Join us in this candid and heartfelt episode as we sit down with Horror Daddy J to explore his journey through kink, sexuality, and self-discovery. Growing up with early exposure to his father's porn stash, he’s always been attuned to his desires. Raised in a conservative, Christian environment, he reflects on how education and experience have helped him embrace a vibrant, rainbow-colored view of sexuality and love. He shares practical advice like asking specific safety questions ...

Trigger warnings: Trauma and self harm What happens when past trauma transforms into empowered pleasure? In this deeply moving conversation with Talis, founder of Beyond Taboo, we explore the complex journey from self-harm to healing through consensual BDSM practices. Talis brings a unique perspective as both a dominant who wears a collar and a clinical sexology student with a psychology background. They share their evolution in kink, from problematic beginnings at 18 to becoming an educator...

In this episode, we dive into the fascinating and important topic of neurodivergency within the BDSM community. We explore what it means to be neurodivergent and how different neurological profiles can present themselves. We delve into why many neurodivergent folks are drawn to BDSM, and how the structure, consent, and clarity of power dynamics can feel like a natural fit. We also touch on the importance of open and honest negotiation, particularly when it comes to communicating needs, bounda...

We host a free monthly discussion group and decided to try something new: record it to share with all our fans! In this engaging video episode, we delve into the art of creating the ideal atmosphere for intimate moments. We explore the crucial elements that set the mood, such as lighting, scent, and sound, and discuss how they can enhance sensual and exhilarating experiences alike. From sensual to extreme, we’ll talk about different ways to really make the encounter immersive for all parties....

Strap in folks, this episode takes all kinds of twists and turns! This was not necessarily the episode we wanted to come back with, but it’s happening regardless. You’ll have to excuse the randomness and unstructured format of it as we go off on several different tangents. Be a fly on the wall as we lay and talk in aftercare from our Rough Body Play class hosted by Filthy FemDom and Filth Syndicate Events. This episode gives a closer look at our dynamic and how we debrief after a class or pla...

This week’s show was so much fun to record! And it has been a long time coming! After many scheduling attempts, we finally got Jessica Gonzalez, aka The Mommy Jane to join us in the lounge. We talk a little bit about what NLP, or neuro-linguistic programming, is and how it’s useful. There were more than a few hilarious moments where we talked about imposter syndrome and what it’s like to be an influencer. We chat about the importance of language and how we talk to ourselves. Jessica shares a ...

Hello everyone! We have an amazing episode for you this week! Shani Hart, the founder of The Noir Leaf, joined us in the lounge to talk all about her company and THC’s sober cousin: CBD. The idea for The Noir Leaf was born in 2019 when Shani noticed that there were not a lot of places where she lived that were accessible to buy and learn about CBD products. In fact, she realized many African Americans didn’t even know what CBD was. That had to change. Shani has over 6 years of experience in t...

The Ganja Goddesses are back! We have missed you all and know that you’ve missed us too. Pandemic life got the best of us and we dove into our resin business. This episode is all about updating you on what we’ve been up to. We also talk about our experiences switching to virtual work when everything shut down. There’s tons of moments where we just laugh and are silly, as we usually do. And guess what? We didn’t even smoke before recording! We talk a great deal about education and upcoming cla...

Welcome to another wonderful week here at the Lounge. We decided to throw something a little different in the mix for this week’s episode. We came up with a long list of questions to ask each other. This was fun because we got to know each other better and you get to hear our thoughts on different topics as well as personal stories. Strap in and spark up, it’s bound to be an exciting ride. We share some tales from our younger years, including what we wanted to be when we grew up. We came up ...

Welcome to another wonderful week here at the Lounge. Chelsea Cebara stopped by to talk with us about all things topical! This episode is highly informative so take your seat because class is in session! Chelsea created the world’s first water-based THC lubricant with Velvet Swing. Chelsea shares some of her favorite reviews of Velvet Swing. She has since left the company and started her own, Cebara Consulting, where she helps those who are starting to formulate with cannabis. We got to chat ...

And we’re back! Thank you all for your patience during our hiatus. Our recording computer broke and we had to wait for the new one. Our regular weekly programming can continue and this week we have an amazing and fun show for you. Reba the Diva joined us in the Lounge for some great conversation. She fills us in on how she went from working in nonprofit to the vast world of sexuality and sex education. There’s so much passion when Reba talks about the work she does and it is something that th...

Welcome to another wonderful week at the KIC Lounge! Joining us all the way from the west coast is Anne Hodder-Shipp. We have been looking forward to this episode since Anne said she’d love to be a guest on the show. Our conversation shed a lot of light on something we all experience: dreams, among other subjects. It was extremely fascinating to hear about her journey as a dreamworker, from discovering it as a client to facilitating sessions with clients of her own. We talk all about the powe...

We have a fantastic show for you this week! Parker was dealing with some tooth pain and was not as talkative in this episode so we just wanted to let you know that Miss Mackenzee really took the lead. Joining us is Rain DeGrey who took some time out of her busy schedule to chat with us! We really enjoyed this conversation not only because we’ve both enjoyed Rain’s work for years but because it provided a lot of really great insights. We talk all about the importance of helping to educate peop...

This week in the Lounge, we had Willow stop by to talk with us. Willow is the type of person that gives meaning to the phrase "good things come in small packages." He brings such a warm and fun energy with him and he certainly brought it in this conversation. The three of us share a love of medical play and all things sharps-related. Don't worry if you don't know what that means. You'll find out in this episode. Parker and Willow talk about the headspace for pet play and what draws them to th...

This week we got to catch up with a dear human who we met in Michigan years ago when we taught for his event, Synergy. It was a long drive but certainly worth it! Even before we started recording, Travis had us smiling and laughing, filled with tons of positive energy so we knew this was going to be a fun episode. Once we hit record, the energy did not change and he shared with us how he recently collared his one girl and told the story of how he collared his other girl many years ago. It’s a...

We are so excited for this week’s show! Dr. Timaree took some time to hang out with us in the Lounge. We covered so many amazing topics in such a short amount of time so you won’t want to miss a second of this episode. We get Dr. Timaree’s take on sex education and what is lacking, not just for the younger generation but for parents and adults as well. The idea of attraction templates and body morphology can sound foreign but she takes the time to explain what that is and how she handled the ...

In this episode we get a chance to chat with Darren Infinity. This was such a great conversation involving Darren's naughty introduction to kink in his teen years, managing relationships and dynamics that are forced to be long distance and life as a switch. There's numerous types of headspace when it comes to age play which we discuss. We even talk about co-topping with your Dom and so much more. You definitely don't want to miss this episode! Darren is an enthusiastic bisexual queer pervert...

This week, we have a wonderful show for you with our guest, the lovely Miss Colleen! Throughout this episode, we find ourselves discussing the idea of the gender binary and how we have to go beyond that. Given all the hats that she wears, Miss Colleen is blurring those lines of gender identity or expression, sexuality, and even kink identifiers. We share tons of fun stories while also exploring what being a drag queen means to her and how it opens up a whole world of opportunity as well as a ...

We had a chance to catch up with a friend who we’ve known for several years now and is an absolute gem! Throughout our conversation there’s tons of laughter and moments of blushing. We talk about MJ’s beautiful glass work and all that she puts into it. For the first time on our show, we delve into the wonderful world of polyamory, what it can look like and how you can adapt during quarantine with partners not in your germ pod. Things get a little spicy when we get into kinkier topics. Shy Par...

Sometimes, aftercare is overlooked but it is actually one of the most important parts of engaging in kinky play. In this episode, we talk a lot about what aftercare is, why it's important, and how it can look for different people. We share our own needs as well as ways to make it special for you! Bottoms and submissives aren't the only ones who need aftercare and we talk about why it's important for tops and Doms too. What if your needs don't line up with the person you're playing with? Don't...