Building your mate is not about changing someone to fit your ideal, but about growing together into the best versions of yourselves. Strong relationships are built, not found—they require effort, communication, understanding, and shared purpose.

A healthy relationship begins with self-awareness: knowing your values, emotional needs, and growth areas. From there, it extends to mutual development—encouraging one another’s goals, healing together, and creating an environment where both partners can thrive.

Key elements include:

• Communication: Honest, respectful conversations that build trust.

• Patience & Grace: Recognizing that growth takes time and mistakes will happen.

• Shared Vision: Building a common foundation—spiritual, emotional, and practical—for the relationship’s direction.

• Accountability: Supporting each other in becoming better partners, not just better individuals.

• Love in Action: Demonstrating care through consistency, empathy, and sacrifice.

Ultimately, building your mate is about partnership over perfection. It’s the decision to invest in one another’s potential and to grow in love, maturity, and purpose—together.

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To build the kind of person you want to be in a relationship with, start by identifying the values, qualities, and behaviors that matter most to you—kindness, honesty, emotional maturity, ambition, or empathy, for example. Then, instead of solely seeking these traits in others, begin cultivating them in yourself. By becoming the kind of partner you desire, you not only raise your own standards but also attract people who reflect those same qualities. This process involves self-awareness, personal growth, and a commitment to living with integrity. The more aligned you are with your ideal, the more naturally you'll connect with someone who resonates with your values.

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The person you want to be with—is about more than just attraction; it’s about intentionally creating a deep, lasting connection rooted in trust, respect, and shared growth.

It means learning each other's love languages, communicating openly, and showing up consistently, even when things aren’t easy. Instead of waiting for the “perfect” partner, it's about nurturing something real with someone who’s willing to grow alongside you.

It’s choosing each other every day, building a bond that’s not just based on feelings but on effort, understanding, and the willingness to build a future together.

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Understand your values, goals, emotional needs, and non-negotiables. A clear sense of self is essential before you define your ideal partner. Don’t settle. Protect your energy by walking away from people who don’t align with your vision or values, even if they seem close. You can shape the vision, but you can’t control the outcome. Let life surprise you — sometimes, the “person of your dreams” shows up in unexpected packaging. Listen as I give my two cents and bag of chips advice.

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Letting Go – where healing isn’t just talked about, it’s practiced. Whether you’re fresh out of a breakup, processing a divorce, or struggling to release a relationship that’s no longer serving you, this is your space to breathe, rebuild, and begin again. Each episode offers real stories, expert insights, and guided tools to help you navigate heartbreak, rediscover your identity, and move forward with clarity and strength. No toxic positivity — just real talk, deep healing, and the reminder that letting go isn’t losing… it’s choosing yourself.

Show Summary:

Whether you're dealing with tricky coworkers, navigating family drama, or just want to be a better friend, this show gives you the tools to communicate clearly, resolve conflict, and build stronger relationships.

Each episode features practical tips, expert interviews, and real-life stories to help you understand others—and yourself—better. Tune in for honest conversations and actionable advice that’ll help you get along with anyone.

Personal Relationships: Honestly clear communication helps people feel understood and valued.

Workplace & Career:Miscommunication can lead to costly errors; clarity keeps tasks on track.

Education & Learning:Good communication shows confidence and respect.

How you say something is just as important as what you say.”
Whether you're asking for a raise, resolving a disagreement, comforting a friend, or just ordering a coffee—how effectively you communicate can make or break the outcome.

Listens as I give my two since and a bag of chips advice.

Stay tuned more Virtuous Diva & Company. This September

we continue to discuss to favorite topic "Relationships".

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In today's society if you have friends your consider lucky or prevaliaged. Im just being extra! In 2025 all your doing now, is making acquaintances as you travel along the way. If you decide to be friends cool, if not we move on. Listens as I give cool prospective towards this topic.

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What does it mean to be in your emotions?

It means acknowledging your feelings wholeheartedly rather than avoiding, repressing or distracting yourself from them, whether it's happiness, sadness, loneliness or restlessness. It's about experiencing your emotions in their entirety to make you realize it's normal to have them. (GOOGLE.COM)

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Your emotions can either make or break you! Think about the last time you were on "10," as the young folks say! That means there was no calming you down if Jesus came back, lol. Dealing with relationships with others can become difficult in some cases. Listen as I give my two cents and bag of chips of advice.

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Online dating has it challenges, especially when it comes to your profile. What does your profile really say about you? Listen as I give sound dating advice as it relates to your dating profile.

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Your dating profile is your first introduction to meeting someone online. And they say a picture is worth a thousand words. Well I have serval words at this point. Listen as I give my two cents and bag of chip advice towards this topic. 

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Dating going right usually means things are running smoothly and positively between two people. Here are some signs that dating is going well:

1. **Good Communication**: Both partners are open and honest with each other, sharing thoughts, feelings, and interests comfortably.

2. **Mutual Respect**: There’s a genuine respect for each other's values, boundaries, and individuality.

3. **Fun & Enjoyable Time Together**: You both have fun and enjoy each other's company, whether on dates or just spending time together.

4. **Emotional Connection**: There’s a growing sense of emotional intimacy and trust, leading to stronger feelings for one another.

5. **Shared Interests & Compatibility**: You find common ground in hobbies, beliefs, or goals for the future, making it easy to connect and bond.

In short, when dating is going well, you feel comfortable, valued, and connected, and there's a sense that things are heading in a positive direction. (AI GENERATED)

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Here we are in 2025, and we still can't get it right! There should be a crime towards false dating profiles. If you agree, raise your hand. It makes no sense, all the false advertisement that goes into some of these profiles. Listen as I give my two cents and a bag of chip of advice. #1

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Many of us can relate to change, and many can not! There are several lessons a person must learn, to accept the things you can't change. Listen as I give my last two dollars and "change" towards this episode.

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Honey I was for sure, someone had picked me. You know like the game of it. Except it wasn't me. I got set up into thinking this guy was actually interested in little ole me. Listen as I give the back story to the "One Life to Live with Vee" the saga continues.

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Self motivation is self care at it best. Depending on the day of the week, we could lack this simple concept. Put one food in front of the other and keep moving. Giving up is not an option!!!

Listen as I give words of encouragement for the mind!

The title speaks for itself. There are many things that should never be explained. Like the streets say, it is what it is! Many times we have a hundred questions trying to figure out a particular thing. Really there’s no explanation to our madness. Listen as I give my two cents and a cup of tea of vital information.