In this quick solo episode, I share what it means to stay committed to the vision—even when you’re running on empty. If you’re exhausted but still showing up, this one’s for you. Because sometimes, the most powerful thing you can do is keep going. Support the show

In this special compilation, we revisit some of the most powerful moments from recent episodes — from overcoming self-doubt and setting boundaries to breaking free from perfectionism and embracing the fullness of life. Get ready to be inspired, empowered, and reminded that your journey matters. Support the show

This episode is personal. I sat down with Pastor Esther Maurice to talk about something many of us carry but rarely talk about out loud—grief. Not just the grief that comes from death… But the grief of broken dreams, failed relationships, unmet expectations, and the silent heartbreak of becoming who life didn’t let you be. We talked about how grief and guilt often go hand in hand. How you can have joy and pain in the same moment—and feel guilty for smiling when your heart still aches. We talk...

We pray to win, but what happens when we actually do? In this episode I’m diving deep into the hidden anxiety that comes with stepping into your greatness. Enjoy! Support the show

Q2 is here—and it’s not too late to reignite your goals and get back on track. In this solo episode, I’m sharing simple but powerful ways to reset, refocus, and build momentum—starting today. You don’t need a perfect plan. You just need a fresh start and the courage to take the next step. Let’s finish strong. Let’s go! #OnTheMatterr #Q2Reset #MomentumMatters #PurposeDriven Support the show

Sometimes, the key to lasting change isn’t doing more—it’s doing less, but with intention. In this episode, I share how my friend put me on to Divine Direction by Craig Groeschel and the game-changing idea of choosing just one discipline a year to focus on. Craig set himself up for success by setting the bar low—and it worked. Tune in to hear why doing the least might be the smartest way to level up. Support the show

In this powerful episode, I sit down with Obianuju Abba, a certified Christian relationship and femininity coach who has guided hundreds of women worldwide in building godly, fulfilling marriages. Oby shares her incredible journey—her origin story, rising from rock bottom, pivoting her career, understanding the true purpose of Christian marriage, the power of waiting for the right person, and so much more. This episode is packed with wisdom, faith, and practical gems you don’t want to miss! T...

In this powerful episode, licensed therapist Omotoké Adewale dives deep into learned helplessness—explaining how feeling powerless can keep you stuck and what practical steps you can take to break free. If you’ve ever felt that no matter how hard you try, nothing changes, this conversation is for you: Key Takeaways: • Understand the roots of learned helplessness • Discover strategies to reclaim control over your life • Empower yourself to take actionable steps toward change Don’t let feelings...

Do you ever feel like nothing is ever good enough? Do you hold yourself to impossibly high standards and fear failure so much that it stops you from taking action? In this powerful conversation, licensed marriage and family therapist Omotoké Adewale and I dive into the perfectionism trap—how the need for control fuels anxiety, self-doubt, and burnout, especially for millennials chasing their dreams. ✨ What You’ll Learn in Part 1: ✔ What perfectionism really is and how it manifests ✔ How per...

Struggling with self-doubt? You’re not alone but what if confidence isn’t something you wait for, but something you create? In this powerful episode of On the Matterr with Oby, Certified Confidence Coach Jason Phillips breaks down how to stop doubting yourself, silence negative self-talk, and build unshakable confidence in any situation. If you have ever felt stuck, second-guessed your abilities, or struggled to trust yourself, this conversation is your blueprint for change. We are answering ...

The first two episodes of this season have been game-changers! In this episode, I take a moment to reflect on the powerful insights shared so far—how they’ve reshaped my mindset, reinforced my boundaries, and helped me step into this season with intention. Join me as I unpack these lessons and share how they’re showing up in my life. Because growth isn’t just about learning—it’s about applying, adjusting, and honoring yourself in the process. 💡💪🏾 Support the show

On this episode of On the Matterr with Oby, I’m joined by returning guest Chinonyelum (Chichi) Udoye, a Certified Life Coach, for a deep dive into boundaries and balance. 💡 In "Feed Your Elements: How to Set Boundaries for a Fulfilling Life", we unpack: ✨ The essential elements of setting boundaries ✨ Why boundaries are crucial for personal growth and success ✨ How to honor your boundaries without guilt 💪🏾 Chinonyelum also shares insights on Juggling Women Genius, her 12-week coaching program...

Imposter syndrome is real—but it doesn’t have to control your life! In this powerful episode of On the Matterr with Oby, Dr. Claudia Marshall returns to break down how imposter syndrome shows up, especially for millennials, and how it holds us back from pursuing our passions and living abundantly. We’re diving deep into: ✅ Why self-doubt creeps in when you’re about to level up ✅ Practical strategies to silence negative self-talk and own your success ✅ How to reframe failure and take bol...

Now that you’ve decided to get a mentor, what next? Join Oby as she delves into the essential roles and responsibilities of mentees. Discover how to maximize your mentorship experience by understanding your duties and embracing your journey to growth and success. Support the show

Nigerians say “follow who know road” but have you every wondered why? Join Oby as she delves into the benefits of having mentors and how they can propel you toward achieving your #Matterr. The guidance can make all the difference! Tune in to find out how! Support the show

In this episode, Oby follows up on our season's inaugural topic by diving deep into how to actually pursue your passion. Millennials and Gen Z’ers often hear about the importance of following their dreams, but rarely get the practical steps needed to start. Oby breaks it down with actionable advice to help you turn your hobbies and interests into fulfilling pursuits. Tune in and take the first step towards your passion today! #OnTheMatterr #Podcast #PursueYourPassion #Millennials #GenZ #Prac...

Did you forget I had a podcast???? So did I! Happy Monday, Beautiful People! After months of excuses, laziness, and “doings”, OTM is back! 🙈😩😂🎉 Please turn into this episode as we go back to the basis of How to discover what you are passionate about?? Support the show

Join us for a milestone celebration: the 100th episode of the On the Matterr Podcast! 🎉 Founder and CEO of Career Studios, Errol 'The Closer' Olton, takes the host seat to grill Oby, reflecting on her OTM journey and diving into what it means to stay on your Matterr. Don't miss this insightful and celebratory episode! Guest host: Errol Olton @CareerStudios Space: Bask Studios @Baskstudios.nyc Editor: Neckar Dorlice @shotbyneckar Support the show

Want to know the secret to purpose planning or creating a real vision board that’ll actually work? In this episode, Girl Boss’d Up Founder and CEO, Dr. Melissa Simmons shares the systematic process to creating a Vision Board that actually works! Stay tuned as there’s a surprise during the conversation you won’t see coming! Keep up with Dr. Melissa at @Melsimz on instagram. References: Girl Boss’d Up 30-Day Journal by Dr. Melissa Simmons: https://www.amazon.com/Girl-Bossd...

Join me in an enlightening discussion with Dr. Melissa Simmons—an accomplished Certified School Business Administrator, Coach, Speaker, Founder, and Author. We delve into her remarkable journey navigating the New Jersey Department of Education, the impact of coaching, the essence of 'marketplace ministry,' and the significance of embracing the diverse passions that enrich our lives! References: The Five Rules of Marriage: https://www.amazon.com/Five-Rules-Marriage-Melissa-Simmons/dp/16326883...