In this episode of Dang Man the Hart bros delve into the experiences and legacy of Anthony Bourdain, exploring themes of culinary experiences, personal reflections, and the impact of his life and death on men, all while reflecting on Bourdain's unique approach to food and life. The speakers reflect on their personal experiences in the food industry, the challenges of working in kitchens, and the camaraderie formed in high-pressure environments. They discuss Bourdain's unique approach to storytelling, his disdain for the commercialization of food culture, and his deep empathy for the people and cultures he encountered. The conversation also touches on the complexities of masculinity, mental health, and the grief surrounding Bourdain's untimely death, ultimately celebrating his adventurous spirit and the lessons he imparted about living life fully.
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Outro Music: Motivation Inspiring Corporate, by NastelBom - Free for use under the Pixabay Content License
In this episode of Dang Man, delve into setting up a home bar including the intricacies of crafting classic cocktails like martinis and old fashioneds and how this can be a creative way to express your own brand of masculinity. The conversation flows seamlessly from the importance of a well-stocked bar to the nuances of cocktail ingredients, making it a rich exploration of both mixology and personal growth. They explore the making of syrups, the vibrant culture of tiki bars, and the importance of responsible drinking. The discussion also touches on setting up a home bar, sharing personal favorites, and recommendations for cocktails that embody the spirit of the season. Now is the time to grab a cocktail of your choice and cuddle up to listen to a few of your bros!
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Intro Music: Funky Miracle (positive funk), by Kulakovka - Free for use under the Pixabay Content License
Outro Music: Motivation Inspiring Corporate, by NastelBom - Free for use under the Pixabay Content License
In this episode of Dang Man, the Hart brothers explore the themes of male loneliness, societal acceptance, and the complexities of masculinity as discussed in Richard Reeves' book 'Of Boys and Men'. The hosts share personal experiences, discuss health journeys, and delve into the impact of societal changes on men's issues. This conversation delves into the complexities of gender dynamics, focusing on the challenges faced by boys and men in education, the workplace, and family roles. The discussion highlights the education gap between boys and girls, the intricacies of the wage gap, and the importance of male representation in traditionally female-dominated fields. It also emphasizes the need for policy changes to support gender equality and the critical role of fathers in child development. The conversation concludes with reflections on redefining masculinity and the importance of vulnerability in addressing these issues. This episode challenged us and we hope it challenges you too!
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Intro Music: Funky Miracle (positive funk), by Kulakovka - Free for use under the Pixabay Content License
Outro Music: Motivation Inspiring Corporate, by NastelBom - Free for use under the Pixabay Content License
Reference: Of Boys and Men (bookshop.org)
In this episode of Dang Man, the Hart brothers explore the book The Way of Men, by Jack Donovan. Don't ask how we got here, Tim apologizes for his early forays into the world of men's studies. They discuss the impact of Donovan’s confirmation bias on his perception of masculinity and counter with the spectrum of masculine identities. The conversation highlights the hypocrisy in traditional masculine ideals and the importance of community and belonging for men. Ultimately, they advocate for a more nuanced understanding of masculinity that embraces vulnerability and connection rather than violence and competition. It’s a real slog this time around bros!
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Intro Music: Funky Miracle (positive funk), by Kulakovka - Free for use under the Pixabay Content License
Outro Music: Motivation Inspiring Corporate, by NastelBom - Free for use under the Pixabay Content License
In this episode of Dang Man, the Hart brothers explore the emotional weight of being wrong, reflecting on personal experiences and societal expectations. Through humor and self-reflection, they navigate the complexities of accepting mistakes and the journey towards personal growth. In this conversation, the speakers explore the complexities of being wrong, particularly in the context of masculinity, science, and personal beliefs. They discuss the fear of admitting mistakes, the importance of self-reflection, and how societal pressures can hinder open-mindedness. Come with us as we talk about being wrong and the value it brings.
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Intro Music: Funky Miracle (positive funk), by Kulakovka - Free for use under the Pixabay Content License
Outro Music: Motivation Inspiring Corporate, by NastelBom - Free for use under the Pixabay Content License
Resources:
On being wrong | Kathryn Schulz
On Being Wrong - StarTalk
What’s so wrong with being wrong? | Andrew Stein | TEDxOxBridge
Taking a break for summer, but we don't want to leave you without some awesome, masculine content. So, whenever we take a break, we offer to you a series we'll call From the Bookshelf, where we read a public domain story steeped in adventure and classic masculinity. And at the end, there will be a few book club style questions that we'd like you to respond to in the comments of the episode.
In this episode we offer to you, "To Build a Fire," by Jack London. This version was originally published in 1908.
Our questions to you after a listen are:
What ideals of masculinity were being portrayed by the man and are they still relevant today?
There is a contrast between the man and the dog playing out in this story. How do themes such as instinct or rational thought play out differently between the man and the dog?
There is an obvious statement about traditionally masculine traits such as stoicism, independence, and self-sufficiency that are spotlighted in this story. What is the main message London is trying to articulate using a man in this bleak setting and why?
Outro Music: Motivation Inspiring Corporate, by NastelBom - Free for use under the Pixabay Content License
In this episode of Dang Man, the Hart brothers delve into the life and legacy of Fred Rogers, exploring his unique approach to compassion, communication, and honing his craft - children's television. The hosts discuss how Mr. Rogers exemplified kindness and empathy, his impact on children's programming, and the importance of resilience in pursuing one's passion. They also reflect on his testimony before Congress, which showcased his ability to connect with others and communicate in an extremely compelling way. Ultimately, the conversation highlights the enduring lessons we can learn from Mr. Rogers and his commitment to treating children with respect and understanding. Can this man who’s neighborhood lit up our childhood be a modern male role model? Come find out on this episode!
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Reference: The Good Neighbor, by Maxwell King
Intro Music: Funky Miracle (positive funk), by Kulakovka - Free for use under the Pixabay Content License
Outro Music: Motivation Inspiring Corporate, by NastelBom - Free for use under the Pixabay Content License
In this episode of Dang Man, the Hart brothers explore how to challenge behaviors that many men see as taboo through the lens of Alex Manley’s “The New Masculinity.” The conversation delves into the evolving definitions of masculinity, exploring how traditional gender roles impact men's behavior, vulnerability, and societal expectations. The speakers discuss the biological factors influencing masculinity, the erosion of trust in men, and the challenges of navigating modern masculinity. They emphasize the importance of self-reflection, vulnerability, and the need for a broader understanding of masculinity that transcends gender norms. Let’s find out if Manley’s “Roadmap for a 21st Century Definition of Manhood” can help us navigate to a more heroic future!
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Intro Music: Funky Miracle (positive funk), by Kulakovka - Free for use under the Pixabay Content License
Outro Music: Motivation Inspiring Corporate, by NastelBom - Free for use under the Pixabay Content License
In this episode of Dang Man, the Hart brothers delve into the world of tobacco, specifically focusing on pipes and cigars. In this conversation, the hosts cover a primer of tobacco, cigars, and pipes, discussing everything from the best practices for beginners to the intricate details of different tobacco blends and the art of pipe restoration. The conversation starts with the importance of having a good first experience with tobacco, then evolves into offering tips on avoiding common pitfalls and navigating the tobacco landscape. The hosts also touch on health risks and the cultural significance of tobacco in modern society. Ultimately, they emphasize the value of savoring the experience and connecting with the craftsmanship behind tobacco products. Come on this journey into a hobby that has a rich masculine history!
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Intro Music: Funky Miracle (positive funk), by Kulakovka - Free for use under the Pixabay Content License
Outro Music: Motivation Inspiring Corporate, by NastelBom - Free for use under the Pixabay Content License
In this episode of Dang Man, the Hart brothers explore the complex world of influence, discussing its importance in leadership and everyday life. They delve into the differences between tactical and strategic influence and share personal anecdotes. The conversation touches on real-world examples in both tactical and strategic influence. Influence at all levels is an important skill that can help any man navigate life, become a change agent, and help prevent challenging situations from turning into complete disorder. Can you build your influencing skills? Heck yeah, man! You have the power to make things happen!
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References (Not a sponsor!):Influencer: The Power to Change Anything, by Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, David Maxfield, Ron McMillan, Al Switzler
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Outro Music: Motivation Inspiring Corporate, by NastelBom - Free for use under the Pixabay Content License
In this episode of Dang Man, the Hart brothers explore the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and how his principles of nonviolence, compassion and activism resonate with modern masculinity. The conversation delves into the legacy of Martin Luther King Jr. as a modern masculine role model and how men can impact today’s society through fostering community and the bravery they can display through activism. This pulls heavily from the book, Where Do We Go From Here?, and asks us to reflect on that question as men and answer with either Community or Chaos? Buckle up because this episode levels up what embodies masculine role models for modern men.
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Intro Music: Funky Miracle (positive funk), by Kulakovka - Free for use under the Pixabay Content License
Outro Music: Motivation Inspiring Corporate, by NastelBom - Free for use under the Pixabay Content License
In this episode of Dang Man, the Hart brothers delve into Justin Baldoni’s book Man Enough: Undefining My Masculinity. This episode’s conversation touches on the struggles of comparison amongst men within subjects spanning fatherhood, body image, and privilege. As we analyze the book, we ask questions about being “man enough” ourselves and whether or not a book like this will have a positive impact on men and masculinity as a whole or not. Men’s Gender studies is a limited and maturing field of study and we applaud any attempt to bring others into the conversation whether it hits the mark or not - growth-mindset bro’s. It’s about the journey not the destination! So come along with us as we examine Man Enough.
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Outro Music: Motivation Inspiring Corporate, by NastelBom - Free for use under the Pixabay Content License
In this episode of Dang Man, the Hart brothers tackle the challenges of finding positive male role models in today's society, exploring the concepts of heroic masculinity versus disordered masculinity and how rise of controversial influencers like Andrew Tate and the emergence of the Manosphere are negative contributing factors shaping young men's identities. The discussion touches on the correlation between community health and violence, emphasizing the importance of belonging and representation in shaping positive male role models. The conversation emphasizes the need for genuine companionship and the role of men in supporting one another and reflects on the difficulties of finding mentors and the impact of societal expectations on male identity.
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Intro Music: Funky Miracle (positive funk), by Kulakovka - Free for use under the Pixabay Content License
Outro Music: Motivation Inspiring Corporate, by NastelBom - Free for use under the Pixabay Content License
