Angela and Molly are info dumping all about rigidity and how it affects everything from day to day life, traveling, work--you know all the things us neurospicy people experience. Listen in as Angela shares how she is flexible when flexibility is the known expectation (like teaching middle school) and how they mistook this for being flexible in general. And Molly shares why she cried over the lack of guacamole at Chipotle. 

Forget the aisle-there are so many neurospicy flavor packets we get our own store! Too often people hear “neurodivergent” and think Autistic or ADHD and dyslexia. But neurodivergence is way more than most people realize. In this episode, Molly & Angela share the origin of the word neurodivergence, its original definition, the fabulousness of Neuroqueer, and how important it is for folks to realize the vast diversity of the human mind.   Neuroqueer Heresies - Nick Walker - https://neuroqueer.com Kassiane Asasumasu - twitter @UVGKassi Models of Disability: https://autistictic.com/2020/02/14/the-holistic-model-of-disability/ BrainFacts List of 400 Neurological Conditions: https://www.brainfacts.org/diseases-and-disorders/neurological-disorders-az Crisis Support: https://988lifeline.org/

We're back for another season (that's 3 if you weren't counting!) of Drudgery and Dreams. This episode is all about Angela's dice rolls and foot rubs, Molly's cross-country tour (and the pitstop in Ontario), all the forking transitions the summer has thrown at us, and what we have planned for Season 3.

With the school year coming to a close--everybody is heading into transition. Whether you’re excited or scared shitless, listen up because we’re gonna talk through all the different end of school year transitions, frustrations, and coping skills this summer will require for both children AND adults.

Raise your hand if you have bought a planner, used it for a good two weeks, and then left it to die in a drawer or doom pile filled with more planners. The complexities that are being multi-passionate, and an intense planner who may or may not need flexibility leads you to a planner graveyard. You can never find something that is both rigid and flexible. You're not asking for a lot right?! If you raised your hand then this week's episode with Angela and Molly is just what you need. Guest Sabra Gilbert is here to talk about how she decided enough was enough--and design her own planner that's perfect for the Neurodivergent User.   If you raised your hand then this week's episode with Angela and Molly is just what you need. Guest Sabra Gilbert is here to talk about how she decided enough was enough--and design her own planner that's perfect for the Neurodivergent User. Resources The Chaos Coordinator Planner - Purchase Here What do you want to know? Angela and Molly are here to support all neurodivergent and/or queer folks on their own journeys through the drudgery and dreams. If you have a topic you’ld like to here these two discuss--or maybe want more insight on a previous episode, let us know! CONTACT US ---- Loving what you’re hearing? Be sure to subscribe to Drudgery and Dreams to get notifications when the next episode is live. New episodes drop weekly on Tuesdays, or you can join us LIVE every Tuesday on our Youtube Channel at 9am CST/7am PST. SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL We’d love to hear what you think--so share your thoughts and review the podcast! ---- Meet Your Hosts Angela Locashio Bringing sense to the conversation, from her soapbox, she sheds light on the things society doesn't want you to talk about, you know, the real shit that matters. intersectional thinking sexuality queerness neurodiversity consent, and the fact that self care is bullshit. For them, it's all about community, and how we can care for each other. Molly Hicks Helping burnt out busyAF neurodivergent and queer entrepreneurs make shit happen by providing out of the box solutions and sustainable systems to grow your biz. For them, it's all about doing what makes sense for your brain.

Today’s conversation takes Angela and Molly into the DSM 5 game of Autistic ”levels” of support. Where they will talk all about the importance of words, how outdated words need to go, why functioning labels (in all forms) can fly a freakin’ kite. Join the conversation, and help us find word solutions for ALL members of our Neurodivergent Community.

“Have you ever had something you were looking forward to so much, and you had to put so much effort and energy in planning that thing and it’s consumed your mind and kept you up at night? And you’re up in the morning and you’re barely eating or you’re over eating? Because you’re putting so much effort into this thing?” (Molly, 1:49)  Yeah, this happened to Angela as they prepared for and then hosted a huge, very important event for them, and we dare say the entire ND community. Join us in this episode to hear why Molly says, “A whole bunch of listeners just felt really seen” (34:52).

Rebecca A. Weiner, M.Ed. is back with us today in this powerful episode about inclusion, advocacy and self-advocacy, IEPs and other learning plans and goal-setting, and the power of curiosity (seriously, she has an amazing story about a classroom transformation all thanks to the power of “so what” and “what-if” in one of the classrooms she has collaborated with).  Molly brings in real-life questions and experiences from a parent perspective and Angela speaks about poverty, justice, and access—or lack of it—to resources which make it easier or exponentially more difficult for students, parents, teachers, staff members, schools, and the community to have what they need for education to be meaningful and effective.   RESOURCES Stimagz*: https://www.stimagz.com/products/stimagz-12?ref=drudgeryanddreams Coupon Code = DNDDStim for 15% off your entire purchase Rebecca’s website: www.learnplaygrowconsulting.com Rebecca on IG:https://www.instagram.com/learnplaygrowconsulting/ Rebecca on FB: https://m.facebook.com/RebeccaAWeinerMEd Rebecca on LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/RebeccaAWeinerMEd Rebecca on Easter: https://www.linkedin.com/posts/rebeccaaweinermed_easter-egg-hunts-can-be-so-much-fun-and-activity-7048695370402459648-cViz?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop IDEA - https://sites.ed.gov/idea/ and https://sites.ed.gov/idea/language-support/ The Sum of Us Podcast: https://www.thesumofuspodcast.com/ The Sum of Us Book: https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-sum-of-us-what-racism-costs-everyone-and-how-we-can-prosper-together-heather-mcghee/14618549?aid=25144&ean=9780525509585&listref=inclusion-equity-and-justice Family to Family Network in Houston: https://f2fn.org/   What do you want to know? Angela and Molly are here to support all neurodivergent and/or queer folks on their own journeys through the drudgery and dreams. If you have a topic you’ld like to here these two discuss--or maybe want more insight on a previous episode, let us know! CONTACT US ---- Loving what you’re hearing? Be sure to subscribe to Drudgery and Dreams to get notifications when the next episode is live. New episodes drop weekly on Tuesdays, or you can join us LIVE every Tuesday on our Youtube Channel at 9am CST/7am PST. SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL We’d love to hear what you think--so share your thoughts and review the podcast! ---- Meet Your Hosts Angela Locashio Bringing sense to the conversation, from her soapbox, she sheds light on the things society doesn't want you to talk about, you know, the real shit that matters. intersectional thinking sexuality queerness neurodiversity consent, and the fact that self care is bullshit. For them, it's all about community, and how we can care for each other. Molly Hicks Helping burnt out busyAF neurodivergent and queer entrepreneurs make shit happen by providing out of the box solutions and sustainable systems to grow your biz. For them, it's all about doing what makes sense for your brain.

Molly and Angela are joined by Stimagz founder, Kody Lukens.

“Back the fork up. I'm about to explode like my little kiddos house in Minecraft when it's built from TNT” (Molly, 7:56). Today, we are talking about needing accommodations but not always getting them because we are the one’s doing the accommodations most of the time. Because we can…until we can’t. We talk about why “functioning” is not an appropriate assessment for someone’s support needs, how we can normalize setting meeting expectations and using a “User Manual” to support communications with others, and that assholes aren’t always assholes, but maybe just people who need support but aren’t given the opportunity to access that support.    What do you want to know? Angela and Molly are here to support all neurodivergent and/or queer folks on their own journeys through the drudgery and dreams. If you have a topic you’ld like to here these two discuss--or maybe want more insight on a previous episode, let us know! https://drudgeryanddreams.com/contact/ ---- Loving what you’re hearing? Be sure to subscribe to Drudgery and Dreams to get notifications when the next episode is live. New episodes drop weekly on Tuesdays, or you can join us LIVE every Tuesday on our Youtube Channel at 9am CST/7am PST. We’d love to hear what you think--so share your thoughts and review the podcast! ---- Meet Your Hosts Angela Locashio Bringing “sense” to the conversation”--from here on her soapbox, she sheds light on the things society doesn’t want you to talk about, you know, the real shit that matters.  Molly Hicks I help burnt out busiest fuck neurodivergent and queer entrepreneurs make shit happen by providing out-of-the-box solutions and sustainable systems to grow your biz

What do you want to know? Angela and Molly are here to support all neurodivergent and/or queer folks on their own journeys through the drudgery and dreams. If you have a topic you’ld like to here these two discuss--or maybe want more insight on a previous episode, let us know! https://drudgeryanddreams.com/contact/ ---- Loving what you’re hearing? Be sure to subscribe to Drudgery and Dreams to get notifications when the next episode is live. New episodes drop weekly on Tuesdays, or you can join us LIVE every Tuesday on our Youtube Channel at 9am CST/7am PST. We’d love to hear what you think--so share your thoughts and review the podcast! ---- Meet Your Hosts Angela Locashio Bringing “sense” to the conversation”--from here on her soapbox, she sheds light on the things society doesn’t want you to talk about, you know, the real shit that matters. Molly Hicks I help burnt out busiest fuck neurodivergent and queer entrepreneurs make shit happen by providing out-of-the-box solutions and sustainable systems to grow your biz

What do you want to know? Angela and Molly are here to support all neurodivergent and/or queer folks on their own journeys through the drudgery and dreams. If you have a topic you’ld like to here these two discuss--or maybe want more insight on a previous episode, let us know! https://drudgeryanddreams.com/contact/ ---- Loving what you’re hearing? Be sure to subscribe to Drudgery and Dreams to get notifications when the next episode is live. New episodes drop weekly on Tuesdays, or you can join us LIVE every Tuesday on our Youtube Channel at 9am CST/7am PST. We’d love to hear what you think--so share your thoughts and review the podcast! ---- Meet Your Hosts Angela Locashio Bringing “sense” to the conversation”--from here on her soapbox, she sheds light on the things society doesn’t want you to talk about, you know, the real shit that matters. Molly Hicks I help burnt out busiest fuck neurodivergent and queer entrepreneurs make shit happen by providing out-of-the-box solutions and sustainable systems to grow your biz

What do you want to know? Angela and Molly are here to support all neurodivergent and/or queer folks on their own journeys through the drudgery and dreams. If you have a topic you’ld like to here these two discuss--or maybe want more insight on a previous episode, let us know! https://drudgeryanddreams.com/contact/ ---- Loving what you’re hearing? Be sure to subscribe to Drudgery and Dreams to get notifications when the next episode is live. New episodes drop weekly on Tuesdays, or you can join us LIVE every Tuesday on our Youtube Channel at 9am CST/7am PST. We’d love to hear what you think--so share your thoughts and review the podcast! ---- Meet Your Hosts Angela Locashio Bringing “sense” to the conversation”--from here on her soapbox, she sheds light on the things society doesn’t want you to talk about, you know, the real shit that matters. Molly Hicks I help burnt out busiest fuck neurodivergent and queer entrepreneurs make shit happen by providing out-of-the-box solutions and sustainable systems to grow your biz

Welcome to Season 2! Molly and Angela are excited to get going this year! And what better topic than resolutions and transitions, right? True to their ND spirits, they aren’t jumping on the resolutions bandwagon. Instead, they are talking anti-resolutions by not making resolutions at all or—YIKES!—only making resolutions that you actually want to make that are thought through and designed for success! And those pesky transitions come up again as they talk about personal transitions, kid transitions, and transitions through changing social norms.

What do you want to know? Angela and Molly are here to support all neurodivergent and/or queer folks on their own journeys through the drudgery and dreams. If you have a topic you’ld like to here these two discuss--or maybe want more insight on a previous episode, let us know! https://drudgeryanddreams.com/contact/ ---- Loving what you’re hearing? Be sure to subscribe to Drudgery and Dreams to get notifications when the next episode is live. New episodes drop weekly on Tuesdays, or you can join us LIVE every Tuesday on our Youtube Channel at 9am CST/7am PST. We’d love to hear what you think--so share your thoughts and review the podcast! ---- Meet Your Hosts Angela Locashio Bringing “sense” to the conversation”--Angela helps individuals and organizations cultivate skills, spaces, and confidence to advocate for themselves and each other. Molly Hicks Giving a big Fork you to cookie cutter solutions, Molly helps busy As Fuck neurodivergent entrepreneurs make shit happen by bringing stability to their businesses while helping them do what makes sense to their brain.

What do you want to know? Angela and Molly are here to support all neurodivergent and/or queer folks on their own journeys through the drudgery and dreams. If you have a topic you’ld like to here these two discuss--or maybe want more insight on a previous episode, let us know! https://drudgeryanddreams.com/contact/ ---- Loving what you’re hearing? Be sure to subscribe to Drudgery and Dreams to get notifications when the next episode is live. New episodes drop weekly on Tuesdays, or you can join us LIVE every Tuesday on our Youtube Channel at 9am CST/7am PST. We’d love to hear what you think--so share your thoughts and review the podcast! ---- Meet Your Hosts Angela Locashio Bringing “sense” to the conversation”--Angela helps individuals and organizations cultivate skills, spaces, and confidence to advocate for themselves and each other. Molly Hicks Giving a big Fork you to cookie cutter solutions, Molly helps busy As Fuck neurodivergent entrepreneurs make shit happen by bringing stability to their businesses while helping them do what makes sense to their brain.

What do you want to know? Angela and Molly are here to support all neurodivergent and/or queer folks on their own journeys through the drudgery and dreams. If you have a topic you’ld like to here these two discuss--or maybe want more insight on a previous episode, let us know! https://drudgeryanddreams.com/contact/ ---- Loving what you’re hearing? Be sure to subscribe to Drudgery and Dreams to get notifications when the next episode is live. New episodes drop weekly on Tuesdays, or you can join us LIVE every Tuesday on our Youtube Channel at 9am CST/7am PST. We’d love to hear what you think--so share your thoughts and review the podcast! ---- Meet Your Hosts Angela Locashio Bringing “sense” to the conversation”--Angela helps individuals and organizations cultivate skills, spaces, and confidence to advocate for themselves and each other. Molly Hicks Giving a big Fork you to cookie cutter solutions, Molly helps busy As Fuck neurodivergent entrepreneurs make shit happen by bringing stability to their businesses while helping them do what makes sense to their brain.

The holidays. We could probably just stop there and our point is made. Alas, we have more to say.  Join us as we talk about challenges that neurodivergent and queer ADULTS (of course, we do talk about the littles as well, we are parents after all) experience at this time of year. With its hearty belly laughs, spirited rants, and quiet moments of reflection, this is an episode you don’t want to miss!  Loving what you're hearing? Be sure to subscribe to Drudgery and Dreams to get notifications when the next episode is live. New episodes drop weekly on Tuesdays, or you can join us LIVE every Tuesday on our Youtube Channel at 9am CST/7am PST. We'd love to hear what you think--so share your thoughts and review the podcast! INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | LINKEDIN     What do you want to know? Angela and Molly are here to support all neurodivergent and/or queer folks on their own journeys through the drudgery and dreams. If you have a topic you'ld like to here these two discuss--or maybe want more insight on a previous episode, let us know! ASK US ANYTHING   Meet Your Hosts Angela Locashio Bringing “sense” to the conversation”--Angela helps individuals and organizations cultivate skills, spaces, and confidence to advocate for themselves and each other.INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | LINKEDIN Molly Hicks Giving a big Fork you to cookie cutter solutions, Molly helps busy As Fuck neurodivergent entrepreneurs make shit happen by bringing stability to their businesses while helping them do what makes sense to their brain. INSTAGRAM | FACEBOOK | LINKEDIN

In this episode of Drudgery and Dreams, Molly and Angela dive into the importance of co-regulation. Last week, Molly showed us all how to co-regulate when she supported Angela when she got overwhelmed and was legit frozen from the restraints of time and the sheer amount of things she wanted to say about something she is so passionate about (BDSM as a healthy way to regulate). We address the value of co-regulation in all of our relationships—partnerships, friendships, as parents, at work, etc.  

Bondage, Dominance, Submission…let’s talk about that! Today, Molly and Angela delve into BDSM—but not exactly in the way you might expect. We aren’t talking about sex, baby! This episode is all about understanding how the structure and practices within BDSM can support us individually as well as in our relationships with others. And you’ll get a first hand spontaneous and accidental demonstration of how Molly and Angela use those principles in their interactions together as Molly supports Angela when she gets overwhelmed with constraints on talking about her special interest.   Be sure to subscribe to get all the updates on NEW episodes each week.   Want to watch next week's episode LIVE? Follow us on YouTube: