In Episode 2 of our Freedom After DV series, Tina speaks to the invisible chains many of us still carry after leaving abuse. Through Scripture and personal insight, she walks through how to break free from the grip of fear, the lie of guilt, and the power of lingering control. What You’ll Learn: How fear operates spiritually—and how to resist it Why guilt is not from God How to recognize and reject lingering control The truth about who you are now: no longer a slave, but a daughter Key Scriptures: 2 Timothy 1:7 (TPT) Isaiah 54:17 (ESV) Romans 8:1 (TPT) Galatians 5:1 (TPT) Romans 8:15 (TPT) Psalm 34:4 (ESV) We’d love to Connect with YOU: Visit my website at: https://purposeafterdv.com Follow me on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses/ Follow me on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/purpose438/ POWER After DV Book: https://amzn.to/4aejvgW Please Subscribe & Share: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs encouragement.

This week on POWER After DV, Tina explores the difference between the world’s idea of freedom and the true spiritual freedom found only in Christ. Those of us who have experienced domestic violence often find ourselves free in body but still bound in spirit. But Jesus came to make you unquestionably free. What You’ll Learn: Why leaving abuse is just the beginning of freedom How Scripture defines freedom differently than the world What it means to walk in true spiritual liberty A reminder that your story is being re-storied by God Himself Key Scriptures: John 8:36 (TPT) Galatians 5:1 (TPT) Exodus 14:13–14 (ESV) Psalm 139:16 (ESV) We’d love to Connect with YOU: Visit my website at: https://purposeafterdv.com Follow me on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses/ Follow me on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/purpose438/ POWER After DV Book: https://amzn.to/4aejvgW Please Subscribe & Share: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs encouragement.

What do you do when the marriage is over, the court case is closed, and you’re left sitting in the quiet with the crushing thought: “I failed”? In this powerful episode of the POWER After DV podcast, we speak to the heart of every woman who wonders if her broken marriage disqualified her from God's love, her calling, or her future. You are not alone—and you are not a failure! In fact, YOU are exactly the kind of woman God loves to Re-Story! In this episode, you’ll hear: The lies the enemy tells women after divorce and abuse—and what God says instead Why brokenness isn’t the end, but the beginning of something new How to release shame and embrace your redemption story Encouraging biblical stories of women God used after heartbreak Scriptures to remind you that you are still chosen and still called Key Scriptures: Romans 8:1 Isaiah 61:1–3 Psalm 34:18 John 4 (The Woman at the Well) 2 Corinthians 12:9 Philippians 1:6 Joel 2:25 Micah 6:8 Isaiah 43:18–19 Jeremiah 29:11 God’s grace is not intimidated by your broken pieces. He sees you, He loves you, and He still has a plan for your life. Connect with Me: Visit my website at: https://purposeafterdv.com Follow me on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses/ Follow me on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/purpose438/ POWER After DV Book: https://amzn.to/4aejvgW Subscribe & Share: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs encouragement.

You’ve left the fire. You’ve survived the abuse. But now something deeper is trying to take root. In this episode of the POWER After DV podcast, we’re talking about bitterness—how it grows, what it costs us, and how God calls us to uproot it and replace it with His truth. Whether you’re navigating the aftermath of divorce, custody battles, or a season of grief and betrayal, bitterness may be quietly growing underneath the surface. But you don’t have to let it. In this episode, you’ll hear: What bitterness really is—and how it starts with real pain Why it’s dangerous to your healing and your relationships How to identify it, uproot it, and plant something better Key Scriptures: Hebrews 12:15 Ephesians 4:31–32 Matthew 6:14–15 Isaiah 61:3 Psalm 139:23–24 Genesis 50:20 Romans 12:19 Philippians 4:7 Lamentations 3:19–23 This is for every woman who says, “I thought I was done hurting, but it still lingers.” God sees what’s beneath the surface, and He’s ready to heal it. Connect with Me: Visit my website at: https://purposeafterdv.com Follow me on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses/ Follow me on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/purpose438/ POWER After DV Book: https://amzn.to/4aejvgW Subscribe & Share: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs encouragement.

If you feel like you’re walking through fire right now—emotionally, legally, or spiritually—you’re not alone. In this episode, we look at the story of Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego in Daniel 3 and how God met them in the fire, not just after it. Whether you’re facing a difficult custody battle, struggling with fear, or feeling overwhelmed by the weight of this season, there is comfort, strength, and truth waiting for you in the flames. What You’ll Hear in This Episode: Why God sometimes allows the fire but never abandons you in it How to recognize the fourth man in the fire—Jesus, standing with you Encouragement that you can come through this trial without the smell of smoke Scriptural promises that speak directly to your current storm Key Scriptures: Daniel 3:13–27 Isaiah 43:2 Psalm 34:18 Hebrews 13:5 Joel 2:25 Romans 8:28 Psalm 66:10–12 This episode is for every woman who feels like she’s doing everything right and still facing fire. You’re not being punished—you’re being purified. And you are never, ever alone. Connect with Me: Visit my website at: https://purposeafterdv.com Follow me on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses/ Follow me on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/purpose438/ POWER After DV Book: https://amzn.to/4aejvgW Subscribe & Share: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs encouragement.

In this powerful episode of PURPOSE After DV, I’m putting the widely known Escalation of Violence Scale side-by-side with a tool I personally created: the Victim to Victory Scale, found in my POWER After DV Workbook. The Escalation of Violence Scale helps us recognize the progressive nature of abuse—how it often starts subtly and grows more dangerous over time. But that’s only one side of the story. My Victim to Victory Scale offers a new, hope-filled perspective. It’s a visual tool to help you recognize where you are on your healing journey and where God is calling you to go next. In this episode, we will: Walk through the stages of the Escalation of Violence Scale Introduce and explain each phase of the Victim to Victory Scale Reflect on what healing and restoration look like in real life Introduce a concept called "Re-Story" Whether you’re still in survival mode or finally starting to dream again, this episode will give you a language—and a ladder—for moving upward in God’s strength. Scripture Focus:📖 “He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand.” – Psalm 40:2 (NIV) Here is the link to the scales free pdf: Escalation of Violence and my Victim to Victory Scales Connect with Me: Visit my website at: https://purposeafterdv.com Follow me on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/purposecourses/ Follow me on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/purpose438/ POWER After DV Book: https://amzn.to/4aejvgW Subscribe & Share: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs encouragement.    

In this follow-up episode, I switch hats and share my experience at the 2025 Called to Peace Survivor Healing Retreat as a people helper—attorney, author, and vendor. While I came to support survivors with legal insight and healing resources, God had even more in store. You’ll hear: What it was like to offer support from the other side of the table Golden nuggets from women hungry for both justice and Jesus God's presence and His love for His daughters If you’re a ministry leader, counselor, attorney, advocate, or just someone who wants to help survivors in meaningful ways, this episode will encourage and equip you. Mentioned in this episode: Called to Peace Ministries Training for People Helpers Loads of Scripture verses to take with you to the Courtroom Let’s keep the conversation going:Leave a review or tag me on social with your thoughts. And if you’re a fellow people helper—let’s connect!

In this heartfelt episode, I share my personal journey as a survivor of domestic violence attending the 2025 Called to Peace Ministries Survivor Healing Retreat. Set against the beautiful backdrop of Lake Junaluska, this retreat was a sacred space of safety, restoration, and powerful reminders that our Redeemer sees, hears, and heals. I’ll walk you through moments of breakthrough, powerful teaching from keynote speaker Leslie Vernick, and the deeply personal ways God met me in worship, creativity, and community. Whether you're early in your healing journey or walking alongside someone who is, I pray this episode brings hope, encouragement, and the gentle reminder that your healing matters—and it’s not over yet. Mentioned in this episode: Psalm 55:18 – He rescues me unharmed from the battle waged against me. Called to Peace Ministries: www.calledtopeace.org Leslie Vernick: www.leslievernick.com Subscribe, share, and leave a review!Know someone who needs to hear this message? Please forward this episode and help them find hope today.

In this special episode, I’m putting on my attorney hat again for the first half of our conversation to walk you through step-parent adoption — what it means legally, how it works, and what families should know when walking this path. Then, we shift into a powerful spiritual truth: you, my sweet sister, have been adopted by God. Whether you're navigating the legal system or simply searching for a place to belong, this episode is a reminder of your worth, your identity, and your inheritance in Christ. We’ll explore what Scripture says about our adoption into God's family — how it’s not only a change of legal status, but a declaration of love. Key Scriptures: Romans 8:15 Galatians 4:4–7 Ephesians 1:5 John 1:12 Legal Disclaimer:I am an attorney, but I am not your attorney. The legal content in this episode is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice or establish an attorney-client relationship. Listen now to be reminded that you are chosen, loved, and never alone. For more information about PURPOSE Law Firm please visit our website at https://purpose-lawfirm.com For more information about PURPOSE Courses please visit our website at https://purposeafterdv.com

After the storm, you get to rebuild your life—and that includes protecting your future. In this episode, I walk you through estate planning basics specifically for women who’ve experienced domestic violence and are starting fresh after divorce.  I also cover what to do before filing for divorce, what you can and can't do once the divorce has been filed, and what to do once your divorce is final. Learn why estate planning is an act of empowerment, what documents you may need, and how to start building a legacy of strength for your children and future generations. Disclaimer: I am an attorney, but I’m not your attorney. The information shared in this podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. For more information visit my Law Firm website at https://purpose-lawfirm.com/

Divorce and custody don’t always have to be a battleground. In this episode, we’re talking about mediation—what it is, when it’s helpful, and how it can provide a more peaceful path forward for women overcoming domestic violence. I’ll also introduce you to my “PURSUE with PURPOSE” program that helps you walk in wisdom, clarity, and strength as you deal with an attorney who may not understand the dynamics of domestic violence. Disclaimer: I am an attorney, but I’m not your attorney. The information shared in this podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. For more information visit my Law Firm website at https://purpose-lawfirm.com/  

In this powerful episode, I put on my attorney hat and speak directly to women navigating the painful realities of divorce and custody battles while overcoming domestic violence. I walk you through the the importance of finding an attorney who understands the dynamics of domestic violence in a way that’s practical and empowering—because you deserve to know your rights and options. We’ll also discuss how to approach these situations with both wisdom and strength. Disclaimer: I am an attorney, but I’m not your attorney. The information shared in this podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. For more information visit my Law Firm website at https://purpose-lawfirm.com/

In this foundational episode, we unpack the meaning behind the acronym POWER and how each letter serves as a stepping stone toward healing, wholeness, and freedom after domestic violence. From reclaiming your spiritual authority to engaging in true restoration, this episode will encourage, equip, and empower you to rise. POWER = P – Powerful O – Overcoming W – Women E – Engaging in R – Restoration Reflection Question:Which letter in the POWER acronym speaks to you the most? 🎁 Free Resource: The Top 3 Reasons You’re Stuck in Survivor Mode After Experiencing Domestic Violence & How to Break Free → [https://purposeafterdv.com/top3reasonsyourstuck] All of the action steps can be found on our website at https://purposeafterdv.com/ 📩 Subscribe & Share:If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe and send it to a friend who needs this message today.

In this episode, Becca joins me once again to unpack the final stretch of Mara’s journey—and what it means for your story. We dive into the last four steps of the Story Brand framework and how they paint a powerful picture of what’s possible when we stop just surviving and start stepping fully into the life God is calling us to. Together, we reflect on: 💥 The call to action – what it really means to say yes to healing, growth, and purpose🌱 The consequences of not stepping forward—and why staying stuck isn't harmless🕊️ What success looks like when we embrace our God-given identity🦋 Mara’s complete transformation—from survivor to soaring daughter of the King🔥 The anointing to set the captives free—and why that mission matters now more than ever Whether you’ve been with us since Episode 1 or you’re just jumping in, this conversation will remind you: Your story isn’t over.You are not disqualified.There is still so much more ahead. 🎁 Free Resource: The Top 3 Reasons You’re Stuck in Survivor Mode After Experiencing Domestic Violence & How to Break Free → [https://purposeafterdv.com/top3reasonsyourstuck] All of the action steps can be found on our website at https://purposeafterdv.com/ 💬 Let’s Connect:What part of Mara’s story spoke most to you? Reach out, share your takeaway, or ask a question—we’re here to walk with you. 📩 Subscribe & Share:If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe and send it to a friend who needs this message today.

🦋 You were made for more. 🦋 In this powerful episode, we complete Mara’s journey—bringing together everything we’ve covered in the StoryBrand framework. Mara’s transformation is your transformation—from a woman trapped in survivor mode to a strong, beautiful, confident, woman of God. Like a caterpillar, you may have spent years crawling through life, simply surviving. Maybe you’ve felt trapped in a cocoon, unsure if freedom is really possible. But God’s plan for you has always been greater—you were meant to fly. In this episode, we’ll cover:✔️ How Mara moved from survivor mode to walking in total freedom✔️ The biblical process of shifting from brokenness to wholeness✔️ How YOU can take your next step toward total freedom 💡 Your butterfly moment is coming...  Your Next Step: It’s time to stop crawling and start soaring!!! 🎁 Free Resource: The Top 3 Reasons You’re Stuck in Survivor Mode After Experiencing Domestic Violence & How to Break Free → [https://purposeafterdv.com/top3reasonsyourstuck] All of the action steps can be found on our website at https://purposeafterdv.com/ 📩 Subscribe & Share:If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe and send it to a friend who needs this message today.

Your story doesn’t end in survival—it ends in freedom! In this episode of the StoryBrand series, we are talking about what true success looks like: complete freedom from the effects of domestic violence and stepping boldly into your God-given purpose. We’ll discuss:✅ What it really means to break out of survivor mode✅ How God’s promises guarantee your success when you trust Him✅ The anointing to set the captives free (Isaiah 61:1) and why your healing and freedom isn’t just for you✅ How your PURPOSE is waiting on you—and so are the people God has called you to impact If you’ve ever doubted whether true freedom is possible for you, this episode is your reminder that God has so much more for you. You are not just healed—you are anointed. You are not just redeemed—you are called. It’s time to step into the life God created you for! 📖 Scriptures Mentioned: Isaiah 61:1 – The anointing to set captives free Jeremiah 29:11 – God's plans for your future John 8:36 – Who the Son sets free is free indeed Romans 8:37 – You are more than a conqueror 🎁 Free Resource: The Top 3 Reasons You’re Stuck in Survivor Mode After Experiencing Domestic Violence & How to Break Free → [https://purposeafterdv.com/top3reasonsyourstuck] All of the action steps can be found on our website at https://purposeafterdv.com/ 📩 Subscribe & Share:If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe and send it to a friend who needs this message today.

Have you ever considered that staying stuck in survival mode after domestic violence isn’t just painful—it’s disobedience? In this episode, we dive deep into Isaiah 30:1, where God warns against making plans outside of His will. If we allow the effects of domestic violence to keep us from our God-given purpose, we are aligning with the enemy’s lies instead of stepping into the freedom God has for us. What’s at stake if we don’t take action? The risk isn’t just personal—it’s generational. If we don’t break free, our children may never see what walking in healing and purpose truly looks like. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: Why purpose is not optional—it’s a divine assignment. (Jeremiah 29:11, Ephesians 2:10) How survival mode keeps us trapped in the enemy’s cycle instead of God’s plan. (John 10:10) Why disobedience brings bondage, but obedience brings freedom. (James 4:17) How to step out of fear and into faith so you can fully embrace God’s calling. Your Next Step: Start aligning your plans with God's plans!!! 🎁 Free Resource: The Top 3 Reasons You’re Stuck in Survivor Mode After Experiencing Domestic Violence & How to Break Free → [https://purposeafterdv.com/top3reasonsyourstuck] All of the action steps can be found on our website at https://purposeafterdv.com/ 📩 Subscribe & Share:If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe and send it to a friend who needs this message today.

Today, we focus on the next step in the StoryBrand framework—calling the hero to action. You will never take action unless you are challenged, and the stakes are high. Healing, purpose, and legacy are all at stake, but so is the future example we set for our children. In this episode, I’ll walk you through: Why action is key in overcoming domestic violence and stepping into the life God has for you. The importance of a clear plan to move from survivor mode to thriving in purpose. A breakdown of the 4 actionable steps you can take to start your journey today, including downloading my freebie, grabbing the Proverbs 26:2 Bundle, and diving into my book, workbook, and our POWER After DV programs. A compelling invitation to take the next step toward true freedom and healing. Key Scriptures Mentioned: Matthew 7:7 - “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.” Isaiah 41:10 - “Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Proverbs 3:5-6 - “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” Your Next Step: Start the healing journey today by following the action steps shared in this episode. It’s time to reclaim your life, your purpose, and your legacy. 🎁 Free Resource: The Top 3 Reasons You’re Stuck in Survivor Mode After Experiencing Domestic Violence & How to Break Free → [https://purposeafterdv.com/top3reasonsyourstuck] All of the action steps can be found on our website at https://purposeafterdv.com/ 📩 Subscribe & Share:If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe and send it to a friend who needs this message today.

In today’s episode, Becca is joining me to reflect on the first four episodes of this series. We dive deep into the StoryBrand journey we’ve been walking through together and discuss the powerful insights that have emerged along the way. If you’ve been following this series, this episode will help you process what you’ve learned so far and solidify your next steps. Here’s what we cover in this conversation: Episode 1: The Hero’s Journey – Why understanding your story is the first step to transformation. Episode 2: Identifying the Problem – How recognizing the real enemy (the devil) empowers us to break free. Episode 3: Finding the Guide – The importance of mentorship, biblical guidance, and learning from those who’ve walked the road before us. Episode 4: The Power of a Plan – Why having a clear, God-ordained roadmap makes all the difference. This is a heartfelt, real conversation about the challenges, victories, and revelations that come with healing from domestic violence and stepping into God’s freedom and healing.  Reflection:Take a moment to reflect on where you are in this journey. What has stood out the most to you? How will you take action in the coming weeks?   Your Next Step: If you haven’t yet, make sure to download the freebie and take your first step toward freedom! 🎁 Free Resource: The Top 3 Reasons You’re Stuck in Survivor Mode After Experiencing Domestic Violence & How to Break Free → [https://purposeafterdv.com/top3reasonsyourstuck] 📩 Subscribe & Share:If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe and send it to a friend who needs this message today.

In this episode, we dive into the next step of the Story Brand framework—Who gives them a plan. As we continue the journey to break free from survivor mode, we’ll explore the importance of clarity and how a well-defined plan removes uncertainty and fear from your healing process. You’ll learn: Why God is a God of order, not chaos, and how He has provided clear, structured plans for His people throughout Scripture. The specific instructions God gave Noah when building the ark, and how these can serve as a blueprint for your journey to freedom. The four steps in the PURPOSE Pyramid (POWER After DV level) and how they guide you step-by-step through healing. How a good plan brings clarity and removes the risk of stepping into the unknown. By the end of this episode, you’ll understand why following a plan is crucial to your healing journey, and how God has already laid out a path for you—one that leads to freedom, purpose, and restoration. Your Next Step: 🎁 Free Resource: The Top 3 Reasons You’re Stuck in Survivor Mode After Experiencing Domestic Violence & How to Break Free → [https://purposeafterdv.com/top3reasonsyourstuck] 📩 Subscribe & Share:If this episode encouraged you, subscribe and send it to a friend who needs this message today. 🔜 Next Episode Preview:Next week Becca will be joining us to discuss the Hero, the villain and the problem, the guide and the plan.