You can learn to value yourself and above all love yourself because sometimes the pain that we felt will mold us into who we are. The biggest heartbreak has taught me that it's okay to be by yourself. You don't need to have another person to make you whole and if you've been rejected it is okay not to be okay and besides you're love will eventually come. Check out my other social media accounts:
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A good relationship doesn’t just happen, you have to work at it although falling in love is a magical feeling, but what about your happily ever after? Have you been surprised to find out that everything doesn't just miraculously work out when you're in deeply in love?
Connecting with someone romantically, emotionally, spiritually and physically can be really amazing. But there's a lot of work that goes into building a good relationship.
Let's look out with Maron & Jen how does a good relationship work.
*Apology on the Audio*
Because love is transactional and a lot of things has an equivalent value. The recent viral issue of the engagement ring shows that we perceive things based on our emotions and fail to think analytically and criticality what's that post(engagement ring issue) where really meant. Do love has a price? well check this episode with queen wasabi as we dissect the viral issue of the engagement ring.
Check Queen Wasabi's podcast show: https://open.spotify.com/show/50ndkQkmW2LwC2F6kCWErM?si=774f20e6ec704456
Some say that everybody who enters your life does so for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. No matter how long a relationships lasts, it can bring you something positive — even if it’s just a lesson in how to spot red flags.
Even when a relationship ends badly, you might find it helpful to consider the positive memories and lessons the relationship brought you. Although these positive aspects don’t necessarily erase hurt and pain, it might be comforting to remember the good while accepting the bad.
At the end of the day, it’s up to you if you believe synchronicity is at play. However, you must admit each one of these relationships have shown up in your life just when you needed it most — even if we didn’t want it. Pretty much proving that everyone does exist for a reason, a season or a lifetime. It’s just up to you to realize their role in your life and adjust accordingly. So, no matter the circumstance, embrace, learn, love and let go when necessary and you will always succeed in the human experience.
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Feeling comfy come on let's talk I've realized that love advice coming from a friend, a love one or somewhat you hear and see is currently not been put into actions, you seek and ask for advice but there's no action and you'l keep on repeating the same situation you are into. Let's stop this bullcrap dahil kahit anong sabihin ng mga tao sa paligid mo hindi ka rin naman makikinig and real talk you don't need advice, You just need someone to talk to. Literally, You just need someone to talk to and this podcast is about reflection, healing and help you open your eyes to what is reality when it comes to your relationships and love life. A harsh truth with a sense of you realization that you have a potential to be loved and to feel loved in a way that it will not affect the people around you. If you want to share your stories, you want to discuss something or just need someone to talk to join the DDS group( Di dapat saktan Movement) here:
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You have heard my story about waiting and you have know the two types of waiting and that is actively and passively waiting. Now saan ka dun? Are you willing to wait actively for that someone or take a chance and passively wait for someone. Check Queen Wasabi's podcast show: https://open.spotify.com/show/50ndkQkmW2LwC2F6kCWErM?si=774f20e6ec704456
You can also check Heart Healing Session with Real Talk Darbs live in manila this coming May 21 2022. Get your tickets here: www.rtdhearthealingsession.com
There are two types of waiting when it comes to love that is passive and active waiting, know the difference of these types of waiting together with Ms. Queen Wasabi as she share her thoughts and how she takes over the show. Check her podcast show: https://open.spotify.com/show/50ndkQkmW2LwC2F6kCWErM?si=774f20e6ec704456
You can also check Heart Healing Session with Real Talk Darbs live in manila this coming May 21 2022. Get your tickets here: www.rtdhearthealingsession.com
This episode is a letter I wrote to my future one I love the line coming from the movie "Definitely, Maybe". To my future one just remember I am just here patiently waiting when the time comes.
This episode was inspired when Doc Croc told Spiderman in no way home movie that fixing someone will cause you consequences, Well a lot of us are good at fixing and broking things but is it necessary to fixed someone? well listen for today's episode as we have an intimate conversation of Fixing someone will cause you consequences.
Where do Broken Hearts Go? sometimes hindi natin alam saan pupunta but it's where we learn to love our self check out with my special guest. The Self Love Boss Ms. Gayle De Chavez.
Kailan ka pa naging sapat? Lagi mong tatandaan na sapat ka hindi mo man nakikita ito sa sarili mo pero we will be a reminder for you that you are enough! you are worth it and you are valued. together with our special guest Maskinanu TV or JM Manalo as he share his thoughts about being enough to yourself and to others
Simple lang hindi kasi sila yung para sayo dahil kung para sayo yan hindi na maghahanap ng iba yan. The pain you are feeling right now maybe a blessing dahil it will lead you to the right person whom you will spend on as the days goes by.
Let's Face it. There are times when your partner will be upset with you. Maybe you'll know why they're upset, or maybe you'll have no clue what you've done to hurt them. While you may prefer to feign ignorance and wait for happy days to come again if your partner is hurt by something you've done though it may be uncomfortable at first but cleaning up your emotional messes can lead to honest conversations that benefit your relationship in the long run. Together with my guest Elisha Roco having a 49K Tiktok followers share her thoughts about what if your partner is causing you more pain than happiness.
To the Girl that I will put a ring on it,
I want you to know that I'm not prince charming like you see in fairytales. I'm not as good as everyone tells me. I'm not that rich or can't give you anything that you always wanted yet but I will work things out. I'm still in the learning process of managing my mind, soul, and emotions since I have some issues that need to be corrected. The one thing I'm proud of is meeting someone amazing like you and one of the best things in my life.
You need to know that I'm gonna cook you food, wash the dishes, do the laundry, clean the house, be your number 1 supporter, and I will be there through tough and good times. We gonna have kids and will let them know how our parents met and tell the stories about how we build this relationship. I want you to know that If I am seeing you happy it makes my heart melt with joy since seeing you happy is the best thing in my life and if you're in pain just tell me and I'll do the best thing I can to ease that pain. I'll pray to God every night that even though we have arguments or misunderstandings he will be there as a center to help us realize things we lack and the things that need to be improve. We may not be perfect but will make things work out.
One thing that I'm sure of is if it's God's will he will make it happen. So I will be more patient, I will be here and know that we will see this through.
There's a saying that if you love that person you choose them to be happy, but what if your partner didn't confront you about her decision and thus choose her/his happiness over your relationship. I know that nothing hurts more than being disappointed by the person you thought would never hurt you. Check out tonight's episode as I share my thoughts on What will you do if the person you love choose his/her happiness over you.
People always want to comeback into your life after being disappointed by someone who they thought was better than you.
Check out my latest podcast episode as I have shared my insights why they always comeback.
When one of my colleague said to me "Alam mo Yung panget na movie pero nagaabang ka ng magandang ending?" and that really hit me hard
we expect too much on the person we thought they can reciprocate our love but it's not check out this episode as I give you my experience on how our love life is like a movie,
Love is not a game. It’s an investment. Commitment
Love is a choice, as a man you should look at your girl as the mother of your future babies. She could be your girl for a lifetime. She’ll be your baby mama, partner and bestfriend in one. 3 in one
If you can’t picture her in the aisle walking towards you with a teary eye, leave her alone.
