Forget that your womb is a portal and you’ll feel empty, disconnected. Remember it, and you become unstoppable. People don’t just see you, they feel you. That’s why not everyone deserves access. Pussy is not community property. It’s the altar. And when it’s honored, it multiplies everything you are.
For decades, women have been sold the idea that giving their sex away freely is power. That liberation looks like detachment, like being able to move as men do, casual, unbothered, and unclaimed. But when you strip the layers back, what was packaged as empowerment is really just another strategy of control.
You’ve heard the phrase. “You can’t turn a hoe into a housewife.” It’s been repeated in music, movies, barbershops, bedrooms, and Twitter threads like gospel. But have you ever stopped to ask where it came from, and who it actually benefits?
Every woman wants to feel powerful, radiant, untouchable. But not every woman is willing to hold the standard that comes with being that woman.
It goes deeper than aesthetics. It shows in how you treat yourself, how you move through life, and what you allow.
And always remember: being that woman isn’t about being seen. It’s about being solid.
You are the dream. The standard. The woman that makes people level up just by being in your presence. But more than that, you know that everything you desire already lives within you.
Most people don’t realize that true compatibility in relationships begins in the mysterious realm of Hamingja. In Norse tradition, Hamingja refers to a person’s spiritual strength, their unique life force, and the luck or power they carry through their lineage and deeds.
There was a time when men and women worked in sacred partnership. That balance was shattered when systems told men they were meant to lead, and women were meant to serve. This shift didn’t just hurt women, it robbed men of purpose, direction, and their divine role.
In this episode, we trace how women’s bodies went from sacred to controlled. Once seen as life bringers and spiritual guides, women were slowly stripped of power through systems that feared their influence. This is about the moment balance broke — and what it’s cost us.
In this episode, we go deeper into the ancient feminine power they tried to bury.
Before patriarchy rewrote the narrative, women were seen as sacred. Goddesses like Inanna, Hathor, Lilith, Aphrodite, Oshun, and Shakti weren’t just symbols, they represented fertility, sensuality, leadership, wisdom, and divine authority. But over time, their stories were distorted or erased altogether.
This episode is a reminder that your power has ancient roots. We’re not reclaiming anything new, we’re remembering what they tried to make us forget.
Welcome to the Holy, Not Whore Series — a journey into the truth about the feminine, her sacred power, and the history they tried to erase.
In this series, we explore:
• How the feminine was once honored, not shamed.
• How sacred sexuality became distorted over time.
• The real history behind the sacred prostitute archetype.
• Why reclaiming this knowledge matters today.
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In Part Two of Affirmations for Black Women, I’m pouring into your spirit — reminding you that you are the dream, the healer, the masterpiece. These words are your armor and your soft landing. Play this when you need to remember: your power is not up for debate.
Use this meditation anytime you feel disconnected, overwhelmed, or unsure. It’s a practice of coming home to your body, quieting the outside noise, and remembering the truth of who you are.
I've noticed that many people struggle to let beautiful souls exist as they are without feeling the need to control or reshape them. When they realize they cannot dominate or mold someone to their liking, they often turn to destruction instead.
In a world that often glorifies hustle over harmony, it’s easy to forget one of the deepest truths about ourselves: Divine Feminine Energy isn’t just handed to us—it’s a privilege, a gift.
At the end of the day, remember that your path is yours alone. The ones trying to drag you down are just distractions—don’t let them steer you off course. Keep rising, keep glowing, and keep repeating this process every single day. It’s not always easy, but it’s always worth it. Let your shine be the loudest response to anyone who tries to dim your light. And trust, there’s nothing louder than a soul on fire.
