Ever stared at your schedule and thought, “Ugh… I really don’t want to go”? We’ve all been there—whether it’s a meeting, a ministry event, or even a Sunday service. But here’s the truth: leadership isn’t about convenience. In Episode 62, I’ll talk about why showing up matters, how your presence sets culture, and why your influence is bigger than you realize. This is your reminder: leadership is lived in the moments you choose to be present.
Leadership isn’t about having all the answers—it’s about asking the right questions. The truth is, churches don’t grow by accident, lives aren’t changed by chance, and leaders don’t stay passionate without purpose. Today, I want to invite you to step back from the busyness of ministry and lean into some core questions that can reshape the way you lead. These aren’t once-a-year, strategic-plan questions; they’re the kind you carry in prayer, revisit often, and let guide your decisions.
When we picture a leader, most of us imagine someone loud, bold, extroverted—someone who walks into a room and immediately takes charge. But leadership doesn’t always look that way. Some of the most powerful and effective leaders are the quiet ones. They don’t lead with volume, but with presence. They don’t demand the spotlight, but they make space for others to shine. Quiet leaders are listeners, thoughtful decision-makers, and steady examples. Today, we’re going to talk about the strengths, the challenges, and the calling of what I call “The Silent CEO”—the power of a quiet leader.
There’s a quiet danger in leadership—the slow drift toward narcissism. It doesn’t happen overnight. It starts small: a little pride, a little control, a little spotlight. But left unchecked, it can poison a ministry from the inside out. In this episode of In the Loop, we’re taking a hard look at the subtle shift from servant to celebrity, from called to controlling. This is a heart-check for every leader—because the most dangerous leader is the one who no longer sees the need to grow.
There’s a dangerous misconception creeping into the mindset of too many aspiring ministers today—a subtle but powerful lie that says the pulpit is the prize. That somehow, the goal of ministry is the microphone. Your pastor doesn’t need another sermon—he needs a servant. The spotlight doesn’t sanctify you—service does. Today, we’re going to talk about what it really means to be used by God, and why chasing the pulpit will never compare to carrying the load.
Let’s be real—you’ve had that moment. The lightbulb moment. The “this is it” kind of vision. It hits you out of nowhere and suddenly, you can see it. The future looks big, bold, and full of purpose. You start dreaming, planning, maybe even telling people about it. It’s exciting… until it isn’t. Because right after the vision comes the realization: this is going to take a lot of work. And that’s when doubt starts creeping in. The excitement fades, the energy dips, and you start wondering—*was this ever really the right path?* Today, I want to talk to you about that exact moment—when work starts feeling like the enemy of your vision. Because you’re not alone, and you're not crazy. Let's unpack it together.
In a world overflowing with sermons, reels, and leadership resources, it’s never been easier to deliver great content—but is that really what moves people? In this episode of In the Loop, I’m inviting pastors and leaders to step back and wrestle with a crucial question: Are we so focused on crafting messages that that fall short of connecting with the people?
Confrontation is one of the most challenging aspects of leadership, yet it’s an unavoidable and necessary part of growth. Welcome to today’s episode of Lead with Integrity. I’m your host, Tom Durrance, and today we’re diving into The Art of Confrontation—when, how, and why leaders must have difficult conversations. Whether you’re addressing performance issues, navigating team conflicts, or standing firm on organizational values, knowing how to confront effectively can make all the difference. In this episode, we’ll explore practical strategies to help you approach tough conversations with clarity, confidence, and care.
Leadership is frequently associated with authority, power, and control. In this episode of Leading with Care: The Power of a Compassionate Leader, we explore how compassionate leadership—rooted in empathy, self-awareness, and vulnerability—can create more resilient, motivated teams and elevate leaders themselves. By embracing care and emotional intelligence, leaders can transform their approach and make a lasting, positive impact on those they lead.
In this podcast, we'll dive deep into the hidden corners of our hearts and minds, exploring how we navigate and process our deepest thoughts, secrets, and questions of purity before God and ourselves.
Nothing but the Truth (white lies), is a podcast where we explore how even the smallest, seemingly harmless lies can profoundly affect our lives, relationships, ministry, and the world around us.
Could your personality be impending on your ministry? How would you score yourself in the context of your personality vs the Fruit of the Spirit? In this podcast, we'll change the personality to be more like the Fruit of the Spirit.
God anoints, and Pastors appoint. Have you wondered if they'll ever synchronize? In this podcast, we'll explore the two. Anointed and Appointed. How and when do they sync together? Lean in to, "Don't Hang up the Cape".
In this podcast, we’ll discuss leadership and lordship. At what point in your leadership could you start to lord over God’s people as if you own them? Lordship is self-serving and has no place in the Kingdom. If you honorably steward God’s resources (people), then God will send you more. Let’s get back to leading God’s wonderful people with love.
Battle scars can be fatal, but battle-tested can be helpful. In this podcast, we'll explore how to turn your scars into badges of honor. As time passes, you become a highly decorated soldier of the cross. Keep leading, keep marching; you are doing well, my friend.
How do you see the people you lead/pastor? Do you have an employee relationship or a customer relationship? This podcast will challenge you to look into the mirror of your leadership/influence and see how you score. Leadership is being honest with ourselves and making adjustments along the way.
Have you ever felt like no one notices you? You work hard, give your best, and wonder if you're making a difference. In this podcast, we'll explore that very thought and feeling. But the simple answer is, yes, you are making a difference.
Have you ever wondered why churches are different sizes? We all believe and preach the same doctrine and subscribe to the same biblical truths, but we are all different when it comes to attendance/membership. In this podcast, we'll discuss some potential reasons why.
In this podcast, we'll define the pitfalls of complaining and help you create a communication culture. Complaining is toxic, divisive, and demoralizing. How do you move the volunteers from complaining to communicating? Lean in and take notes.
Have you ever thought... it's hard to grow a church with our UPCI standards and beliefs? In this podcast, we'll debunk that and prove you can grow an Apostolic church in the 21st century, preaching and teaching our distinctives.
