I haven't uploaded in a month, but I swear I have a good reason !!! (the inaccurate excuse that I give myself)
The past month, I travelled to Palo Alto for a work trip with the goal of fleshing out the MVP product we're looking to launch and a presentation with the big dog.
Here are some lessons I've been thinking about from the past month.
Some other stuff
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When's the best time to set goals? Whenever you need to get it together. In this episode I go over some quarterly goals I'm looking to make progress in the next 3 months.
Recorded July 13, 2025
Reflections on a quiet long weekend where I did a little work, a little reading, a little writing, and a little working out. I also reflect on feeling fomo in the past weekend and the tradeoffs that lead up to this point.
Recorded on July 7
Among my favorite reframes is thinking of life like a stock:
- short term volatility is irrelevant to long term progress
- downturns feel catastrophic as life improves in absolute terms but has been experienced before in percentage terms
- life improves compound
Recorded June 23
The 3 things I'm optimizing for in my 20s is authenticity, agency, and conviction. I have the first two down pat. But what about conviction?
I talk about trying to build off conviction when being the lead in a new project in a new industry and an unlikely solution to balancing humbleness and confidence: an alter ego
Recorded @ June 17
How Do You Get Confidence When Starting Something New?
This is a question I'm currently asking myself as I take lead in a new project tackling a new industry.
Why do I always need evidence before I do new pursuits despite not having evidence in the first place? How do I build meaningful blind faith? How can an alter ego help?
Recorded on June 9, 2025
On this episode, I reflect on a conversation I had with a childhood friend and the feeling of being old at 25.
Why do we feel old all of a sudden? Why do we reminisce about the past? Why do we feel like we can't do much anymore?
Recorded on June 2.
Some jumbled thoughts on reframing when writing my Reframing Substack essay: https://www.nobody-yet.com/p/reframing
I'm back after locking in for a month with work. Turns out I just really miss podcasting and emptying my brain with structured thoughts.
In this episode, I talk about why I was gone for a month and my current obsession with reading biographies (one of the highest leverage things no one does).
Also. It's not Henry Shackleton, it's Ernest Shackleton lol.
Recorded on Monday May 19
Some other stuff
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Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ericcliii
In this episode, I review the last quarter of the new year and the previous temporary shift of what is valuable. I talk about the cynicism that comes with feelings of having low agency and cultivating a new approach to work: dispassion.
Recorded on March 28 @ 11pm
Some other stuff
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In this episode, I continue on the insights in section 2 (success) in Ego is the Enemy by Ryan Holiday. Specifically, I cover 3 chapters: "Don't tell yourself a story", "What's important to you", and "Beware the disease of me." I also think through unteachable lessons- a framework that I've been obsessing over and it's specific reference to money and status.
Recorded on March 13 @ 9:48pm
Some other stuff
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Being a bit sad these couple of days (but not today as I'm recording this!), I reflect a bit into my sadness and operationalize the approach to get out of the rut. I then wonder if I experience more self torment than the average person from my more frequent introspection and look forward to testing maxes in the gym.
Recorded on Feb 27 @ 11:07pm EST
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In this episode, I cover the insights in section 1 (ascent) in Ego is the Enemy by Ryan Holiday. Specifically, I cover the 4 chapters: "talk talk talk, "don't be passionate", "get our of your own head", and "work, work, work" and how they specifically pertain to my own life.
Along the way, I berate my future self who is hopefully coming back to listen to this episode. Enjoy lol :)
Recorded on Feb 20 @ 10:06pm EST
Some other stuff
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With the past two weeks being stressful, this week is a bit more slow. In this episode, I talk about the internal resistance and fear with reaching out to people in the context of work and of friends. Some smaller reminders of the curse of competence and meaningful vs important activities!
Recorded on Fed 14 @ 6:17pm EST
Some other stuff
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It's another week and I'm still stressed. In this episode, I pull my attempt at a MECE framework of the sources of my stress (spoiler alert: internal expectation and self validation are buckets). I also dig into 3 small reminders to myself to enjoy the little moments in life.
Recorded on Feb 5 @ 6:43pm EST
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Recording this in a stressful time after just gotten back from a ski trip with catch ups for work, powerlifting programming, friends, and other interests (like this podcast!). I talk about the downsides of ambition and having a type A personality: anxiety, self inflicted pressure, search for internal validation, and pain in not meeting internalized expectations. Thoughts are jumbled a bit in this one, but it is raw nonetheless. Recorded on Jan 30, 2025 @ 9:57pm Some other stuff More coherent thoughts: https://lieric.substack.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ericcliii Ig: https://www.instagram.com/ericli.c/
My guest is Yuxuan- currently pursuing his own home care company. We talk about how he escaped from the "normal" big tech route post university, the feeling he felt after earning his first dollar, the chaos after going viral on TikTok, and the lessons he accumulated so far.
Some other stuff :)
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I talk about recent reoccurring doubts I've had in choosing my current job instead of several alternatives and the arguments to combat these doubts.
Inspired from a recent year of review catch up with some close friends, I also remind myself how to reframe difficult times.
Recorded on Jan 15 @ 5:47pm
Some other stuff
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Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ericcliii
HAPPY NEW YEAR !
It's just me in this one. I already had to opportunity to stew in the reflection of 2024 so I'm looking ahead in this one.
I talk about ideas I would like to keep in mind when it comes to New Year's Resolutions (focus, duration, urgency), things that currently do and do not matter to me, and my resulting new years resolutions.
Goals are pointless if not operationalized. If there's anything I'm reminding myself in this one, it's operationalizing everything.
Some other stuff :)
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The road to being a medical professional is difficult. Period. So what happens when you realize 10+ years of school is just not for you? This is part one of the story of Jonathan, who pivoted from aiming for medical school towards mastering in Genetic Counseling at Stanford, John Hopkins, UofT, etc... Along the way, Eric and Jonathan talk about his high school experiences, looking for social and other types of wealth, finding what we love to do, and memories from elementary school.
This is Nobody Yet, a place where we consider the holistic picture and push for an end goal in life among many others: to be happy.
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