In this special one-year anniversary episode, we celebrate a full year of being on air and building an incredible equestrian community! Joining us for this milestone conversation is Kali Crosby, a gifted animal communicator who helps her clients connect with their animals on a deeper level to uncover what they truly need. Kali shares how she discovered her unique ability to speak with animals, the process she uses to tune into their emotions, and how her work has transformed relationships between horses, pets, and their people. From solving behavioral challenges to helping owners better understand their animals’ emotional and physical needs, Kali’s insights are both fascinating and heartwarming. We reflect on the journey this podcast has taken over the past year—every story, laugh, and connection that’s brought our community closer together. It’s a celebration of growth, purpose, and the magic that happens when passion meets authenticity. We love you guys and happy 1 year together!

In this episode, I sit down with Brad DiMaggio from Scrapyard Media to talk all things filmmaking, pre-production, and the chaos of shooting in the performance boating world. Brad and I first met while working for a mutual client — and let’s just say, things got a little wild when we got kicked out of a boat race mid-filming! From there, we dive into what makes great content actually work: planning, teamwork, and the power of good pre-production. We also chat about our shared experiences filming the Devon Horse Show, dealing with unpredictable weather, troubleshooting on the fly, and why great audio can make or break a story. Brad shares how Scrapyard Media started, their goals for the future, and what it’s like balancing creative vision with real-world logistics. If you’ve ever wondered what it takes to pull off a big production—or just want some behind-the-scenes laughs from the field—you’ll love this one.

In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, I sit down with Courtney, who opens up about the emotional journey with her mare, Frida. When Courtney first brought Frida home, she couldn’t quite shake the feeling that something wasn’t right, even though the mare had passed a pre-purchase exam. Over time, that intuition proved true. Frida was later diagnosed with multiple neck injuries, including internal stenosis and a fractured bone. Courtney shares the long and difficult road of seeking answers, advocating for her horse, and ultimately making the decision to pursue multiple surgeries to help Frida breathe and live comfortably again. This conversation is raw, honest, and filled with hope, a reminder that sometimes, listening to your gut can make all the difference!

Hosting a live episode of The Plaidcast during the Inside the Ingate Season Finale Watch Party was such a special moment for me. There’s something about being surrounded by my local horse people community — sharing stories, laughter, and memories — that reminds me why I love doing this! For this episode, I had the chance to talk with Cheryl Simms, the Horse Show Manager at Wills Park Equestrian Center, and Piper Klemm, Publisher of The Plaid Horse. Wills Park has been a vital part of the Atlanta horse community for decades, and hearing Cheryl share its history and her vision for its future was truly inspiring. We discussed how the park has evolved, the renovations and fundraising efforts that sustain it, and Cheryl’s mission to ensure it remains affordable, welcoming, and community-driven. Piper brought great insight into why it’s so important to preserve spaces like this — places where riders can grow, connect, and feel at home in the sport. For me, this conversation really highlighted the heart behind what we do. Wills Park isn’t just a showgrounds — it’s a reflection of how much love and dedication go into keeping equestrian life alive at every level.

In this heartfelt episode, Alexis opens up about the challenges of being a new mom while also balancing life as an adult amateur rider and equestrian enthusiast. She shares the guilt she often feels for not being able to spend as much time with her horses as she once did and reflects on how motherhood has shifted her priorities and daily rhythms. Alexis also discusses the difficulty of finding joy outside of being a mom, reminding herself and listeners of the importance of prioritizing their own happiness and well-being. She speaks candidly about feelings of inadequacy and guilt, but also emphasizes the importance of giving oneself grace during this season of life. Throughout the episode, Alexis encourages other moms in the equestrian community to find small, meaningful ways to keep horses in their lives, even if it looks different than before. She also invites listeners to share their own experiences, advice, and encouragement, highlighting the strength of community and shared understanding. WATCH

In this episode, Alexis and I finally got to catch up after being apart for a bit! We started with some updates, including hair, a new Garmin watch, and the fact that Alexis has been getting very little sleep, before diving into what’s new in our horse lives. Alexis opened up about how challenging it’s been to ride regularly since becoming a mom, and what it felt like to ride her friend’s very well-trained horse. She shared how fun it was, but also how nerve-wracking it can be riding someone else’s horse when you don’t want to mess anything up. Of course, we couldn’t resist a little barn talk, everything from horse trailer prices (and my “trailer anxiety” story) to a horse-shaped pipe cleaner that turned out to be a total fail. We even touched on footing. If you’re an adult amateur balancing real life with barn life, this episode will feel all too familiar. 🐴💬

In this episode, I reflect on the incredible experience of premiering Season 2 of Inside the Ingate at the Devon Horse Show. From seeing the show on the big screen to watching riders and viewers react, it was a moment full of pride, nerves, and excitement. I dive into the mission behind the series—showcasing the behind-the-scenes world of equestrian sports, giving riders and participants the chance to tell their own stories, and exploring the challenges, nerves, and triumphs that often go unseen. I hope you guys enjoy!

This week on The Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, we’re at the Wills Park Benefit Show and sitting down with some incredible guests who are shaping the equestrian community in unique ways! Brooke Bryant (Dillard’s) talks about why Dillard’s sponsors events like this one and shares the hottest trends for fall. Kelly from Harbin Agency breaks down the importance of equine insurance, how it protects both horse and rider, and why it’s more affordable than you may think. Heather Steinman (Strays 4 Days) shares her inspiring journey rescuing cats, the challenges strays face, and the joy of rehoming them. Matt (South State Bank) gives insights into banking for equestrians, budgeting tips, and his personal connection to Wills Park. It’s a fun, insightful, and heartwarming look at how fashion, finance, and animal rescue all connect within the equestrian lifestyle.

This week has been a whirlwind! Episode 3 of Inside the Ingate premiered at the Will’s Park Benefit Show, and I’m so grateful for the incredible support this community has shown. In this episode, you’ll also see Nick and Matthew in the International Derby at the Devon Horse Show; their rides reminded me of the importance of patience, partnership, and listening to our horses. I also open up about my own training journey with my horse. Riding hasn’t been easy lately. Between old fears, PTSD, and the pressure I put on myself, I’ve had to really focus on giving my horse positive rides even when I feel anxious or insecure. This podcast is about honesty, growth, and remembering why we ride in the first place. I hope sharing my journey reminds other adult amateurs that you’re not alone! 💙

In this episode, I sit down with Haleigh Holom, a mental performance coach who helps riders push past mental and physical barriers so they can reach their goals. We talk about some of the biggest challenges adult amateurs face—things I’ve struggled with myself—like comparison, performance anxiety, and fear in the saddle. I open up about my own journey with comparison, especially the frustration I used to feel when I couldn’t afford a “fancy” horse and would measure myself against others. Haleigh explained that the first step to breaking free from that cycle is recognizing when comparison sneaks in and then shifting the focus back to my own goals. We also dive into performance anxiety. I share my experiences with pre-show nerves, worrying about letting others down, and that mental spiral that can hit before a big ride. Haleigh talks about how she works with her clients—and how I can apply this myself—through: Mindset training to challenge self-limiting beliefs A consistent pre-ride warm-up routine to find calm Practicing gratitude and positive self-talk Striking a healthy balance when facing fears Using mindfulness and replaying positive riding moments in my mind We also talk about how past traumas can show up in the arena, and how signs like body tension, agitation, or trouble focusing can mean I’m sliding into anxiety. Haleigh reminded me how important it is to have a strong support system at the barn, and I’m so grateful for my trainers and barn family who encourage me every step of the way. Haleigh also shared about her workshops for riders, trainers, and parents, as well as her virtual coaching, clinics, and horse show support. I wrapped up the conversation feeling inspired and excited to have her back on the podcast in the future. My Biggest Takeaway:Our mental and emotional health is just as important as our physical skills. By reframing my thoughts, focusing on what I can control, and letting go of what I can’t, I can ride with more confidence, clarity, and joy. WATCH

In this episode of The Equestrian Adult Amateur, I sit down with Piper Klemm, the powerhouse behind *The Plaid Horse Magazine*, to dive deep into her journey through equestrian journalism and what continues to inspire her work in the horse world. Piper shares what it’s been like navigating the industry as a young woman, building credibility, and staying authentic in a space that’s often slow to change. She also opens up about being featured on our very own Docuseries *Inside the Ingate*—a vulnerable moment that brought both nerves and excitement. Her hope? That by telling her story, she can inspire and educate others in the equestrian community. We’re also joined by Geoff, a respected hunter and equitation judge, who brings his insight into what really matters in the ring. From memorable rounds to major pet peeves (like riders sitting the trot on their entrance), Geoff offers a candid look behind the judge’s booth. Together, we discuss: * The high cost of competing at elite shows like Devon—and why it’s time to debunk the “only billionaires can afford it” myth * The mental game behind showing and how to balance your passion with real life * The pressures of horse life and what it means to have a life *outside* the barn * The importance of building a career in all areas of the horse industry—from judging to teaching to course design We wrapped the episode with a little hype for the upcoming *Inside the Ingate* live show, and a powerful reminder: our stories matter. Whether you're in the big leagues or riding in your own backyard, your journey is valid—and worth sharing. WATCH

This week on the Equestrian Adult Amateur podcast, I sit down with three of the biggest names in the hunter ring: Nick Haness, Traci Brooks, and Carleton Brooks. Together, we talk about what it takes to build a winning program — from horse selection and team dynamics to mentorship, mental preparation, and behind-the-scenes organization. Nick opens up about what allows him to focus fully in the show ring, trusting that everything behind the scenes is taken care of. Traci and Carleton dive into their detailed approach to planning, communication, and developing top hunters and clients across the country. We also reflect on some of our funniest memories, career highlights (like winning at Devon), and what keeps them motivated for the future.

In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur podcast, Alexis and I sat down with the incredibly inspiring Ina Forssén—the founder of equestrian fashion brand POMME and co-founder of Amiko and Friends. If you’ve ever dreamed of starting your own business, struggled to balance your barn life with your real life, or felt the pressure to fit into traditional equestrian style boxes, this conversation is for you. Ina has been riding since she was a kid and always had a passion for fashion alongside horses. She wanted something more modern, colorful, and expressive than what she was seeing in the equestrian world—so she built it. In 2019, she and her friend Pernilla launched POMME, a brand that's now known for bold, high-quality designs and standing out. But the road wasn’t easy. Launching right before the pandemic meant dealing with shipping delays, product challenges, and plenty of uncertainty. On top of that, Ina and her team faced criticism for doing things differently—especially online. Pernilla has received her fair share of unkind comments for simply being visible and confident in her marketing. But instead of backing down, they leaned in. They listened to their customers, stayed true to their brand, and kept showing up. As a fellow adult amateur, I couldn’t help but admire how Ina manages it all—riding, running businesses, motherhood, and everything in between. She credits her supportive husband and staying focused on what matters most. It was such a refreshing reminder that while we may not be able to do everything, we can do the things that count—with heart. Recently, Ina and Pernilla launched a new venture: Amiko and Friends, a membership-based platform offering high-quality equestrian products at more accessible prices. It’s their way of bringing transparency and affordability into a space that often feels intimidating or exclusive—and it’s all rooted in community, connection, and real-life rider needs. This episode was a reminder that there’s space for more color, more creativity, and more realness in the equestrian world. Ina’s story is proof that carving your own path—no matter how unconventional—can lead to something truly special.

Alexis and I are back—with a new recording location but the same honest conversations you’ve come to expect from us. In this episode, we dove into some of the real-life challenges we’re facing with our horses, especially Alexis’s gelding who’s been dealing with some tough hoof issues. That naturally led us into the hot topic of farrier fees, expectations, and the controversy surrounding the value of their work. I also shared a few listener comments that added even more depth to the conversation. We got real about the struggle of balancing horse life with the rest of life—trying to find time to ride, dealing with the relentless summer heat, and staying on top of hoof care. One listener sent in a beautiful message about being an adult amateur in the horse world, and we read it on air because it captured so much of what many of us are feeling. We also talked about competition—how our definitions of “success” in the saddle have changed over time. Whether you’re chasing ribbons in the show ring or just enjoying a quiet ride in the field, there’s space for every version of joy in this sport. As we wrapped up, we reflected on the pressures and stereotypes that exist in the equestrian world—and how important it is to support one another, no matter where someone is in their journey. We all make sacrifices to be here. Let’s choose to lead with empathy and respect. And finally, we gave a little teaser for an upcoming documentary that we’re really excited to talk more about soon. As always, thanks for listening—and remember to protect your peace and lift up your community. 💛 Watch

In this episode, I opened up about something really personal: the backlash and negativity I’ve been facing online and in my local equestrian community. As someone who’s always approached content with creativity and humor—often poking fun at myself and the culture around us—it’s been disheartening to see how easily that can be misunderstood or twisted. I talked about the weight of rumors, judgment, and the frustration that comes with feeling like you’re constantly defending yourself while just trying to build something meaningful. I’ve worked hard to grow a business I believe in, and like many of you, I’ve poured my heart into it. So when people turn on you or question your character, it stings deeply. I also addressed a specific recent situation where I made a comment that sparked some controversy. I took responsibility for it and offered a genuine apology—but I also want to make space for real conversations. I believe we should be able to speak up about issues that matter without tearing each other down. There’s no room for cruelty—especially when it comes to our horses. I’ll never support anything that condones harm or abuse. But I also won’t stand by while our community eats its own. Instead of dividing ourselves, let’s focus on connection, support, and growth. I ended the episode by inviting Anna—the person behind some of the public criticism—to come on the show and have an open conversation. My door is open, and my hope is that Safehouse EQ can continue to be a space where we build bridges, not burn them. Let’s be better. Let’s lift each other up. And let’s remember why we’re here: for the horses, and for the love of this community. WATCH

In this episode, I talked about some of the real challenges equestrian brands—especially in the apparel and clothing space—are facing right now when it comes to marketing. For a long time, our industry has relied heavily on reputation and word of mouth. But with the way technology and consumer behavior have evolved, that just isn’t enough anymore. I pointed out how, unlike other industries (like cookies—yes, cookies!), equestrian brands often look and sound the same online. There’s a lack of originality and a real missed opportunity to create distinction. We’re not just selling breeches and boots—we’re selling an identity, a lifestyle, an experience. I emphasized the importance of building strong editorial campaigns that tell a story and create emotional engagement. It's about more than just product shots—it's about painting a picture and connecting with your audience on a deeper level. Of course, I also know this isn’t easy. There’s a lot of fear and uncertainty around doing something different or innovative. But if you want to stay relevant, you have to be willing to evolve and meet your audience where they are—especially online. We also touched on how helpful it can be to bring in a professional—someone who understands both the industry and modern marketing strategy—to guide you. And I stressed the importance of first impressions on social media. That digital storefront matters. Ultimately, the takeaway from this episode is that equestrian brands need to embrace creativity, lean into storytelling, and make their content fun, engaging, and current. Social media isn’t just a place to sell—it’s where your brand builds trust, identity, and community. Watch

In this episode of The Equestrian Adult Amateur , hosts Alexis and Kelly provide a heartfelt update on their lives, sharing the latest happenings with their horses and how they’ve recently settled into a busy yet fulfilling routine. They dive deep into the challenges faced in the equestrian community, particularly the unrealistic expectations and pressures exacerbated by social media. Kelly opens up about the constant comparison to elite riders and trainers, emphasizing the need to uplift the stories of everyday riders—those who balance jobs, families, and financial limitations—bringing a more relatable perspective to the sport. They passionately discuss the importance of showcasing not only the successes but also the struggles and realities encountered by top riders. Throughout the conversation, they address the pressure to present a perfect, curated version of oneself online, highlighting the often-ignored struggles and setbacks that come with pursuing equestrian goals. Kelly encourages listeners to embrace their imperfections and set realistic expectations for themselves. The hosts also connect with two adult amateur riders, who share their personal journeys, discussing the delicate balance of their love for horses with everyday life demands. They touch on the complexities of being a business owner and the unique challenges that come with having a spouse involved in the riding world. Join us for this insightful and authentic conversation, as we keep it real about the highs and lows of equestrian life. Tune in for relatable stories and encouragement to embrace your own journey! Don’t forget to subscribe for more episodes and share your thoughts with us! WATCH

In this episode of our podcast, I’m Kelly Berry, and I’m thrilled to welcome my co-host, Alexis, along with our special guest, Leslie Segars. Leslie is the trainer and owner of a barn specifically catered to adult amateurs, and she shares her inspiring journey in the horse world, highlighting her passion for creating a supportive environment for fellow riders. Leslie emphasizes the importance of having fun in this sport. She reminds us that there’s no pressure to compete if it’s not something we truly enjoy. Our conversation focuses on fostering genuine connections with our horses and cherishing the moments spent riding instead of getting caught up in the pressures of competition on fancy horses. We dive into the vital role Leslie plays in shaping a positive training atmosphere for her clients, ensuring they find joy in their riding journeys. This episode also highlights Lindsay Campbell, a hunter trainer who works with adult amateurs. Lindsay’s experience underscores the sense of community within the equestrian world, where clients support one another, regardless of their backgrounds. Additionally, Alexis and I share our own experiences as adult amateurs, discussing the challenges of balancing life and horses. I reflect on my journey toward becoming a professional, offering valuable tips for others navigating similar paths. We even brainstorm exciting plans for organizing a horse show designed to cultivate a fun and relaxed atmosphere for adult amateurs. Join us for this enlightening conversation filled with insights, laughter, and a reminder that the love of horses should always come first! Don’t forget to subscribe for more episodes and share your feedback with us! WATCH

In this heartfelt episode of The Equestrian Amateur, I take you along on my recent trip to the beautiful Devon Horse Show, a place that holds a special significance for me. As I filmed season two of *Inside the Gate*, I encountered a whirlwind of highs and lows that shaped my experience. I’m so excited to share the relatable and down-to-earth stories of both top riders and amateur athletes, emphasizing the importance of showcasing the real struggles and joys of the equestrian sport. I also introduce the two incredible amateur riders featured in this season, Piper and Hannah, who add their unique perspectives and challenges to the mix. Filming was both exhilarating and exhausting, and I candidly discuss the difficulties of being away from home for an extended period, along with the frustrations I faced while trying to work with sponsors who didn’t fully support our vision. One of the key points I touch on is the need for a shift in equestrian marketing. I believe brands should represent their target demographic authentically instead of relying on the same old generic formulas. I encourage our community to voice their feelings about the current state of equestrian marketing and how we can collectively push for positive change. I also dive into a serious topic—the impact of internet bullying within our community. This negativity creates a fear that stifles brands and individuals from taking creative risks. I urge everyone to rise above the trolls, stay true to their values, and create content that aligns with their authentic messaging. Throughout this episode, I share my passion for Inside the Gate and my commitment to standing up against bullying to support my fellow equestrians. I recount how I overcame my fears and insecurities during my time at the Devon Horse Show and encourage you to believe in yourselves and your dreams, no matter how crazy they may seem. Be sure to tune in for this empowering conversation, and don’t forget to subscribe and join the email list for updates on future episodes. I can’t wait to share more stories with you! WATCH

In this engaging episode, hosts Kelly and Alexis welcome guest Nina to share stories from her first meeting with Kelly and her fascinating journey into the world of social media. Nina discusses her passion for horses and how she started posting horse-related content, quickly gaining a dedicated following in just a year. As a certified equine massage therapist, she delves into the benefits of equine massage, a profession she embraced after researching techniques to improve her own horse's health. Nina also shares her future aspirations, which include expanding her business to incorporate additional therapies like acupuncture and cupping. The trio discusses effective social media strategies, with Nina revealing her approach to posting consistently and producing engaging video content using a tripod for better stability. They touch on the realities of sharing personal equestrian experiences online, including the challenges and criticisms that often come with it. In a lively discussion, Nina joins a group of horse lovers who share their unpredictable and sometimes hazardous encounters with horses. They emphasize the importance of understanding horse behavior and the necessity of establishing mutual respect and safety when interacting with these majestic animals. This episode offers valuable insights for horse enthusiasts, aspiring entrepreneurs, and social media lovers alike, fostering a supportive community around equestrian passions. Join Kelly, Alexis, and Nina on this enlightening journey through the world of horses and social media! Watch