Today, we’re calling out the real reasons relationships fail—and it’s not what you think. We’re talking about why being “relationship ready” matters, how attention bids are the silent glue keeping things together, and why most people fail at communication and vulnerability.

We dive into radical honesty, mindset shifts, and how to grow with your partner instead of growing apart. Relationships aren’t effortless—they take commitment, honesty, and a hell of a lot of work.

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Takeaways

•It's essential to be relationship ready before entering a partnership.

•Attention bids are crucial for maintaining connection in relationships.

•Mindset shifts can significantly impact relationship dynamics.

•Communication and vulnerability are key to resolving conflicts.

•Radical honesty fosters deeper understanding between partners.

•Relationships require ongoing effort to thrive and grow.

•It's important to acknowledge and respond to your partner's needs.

•Creating a positive environment can enhance relationship satisfaction.

•You can grow together even as individuals change over time.

•Treating your partner with the same care as at the beginning can prevent relationship stagnation.

Chapters

00:00 Catching Up

02:06 Exploring Relationship Dynamics

04:45 The Mindset Shift in Relationships

07:42 Understanding Pleasure vs. Joy

10:20 Navigating Relationship Challenges

12:55 Actionable Steps for Relationship Improvement

13:00 Introduction to Relationship Readiness

17:52 Understanding Bids for Attention

22:22 The Infinite Game in Relationships

25:38 Reviving Stale Relationships

30:34 Embracing Change and Growth in Relationships

35:11 Radical Honesty and Vulnerability in Communication

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