Please complete my audience survey. It helps me learn more about you and what you like most about this show. I am always looking for ways to improve our content/podcast/show. http://survey.podtrac.com/start-survey.aspx?pubid=0qI0Tj7TBKvS&ver=standard When you grow up without the internet—or the language—to describe your identity, how do you navigate your journey? In this candid conversation, Zach Randles-Friedman speaks with Bernie Wagenblast—the long-time transportation voice of the NYC area—who shares her fascinating journey from searching library indexes in the 1970s to calling a local trans teacher from a payphone, and coming out publicly in her 60s. Bernie reflects on decades spent living as a 'straight guy,' and the challenges and triumphs of social transition. She discusses the nerves of traveling post-transition, the importance of visibility, and why everyday kindness is essential. Her powerful mantra—don’t let anyone steal your trans joy—offers practical empathy for allies eager to learn. It’s a warm, insightful story about authenticity, courage, and the importance of being true to oneself at any age. Follow Bernie on IG: https://www.instagram.com/cranford_radio Listen to Bernie's Podcast: https://cranfordradio.wordpress.com/ Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ

Please complete my audience survey. It helps me learn more about you and what you like most about this show. I am always looking for ways to improve our content/podcast/show. http://survey.podtrac.com/start-survey.aspx?pubid=0qI0Tj7TBKvS&ver=standard In this episode, Zach Randles-Friedman talks with Peter Moore, a former editor for Men’s Health, Playboy, and Backpacker, about reinventing oneself in the face of career challenges. Peter shares how he transformed a struggling media career into a creative rebirth as a cartoonist and commentator for The Colorado Sun and Substack. From interviewing Barack Obama to traveling with Matt Damon, Peter reflects on discovering purpose through humor, art, and self-trust. Join us for an inspiring conversation about self-discovery and resilience. Subscribe: petermoore.substack.com Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ

In this episode, actor and producer Anabelle Ciancuillo shares her inspiring journey from Chicago theater to Hollywood screens. As a proud child of deaf adults (CODA), Anabelle grew up bilingual in sign language, which has shaped her creative voice. She discusses how she built her community in LA and the importance of creating her own art when opportunities run dry. From horror shoots to electric bike commercials, Anabelle is redefining what it means to be a fearless creative, demonstrating resilience in today's competitive industry. Anabelle's IG: https://www.instagram.com/anabellechinch/ Anabelle's Website: https://www.anabelleciancuillo.com/ _______________________________________________________________________________ Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ

Join Zach Randles-Friedman and award-nominated author Paul Rushworth-Brown for an engaging conversation about storytelling and his acclaimed novel, Outback Odyssey—a story hailed as 'Australia’s To Kill a Mockingbird.' Set against the rugged beauty of the outback, this narrative explores themes of identity, belonging, and the complex relationship between settlers and First Nations people. Paul shares his incredible journey from living rough in Australia to healing through the power of storytelling, drawing inspiration from his ancestry. Discover why he dedicates his voice to telling the stories of everyday people often overlooked by history. This inspiring conversation highlights storytelling's role in resilience and the connections that unite us across generations. Paul's Website: https://www.paulrushworthbrown.com/ Buy Paul's Books on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Paul-Rushworth-Brown/author/B09XFBH7BH?ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_1&qid=1760311015&sr=8-1&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true&ccs_id=495df4d2-f77a-4c7c-9882-d4f8219f30be __________________________ Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ

Join us as we explore the transformative journey of Britt Michaelian, creator of Healing House, where she turns loss into purpose through her experiences with art, energy, and love. Britt shares her profound insights gained from her mother’s and sister’s cancer journeys, which led her to embrace Reiki and quantum healing. These modalities have not only reshaped her understanding of life and death but also her approach to consciousness. In this heartfelt conversation, discover how Britt's artwork acts as a conduit for healing energy, the importance of crystals and grounding in reconnecting with the Earth, and the rising trend of spiritual self-healing. Britt introduces us to Healing House, her immersive experience that blends Reiki, meditation, sound baths, and artwork tuned to the frequency of love, helping others to release pain, rediscover gratitude, and awaken their inner power. This soulful episode serves as a beautiful reminder that love and healing are intertwined, encouraging us all to embrace our own unique healing journeys. Follow Britt on IG: https://www.instagram.com/brittmichaelian Substack: https://brittmichaelian.substack.com Britt's Website: https://www.brittmichaelian.art _____________________________________________________________ Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ

In this eye-opening episode of Everything and Anything… and a Bit Gay, Zach Randles-Friedman sits down with Adam Swart, founder and CEO of Crowds On Demand, to explore the intriguing business of modern protest and advocacy. Adam unveils how his firm organizes protests, advocacy events, and publicity stunts for various causes, revealing the complexities behind shaping public perception. From orchestrating fake wedding guests to viral protests like “Bankers Against Bitcoin,” Adam explains the fascinating ways in which Crowds On Demand operates. He and Zach delve into the ethics of paid crowds, the increasing political polarization in society, and how today’s hyper-engaged culture serves both as a blessing and a warning sign. Whether you’re intrigued, skeptical, or somewhere in between, this conversation will challenge your thinking about activism, influence, and the spectacle of modern movements. Join us for an enlightening discussion that blends expertise and critical thinking. Adam Swart, CEO of Crowds On Demand — www.crowdsondemand.com _________________________________________________________________________________ Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ

Angela Ford—one of America’s most recognized psychic investigators—was part of the U.S. government’s top-secret STARGATE remote viewing program. From tracking fugitives and hostages to influencing real intelligence operations, her story bridges science, spirituality, and national security. Previously featured on The Mayim Bialik’s Breakdown and The Shawn Ryan Show, Angela shares what remote viewing really is, how she helped locate missing hostages in Beirut and fugitive Charles Jordan in Wyoming, and why she believes consciousness survives death. Host Zach Randles-Friedman dives deep into the woman behind the headlines—her work with the Defense Intelligence Agency, her experiences teaching remote viewing today, and her insights on karma, reincarnation, and creativity as spiritual power. Connect: Classes & readings at fordangela04@gmail.com Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ

Writer–editor Harker Jones joins Zach Randles-Friedman to unpack a creative journey from small-town Michigan to LA: managing editor roles at Out, The Advocate, and HIV Plus; 7–8 years copyediting Disney’s D23 Magazine; and a portfolio spanning novels, shorts, and screenplays with 60+ festival selections. We dive into his thriller Never Have I Ever (first drafted at 17), the literary love story Until September, and new psychological script The Alexandrite Ring (ISA Thriller Top 10). Harker shares practical craft tips, how editorial rigor builds trustworthy storytelling, and straight talk on rejection, marketing, and queer creativity in today’s industry. Buy Harker's Books: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Harker-Jones/author/B07V6BQZ1B?ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_4&qid=1759698579&sr=8-4&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true&ccs_id=4f4cad11-410f-401d-8aaf-2c3f42686253 Follow Harker on Instagram: @harker_j Follow Harker on X @HarkerJones Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ

What does childhood look like inside a high-control religious group? In this episode, we join actor and educator Jonghee Celeste Quispe as she reveals her upbringing in the Unification Church—better known as the 'Moonies.' She describes the intense 5:30 a.m. worship rituals, the bans on dating, and the pressure of accepting an arranged 'match,' while detailing teen 'missions' that blurred into labor trafficking. With a candid reflection on her breaking point at the movement’s famed 'Prayer Rock,' Jonghee shares the shock of being sent to Guatemala at just 17 and the turmoil that awaited her upon returning home as she fought to protect her own life. We also explore the church’s schisms, money demands that hollowed out families, and how her siblings navigated their own spiritual journeys. Through all these challenges, Jonghee's unwavering belief in God remained intact, and she explains how theater, music, and love helped her reclaim her personal identity and freedom—a narrative of resilience that no institution could erase. Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ

My guest today is Alan Katz, a straight ally who made history by officiating some of the first same-sex marriages and domestic partnerships in Los Angeles and across California. Alan shares powerful stories about officiating weddings before and after Proposition 8, navigating pushback from the wedding industry, and even training other officiants on how to honor LGBTQ+ couples with respect and equality. We also dive into his personal journey as the supportive father of a transgender son, and why he believes marriage equality is here to stay. This is a conversation about resilience, hypocrisy, and most importantly — love. Visit Alan's website at: https://www.greatofficiants.com/ Alan's IG: https://www.instagram.com/greatofficiants Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ

In this candid conversation, guest Bill Hulseman—a ritual designer, former educator, and author of Six to Carry the Casket and One to Say the Mass—unpacks how thoughtfully designed ceremonies can reflect a couple’s identities, values, and love story without relying on the “dusty playbook.” Drawing on graduate study in ritual and years of practice, Bill explains how to audit traditions (e.g., “giving away,” entrances/exits, ceremony layout) and rebuild them to be feminist, inclusive, interfaith/intercultural, and authentically queer. Bill also shares a grounded path through grief and burnout toward purpose; reimagines Pride beyond corporate branding via a personal daily practice of honoring influences; and outlines an “allyship arc” (from speaking for, to sharing the platform, to getting out of the way). A thoughtful detour into his Madonna symposia illustrates how pop culture can meaningfully move the needle on community and belonging. Why it’s trustworthy: Bill’s credentials and field experience anchor the guidance; the episode offers transparent context, practical frameworks couples can apply immediately, and clear references to his book and work for further verification. Bill's book is available on Amazon.com: https://a.co/d/gWkZaeB Bill's Website: https://www.billhulseman.com/ Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ

Author and intuitive storyteller Kelly O’Hern joins Everything and Anything… and a Bit Gay to share how a health crisis, divorce, and a deck of tarot cards led her to channel an entire novel series—Arcanum. We dive into the craft and mysticism of using the Major Arcana to map past lives—from ancient Egypt to Renaissance Europe—why she fictionalized those visions into an accessible heroine, and how faith can evolve beyond organized religion. Zach opens up about his own mediumship training and the uncanny “light” signs from his late father, sparking a grounded conversation about what happens after we die, soulmates vs. partners, and why midlife isn’t a crisis—it’s a creative relaunch (especially for women 40+). Inspiring, curious, and deeply human, this episode bridges spirituality, storytelling, and self-reinvention. Visit Kelly's Website: https://www.arcanumtheseries.com/ Follow Kelly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kellyohearnauthor/ Buy Kelly's Books on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Kelly-OHearn/author/B0D324YQG5?ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_1&qid=1758063594&sr=8-1&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true&ccs_id=314f3811-d493-490f-8326-eb0303edbd2b Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ

We’ve officially hit triple digits! 🎉 For the 100th episode of Everything and Anything… and a Bit Gay, I’m joined by a very special guest—my husband, Andrew. Together, we look back on the journey that brought us here: from the early days of launching the show to unforgettable interviews, hilarious behind-the-scenes moments, and the incredible community that’s grown along the way. In this heartfelt recap, Andrew and I share our favorite episodes, the surprises that shaped the show, and the lessons we’ve learned through 100 conversations filled with laughter, vulnerability, and queer joy. Whether you’ve been with us since day one or you’re just tuning in now, this milestone episode is all about reflection, celebration, and a glimpse into what’s next for Everything and Anything… and a Bit Gay. Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ

In this episode, Zach sits down with Canadian coach Zac Russell to discuss how living in the present moment can significantly transform our lives. Russell explores why many individuals remain trapped in their past stories or anxieties about the future, and shares how simple mindfulness and awareness can help break these cycles. He also addresses issues like sleepless nights, depression, and anxiety, explaining how a shift from fear unlocks creativity, freedom, and peace. This practical and enlightening conversation is perfect for anyone ready to quiet the noise and truly embrace a mindful, fulfilled life. You can learn more about Zac at https://linktr.ee/zacrussell or follow him on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/zac_russell/ Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ

Join Zach as Real Housewives of Dallas icon LeeAnne Locken opens up in a candid and high-energy episode of Everything & Anything… and a Bit Gay. In this exclusive interview, LeeAnne discusses the impact of being a reality TV star, sharing her insights on the infamous ‘villain edit’ and the importance of authenticity in storytelling. LeeAnne also reveals her philanthropic work within Dallas’ LGBTQ+ community and how embracing her survivor story empowers others in similar situations. With her mantra of focusing on what can be changed, LeeAnne inspires listeners to take action. Dive into her relationship with Rich, her quirky nightly rituals, and the launch of her new late-night series, Housewives Confidential, which promises a fun, behind-the-scenes look at iconic moments and never-before-seen footage. If you’ve quoted “hot dog and a stick at the Round-Up,” this episode is a must-listen. Hit play, subscribe, and show LeeAnne some respectful love in her DMs! 💋 LeeAnne on IG: https://www.instagram.com/leeannelocken/ Get in touch with LeeAnne at https://direct.me/leeannelocken Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ

In this powerful conversation, Bill Robertson shares his journey of courage and community from the heart of LGBTQ+ history during the AIDS crisis in 1984. His story is a master class in love and activism as he remembers Boston’s early Pride movement, the bar closures, ACT UP’s organizing, and the painful losses that defined a generation. Bill opens up about his deeply personal experiences: caring for a partner with AIDS, facing stigma from his own family, and the journey towards reconciliation. With 28 years of sobriety under his belt, he reflects on the crucial turning point that transformed his life. Bill emphasizes the importance of understanding our LGBTQ+ history and leaves the next generation with a powerful two-word message: 'Fucking vote.' Beyond survival, Bill is a creator and do-gooder, known for the sketch-comedy cult favorite Heavily Medicated Fairy Tales, the indie film Paradise: A Town of Sinners & Saints, and his uplifting book Uncle Bill’s Animal Tales: Life Lessons for Adults. He highlights service pathways like Gays for Good and the embracing nature of Unitarian communities. This episode is raw, funny, and ultimately hopeful—proof that chosen family, activism, and art can change everything. Uncle Bill's Animal Tales: Life Lessons for Adults: https://a.co/d/abIX0vP Bill on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/p/Bill-Robertson-Author-100091283553670/ Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ

In this episode of *Everything and Anything… and a Bit Gay*, join host Zach Randles-Friedman as he welcomes Stacey Gonder, a professional dancer turned fashion designer and creative coach, whose journey is as bold and vibrant as her custom creations. Stacey shares her remarkable transition from growing up on a farm to becoming a celebrated costume designer for drag artists and musicians, showcasing her unique contributions to the fashion world. Discover how resilience played a vital role in rebuilding her business post-pandemic, as she passionately strives to help individuals align their inner selves with authentic self-expression through fashion. Tune in to hear the joy Stacey finds in creating designs that light up stages at drag shows and music festivals globally. From Toronto’s vibrant drag scene to international stages, Stacey’s story epitomizes creativity, community, and unapologetic authenticity. She even shares her dream of designing for Kesha and emphasizes why fashion is about so much more than just clothes. Don't miss this inspiring conversation about artistry, identity, and the transformative power of wearing who you truly are. Visit Stacey's Website: https://bystaceyg.com/ Stacey's IG: https://www.instagram.com/bythestaceyg/ Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ

In this episode of Everything and Anything… and a Bit Gay, Zach Randles-Friedman sits down with CJ Shaman—a singer, songwriter, and self-described rock outlaw whose unique sound blends the spirit of country roots with the energy of raw rock & roll. Discover how growing up on a ranch in Arizona surrounded by classic country music, along with influences from legends like The Doors, Sublime, Johnny Cash, and Elvis, shaped CJ's artistic journey. Throughout our conversation, CJ opens up about his creative process and the profound spiritual connection he has with music. He shares the deeply personal tales behind his new album, El Diablo de Ocho, a heartfelt tribute to lost friends that reignited his passion for life and artistry. We explore stories of vinyl collections, outlaw traditions, and CJ’s dream of performing on Saturday Night Live. Join us for an authentic conversation diving into themes of music, loss, healing, and the relentless drive to push forward against the odds—as CJ brings his vibrant mix of rebellion, faith, and rock spirit to the show. Follow CJ on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/c.j._shaman CJ on Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/artist/0kL26sZrHkolXwMXtY9eC9?si=CCbYg_nDR4ywJDIHw2kNdg&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaf5IRGTyG-B2zKlnwJHrrAdQ4Nd-MkTrN3CVRNAkzcbbCq17KQZddKYFF0wjQ_aem_UrDB_erxp0PaWczBePyC2w&nd=1&dlsi=fc647e37456545d8 CJ on Apple:https://music.apple.com/us/artist/cj-shaman/555821385 Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ

In this episode of Everything and Anything… and a Bit Gay, Zach Randles-Friedman sits down with Shannon, a survivor who transformed her life of trauma into resilience and healing. Shannon bravely opens up about her childhood struggles, her experience as a cult survivor, and the long path to reclaiming her power. Through raw honesty and strength, she shares how she transformed pain into purpose, offering inspiration for anyone navigating their own journey of survival and self-discovery. This powerful conversation sheds light on the realities of trauma, the courage it takes to heal, and the possibility of building a life filled with freedom and joy. Join us for an uplifting discussion that highlights the transformative power of healing and overcoming adversity. Follow Shannon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_graceful_healer Visit Shannon's Website: https://www.thegracefulhealer.com/ Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ

In this episode of Everything and Anything… and a Bit Gay, we delve into the themes of love and resilience with Zach Randles-Friedman as he speaks to Patricia Grayhall, MD, an award-winning author and physician. Patricia shares her powerful journey, including the real-life struggles of battling immigration laws that kept her and her partner apart and her experiences as a queer woman in the medical field. This compelling conversation highlights why LGBTQ+ stories matter now more than ever, inviting listeners to reflect on the intersection of love, identity, and advocacy in our society. Buy Patricia's Books here: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Patricia-Grayhall/author/B09QPLP8M3?ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true&ccs_id=107533a8-2e17-47b0-874d-1cadeb4098fb Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ