com/site/georgigardiner/home/ Tulane University: https://liberalarts.tulane.edu/philosophy/people/fulltime-faculty/georgi-gardiner/ The Conversation: https://theconversation.com/profiles/georgi-gardiner-1508044/articles/  Connect with Georgi Gardiner via email: georgicloud9@gmail.com Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs       Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/relationshipssciencelabs/   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM   Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/    Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809  Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255

Trauma leaves deep emotional scars, sometimes affecting even the most intimate parts of a relationship. So, this week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella consults human behavior expert Maryann Karinch on the complexities of restoring physical intimacy in a relationship. Having published books on human behavior, sexual health, and relationships, Maryann Karinch is also a frequent contributor to Psychology Today on the theme of healthy intimate connections after trauma or illness. In this episode, Maryann Karinch reveals that one of the most common barriers to restoring physical intimacy post-trauma is the reluctance of one partner to touch, when it may be the very thing they need. However, she shares that a strong understanding of oneself and what offers them comfort can be a massive help in the recovery process. Together, Marie and Maryann Karinch canvass the various attachment styles, how they typically perform in such situations, and what solutions may work for them. So, tune in this week for an episode chock full of eye-opening information on one of the biggest challenges in a relationship! Visit Maryann Karinch’s work on the following platforms:Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/contributors/maryann-karinch/ Simon & Schuster: https://www.simonandschuster.com/authors/Maryann-Karinch/1438659/ Books by Maryann Karinch: https://www.amazon.com/Books-Maryann-Karinch/s?rh=n%3A283155%2Cp_27%3AMaryann+Karinch/  Connect with Maryann Karinch through the following platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/maryann.karinch/ LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryannkarinch/  Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs       Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/relationshipssciencelabs/   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM   Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/    Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809  Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255

Even the strongest of relationships waver in hard times. So, this week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella consults relationship coach Dr. Liz Jenkins on how to identify sources of relationship stress and work through them as a couple. Dedicated to helping couples reconnect, repair, and reignite their love, Dr. Liz Jenkins has had a hand in swiftly transforming relationships and marriages to the connection and passion of their early years. A licensed marriage and family therapist with over 75,000 hours of focused time working with women and couples, Dr. Liz Jenkins is a trusted expert with a passion for guiding couples to relationship success. In this episode, Dr. Liz Jenkins describes relationships as systems, whereby issues that affect one will affect the other—big or small—from finances or parenting differences, to division of household chores or in-laws. Additionally, she reveals that relationship stress is one of the top reasons for divorce. Together, Marie and Dr. Liz Jenkins discuss how to identify signs of relationship stress and the best ways to approach potentially heated discussions. So, tune in this week for impactful information and advice on how to nurture your relationship back to health! Check out Dr. Liz Jenkins’s free resources:Love Languages Guide: https://learn.drlizjenkins.com/love-languages-guideConnection Call: https://calendly.com/drlizjenkinscoaching/couples-connection-call-with-dr-liz Couple’s Connection Checklist: https://learn.drlizjenkins.com/couples-checklist/  Visit Dr. Liz Jenkins’s work: http://www.drlizjenkins.com/ Connect with Dr. Liz Jenkins through the following platforms:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrLizJenkinsInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr_liz_jenkinsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drlizjenkins/  Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs.  Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs       Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/relationshipssciencelabs/   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM   Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/    Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809  Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255

In a world where simple swiping and matching have become the norm, the dynamics of sexual health and wellbeing have taken on new dimensions, rendering it all the more vital to discuss. So, this week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella sits down with medical anthropologist Treena Orchard to deconstruct the nuances of consent, boundaries, and sexual empowerment. Fascinated by digital technology and relationships of all kinds, Dr. Treena Orchard has penned her years of dating app experiences into her book ‘Sticky, Sexy, Sad’, which explains how these platforms are impacting sex, romance, and communication in the modern day, combined with her insights as an anthropologist. But that aside, she serves as associate professor at Western University’s School of Health Studies.  In this episode, Dr. Treena Orchard shares her puzzlement at how difficult it was to get past the ‘texting phase’, recounting that most dating app exchanges go no further than through the phone. But beyond that, Dr. Treena Orchard expresses that most dating apps should do a better job of promoting sexual health awareness, suggesting campaigns where compelling information is integrated into the sign-up process, or even in their marketing collateral. Together, Dr. Treena Orchard and Marie discuss the future of sexual health and well-being, from technological advancements, to more holistic sex education in schools. So, tune in for a cathartic conversation filled with nuggets of personal anecdotes, sexual health wisdom, and more. Visit Dr. Treena Orchard’s work on the following platforms: Western University: https://www.uwo.ca/fhs/shs/about/faculty/orchard_t.html/ Google Scholar: https://scholar.google.com/citations?hl=en&user=--MjURkAAAAJ&view_op=list_works&sortby=pubdate/ Website: https://treenaorchard.com/  Connect with Dr.  Treena Orchard via the following platforms:Twitter: https://twitter.com/stickysexysadInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/stickysexysad/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/treena-orchard-3b11b029/ Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs.  Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs       Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/relationshipssciencelabs/   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM   Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/    Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809  Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255

Ever wondered why you and your partner connect on a deep level or perhaps, far too often, find yourselves at odds? The enneagram just might hold the key. This week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Dina Sargeant is joined by relationship expert Christa Hardin to explore the fascinating world of personality types and their effect on relationships. Host of the popular Enneagram & Marriage podcast, psychologist Christa Hardin aims to provide hope for couples who are struggling to find their light, love, and mission through her relationship counseling practice. Her Amazon best-selling title ‘The Enneagram in Marriage: Your Guide to Thriving Together in Your Unique Pairing’ details all 45 possible Enneagram pairings in relationships in an easy-to-understand manner.  In this episode, Christa Hardin reveals that the enneagram can open doors for a deeper understanding of emotions, reactions, and communication, between romantic partners. She shares examples of how to use the enneagram in a relationship. Together, Christa Hardin and Dina weigh up various habits and practices that assist with improving communication and intimacy in relationships alongside the enneagram. So, tune in to this episode to explore the nuances of love through the lens of the enneagram. Follow Christa Hardin’s work via the following platforms:Enneagram and Marriage: https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/ Reflections Counseling Center: https://www.ReflectionsCC.com/  Connect with Christa Hardin on the following platforms:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christa-hardin-b23258120/ Email: enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs.  Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs       Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/relationshipssciencelabs/   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM   Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/    Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809  Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255

Ever wondered why you find yourself more drawn to certain ‘types’ of partners? This week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella is joined by dating coach and expert Julia Malakiman to investigate the culprits behind this phenomenon. Based in San Jose, California, Julia Malakiman works with individuals who struggle with forming relationships and having confidence in their romantic life. Working primarily with men who are hoping to overcome anxiety and their people-pleasing perfectionist tendencies, Julia Malakiman’s coaching program has amassed a plethora of glowing reviews. In this episode, Julia Malakiman addresses the misconception that people in the dating market are seeking high looks, good income, and occupation, asserting that most people look for something much deeper in healthy long-term relationships: communication.  Together, Marie and Julia Malakiman examine the media's depiction of romance, and deconstruct the factors that construct our perceptions of romantic relationships.  So, whether you’re looking for expert advice on wading through the dating world, or simply an avenue for self-reflection, tune in this week for a thought-provoking episode! Follow Julia Malakiman’s work on: https://relationshipconfidence.com/  Connect with Julia through the following platforms:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliamalakiman/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/juliamalakiman/ Email: julia@svdatingcoach.com Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs.  Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs       Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/relationshipssciencelabs/   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM   Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/    Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809  Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255

In the age of swipes and likes, the mobile phone is very much a viable option for finding love and connection, yet there is a shame attached to it that persists. So, this week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella is joined by psychotherapist Minh Trần to deconstruct the stigma and unravel the mystery behind digital dating. As a digital nomad, Minh Trần sees clients from around the globe, his approaches largely comprising Jungian depth psychotherapy, relational psychoanalysis, and psychedelics integration counseling. But outside the digital clinic, Minh Trần has been satiating his passion for musicals through his ‘musical lectures’ at national and international conferences. In this episode, Minh Trần offers his perspective on the difference in experiences between meeting people online versus offline, and addresses common misconceptions about finding love online. That aside, he shares his thoughts on dating app decorum. Together, Marie and Minh Trần trade personal anecdotes and discuss the makings of a ‘good’ dating profile. So, whether you’re looking to expand your horizons with some dating app guidance, or simply looking for personal stories, tune in for an entertaining and nuance-filled episode. Follow Minh Trần’s work on: https://www.entheopsychotherapy.com/  Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs.  Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs       Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/relationshipssciencelabs/   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM   Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/    Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809  Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255

Dancing in the murky waters of seduction—where desire meets deception—often goes far beyond a couple of amusing lines. So, this week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella is joined by sexologist Anisa Varasteh for psychological insights and expert advice on how to speak the language of seduction. As a sexologist, Anisa Varasteh works with her clients to discover and re-discover what is fulfilling, meaningful and pleasurable for them. Offering services in both English and Persian, she supports her clients with their relationships, sense of identity, sex life, and everything in between. In this grappling episode, Anisa breaks down the process of seduction into six digestible steps, expertly elaborating on the psychological factors that come into play. While highlighting the effectiveness of body language, she stresses on the importance—and attractiveness—of verbal consent. Together, Marie and Anisa discuss preemptive ways to build confidence before flirting. From subtle cues to power plays, this episode promises to be enlightening for natural charmers and awkward communicators alike. Follow Anisa Varasteh’s work on: Website: https://www.relatesexology.com/  Society of Australian Sexologists: https://societyaustraliansexologists.org.au/Sys/PublicProfile/52912646/5948828  Connect with Anisa via LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anisa-varasteh-b7385b108/    Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated:  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs     Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs/    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs    You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms:  Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613   Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM    Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast  iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/   Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/   PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255