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Gospel Matrescence
Andie Davidson
57 episodes
2 days ago
In Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder, physician Gabor Maté offers a compassionate, in-depth exploration of ADHD—not as a genetic defect or fixed disorder, but as a developmental response to stress, disconnection, and unmet emotional needs in early childhood. Drawing on both neuroscience and personal experience (he himself has ADHD), Maté argues that the condition stems from disruptions in attachment and attunement between parent and child during crucial de...
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In Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder, physician Gabor Maté offers a compassionate, in-depth exploration of ADHD—not as a genetic defect or fixed disorder, but as a developmental response to stress, disconnection, and unmet emotional needs in early childhood. Drawing on both neuroscience and personal experience (he himself has ADHD), Maté argues that the condition stems from disruptions in attachment and attunement between parent and child during crucial de...
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Episodes (20/57)
Gospel Matrescence
Episode #57 - Scattered Minds Book Review
In Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder, physician Gabor Maté offers a compassionate, in-depth exploration of ADHD—not as a genetic defect or fixed disorder, but as a developmental response to stress, disconnection, and unmet emotional needs in early childhood. Drawing on both neuroscience and personal experience (he himself has ADHD), Maté argues that the condition stems from disruptions in attachment and attunement between parent and child during crucial de...
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2 days ago
20 minutes

Gospel Matrescence
Episode #56 - Accountability Bonding with Children
Today, Andie builds on the previous two episodes about the two types of bonding. She defines accountability bonding and discusses reasons modern parents are afraid to engage in this type of bonding. She discusses the benefits that children experience when a wise parent provides this type of steady leadership for children and the malfunctions that occur when they do not receive it.
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1 week ago
32 minutes

Gospel Matrescence
Episode #55 - Two Types of Bonding - Part 2
In this episode, Andie further explains the two types of bonding (oxytocin bonding and vasopressin bonding) and how they can be applied to our relationship with our children.
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1 month ago
31 minutes

Gospel Matrescence
Episode #54 - Two Types of Bonding - Part 1
Every thoughtful parent deeply desires to bond in a healthy way with their children and spouse. We all know that building connected relationships is a vital part of a strong family. Did you know that there are two distinct bonding systems that God created within each of us? These are oxytocin bonding and vasopressin bonding. In this episode, Andie defines each of these systems and explains how they function in men and women. She then takes this concept and applies it t...
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1 month ago
27 minutes

Gospel Matrescence
Episode #53 - Bringing the Bible to Our Children (with guest speaker Lauren Fee!)
Do you have a confident practice of bringing God's Word to your children regularly? Do you struggle to know the 'right way' to expose them to the life-giving truths found in Scripture? In this episode, Andie interviews Lauran Fee from ChildrensFeast.com on the topic of family devotions and how to offer a feast from God's Word to the children under our care. They share ideas for starting a practice of reading God's Word together as a family and provide warnings regarding the...
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3 months ago
40 minutes

Gospel Matrescence
The "Nine Tenths Rejection Rule" of Parenting
“Probably, he will reject nine-tenths of the ideas we offer… Our business is to supply him with due abundance and variety, and his to take what he needs.” -Charlotte Mason If you’re a mom like me, you’ve probably felt the sting of watching your child disregard your carefully chosen wisdom, your heart-felt encouragements, your earnest attempts to shape their character or tell them an interesting fact. But what if we looked at that through the lens Charlotte Mason offers us—not as failur...
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4 months ago
15 minutes

Gospel Matrescence
Healing Trauma Through Rhythm & Worship
Did you know that worship in the Bible was never meant to be passive but rather physical, communal, rhythmic, and healing? In this episode, Andie looks at the scientific benefits of community and worship as it relates to the neuroscience of healing trauma and resetting the nervous system, especially in children. What if the church, and our families, reclaimed worship as a mental health, healing practice? What if we actually followed the scriptural mandates to clap, dance, s...
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4 months ago
24 minutes

Gospel Matrescence
Episode #50 - Read more, Scroll Less - Book recommendations for your Summer!
Are you ready for all the extra time summer brings? Do you have a plan to scroll less and read more for yourself and your kids? Did you know reading might be the missing tool in the development of your family culture and the formation of your character? Reading does these five things for us and our children: Forms a moral imaginationTeaches empathy & awakens affectionProvides an antidote to ignorance & entitlementBuilds academic abilitiesProtects mental healthGet in...
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4 months ago
38 minutes

Gospel Matrescence
Episode #49 - The Five Stages of Growth to Adulthood: Part 4
This episode is part four in a series wrestling with this concept and learning how our reactions to our children growing through these phases can speed up or slow down their path to adulthood! Andie discusses the tools that are appropriate to use in each stage, as well as the "God's Tools vs. Man's Tools" chart found linked below. These five stages are: Enmeshment - The child's identity, beliefs, and emotional experiences are interconnected and enmeshed with their family o...
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5 months ago
24 minutes

Gospel Matrescence
Episode #48 - The Five Stages of Growth to Adulthood: Part 3
Building on the concepts presented in the last episode, we will take a deeper look at the last two phases (Individuation & Cooperation) of growth to adulthood. We will look at both healthy responses and unhealthy responses of both parents and siblings when a child follows this natural progression to maturity.
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6 months ago
26 minutes

Gospel Matrescence
Episode #47 - The Five Stages of Growth to Adulthood: Part 2
Building on the concepts presented in the last episode, we will take a deeper look into the first three phases (Enmeshment, Socialization, & Separation) of growth to adulthood. We will look at both healthy responses and unhealthy responses of both parents and siblings when a child follows this natural progression to maturity.
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6 months ago
24 minutes

Gospel Matrescence
Episode #46 - The Stages of Growth to Adulthood: Part 1
Learning to adjust parenting strategies and expectations according to our children's stages of growth can be one of the most challenging aspects of parenting. In this episode, Andie introduces the five stages of growth from infancy to adulthood. These five stages are: Enmeshment - The child's identity, beliefs, and emotional experiences are interconnected and enmeshed with their family of origin. Socialization - As the child begins to look outside the family, social interact...
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6 months ago
21 minutes

Gospel Matrescence
Episode #45 - Adolescence on Netflix (Current Event)
In this episode, Andie discusses the trending show on Netflix called Adolescence. She gives an overview of the show and pulls out four distinct crises that we are facing today in relation to the welfare of our teenagers. She leaves you with a challenge to evaluate your life in these four areas and ask the Holy Spirit what adjustments might be needed in your home to provide the strong leadership our teenagers need to thrive in today's culture.
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7 months ago
29 minutes

Gospel Matrescence
Episode #44 - What is an allomother?
Does the job of motherhood often feel like more than you are capable of doing yourself? That is because it is! An "allomother" refers to an individual, other than the biological mother, who performs maternal caregiving or provisioning for children. An allomother is a non-maternal caregiver who invests in children through nurturing, discipleship, or provisioning. In this episode, we look into the history of 'collective caregiving networks' and how different that is fro...
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7 months ago
27 minutes

Gospel Matrescence
Episode #43 - Spring Retreat - April 4-6 - Can you join us?
Gospel Matrescence is hosting our first-ever in-person Spring Retreat on April 4-6, 2025! The theme will be "Tending Your Own Garden". As mothers, we are deeply concerned about the garden of our children's souls but we often neglect our own garden. Join us for three days at a home near the Denver area for a weekend of fellowship, worship, rest, encouragement, recreation, watercolor painting, and fun! In this episode, I share the details of the retreat and instructions ...
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8 months ago
13 minutes

Gospel Matrescence
Episode #42 - The Diminishing Tendencies We Do to Those We Love
A diminishing tendency is an accidental or purposeful propensity to avoid deeply seeing the heart motivation or needs of another person due to your own ignorance, assumptions, or offenses. In this episode, we define these and do some soul-searching to see if these are affecting our connection to those we love most. This concept is laid out in the book, How to Know a Person by David Brooks. Listed below are the names and descriptions of each of these tendencies. -Size ...
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8 months ago
21 minutes

Gospel Matrescence
Episode #41 - The Rupture & Repair Cycle Case Studies (Part 4)
The episode concludes the four-part series on the Rupture & Repair Cycle by looking at four case studies that will help you visualize how the Clearning Model (one aspect of the Rupture & Repair Cycle) looks in various situations. Listen along and see if you resonate with any of these four case studies. As you follow along, invite the Holy Spirit to open your eyes to how you can use these resources to become a more whole-hearted communicator and bring the ability to reconcile t...
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9 months ago
27 minutes

Gospel Matrescence
Episode #40 - The Rupture & Repair Cycle with Children (Part 3)
This week we continued discussing the Rupture and Repair Cycle with a focus on children and sibling relationships. As you listen to this episode, keep in mind the diagram and the weekly check-in questions you can find here - https://docs.google.com/document/d/1e2MSeQU6dxnchMF-K9YaHMCd-m5KXwaIQOJYSu-wNRQ/edit?usp=sharing How can we take this concept and apply it to conflict within our family? How can we coach our children to use it with their siblings? How can we model this ...
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9 months ago
25 minutes

Gospel Matrescence
Episode #39 - The Rupture & Repair Cycle in Marriage (Part 2)
This week we continued discussing the Rupture and Repair Cycle with a focus on marriage. As you listen to this episode, keep in mind the diagram and the weekly check-in questions you can find here - https://docs.google.com/document/d/1e2MSeQU6dxnchMF-K9YaHMCd-m5KXwaIQOJYSu-wNRQ/edit?usp=sharing Throughout the episode, Andie shares how a deep understanding of the Rupture and Repair Cycle can be a great help to improving healthy communication in your marriage and gaining a non-anxious pr...
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9 months ago
22 minutes

Gospel Matrescence
Episode #38 - The Rupture & Repair Cycle (Part 1)
In any relationship, misunderstandings, hurt feelings, or disagreements happen which lead to a "rupture" in the connection. The ability to recognize and respond to this rupture is the key to maintaining a non-anxious presence in our homes. In this episode, Andie introduces us to the seven steps of this cycle and gives a high-level overview that she will build upon in this four-part series as we apply the rupture and repair cycle in our relationships with our children, spouses, ext...
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10 months ago
28 minutes

Gospel Matrescence
In Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder, physician Gabor Maté offers a compassionate, in-depth exploration of ADHD—not as a genetic defect or fixed disorder, but as a developmental response to stress, disconnection, and unmet emotional needs in early childhood. Drawing on both neuroscience and personal experience (he himself has ADHD), Maté argues that the condition stems from disruptions in attachment and attunement between parent and child during crucial de...