Summary: What Is Love?

📖 John 15:13 — “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.”


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I. 💔 What Love Is Not

1️⃣ 🐟 Fish Love — Selfish Love That Takes

Definition: Love that consumes, uses, or drains others for personal pleasure.

Example: “I love fish” — but you eat it. That’s not love; that’s consumption.

Principle: Selfish love takes; true love gives.

Scripture: 1 Corinthians 13:5 — Love is not self-seeking.



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2️⃣ 🍗 Chicken Love — Craving Without Covenant

Definition: Love reduced to desire, attraction, or partial affection.

Analogy: Sexual desire is like a campfire — safe and warm within God’s boundaries; like a wildfire when uncontrolled.

Truth: Partly love is not love.

Real Love: Honors body, soul, and spirit; recognizes God’s image in others.

Scripture: 1 Corinthians 6:19–20 — Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit.



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II. 💖 What Love Truly Is

3️⃣ 🍟 Second Fries — Love That Sacrifices

Definition: Giving the best to others, keeping less for yourself.

Analogy: Offering your friend the first fries — the best portion.

Essence: True love costs; it always involves giving.

Scripture: John 3:16 — God gave His Son.



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4️⃣ 💪 Love Is a Choice — Not a Feeling

Definition: Love is a conscious act of the will, not a passing emotion.

Example: Missionaries who give their lives, unseen and unrewarded.

Essence: Love chooses to bless, even enemies.

Scripture: Luke 6:27 — “Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you.”



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5️⃣ 🧸 Love Gives Value — Not Based on Worth, But Creating It

Definition: True love doesn’t find value; it creates value.

Analogy: A child’s old teddy bear — worthless to others, priceless to the child.

Theology: God loved us while we were still sinners — His love gave us worth.

Scripture: Romans 5:8 — Christ died for us while we were still sinners.



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III. 🌹 The Core Truth — The Way of Christlike Love

❌ Selfish Love ✅ True Love

👎Takes👍 Gives
👎Consumes 👍Builds up
👎Partial 👍Whole (body, soul, spirit)
👎Conditional 👍Unconditional
👎Convenient 👍Sacrificial


Summary Line:

Selfish love asks, “What can I take?”
True love asks, “What can I give?”




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🙏 Closing Reflection

🌿 Love is not fish love, not chicken love — but second-fries love.
💖 The kind that gives, serves, sacrifices, and redeems.
✝️ Because Jesus’ love for us made the worthless precious, the lost found, and the unlovable beloved.

The Path of True Knowing

Wisdom is proven when action is shown,
Truth is not spoken unless it is grown.
Knowledge is shallow if left on the page,
But true knowing ripens through life and through age.

Experience condenses the lessons of years,
Distilled through the trials, the struggles, the tears.
Holiness blossoms where darkness is fought,
In mess and confusion, the pure heart is wrought.

Not silver-tongued speeches, but deeds in the light,
Not hiding in shadow, but shining so bright.
Good conscience awakens through small acts each day,
Revealed in the crisis when trials press our way.
And virtue refined in the furnace of strife,
Becomes the true radiance, the jewel of life.

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《安全感之詩》

呼吸四拍，停頓四拍，
再以八拍吐盡塵埃。
心如湖水慢慢靜，
風浪過後自明白。

自尊如樹根深埋，
枝葉向光自由開。
覺察情緒輕輕喚，
不再被囚，不再猜。

關係渴望被看見，
理解如光暖心懷。
試探摩擦皆無礙，
修復之後更堅在。

安全非由傷害取，
確定掌控心自在。
三角之眼看全景，
平衡自在人間來。

🌀 改變之詩

一、基礎行動層
多角度望，撥開迷霧見真章，
追根問底，探尋本源不迷茫。
問題非敵，是契機的呼喚，
苦難化養分，成長自心田。

繁華拆碎成簡單的步伐，
一步可行，便是力量的火花。
不待完美，先讓腳步響起，
行動—回饋—修正，循環不已。

二、進階思維層
改釋如光，為黑夜重新命名，
覺察—辨識—轉向—實驗—重生。
舊詞裂開，新意生根，
困境化契機，因改釋而豐盛。

提問如劍，刺破問題的邊界，
不做解題者，而是定義的創建者。
誰說規則不可改變？
真理往往藏在新問題的宣言。

三、學習內化層
學習如河，框架為岸，
舊知對比，新流反思不斷。
以實踐驗證，以應用為證，
經歷才是最深的書卷。


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🌱 收束

改變不是終點，
而是三層七步的詩篇。
從理解到契機，從改釋到提問，
從行動到驗證，
人在循環裡生長，
問題終化為光。 ✨

Love is more than a feeling.
Love is a covenant — a promise that does not fade with time.
It is the binding of two hearts in belonging,
a union that whispers, “I am yours, and you are mine.”

Picture a garden, enclosed and fragrant,
a fountain sealed, where love is safe and pure.
Longing begins the journey,
but covenant gives it strength.

True love is as strong as death,
unyielding, unshakable.
It leaves an eternal mark,
a seal written not in ink,
but in the very depths of the soul.

So today, may you remember:
real love does not waver,
it endures forever.

Love is the force and motivation

The soul’s desire to return to eternity, the perfect origin.


Love molds and shapes us

Forms us into wholeness.

Helps us become better beings.

Not by relying on or attaching to another entity.


Love is like a stairway

From sexual sensation,

To emotional satisfaction,

To the synchronization of souls pursuing truth together.


Love makes us complete

Transforms lack into overflow.

Moves us from giving up to giving all.


Love is the source of beauty

Both the origin of beauty and the response to it in action.


Love bears fruit

Justice,

Righteousness,

Courage,

Wisdom.


Love is life’s sweetness

If life is the flower, love is the honey.


Love teaches authenticity

To be ourselves, true and whole.


Love guides moral courage

Makes us shy from evil.

Makes us brave to do good.


Love cannot be contained

It overflows.

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