Confidence is core to the functioning of a believer. All other spiritual tools at your disposal may be rendered a mere showbiz in the absence of confidence. Now Consider................. ........

You ate born again to Liberty not a debacle! You are freed not by some presidential amnesty but by the vicarious suffering, death and resurrection of the King of Kings. Jesus didn't save you by declarations but by drdications! He took your place. That you may keep your place.

This is is a heart to heart session in the THE LEADERSHIP INCUBATION PROGRAM at The Living Faith Chapel.

BLOODY COUPLES: +Incidence of fatal confrontations between couples is escalating. -seemingly road accident reports have been fast replaced by family accidents! +The rate and impact of fighting couples is pitching to a world war status. +This is a very unique social malady that cuts across the social divide; the poor, the middle class to the rich bourgeoisie. ++Though a cultural phenomenon that was interpreted for love, domestic violence has taken a dynamic trend. +it was once referred 2as wifebeating, -it now includes husband beating. +It was once beating -it now includes maiming +it was once about power control. -It now includes total silencing: death! What is regarded gender-based violence is men using their superior physical strength and social authority to demean and batter their wives. Why the Animosity? What happened to love... And mutual respect Values... Honor for the institution... The simplicity with which its causation is defined makes the solution look like it will be a one-stop shopping! Cheating! In every other case of domestic violence, Infidelity is to blame. #But is this the truth? Infidelity is just a presenting problem. We need to get deeper and get the real-life factors that have continued to render couples widows and widowers or divorcées, as children are orphaned; and brutely so! FORMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE: +Outright physical confrontation +Well planned conspiracies +spontaneous fight that suddenly results in death. We need to dig deeper into the causes of this bloody social phenomenon before we subscribe the cure. There is no couple that just wakes up one day to fight and kill each other! Can we stop the menace?

We as a society need to ask ourselves quality questions about this rampant social phenomenon. I believe that's the only way to come closer to quality answers. Your contributions are the solutions against this degrading vice.

Endure hardness like a soldier of Christ. The walk of Faith is not a Leisure walk but a battle march! You started to finish. There os a remarkable distinction between finishing and stopping. You eill not stop! Endure thay difficulty, challenge, challenge. It has an age long weakness against endurance.

Do not cave in under pressure. Do not be transfixed in the midst of that fireball of trouble. There is a way out. There is a helper ever present and a word ever potent! Such are the moments you need this.

We are living in a dynamic world. The surprises of this life are innumerable. We need to be alive to the challenges of our daily life, in career, family, marriage, ministry ,health, finances etc. I call upon you not to concede defeat. Do not give up as yet. Let's join hands and focus. Focus on the destination. This is the preparation for a testimony. In the trial is concealed the triumph! Arise.