Pride is sneaky. It shows up in ways we don’t always notice, but it slowly kills our relationship with Jesus, damages our friendships, and weakens the community around us. In Luke 18:9–14, Jesus tells a powerful parable about a Pharisee and a tax collector. On the surface, it’s a simple story, but it completely flips our idea of what it means to be right with God.In this message, Pastor Carlos Fernandez shares how pride isolates us, blinds us, and makes us compare ourselves to others while pointing to our own works instead of what Christ has already done. The Pharisee in the story looks good on the outside, but his prayer is really about himself. The tax collector, on the other hand, shows humility. He keeps his distance, lowers his eyes, beats his chest in desperation, and cries out for mercy. Jesus makes it clear that this man, not the Pharisee, went home right with God.This isn’t just a story about two men in a temple. It’s a story about us. Pride is a battle we all face, but humility is the way to freedom. Humility looks like surrendering our lives to Jesus, spending time in the Word, being honest through confession, and choosing to walk in real community. When we humble ourselves, God lifts us up and calls us His sons and daughters forever.If you’ve ever struggled with pride—and we all have—this message is for you. My prayer is that as you hear this teaching, you’ll not only see pride for what it is, but you’ll also see how amazing it is to be lifted up and honored by God when we humble ourselves before Him.Scripture: Luke 18:9–14. Message by Pastor Carlos Fernandez at CrossPoint City Church Young Adults. Subscribe for more messages, encouragement, and resources to help you grow in your walk with Jesus.#Pride #Humility #CrossPointCityChurch #YoungAdults #Jesus

What makes a man truly godly? Is it his strength, his leadership, or his ability to provide and protect? Those things matter — but according to Scripture, none of it works the way it should if it isn’t rooted in love.

In this message, Pastor Carlos Fernandez from CrossPoint City Church unpacks what he calls the most important mark of biblical manhood: love. Without love, leadership becomes pride. Provision turns into performance. Protection becomes control. Love is what keeps everything in its right place.

Through 1 Corinthians 13 and Matthew 22, Pastor Carlos walks men through three powerful truths that redefine what it means to be a man of God. First, you must experience the love of God for yourself. It’s not enough to hear about Jesus — you need to encounter Him personally. The Gospel isn’t about what you can do to reach God; it’s about what God did to reach you. Jesus left heaven, took on human flesh, and carried the weight of your sin because His love was stronger than the nails that held Him to the cross.

Second, you are called to love God with your whole life. Not part of it. Not just on Sundays. Jesus said to love God with all your heart, soul, and mind — meaning your emotions, your identity, and your thoughts all belong to Him. Loving God isn’t a part-time commitment. It’s full-time surrender. It’s choosing to let Him lead every decision, desire, and dream.

Finally, true manhood shows up when you love others out of the overflow of your relationship with God. Your family, your coworkers, your friends, even strangers — they all deserve to see the love of Jesus through the way you live. The reason you love is because He first loved you. The reason you forgive is because you’ve been forgiven. The reason you show up for people is because God never stopped showing up for you.

If we get this right — if men begin to love like Jesus — it will change everything. Our homes will look different. Our churches will grow stronger. Our communities will feel the impact of men who live out the love of God daily.

Watch until the end for a powerful prayer and challenge to become a man who experiences God’s love, loves Him completely, and loves others faithfully.

📖 Scriptures:
1 Corinthians 13:1–3
Matthew 22:37–39
1 John 4:19

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In this week’s KSU Bible Study, Pastor Carlos Fernandez unpacks Mark 1:16–45, where Jesus calls His first disciples, teaches with authority, confronts darkness, and heals the broken.This passage reminds us that Jesus calls ordinary people to a new way of life. Discipleship isn’t just attending church—it’s following Him so closely that your life begins to look like His. We also see that following Jesus isn’t always convenient, but it’s always worth it.From casting out demons to cleansing a leper, the power and compassion of Jesus are on full display. And the good news is this: the same Jesus who called and healed then is still calling and healing today.This message is part of our ministry with Crosspoint City Young Adults at Kennesaw State University. We’re passionate about helping college students and young adults know Jesus, build community, and live on mission.#CrosspointCity #YoungAdults #KSU #CollegeMinistry #BibleStudy #Discipleship #Jesus #Mark1 #CalledChangedClean

Mark jumps right in and shows us the start of the good news of Jesus. John prepares the way, Jesus gets baptized and the Father calls Him loved, then He’s tested in the wilderness before stepping into His mission: “Repent and believe the gospel.” This is the start of something new—not just for Jesus’ ministry, but for us. God’s love comes before we do anything, Jesus knows what it’s like to be tested, and now His mission is our mission.

Kill What’s Killing Us: AddictionWe are living in the most addicted generation in history — and yet, our culture calls it “normal.” But the Bible calls it slavery, mastery, and idolatry. In this message, Carlos Fernandez unpacks Romans 6:12-23 and shows how addiction isn’t just about bad habits — it’s about who or what is pulling the strings in your life. The good news? Because of Jesus, we don’t have to stay chained. The gospel changes our status, changes our heart, and gives us a brand-new way to live free.📖 Key Scripture: Romans 6:12-23🎯 Big Idea: Addiction traps you, but Jesus frees you.Whether your struggle is with substances, approval, your phone, or anything else, Jesus offers real freedom — starting today.#KillWhatsKillingUs #Addiction #FreedomInChrist #Romans6 #YoungAdults #CrosspointCityChurch

In this powerful conversation, a panel of young adults and leaders open up about their personal battles with anxiety and how faith in Jesus has shaped their journey. From daily struggles to deeper fears, this honest and vulnerable dialogue reminds us that we’re not alone — and that God meets us in the middle of our worry.

Whether you’re facing anxiety yourself or want to better understand how to support others, this is a conversation you don’t want to miss.

This was part of our current series, Kill What’s Killing Us, where we’re confronting the things that quietly destroy our peace and purpose.

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Anxiety doesn’t just stress you out — it wears you down, clouds your thinking, and chokes your peace. In this message, we look at what Scripture actually says about anxiety and how Jesus invites us to fight it with faith, prayer, and honest community.You’ll walk away reminded that anxiety is real, but so is the God who’s with you in it.

Sexual sin is killing our confidence, our calling, our relationships — and our witness. In this message, Pastor Carlos Fernandez brings biblical clarity and grace to a topic many avoid.🔪 It's time to kill what’s killing us.📖 Learn what the Bible actually says about sexual sin.💔 Understand why it's different from other sins.✝️ And discover how Jesus gives us grace to live free.Whether you're stuck in a cycle or just need wisdom to walk in purity — this message is for you.Scripture References:Proverbs 5, 1 Corinthians 6, Matthew 5, John 8, Galatians 5, Ephesians 4, and more.Let’s live free. Let’s follow Jesus.#KillWhatIsKillingUs #YoungAdults #SexualSin #FreedomInChrist #CarlosFernandez #CrosspointCityChurch

Gossip isn’t just a bad habit—it’s a sin that quietly kills your relationships, your trust, your spiritual growth, and your witness for Jesus. In this message, we’re not just talking about avoiding gossip—we’re calling it what it is and learning how to kill it before it kills us. Gossip breaks trust, divides community, and destroys your credibility. But the good news is this: through Jesus, we don’t just get better words—we get new hearts. Let’s be a community that speaks life, not death. Let’s kill gossip before it kills what God is trying to build.

Ever feel like you just don’t have the answers? James tells us how to ask God for wisdom and what it looks like to trust Him fully, even when life feels uncertain.

Life is full of trials, but James challenges us to see them in a whole new way. In this episode, we’ll talk about how struggles can actually build strength and lead to a deeper, unshakable faith.

In this episode, we’re laying the foundation for our series on James. Who was the man behind the letter? What was his message? And why does it still matter today? Join us as we explore the purpose and themes of this powerful book that calls us to live out a genuine faith.

What happens when we choose comfort over our calling? In this message, we dive into the story of David and Bathsheba to explore how comfort can lead to complacency, and complacency to compromise. We’ll uncover the subtle ways the enemy uses comfort to pull us away from God’s purpose and learn practical steps to fight back through surrender, accountability, and confession. Discover how staying uncomfortable can lead to spiritual growth and victory.

In this episode, we sit down with Crosspoint City Church's Community Engagement Pastor and Coordinator to explore what it means to live on mission right where you are. From practical ways to get involved to inspiring stories of impact, discover how you can be a part of making a difference in your community. Whether you're looking to serve locally or just curious about what community engagement looks like, this conversation will challenge and equip you to take your next step in living for others.

Community matters—but what does it really look like to build meaningful connections in today’s world? In this episode, we invite four young adults to share their personal experiences and perspectives on what community means to them. Whether you’re an introvert, extrovert, or somewhere in between, this conversation will inspire and equip you to be intentional about fostering real relationships and being part of a Christ-centered community. Don’t miss this honest and practical discussion on doing life together!

In this episode, we dive into the essential elements of dating in a way that honors God, covering everything from setting healthy boundaries to pursuing purity. We’ll explore why boundaries act as guardrails to protect your heart in relationships, how to have those tough but important conversations about boundaries, and why involving wise counsel in your dating journey makes all the difference. You’ll also hear practical advice on how to keep your relationship pure and Christ-focused, and why loving God first is the key to loving your partner even better.

Join us as we discuss what it looks like to date with intention, wisdom, and holiness, while always putting God at the center of your relationship. This episode is packed with real, down-to-earth advice on how to navigate dating in a way that leads to healthy, thriving relationships built on a strong foundation of faith.

In this episode, we tackle the difference between dating just for fun and dating with real purpose. What does it mean to date with intention, and how can you set clear goals for your relationship without making things awkward? We’ll dive into why dating with marriage in mind is so important, and how this mindset can help you determine if someone is truly the right fit for you. If you’re tired of casual dating and want to pursue a relationship with meaning and direction, this conversation is for you.

Join us as we discuss practical ways to approach dating with purpose, build stronger connections, and navigate relationships that align with God's plan for your life.

In this episode, we unpack what it means to know your true identity as a son or daughter of the King and how that completely shifts your approach to dating. When you grasp your worth in Christ, you no longer settle for the world’s standards—you hold yourself and others to the standard of how God sees you. We’ll explore the practical implications of understanding your royal identity and how that translates to setting boundaries, having healthy expectations, and dating with purpose.

Join us as we dive into how recognizing your worth in Christ changes everything about the way you navigate relationships, from who you date to how you date, and why you don’t have to settle for anything less than God’s best.

In this episode, we dive into the heart of what it means to make Jesus the King of your life, especially in your dating relationships. If Jesus isn’t at the center of your dating, He won’t be at the center of your marriage. We’ll explore why prioritizing Christ transforms how we date, giving us clarity, confidence, and direction in our relationships. From practical tips on keeping Jesus at the center—like praying together, being in biblical community, and seeking God’s wisdom in your relationship—to the consequences of neglecting Him, we cover it all. Whether you're in a relationship or waiting for the right one, discover how a Christ-centered approach leads to healthy, thriving relationships.

Join us as we talk about dating with purpose, and why making Jesus King really does change everything.

In this sermon, we explore how to date well by putting Jesus at the center of our relationships. In a world filled with confusing messages about love and dating, it's crucial to follow a path that honors God and keeps Jesus as King in every aspect of life. Topics covered in this sermon include: - Why Jesus must be at the forefront of your dating life - Understanding your identity as royalty in God's kingdom - Dating with purpose and intentionality - Setting healthy boundaries that protect your heart and purity - The importance of community and wise counsel in relationships Whether you're single, dating, or preparing for marriage, this message is filled with biblical wisdom and practical advice to guide you toward healthy, Christ-centered relationships. Don’t forget to subscribe for more sermons and teaching on living a life that honors Jesus. If this message encouraged you, please like, share, and comment with your thoughts or questions below! Crosspoint City Church exists to relentlessly pursue those far from God to help them know and follow Jesus, and WE WILL NOT WAIT. In line with this mission, our Young Adults Ministry is focused on pursuing young adults who are far from God to help them know and follow Jesus. Connect with Us Instagram: @crosspointcity_ya Facebook: Crosspoint City Young Adults