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Dating After Divorce
Belinda Youll
27 episodes
2 days ago
The Dating After Divorce podcast is for the Queen who is ready to thrive in life and love after divorce. Host and dating mentor, Belinda Youll, delivers you expert tips, wisdom and strategies to help you attract the long lasting love you deserve. If you're ready to embody your Queen energy and attract your King, hit that follow button and get ready to call in the relationship of your dreams! Follow Belinda on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thequeenbcollective/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeenbcollective
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The Dating After Divorce podcast is for the Queen who is ready to thrive in life and love after divorce. Host and dating mentor, Belinda Youll, delivers you expert tips, wisdom and strategies to help you attract the long lasting love you deserve. If you're ready to embody your Queen energy and attract your King, hit that follow button and get ready to call in the relationship of your dreams! Follow Belinda on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thequeenbcollective/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeenbcollective
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Episodes (20/27)
Dating After Divorce
Beyond the 'New Year, New You' BS: Why Real Transformation Happens in the Shadows, Not Under Spotlights

Feeling the pressure of 'New Year, New You' dating resolutions? In this episode, we're challenging the surface-level transformation promises flooding your social media feed this January.

Discover why real dating transformation has nothing to do with vision boards or dating app makeovers - and everything to do with the quiet choices you make when no one's watching.

Learn why 'becoming' must precede dating, and how to make the micro-choices that actually lead to attracting aligned love.

Through real examples and practical guidance, uncover how to break free from the cycle of empty dating resolutions and step into true queen energy that naturally magnetizes the right relationship.

Plus, get actionable steps for making 2025 different by doing things differently. Perfect for divorced women who are tired of quick-fix dating advice and ready for genuine, lasting transformation. Includes powerful journaling prompts and a framework for making aligned choices in your dating life."


CONNECT ON SOCIALS:

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


SUPPORT THE SHOW:

If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.


Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

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10 months ago
17 minutes 16 seconds

Dating After Divorce
The Hidden Gift of 2024's Dating Disappointments: How Your 'Failed' Relationships Are Actually Preparing You for Extraordinary Love

As we step into 2025, are you looking back at your dating life in 2024 feeling disappointed, exhausted, or wondering if it was all just a waste of time?

In this powerful episode, I share why your dating 'failures' might actually be the foundation for your greatest love story yet. Through my own raw and real dating story, I reveal how a seemingly devastating dating disappointment became the catalyst that led me to meeting my forever person.

Learn about the four hidden gifts within every dating disappointment, and discover how to transform your 2024 experiences into powerful preparation for extraordinary love. If you're ready to shift from feeling defeated to feeling empowered about your love life, this episode is your guide to starting 2025 with renewed hope and clarity.

Plus, get a practical journaling exercise to help you extract the wisdom from your past experiences and step into your Queen energy. Perfect for any divorced woman who's tired of feeling like she's failing at love and ready to see her journey through new, more empowered eyes. CONNECT ON SOCIALS:

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


SUPPORT THE SHOW:

If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.


Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

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10 months ago
22 minutes 23 seconds

Dating After Divorce
All I Want For Christmas Is.....Anyone?: Your guide to Avoiding A Holiday Dating Hangover

Feeling the pressure to couple up this holiday season? In this episode we’re diving deep into why the holiday season often triggers us to lower our standards or rush into relationships we're not truly aligned with. Whether you're feeling the weight of another Christmas single or battling the urge to text your ex, this episode offers practical strategies for you to maintain your queen energy when the pressure feels intense. These strategies will help you not just survive the holiday season but use it as a catalyst for becoming even more anchored in your worth.

JOIN ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠'THE NEXT CHAPTER'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!


CONNECT ON SOCIALS:

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


SUPPORT THE SHOW:

If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.


Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

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10 months ago
9 minutes 53 seconds

Dating After Divorce
Single At Christmas (Again?): How To Go From Surviving Solo To Thriving Single These Holidays

Dreading another holiday season without your person? In this raw and real episode, I share my journey through 8 years of single Christmases before meeting my fiancé, and the perspective I wish I'd had sooner. You'll learn why those 'lonely' holidays were actually preparing me for the extraordinary love I have now, how to shift from surviving to savouring this season, and practical strategies to maintain your queen energy when it feels like everyone else is coupled up. Whether you're navigating family gatherings solo or facing another New Year single, this episode will help you reframe your current chapter and find unexpected magic in this season of your life.


Perfect for divorced women who:


- Are feeling the weight of another holiday season alone

- Find themselves comparing their journey to others

- Want to enjoy this time of year but struggle with loneliness

- Need strategies to maintain their worth during triggering situations

- Are ready to shift from surviving to thriving this holiday season


JOIN ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠'THE NEXT CHAPTER'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!


CONNECT ON SOCIALS:

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


SUPPORT THE SHOW:

If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.

Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

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10 months ago
19 minutes 35 seconds

Dating After Divorce
Reclaiming Joy After Divorce: Re-discovering Who You Are Outside Your Previous Marriage

In this empowering episode, I take you on a journey from survival mode to soul-aligned joy after divorce. Through my raw story of losing myself in a toxic relationship to rediscovering my authentic self as a single mom of two, I provide a practical roadmap for women who've forgotten what lights them up outside of being someone's wife.


You'll discover:

- Why "identity fusion" after marriage makes it hard to know who you are anymore

- Three powerful exercises to uncover your authentic interests and passions

- How to date yourself and find joy, even with limited time and resources

- The secret to turning your Friday nights alone into opportunities for self-discovery

- Why rediscovering joy is crucial before entering the dating scene again

Whether you're a busy single mum with barely a moment to yourself or someone with an empty house that feels too quiet, this episode gives you practical, doable ways to start reconnecting with the woman you were before marriage—and discovering the even more magnificent woman you're becoming.


JOIN ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠'THE NEXT CHAPTER'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!


CONNECT ON SOCIALS:

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


SUPPORT THE SHOW:

If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.


Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

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11 months ago
14 minutes 32 seconds

Dating After Divorce
Why Self Care Must Be Your Priority In Your Next Chapter After Divorce

In this episode I reveal why self-care is the necessary foundation for your Next Chapter after divorce and why it’s crucial to you ultimately attracting an aligned relationship that lasts, with the right man for you. Through my personal journey from outsourcing my happiness and ending up in a toxic relationship to discovering true self-worth, I share with you the "Self-Care 6" framework that changed everything for me. Learn why keeping promises to yourself is the blueprint for how others treat you, and discover how to stop using relationships as band-aids for unmet needs.

You'll discover:

- Why rushing into dating after divorce often leads to repeating painful patterns

- The four classes of self-care and why some "feel-good" activities are actually self-sabotage

- How to build magnetic self-worth through daily, consistent actions

- The exact framework I used to go from relationship dependency and a toxic relationship to attracting aligned love

- Why self-care is the missing piece in your journey to lasting love

Plus, learn about 'The Next Chapter' program, where I guide you through the essential first steps of creating a life you love before attracting the love you deserve.


JOIN ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠'THE NEXT CHAPTER'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!


CONNECT ON SOCIALS:

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


SUPPORT THE SHOW:

If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.


Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

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11 months ago
16 minutes

Dating After Divorce
Embrace Your Story: Owning Your Divorce Without Shame

This powerful episode tackles the shame that often accompanies divorce, providing you with neuroscience-backed strategies for releasing negative self-talk and embracing your story. Through real-life examples and practical exercises, I guide you to transform your narrative from one of shame to one of empowerment, hope and possibility.

JOIN ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠'THE NEXT CHAPTER'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!


CONNECT ON SOCIALS:

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


SUPPORT THE SHOW:

If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.


Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

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11 months ago
12 minutes 14 seconds

Dating After Divorce
Reframing Failure: Why Divorce Is Not The End Of Your Love Story

In this transformative episode, I challenge the notion that divorce equals failure, sharing my powerful journey from being divorced at 33 and a single mama again at 40, to creating and attracting a life and love story better than I ever imagined at 45. Through raw honesty and deep wisdom, I reveal how what seems like failure can actually be your greatest initiation into love and life.


You'll discover:

- Why your "failed" relationships were actually preparing you for your greatest love story

- How to trust in endings and see them as powerful new beginnings

- The exact mindset shift that took me from rock bottom to living my dream life

- Why nothing that is meant for you will ever pass you by

- How to transform your divorce from a painful ending into an exciting new chapter


If you're struggling to see beyond your divorce, feeling like you've failed at love, or wondering if it's too late for your happy ending, this episode will show you why your divorce can actually be the beginning of your greatest love story.

Plus, learn about 'The Next Chapter' program, where I guide you through the exact 3-step process I used to transform my own divorce into the catalyst for creating my dream life and relationship.

🎧 Ready to rewrite your love story? Listen now and discover why your divorce isn't the end – it's your invitation to begin again.

JOIN ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠'THE NEXT CHAPTER'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!


CONNECT ON SOCIALS:

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


SUPPORT THE SHOW:

If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.


Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

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11 months ago
14 minutes 5 seconds

Dating After Divorce
Your Divorce Is Not Your Destiny

In this powerful episode, I share my raw and transformative journey from rock bottom to radical reinvention. From experiencing divorce at 33 to becoming a single mom again at 40, to finally creating my dream life and finding aligned love at 45, I reveal how what seems like your lowest moment can become the foundation for your greatest comeback.


Through personal stories and profound insights, you'll discover:

- Why the identity crisis after divorce is actually your opportunity for profound reinvention

- How to transform rock bottom into the launching pad for your dream life

- The exact moment that changed everything for me and how you can create your own turning point

- Why your past experiences have no power to determine your future unless you let them

- The crucial difference between hoping things will change and DECIDING they will change


If you're feeling stuck, hopeless, or wondering if it's too late to create the life and love you desire after divorce, this episode will show you why your most beautiful chapter might be the one you're about to write.


Plus, learn about 'The Next Chapter' offer, where I guide you through the exact process I used to transform my own rock bottom into the foundation for creating a life that's even better than I imagined.

JOIN ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠'THE NEXT CHAPTER'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!


CONNECT ON SOCIALS:

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


SUPPORT THE SHOW:

If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.


Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

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12 months ago
25 minutes 3 seconds

Dating After Divorce
How To Prevent Dating Fatigue + Why Mindset Matters In Dating

In today’s episode I answer a question submitted by a Queen in The Queen B Collective community about how to deal with dating fatigue. We also discuss why taking breaks can actually boost your chances of finding a fulfilling relationship and how your mindset plays a crucial role in attracting the love you want. I'll give you actionable tips to shift your energy, set boundaries and bring a more positive vibe to your dating journey.

If you’re tired of swiping endlessly, exhausted by first dates that go nowhere, or feeling discouraged, this episode is for you.

JOIN ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠'THE NEXT CHAPTER'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!


CONNECT ON SOCIALS:

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


SUPPORT THE SHOW:

If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.


Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

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1 year ago
20 minutes 39 seconds

Dating After Divorce
How To Avoid Getting Hurt When You Start Dating Again After Divorce

In this episode, I tackle the big question: "How do I avoid getting hurt when I start dating again after my divorce?" While there’s no way to guarantee you’ll never experience hurt or disappointment, there are powerful strategies to protect your heart and set yourself up for success in dating—especially after divorce. I’ll dive into the importance of building self-worth, healing past wounds, and dating with clear intentions. We’ll also discuss how to stop investing in someone’s potential, pace yourself in new relationships, and trust your intuition. If you’re ready to stop settling, protect your energy, and attract a deeply aligned and fulfilling relationship, this episode is for you!


JOIN ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠'THE NEXT CHAPTER'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!


CONNECT ON SOCIALS:

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


SUPPORT THE SHOW:

If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.


Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

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1 year ago
19 minutes 59 seconds

Dating After Divorce
Is The First Man You Meet After Your Divorce Really The One? Here's Why He Probably Isn't


In this episode, I dive into the common trap many women fall into after divorce: thinking the first man you meet is "the one." While the excitement of new attention and connection can feel intoxicating after years of feeling disconnected, it’s important to take a step back and assess things with clarity. I’ll walk you through why it’s crucial to pump the brakes, how emotional vulnerability can lead to rebound relationships, and why intentional dating is essential. We’ll also explore the importance of building unshakable self-worth and how to avoid rushing to fill the void. If you’re navigating the dating world post-divorce and want to attract a relationship that’s aligned and fulfilling, this episode is for you!


JOIN ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠'THE NEXT CHAPTER'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!


CONNECT ON SOCIALS:

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


SUPPORT THE SHOW:

If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.


Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

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1 year ago
23 minutes 36 seconds

Dating After Divorce
Are You Being Too Rigid In Your Criteria For A Potential Partner?

In this episode, I dive into one of the most common questions I get asked: “Am I being too rigid or picky when it comes to dating?” We explore the difference between having healthy standards and being overly selective, and why it’s essential to be clear about your non-negotiables, values, and deal breakers. I’ll walk you through how to discern between your wants and needs in a partner, share insights on what it means to date with intention, and show you how to trust your intuition when deciding if someone aligns with your vision for a fulfilling, lasting relationship. If you’re ready to stop second-guessing and confidently attract your forever person, this episode is for you!


JOIN ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠'THE NEXT CHAPTER'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!


CONNECT ON SOCIALS:

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


SUPPORT THE SHOW:

If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.


Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

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1 year ago
18 minutes 53 seconds

Dating After Divorce
The 5 Key Differences Between An Aligned Relationship That Lasts And The Average Relationship Most People Settle For

In this episode, I walk you through the five powerful differences between a high-level, aligned relationship and the average relationship most people settle for.


Drawing from my personal experiences, I’ll help you recognise the key signs of a deeply loving, long-lasting relationship and show you why emotional depth, true partnership, and shared goals are non-negotiable.


If you’ve ever felt like you’re coexisting with your partner or compromising your dreams for less than you deserve, this episode is for you. It’s time to step into your Queen energy, hold out for the love you truly want, and stop settling for less.

You’ll learn:

  • How to differentiate between emotional depth and surface-level connection
  • What true partnership looks like vs. simply coexisting
  • Why trust, aligned values, and uplifting each other are essential for lasting love
  • The importance of stepping into the identity of a woman who attracts this high-level relationship

JOIN ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠'THE NEXT CHAPTER'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!


CONNECT ON SOCIALS:

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


SUPPORT THE SHOW:

If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.


Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!



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1 year ago
29 minutes 46 seconds

Dating After Divorce
Why Dating With Intention Is The Key To Attracting The Right Man For You

In this episode, I’m diving deep into why dating with intention is the game-changer for attracting a meaningful, aligned, and lasting relationship.


I’ve been there—after my divorce, I followed the standard dating advice: swiping constantly, cramming my schedule with dates, and hoping someone would eventually click. Spoiler: it didn’t work.


Today, I’m sharing my story of how shifting to dating with discernment completely transformed my dating life—and ultimately led me to the man of my dreams.


If you’ve been feeling burnt out, stuck in a cycle of endless swiping, or wondering why you're still single after doing everything the "experts" say... this episode is for you.


Learn how intentional dating can help you:

  • Avoid burnout and exhaustion from bad dates
  • Filter out men who aren’t aligned with your values and goals
  • Feel more empowered, present, and confident in your dating journey
  • Attract a high-quality man who’s perfect for you


If you’re ready to ditch mindless swiping and start dating with purpose, tune in now! JOIN ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠'THE NEXT CHAPTER'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!


CONNECT ON SOCIALS:

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


SUPPORT THE SHOW:

If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.


Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

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1 year ago
11 minutes 27 seconds

Dating After Divorce
How To Embody Your Queen Energy When Dating To Attract The Right Man For You

In this empowering episode, we dive deep into how to embody your Queen energy in the dating world to attract the right man for you. Learn four game-changing strategies that will transform your approach to dating after divorce:

  1. Speak directly to your ideal partner, not to all men
  2. Own your amazing qualities without playing small
  3. Consistently show up as the highest version of yourself
  4. Stay convicted in your worth and vision, regardless of circumstances

Discover how to create a magnetic dating profile, communicate your needs with confidence, and maintain high standards in your search for love. Whether you're new to dating or looking to refine your approach, this episode provides practical advice to help you attract a soul-aligned, lasting relationship. Stop settling for less and start embodying the Queen energy that will naturally draw your King to you. It's time to call in the epic love story you deserve!"

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1 year ago
22 minutes 52 seconds

Dating After Divorce
How Can I Tell If I'm Ready To Date Again?

In this episode, we tackle two common dating dilemmas faced by women over 40 after divorce.


First, we explore how to know if you're truly ready to re-enter the dating scene after the ending of a long-term relationship. Learn how to recognise the signs that you might need more healing time and how to approach dating with intention when you are ready.


Then, we address the frustrating issue of attracting non-committal men and offer practical strategies to filter out players and align with high-quality, relationship-minded men.


Packed with real-world advice and empowering insights, this episode will help you approach post-divorce dating with clarity, confidence, and a strong sense of self-worth.

Whether you're hesitant to start dating or looking to refine your approach, this episode provides the guidance you need to navigate the modern dating landscape successfully.


JOIN ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠'THE NEXT CHAPTER'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!


CONNECT ON SOCIALS:

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


SUPPORT THE SHOW:

If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.


Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

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1 year ago
21 minutes 42 seconds

Dating After Divorce
The Identity Shifts You Need To Make To Attract Your Dream Relationship.

In this episode, we dive deep into the mindset and identity shifts you need to make to attract a deeply aligned, fulfilling relationship that lasts. It’s not just about tips and tricks — it's about who you become in the process. I’ll guide you through stepping into your Queen energy, building unshakable self-worth, and becoming the truest, most magnetic version of yourself. Whether you're stuck in fear, feeling unworthy, or just exhausted by dating, this episode will help you rise to the next level and attract your dream man. Your transformation starts here. Tune in for a raw, real conversation on creating the relationship of your dreams — by becoming the person who’s meant to have it.


JOIN ⁠⁠⁠⁠'THE NEXT CHAPTER'⁠⁠⁠⁠: for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!


CONNECT ON SOCIALS:

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠

TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠

Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠


SUPPORT THE SHOW:

If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.


Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!


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1 year ago
23 minutes 58 seconds

Dating After Divorce
The Instant Gratification Traps Blocking You From Real Love

In this episode, we’re diving into the instant gratification traps in dating that are blocking you from finding real love.

When you’ve been single for a while, it’s easy to fall into the cycle of swiping for the rush, texting without meeting, or flirting for surface-level validation.

These behaviours might give you a quick dopamine hit, but they’re ultimately keeping you from the meaningful, committed relationship you truly desire.

I’ll share my own journey of breaking free from these patterns and how I cleaned up my energy to attract the love I deserved.

We’ll explore practical steps to shift your dating habits, set stronger boundaries, and align your actions with your goals.

If you’re ready to move beyond the instant gratification cycle and start attracting high-quality men, this episode is for you.

Listen now to learn how to clean up your dating energy, embody your Queen energy, and become a match for the deeply fulfilling relationship you’ve been waiting for!

If you need extra support in making these changes, I offer 1:1 coaching to help you uplevel your dating life and attract the love you want (Links are below).


JOIN ⁠⁠⁠⁠'THE NEXT CHAPTER'⁠⁠⁠⁠: for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!


CONNECT ON SOCIALS:

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠

TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠⁠

Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠


SUPPORT THE SHOW:

If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.


Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

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1 year ago
12 minutes 48 seconds

Dating After Divorce
You Are The MF'ing Author of Your Own Life!

In this empowering episode of "Dating After Divorce," we dive deep into the transformative process of taking control of your life after a significant relationship ends. Divorce and breakups can leave you feeling lost and stuck in a limbo between your past and a future that hasn't yet begun. But today, I'm here to remind you that you are the MF'ing author of your own life!


In this episode, you'll explore how to consciously and deliberately reclaim your narrative, move beyond the identity of your past relationship, and start scripting a compelling vision for your future.


Here’s what's covered:

1.     Reclaiming Your Identity: Understand how divorce can consume your identity and learn ways to rediscover who you are outside of that relationship.

2.     Setting Intentions: Hear my personal story of how I made two powerful promises to myself post-divorce to cultivate a fulfilling life and attract a deeply loving relationship.

3.     The Power of Scripting: Learn about the powerful tool of scripting – a method of manifesting where you write your desired reality as if it has already happened. Discover how this practice can help you visualise and create the life you want.

4.     Practical Steps: Get practical advice on how to script your ideal life, from using pen and paper to creating vivid, emotive visions that excite and motivate you.

5.     Living Your Vision: Emphasise the importance of not putting your life on hold while waiting for a relationship. Understand how living a happy and meaningful life can make you more attractive to potential partners and help you avoid settling for less than you deserve.

6.     Staying Inspired: Learn how to regularly tap into your vision to stay motivated and aligned with your goals, ensuring that you take action to bring your dreams to life.


Join me for an episode filled with personal anecdotes, actionable advice, and inspiring insights to help you become the author of your own story and manifest the life and love you truly deserve. Whether you're fresh out of a marriage or relationship or have been single for a while, this episode will provide you with the tools and mindset shifts necessary to thrive in life and love after divorce.

JOIN ⁠⁠⁠'THE NEXT CHAPTER'⁠⁠⁠: for women 40+ who are ready to go from feeling unworthy, stuck and lacking hope after divorce, to feeling confident and excited AF to start a positive new chapter in life and love!


CONNECT ON SOCIALS:

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠

TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠@thequeenbcollective⁠⁠⁠

Work With Me: ⁠⁠⁠https://workwithbel.com/⁠⁠⁠


SUPPORT THE SHOW:

If you loved this episode and the podcast, please rate, subscribe, leave a review, share a screenshot of this episode on instagram and tag me so I know you're tuning in and loving it.


Also, share this podcast with a fellow Queen who needs the reminder that divorce doesn't have to be the end of your life or love story - it's only just the beginning!

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1 year ago
18 minutes 52 seconds

Dating After Divorce
The Dating After Divorce podcast is for the Queen who is ready to thrive in life and love after divorce. Host and dating mentor, Belinda Youll, delivers you expert tips, wisdom and strategies to help you attract the long lasting love you deserve. If you're ready to embody your Queen energy and attract your King, hit that follow button and get ready to call in the relationship of your dreams! Follow Belinda on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thequeenbcollective/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeenbcollective