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Buli Makhubo

9 episodes

3 weeks ago

Promises don’t break; people do—when we skip the prerequisite that unlocks them. Today we get honest about consecration: what it is, why it matters now, and how to practice it without turning faith into a checklist. We anchor in Joshua 3:5—“Consecrate yourselves, for tomorrow the Lord will do amazing things among you”—and explore the gap between revelation and realization, where obedience becomes partnership and purity protects power. We make it practical. Think of consecration like marriage...

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Religion & Spirituality,

Society & Culture,

Relationships

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Christianity

Religion & Spirituality,

Society & Culture,

Relationships

Episodes (9/9)

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Consecration Before the Promise: Why Obedience Precedes Breakthrough

3 weeks ago

37 minutes

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The Cost of the Cross: Releasing What You Love To Fully Pursue Christ

Following Christ demands more than aesthetic Christianity; it requires the difficult journey of allowing Jesus to be not just our Savior but the Lord of our entire life. • Praise Mwelase shares her background growing up in a Christian household and her path to the entertainment industry • The difference between acknowledging Jesus as Savior versus surrendering to Him as Lord • How career success and good relationships can still leave us feeling spiritually "stuck" • Finding true identi...

1 month ago

35 minutes

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Double Dates & Separation: Navigating Couple Friendships

When was the last time you thought about the complex dance of couple friendships? Those relationships that form when marriages intertwine, creating communities that laugh together, pray together, and sometimes even weather the storm when one marriage doesn't survive. In this raw, honest conversation, we dive deep into the beautiful mess of couple friendships – exploring everything from the strength these relationships bring during our lowest moments to the uncomfortable reality of comparison...

1 month ago

39 minutes

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Fathers are parents too: Redefining What It Means to Be a Dad

What does it truly mean to be a present father? Beyond showing up at occasional soccer games or providing financially, the depth of fatherhood remains murky territory for many men—especially those who grew up without strong father figures themselves. This eye-opening conversation with Sbu Zikalala takes us on a journey across continents as he shares how moving from South Africa to Taiwan completely transformed his understanding of what engaged fatherhood looks like. The cultural differences ...

1 month ago

38 minutes

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Whose Voice Is Steering Your Life?

We're in a critical season of shifting where the voices we listen to will determine our direction and decisions. Guard your heart, for out of it flow the decisions that will steer your entire life. • When things reach our ears, they affect our heart, and our decisions are a result of what we hear • The voice of distraction pulls our attention away from God's mandate without being inherently bad • Misdirecting voices lure us away from our God-given purpose, causing us to invest in wrong direc...

2 months ago

30 minutes

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Your marriage bed doesn't have to be a battlefield.

Movies portray an idealized version of marriage where the honeymoon phase never ends, but real intimacy often includes unexpected challenges that couples aren't prepared to discuss openly. • Sexual compatibility isn't automatic but requires active cultivation through communication and effort • Understanding each other's desires and expectations is fundamental to building a healthy sex life • Knowledge about hormonal cycles helps couples navigate libido differences without taking them persona...

2 months ago

34 minutes

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Navigating Seasons of Shift: When God Says "It's Time to Move"

Navigating seasons of shift requires understanding the difference between stewarding what God gives versus owning it as our identity. When God leads us through transitions, we must learn to recognize the signals and trust His provision for what comes next. • The biblical story of Elijah at the brook illustrates how God provides in one season before calling us to move • Spiritual maturity develops when we learn to yield to God's timing rather than clinging to comfortable seasons • Intimacy wi...

2 months ago

46 minutes

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Marriage Beyond the Social Media Feed

Marriage is a divine institution designed by God, not a performance measured by social media standards or external validation. We explore how to navigate relationships in today's digital landscape where "couple goals" are often defined by superficial displays rather than substantive connection. • Social media creates unrealistic expectations of perfect relationships • Most marriages aren't roses all the time - challenges are normal • Behind every perfect post is an imperfect reality • The bl...

2 months ago

45 minutes

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God doesn't want your comfort, He wants your obedience.

Are you burying your talents in the ground because of fear? That's exactly what today's powerful conversation with Tamia Nontsikelelo, founder of Tol-Thema, a modest fashion brand, challenges us to examine. Tamia's journey from accounting student to successful fashion entrepreneur didn't follow the expected path. While still in university, she felt an inexplicable divine urgency to pursue her purpose rather than waiting for the "right time" after graduation. Despite being labeled "delusional...

3 months ago

33 minutes