Once married, did you learn things about your spouse you didn’t know before the “I dos”? Maybe they cook less after “I dos.” Maybe they care for their bodies less after “I dos.” Maybe they open the door for you less after “I dos.” Whatever it is, you’re not feeling it.  Find us on Instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

We’re talking about it again. Money! Money, for the most part, is a challenge for any relationship. Think about it. It brings out power, uncertainty, trust, and security. For women and love, it’s about security and safety. So, should a man believe a woman who says it’s ok he makes less than her? Find us on Instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives  

Have you ever kicked it with someone, maybe during a flight home, who you thought was available because, after all they're not wearing a wedding ring, only to find out, after chatting awhile, they are married? WTF. Wear your ring!! Listen to learn more. Find and follow us on Instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives Share your thoughts with us 💗

Men deserve love, too. Ladies, when was the last time you fed your man's soul? In this episode, we share the importance and ways of uplifting your man's spirit. Find and follow us on Instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives Share your thoughts with us 💗

Your co-hosts of @damperspectives are talking about dating younger potentials than we/you typically have or do. Is it better? As always, we talk from our experiences to provide context. As always, we have stories, funny stories. In this episode, we share a few benefits and pitfalls of dating younger or older potentials. In reality, it’s really up to you what is “better.”  Find and follow us on Instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives Share your thoughts with us 💗  

We're back! Did you miss us? Cuz we missed you! After a few months of self-care, your cohosts of @damperspectives are talking about not doing things in order when it comes to having babies. So, why do you, any of you, have to be married or married at all to have a baby? You don't. While this is not new news, it still deserves air time to normalize the unnormalize. We talk about the benefits of and the challenges, not impossible, sides of doing it on your own. Find and follow us on Instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives Share your thoughts with us 💗

Divorced and back in the dating game. What is that like? After 21 years of marriage, our guest Byron shares his experience with online dating. He shares what he looks for and what he sees, how people actually act, and concludes “dating is frightening.” We enjoyed talking with him and learned alot about online dating after divorce. Send your questions and comments to damperspectives@gmail.com. Follow us on Instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

Are you in a long distance relationship? Maybe you’re online dating and you need to expand beyond your city for more options?  @damperspectives is teaming up with @mynakedmindset to talk about things to consider if you’re exploring a long distance relationship with your new or “old” partner. But, the first major question to ask yourself: How do you know this person is worth the work that comes with making a long distance relationship work? Send your questions and comments to damperspectives@gmail.com. Follow us on Instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

The stakes are too high in the dating game to fuck it up with ridiculousness. Just met someone or rather new in a relationship?  @damperspectives list 5 things you should not do or say in texting when you’re just starting out with someone. Take notes!! Send your questions and comments to damperspectives@gmail.com. Follow us on Instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

In a relationship, bread crumbs of things going wrong show up, and, if not addressed, become red flags. Most times, we tend to dust them off away, pretend they don't exist until they are too big to ignore; thus, the red flags. So, why do we ignore clues that make us feel icky inside?  We're back with @iamnicolesimmnons of @takeactionpodcastshow talking about it. Send your questions and comments to damperspectives@gmail.com. Follow us on Instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

Cheers to our 50th Episode!! @damperspectives is excited to kick it with @iamnicolesimmons of @takeactionpodcastshow to talk about getting self-confidence after a breakup. It sucks to be broken up with. It might suck even more to deal with the emotions of being broken up with, and all of the questions and self-talk that come with that. It's normal! And, you gotta get your self-confidence back.  And, be among the first to order Karina's book, Fired Up, on Amazon, launching May 9. Send your questions and comments to damperspectives@gmail.com. Follow us on Instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

In pursuit of love or in dating in general, have you been “slanged”? That is, have you been benched, stashed, cushioned, and/or turkey dropped? The truth is, you have at some point in your dating journey. The other truth is, you don't want to be. Listen to what these dating slangs mean. One tip, when you know what you want out of a relationship, you won't get benched, stashed, cushioned or turkey dropped. Find us on Podbean, Spotify, Apple Itunes, Amazon podcasts and on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

Dating is like picking the petals of a flower. She loves me, she loves me not. Sometimes it's harder than it really needs to be. Most times, the signs tell you if dating her will go far or will be short lived. Skip the guessing game and read the signs she’s just not into you. @damperspectives talks about the signs we give off that we’re not into a guy. Find us on Podbean, Spotify, Apple Itunes, Amazon podcasts and on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

There are so many ways to filter your ideal partner: height, salary, age, and political view. We filter by race, too. Doing so, are we completely closed off to other races or is it literally a preference with fluid boundaries or… Listen to this Black man who shares his experience with interracial dating. Find us on Podbean, Spotify, Apple Itunes, Amazon podcasts and on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

It’s not that he's not into you…he's not dating at all. So, the next time you find yourself at the gym and you see that guy you’ve had your eyes on or you’re at the grocery store and you see a cute guy walking the opposite way in the ice cream aisle, and he’s not looking at you, don’t take it personally. What are the signs he gives off that he's not dating? Watch this so you’re not left wondering the next time you see him at the gym.   Find us on Podbean, Spotify, Apple Itunes, Amazon podcasts and on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives  💗

Ever TEXTING with him either for a short period of time or over a long period time, and then you are kind of done, but you do not know how to tell him you are done. Do you tell him, "I am done TEXTING"? Do You come up with an excuse, like "Just got to this place."? Or do you just NOT TEXT HIM back? When is TEXTING OVER? When is it appropriate to NOT TEXT A GUY back? Your co-hosts of @damperspectives spill the tea on how we communicate WOMEN ARE DONE TEXTING. Find us on Podbean, Spotify, Apple Itunes, Amazon podcasts and on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

Has your cohosts of @damperspectives ever been SPRUNG off the D? Yes, we have, and we think it's a great place to be. Being SPRUNG or DICKMATIZED or DICKDUMB takes you to a feel good place. Life is stressful, so if someone can make you feel so good you can't recall your name, enjoy!! Listen in signs of being DICKDUMB. Find us on Podbean, Spotify, Apple Itunes, Amazon podcasts and on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives

@damperspectives talks about a not-so-fun topic - cheating and cheated on. As always we reminisce on our own experience on cheating and being cheated on that bring up major gut-asking, self-examination, and self-worth questions. Come on now…don’t you think that taking someone back who cheated on you questions your self-worth? There’s no shame in that. We’ve all been there, and… Listen in. We share that one question you should ask yourself if you're considering taking a partner who cheated on you.   Find us on Podbean, Spotify, Apple Itunes, Amazon podcasts and on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

OK - here it comes! A fan responded to one of our show, Do Size and Shape Really Matter? Her perspective was one @damperspectives at not explored before. Love it! For her, size and shape matter when a guy makes it matter. Oh boy! We read what she said about an unsolicated 🍆 pic. Find us on Podbean, Spotify, Apple Itunes, Amazon podcasts and on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗

The male perspective of an earlier show @dampsperectives on do 50/50 relationships exist. What do these 2 Black men say? They have a lot to say, including how they want to be heard and what they need for a more balanced relationship. Find us on Podbean, Spotify, Apple Itunes, Amazon podcasts and on instagram @damperspectives | https://linktr.ee/damperspectives 💗