It’s safe to say that if someone in your church, your neighborhood, or your small group is reeling from porn addiction…it may be time to speak up and walk beside them. Telling your story tells them, “you’re not alone.” Bob and Dannah Gresh told their story for the first time at a True Woman conference. In this episode of Happily Even After, they’ll share that message and some encouragement for you as you consider when it might be the right time to share your story.Buy the Happily Even After book (https://www.amazon.com/Happily-Even-After-Redeem-Marriage/dp/0802419828/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2I986FUUQJ7JQ&keywords=happily+even+after+dannah+gresh&qid=1678565702&sprefix=happily+even+%2Caps%2C95&sr=8-1) by Dannah GreshLISTEN:Need Help Lovin’ The Man (https://www.reviveourhearts.com/podcast/revive-our-hearts/need-help-lovin-man/) from True Woman 2017 by Revive Our Hearts  RECOMMENDED INTENSIVES FOR COUPLES & INDIVIDUALS:Crossroads Counseling of the Rockies (https://www.crossroadscounselingoftherockies.com/) (Colorado)River Tree Center (https://rivertreecenter.com/) with Phil Herdnon (Tennessee) Faithful &True (https://www.faithfulandtrue.com/about)  (Minnesota)Alongsides Care (https://www.alongsidecares.net/) (Michigan)

People quit porn every day. Not that many actually enter into the hard work of recovery. But you can be among them. Today with the continued help of Layton and Chelsea Boeve of the Liberator podcast, Bob and Dannah will try to answer the question: how long does recovery take? And Bob’s counselor, Phil Herdnon, will help you make sense of the presence of depression in the recovery process.Buy the Happily Even After book (https://www.amazon.com/Happily-Even-After-Redeem-Marriage/dp/0802419828/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2I986FUUQJ7JQ&keywords=happily+even+after+dannah+gresh&qid=1678565702&sprefix=happily+even+%2Caps%2C95&sr=8-1) by Dannah GreshUse the coupon code “HEA” to get a free month of Covenant Eyes (https://www.covenanteyes.com/) screen accountability.LISTEN:Liberator Episode 1 (https://www.liberatorpodcast.com/episodes/episode-02-peak-cbd-la82h) with Layton and Chelsea Boeve Get the Dog Out of the Bed (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/episode-6-get-the-dog-out-of-the-bed/id1669933800?i=1000609678048), Happily Even After Episode #5WATCH:“Washington’s Dream” (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JYqfVE-fykk) by Nate Bargatze on Saturday Night LiveRECOMMENDED INTENSIVES FOR COUPLES & INDIVIDUALS:Crossroads Counseling of the Rockies (https://www.crossroadscounselingoftherockies.com/) (Colorado)River Tree Center (https://rivertreecenter.com/) with Phil Herdnon (Tennessee) Faithful &True (https://www.faithfulandtrue.com/about)  (Minnesota)Alongsides Care (https://www.alongsidecares.net/) (Michigan)

Every time you confess sin is a victory! But when it comes to confessing a porn addiction or a relapse to your partner, it has to be done well. Otherwise, you’ll do extra damage. Today on the podcast, Bob and Dannah explore tips for making the confession experience as healthy as possible. Guests include Layton and Chelsea Boeve of the Liberator podcast, and Phil Herdnon, Bob’s licensed therapist.Buy the Happily Even After book (https://www.amazon.com/Happily-Even-After-Redeem-Marriage/dp/0802419828/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2I986FUUQJ7JQ&keywords=happily+even+after+dannah+gresh&qid=1678565702&sprefix=happily+even+%2Caps%2C95&sr=8-1) by Dannah GreshUse the coupon code “HEA” to get a free month of Covenant Eyes (https://www.covenanteyes.com/) screen accountability.LISTEN:Liberator (https://www.liberatorpodcast.com/) with Layton and Chelsea Boeve READ:“Everytime I Confess Sin Is A Victory” (https://www.covenanteyes.com/blog/every-time-i-confess-my-sin-is-a-victory/) from Covenant Eyes“How to Confess Porn Addiction to Your Spouse” (https://www.covenanteyes.com/blog/how-to-confess-your-porn-addiction-to-your-spouse/) by Jen Ferguson from Covenant Eyes“Confessing Lust to Your Wife: How Detailed Should You Be” (https://www.covenanteyes.com/blog/confessing-lust-to-your-wife-how-detailed-should-you-be/) by Luke Gilkerson from Covenant EyesRECOMMENDED INTENSIVES FOR COUPLES & INDIVIDUALS:Crossroads Counseling of the Rockies (https://www.crossroadscounselingoftherockies.com/) (Colorado)River Tree Center (https://rivertreecenter.com/) with Phil Herdnon (Tennessee) Faithful &True (https://www.faithfulandtrue.com/about)  (Minnesota)Alongsides Care (https://www.alongsidecares.net/) (Michigan)

You were created to experience connection with God and with others. But sin separates us. Dannah explores how the pathway back to being connected to God and community is radical vulnerability. Through an exploration of her life verse, Psalm 25:14, Dannah explains why honest confession matters so much…not just in our relationship with each other, but also with God. Buy the Happily Even After book (https://www.amazon.com/Happily-Even-After-Redeem-Marriage/dp/0802419828/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2I986FUUQJ7JQ&keywords=happily+even+after+dannah+gresh&qid=1678565702&sprefix=happily+even+%2Caps%2C95&sr=8-1) by Dannah GreshUse the coupon code “HEA” to get a free month of Covenant Eyes (https://www.covenanteyes.com/) screen accountability.LISTEN:Episode #2 “Glorious Unfolding” of Happily Even After (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/episode-2-glorious-unfolding/id1669933800?i=1000605351300) GET TICKETS:Attend Flourish (http://dannahgresh.com/flourish) for women with Dannah Gresh, Erin Davis, and Stephanie MartinezRECOMMENDED INTENSIVES FOR COUPLES & INDIVIDUALS:Crossroads Counseling of the Rockies (https://www.crossroadscounselingoftherockies.com/) with Pete Kuiper (Colorado)River Tree Center (https://rivertreecenter.com/) (Tennessee) Faithful &True (https://www.faithfulandtrue.com/about)  (Minnesota)Alongsides Care (https://www.alongsidecares.net/) (Michigan)

If you’re having a party, Bob Gresh is the guy to invite. (Dannah might be studying, though.) Bob confesses how he compared himself to Dannah and felt “less than.” But he learned to stop wearing the label of “lazy” when he began to understand the power of believing what God the Father has said about him. You can stop comparing, competing, and campaigning. Replace the lies and labels in your life with God’s Truth. (And duct tape will be involved.)Buy the Happily Even After book (https://www.amazon.com/Happily-Even-After-Redeem-Marriage/dp/0802419828/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2I986FUUQJ7JQ&keywords=happily+even+after+dannah+gresh&qid=1678565702&sprefix=happily+even+%2Caps%2C95&sr=8-1) by Dannah GreshUse the coupon code “HEA” to get a free month of Covenant Eyes (https://www.covenanteyes.com/) screen accountability.LISTEN:Episode #2 “Glorious Unfolding” of Happily Even After (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/episode-2-glorious-unfolding/id1669933800?i=1000605351300) GET TICKETS:Attend the Born to Be Brave tour (https://borntobebrave.com/) for fathers and sonsRECOMMENDED INTENSIVES FOR COUPLES & INDIVIDUALS:Crossroads Counseling of the Rockies (https://www.crossroadscounselingoftherockies.com/) with Pete Kuiper (Colorado)River Tree Center (https://rivertreecenter.com/) (Tennessee) Faithful &True (https://www.faithfulandtrue.com/about) (Minnesota)Alongsides Care (https://www.alongsidecares.net/) (Michigan)

Today Bob and Dannah Gresh bring you more advice from their sex therapist, Joyce Penner. You’ll get practical encouragement for how to rebuild your intimacy along with a book recommen...

Do you ever wonder if what’s happening in your marriage might classify as abuse? Sometimes a husband is guilty. Sometimes a wife is. Why do you need to know? So you can get the right kind of help. Learn five red flags that are tell-tale signs of abuse. And meet two experts who can guide your learning curve. Buy the Happily Even After book (https://www.amazon.com/Happily-Even-After-Redeem-Marriage/dp/0802419828/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2I986FUUQJ7JQ&keywords=happily+even+after+dannah+gresh&qid=1678565702&sprefix=happily+even+%2Caps%2C95&sr=8-1) by Dannah GreshCALL SOMEONE:If you feel you need help navigating abuse, call someone (https://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/should-i-stay-in-my-abusive-marriage-for-the-kids/).ATTEND:Join us for a marriage weekend (https://dannahgresh.com/marriageweekend/) in the Dominican Republic with Pete KuiperLISTEN:Bob and Dannah talk with Charlynn Steinkamp on Fight for Your Marriage (https://rejoiceministries.org/ep-154-happily-even-after-with-bob-dannah-gresh/)WATCH:Lysa Terkuerst & Leslie Vernick discuss “difficult & destructive marriages on Therapy & Theology (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6hZtAh_o3SY)Dannah talks with Diane Langberg on Revive Our Hearts’ Grounded (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zt3oHZSPWCk)RECOMMENDED INTENSIVES FOR COUPLES & INDIVIDUALS:River Tree Center (https://rivertreecenter.com/) with Phil Herdnon (Tennessee) CrossRoads Counseling of the Rockies (https://www.crossroadscounselingoftherockies.com/) (Colorado)Faithful&True (https://www.faithfulandtrue.com/about)  (Minnesota)Alongsides Care (https://www.alongsidecares.net/) (Michigan)

It’s one of the most common questions couples ask: “should we tell the kids?”  Opinions vary. Bob and Dannah tell you where they landed and how a conversation with Bob’s current therapist, Phil Herdnon gave them confidence that it was the right one for them.Buy the Happily Even After book (https://www.amazon.com/Happily-Even-After-Redeem-Marriage/dp/0802419828/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2I986FUUQJ7JQ&keywords=happily+even+after+dannah+gresh&qid=1678565702&sprefix=happily+even+%2Caps%2C95&sr=8-1) by Dannah GreshATTEND:Join us for a marriage weekend (https://dannahgresh.com/marriageweekend/) in the Dominican Republic with Pete KuiperREADCovenant Eyes provides  “10 Shocking Stats About Teens and Pornography (https://www.covenanteyes.com/2015/04/10/10-shocking-stats-about-teens-and-pornography/)” WATCH:Chris McKenna on a True Girl workshop titled “How to Talk to Your Kids About Pornography” (https://mytruegirl.com/how-to-talk-to-your-kids-about-porn-2023/)RECOMMENDED INTENSIVES FOR COUPLES & INDIVIDUALS:River Tree Center (https://rivertreecenter.com/) with Phil Herdnon (Tennessee) CrossRoads Counseling of the Rockies (https://www.crossroadscounselingoftherockies.com/) (Colorado)Faithful&True (https://www.faithfulandtrue.com/about)  (Minnesota)Alongsides Care (https://www.alongsidecares.net/) (Michigan)Be Free (https://www.bebroken.org/gateway-to-freedom) with Jonathan Daughtery (Various Locations)

You are not alone. Our entire culture is experiencing great unhappiness due to the sexual revolution. With the help...

How do you rebuild your sex life after trust is broken? We called a Christian sex therapist to get some gritty and practical advice for episode #6 of the Happily Even After podcast with Bob and Dannah Gresh. We’ll talk about everything from female orgasm to pelvic floor therapy to the tender topic of abuse. We’re exploring Truth #6: intimacy is about giving your whole self to your spouse. It’s one of seven beliefs every marriage needs to experience God’s redemption. Buy the Happily Even After book (https://www.amazon.com/Happily-Even-After-Redeem-Marriage/dp/0802419828/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2I986FUUQJ7JQ&keywords=happily+even+after+dannah+gresh&qid=1678565702&sprefix=happily+even+%2Caps%2C95&sr=8-1) by Dannah GreshLISTEN:Jonathan Daughtery talks about “Lust Land” on Java with Juli  (https://www.authenticintimacy.com/resources/8832/211-understanding-pornography-addiction)Love & Lust sermon (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jUWnE6GeOiE) by Pastor Tim KellerWATCH:Dr. Juli Slattery talks about sex on Revive Our Hearts’ Grounded (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=00mnG2bMSrM)Leslie Vernick talks about “destructive relationships” with Lysa Terkeurst on Therapy & Theology (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6hZtAh_o3SY)CONTACT:Joyce Penner at Passionate Commitment (https://passionatecommitment.com/) for sex therapy

Can you ever experience trust in your relationship again? It’s one of the most pressing questions couples face. In episode #5 of the Happily Even After podcast with Bob and Dannah Gresh you’ll hear from the hear some oft-neglected biblical Truth about trust.  You’ll hear why Bob and Dannah like a full “cookie jar.” We’re exploring Truth #5: trust is a gift you choose to give. It’s one of seven beliefs every marriage needs to experience God’s redemption. Buy the Happily Even After Book (https://www.amazon.com/Happily-Even-After-Redeem-Marriage/dp/0802419828/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2I986FUUQJ7JQ&keywords=happily+even+after+dannah+gresh&qid=1678565702&sprefix=happily+even+%2Caps%2C95&sr=8-1) by Dannah GreshLISTEN:Rosie Makinney’s podcast Fight for Love episode 5: “Will I ever trust him again?” (https://fightforloveministries.org/podcasts/6-will-i-ever-trust-him-again/)  WATCH:Chris and Cindy Beall talk about rebuilding trust on Focus on the Family (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZVhPzyCVxaM&t=4s).Dan and Lynn Nold on Calvary At Home (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nCI_Ptm7VCo).READ:Common Ground: Finding Sacred Space in Your Marriage by Mike and Debby Bivins Healing Your Marriage When Trust Has Been Broken by Cindy Beall

Dannah gets radically vulnerable in episode #4 of the Happily Even After podcast with Bob and Dannah Gresh. You’ll hear a Spirit-empowered story of one couple’s disclosure day as you explore Truth #4: forgiveness is a supernatural act that produces freedom. It’s one of seven beliefs every marriage needs to experience God’s redemption. Buy the Happily Even After Book (https://www.amazon.com/Happily-Even-After-Redeem-Marriage/dp/0802419828/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2I986FUUQJ7JQ&keywords=happily+even+after+dannah+gresh&qid=1678565702&sprefix=happily+even+%2Caps%2C95&sr=8-1) by Dannah GreshLISTEN:Dannah talks about forgiveness on Revive Our Hearts (https://www.reviveourhearts.com/podcast/revive-our-hearts/forgiven-and-free/). WATCH:Ashley Jameson talks to Dr. Barbara Steffens for Pure Desire (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Qg27oapLVA).Voddie Baucham preaches on forgiveness on Truth Endures (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YdmG87-skWw).RECOMMENDED INTENSIVES FOR COUPLES & INDIVIDUALS:CrossRoads Counseling of the Rockies (https://www.crossroadscounselingoftherockies.com/) (Colorado)River Tree Center (https://rivertreecenter.com/) (Tennessee) Faithful&True (https://www.faithfulandtrue.com/about) (Minnesota)Alongsides Care (https://www.alongsidecares.net/) (Michigan)Be Free (https://www.bebroken.org/gateway-to-freedom) with Jonathan Daughtery (Various Locations)

In episode #3 of the Happily Even After podcast, Bob and Dannah Gresh unpack the cycle many couples find themselves in of constance confession and relapse. They’ll introduce a powerful team approach to breaking the cycle with Truth #3: boundaries can bring holiness and health to your life. It’s one of seven beliefs every marriage needs to experience God’s redemption. And to begin to live “happily even after” porn, addiction, trauma, and pain.Buy the Happily Even After Book (https://www.amazon.com/Happily-Even-After-Redeem-Marriage/dp/0802419828/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2I986FUUQJ7JQ&keywords=happily+even+after+dannah+gresh&qid=1678565702&sprefix=happily+even+%2Caps%2C95&sr=8-1) by Dannah GreshLISTEN:Bob and Dannah talk with Bob Lepine on Revive Our Hearts (https://www.reviveourhearts.com/podcast/revive-our-hearts/a-painful-confession/). Jonathan Daughtery of Be Broken talks to Dr. Juli Slattery on Java with Juli (https://www.authenticintimacy.com/resources/6176/175-when-men-are-addicted-to-porn-part-1).Love & Lust sermon (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jUWnE6GeOiE) by Pastor Tim Keller.WATCH:Bob and Dannah share their story for the first time on Revive Our Hearts (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p0xbWkRaHqY). (Video) RECOMMENDED INTENSIVES FOR COUPLES & INDIVIDUALS:CrossRoads Counseling of the Rockies (https://www.crossroadscounselingoftherockies.com/) (Colorado)River Tree Center (https://rivertreecenter.com/) (Tennessee) Faithful&True (https://www.faithfulandtrue.com/about)  (Minnesota)Alongsides Care (https://www.alongsidecares.net/) (Michigan)Be Free (https://www.bebroken.org/gateway-to-freedom)

In episode #2 of the Happily Even After podcast, Bob and Dannah Gresh talk about the gift of full disclosure—how to do it well and mistakes they made along the way. They’ll help you gain clarity about how significant your problem is—or isn’t. Together, you’ll explore Truth #2: honest confession is the beginning of healing, one of seven beliefs every marriage needs to experience God’s redemption. And to begin to live “happily even after” porn, addiction, trauma, and pain.Buy the Happily Even After Book (https://www.amazon.com/Happily-Even-After-Redeem-Marriage/dp/0802419828/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2I986FUUQJ7JQ&keywords=happily+even+after+dannah+gresh&qid=1678565702&sprefix=happily+even+%2Caps%2C95&sr=8-1) by Dannah GreshLISTEN:Glorious Unfolding (https://open.spotify.com/album/48saUjxC3qdrxuEKa5jiGZ) by Steven Curtis Chapman. Dannah teaches at the Pure Freedom Master Class (https://dannahgresh.com/series/six-steps-to-overcoming-negative-emotions/) (Chloe’s Story).Mark and Debbie Laaser on the Faithful & True Podcast (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8ka2D-6uds)Mark Laaser discusses addiction on Pure Passion Media  (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m572rucmH1I)Bob and Dannah share their story for the first time on Revive Our Hearts (https://www.reviveourhearts.com/podcast/revive-our-hearts/need-help-lovin-man/). (Audio only)WATCH:Bob and Dannah share their story for the first time on Revive Our Hearts (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p0xbWkRaHqY). (Video) RECOMMENDED INTENSIVES FOR COUPLES & INDIVIDUALS:CrossRoads Counseling of the Rockies (https://www.crossroadscounselingoftherockies.com/) (Colorado)River Tree Center (https://rivertreecenter.com/) (Tennessee) 

In episode #1 of the Happily Even After podcast, Bob and Dannah Gresh talk about how important it is not to shut off your emotions . . . even though you might want to. They introduce you to Truth #1: emotions are essential ingredients of intimacy. (Bob will transparently share how he feels about telling their story!) Let’s begin to explore seven beliefs every marriage needs to experience God’s redemption. And to begin to live “happily even after” porn, addiction, trauma, and pain.Buy the Happily Even After Book (https://www.amazon.com/Happily-Even-After-Redeem-Marriage/dp/0802419828/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2I986FUUQJ7JQ&keywords=happily+even+after+dannah+gresh&qid=1678565702&sprefix=happily+even+%2Caps%2C95&sr=8-1) by Dannah GreshLISTEN:Glorious Unfolding (https://open.spotify.com/album/48saUjxC3qdrxuEKa5jiGZ) by Steven Curtis Chapman. Dannah teaches at the Pure Freedom Master Class (https://dannahgresh.com/series/six-steps-to-overcoming-negative-emotions/) (Chloe’s Story).Jimmy & Kelly Needham on Revive Our Hearts (https://www.reviveourhearts.com/podcast/revive-our-hearts/when-your-spouse-addicted-pornography/).Bob and Dannah share their story for the first time on Revive Our Hearts (https://www.reviveourhearts.com/podcast/revive-our-hearts/need-help-lovin-man/). (Audio only)WATCH:Watch the Bob Newhart Show on Hulu (https://www.hulu.com/series/the-bob-newhart-show-79e4f0d1-24b1-4e1b-9448-9e14b178c39c). Bob shares his testimony with students at Cedarville University (https://www.cedarville.edu/Chapel/Watch/you-are-not-alone--the-issue-of-pornography/UdzD0otRoEet3bsnLlmNVw?y=2) chapel.Rosie MaKinney with Jim Daly on Focus on the Family (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3qYmIxq-mfA).

In this pilot episode of the Happily Even After, Bob and Dannah Gresh explain how they got here—on a podcast for marriages impacted by lust and pornography. They explain the clinical complexities of addiction and how they got the right kind of help. (Dannah might confess to throwing things!) This is your invitation to explore seven beliefs every marriage needs to experience God’s redemption. And to begin to live “happily even after” porn, addiction, trauma, and pain.LISTEN:Bob and Dannah share their story for the first time on Revive Our Hearts (https://www.reviveourhearts.com/podcast/revive-our-hearts/need-help-lovin-man/). (Audio only)Victoria Gutbrod and Dr. Juli Slattery talk about trauma-informed care on Java with Juli (https://javawithjuli.libsyn.com/398-how-trauma-informed-care-helps-your-brain-body-relationships).WATCH:Bob and Dannah share their story for the first time on Revive Our Hearts (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p0xbWkRaHqY).(Video) Josh McDowell talks to Pure Desire (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y3sRmLFarZc) about the effects of pornography.Preston and Jackie Hill Perry talk about pornography on With the Perry’s (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u0kHlMCYEWc).Ashley Jameson talks to Dr. Barbara Steffens for Pure Desire (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Qg27oapLVA).Dr. Juli Slattery rethinks sexuality on Focus on the Family. (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5_TynBlqaIk)