Growth is a natural part of life, but sometimes that growth means outgrowing certain people, relationships, or environments. In this episode, Fertilizer, NOT Weedkiller, we talk about the hard truth: it's OK to change the people around you as you grow.
We’ll explore how outgrowing people doesn’t mean you’re tearing others down; it means you’re choosing to plant yourself in healthier soil that fosters growth. Just like fertilizer, growth adds value and life to what’s around you, but it might also require pruning to make space for what’s next.
If you’ve ever felt guilty for moving on, changing relationships, or stepping away from people who no longer align with your growth, this episode is for you. Let’s talk about how to honor your journey, embrace change, and continue thriving.
The holiday season often brings joy, but it can also bring stress, pressure, and distractions that pull us away from what really matters. In this episode, we’re taking a moment to refocus and remind ourselves of the true reason for the season: Jesus.
Join us as we dive into the importance of letting go of the stressors, to-do lists, and expectations that tend to weigh us down—not just during Christmas but in every season of life. We’ll explore how shifting our perspective to center on Jesus can bring peace, clarity, and purpose in the midst of life’s chaos.
This conversation will leave you inspired to approach the season with a renewed heart and a deeper connection to the One who gives it meaning. Let’s refocus together on what truly matters.
Whether you're part of a nuclear family or a blended one, seasons of life bring new dynamics that often require rethinking cherished routines.
We’ll dive into the importance of honoring your past traditions while creating space for new ones that reflect your current season of life. From shifting holiday schedules to blending traditions across families, this conversation is packed with practical insights and encouragement to help you embrace change while staying rooted in love and connection.
Tune in to discover how to keep traditions meaningful and flexible, no matter how your family grows or changes. 🎙️
Thanksgiving is all about gratitude, family, and, of course, great food—but sometimes the holiday table can feel more like a battleground. In this episode, we’re tackling how to navigate those tricky family dynamics that can bubble up during the holidays. Whether it’s a heated debate over politics or a disagreement about the stuffing recipe, we share practical tips for avoiding confrontation and turning tense moments into meaningful conversations. Tune in to learn how to set the tone for a healthier, happier holiday, even when others try to stir the pot. 🦃✨
Ever felt like you were doing everything right, hoping that nothing bad would happen, only to find yourself facing unexpected challenges? In this eye-opening episode, we delve into the trap of practicing faith out of fear rather than genuine desire. We explore the misconception that if we check all the boxes, God will shield us from all hardships. Join us as we uncover how this mindset can hinder a true relationship with God and discuss steps to shift from a fear-based faith to one rooted in love and trust. Tune in to learn how to let go of perfectionism and embrace a more authentic spiritual journey.
Have you ever faced an unexpected job loss or a sudden health issue that left you questioning your path? In this enlightening episode, we explore how life's unexpected challenges might be more than just setbacks—they could be divine redirections guiding you toward God's intended path. Join us as we share inspiring stories and biblical insights that reveal how what seems like a detour may actually be a doorway to greater purpose and fulfillment. Discover how to embrace these moments with faith and trust, understanding that God's plans often surpass our own. Tune in to learn how to see His guiding hand in every twist and turn of your journey.
Ever wondered what it takes to successfully work alongside your spouse without letting work (or relationship tensions) take over? In this episode, we’re sharing the honest, practical ways to make a partnership at work just as strong as one at home. From setting boundaries to creating healthy communication habits, we’ll break down the most common challenges couples face when they combine business and marriage—and how to handle them gracefully. Whether you’re in a full-time venture with your partner or just considering it, tune in to learn how to make work-life balance a reality and keep the love alive both on and off the clock!
NEW PODCAST FORMAT: In this new, bite-sized episode of The Couple on Fire Podcast, we’re opening up about the major changes happening in our lives. Kristy has been permanently laid off from her job, which was a huge part of our family’s income. Now, we’re stepping into the world of content creation full-time, trusting God to guide us through this season of uncertainty. It’s a time of faith, adjustment, and leaning on His plan more than ever. Join us as we share how we’re navigating these changes and finding strength in our faith.
In this rerun episode, we're diving into an essential topic for anyone starting a new chapter or pursuing a fresh goal: "Don’t Let Haters Change Your Path." As you step forward, it's common to face resistance or negativity, but how do you stay focused? We’ll explore how to maintain your direction, stay grounded in your faith, and surround yourself with positive influences. With inspiration from 2 Timothy 2:14, we’ll discuss avoiding pointless disputes, building a supportive community, and embracing resilience and forgiveness. Whether you’re starting a new project or continuing your journey, tune in for encouragement, wisdom, and guidance on staying true to your path! For more content, visit joshandkristy.com.
Are arguments with your spouse leaving you feeling hurt and disconnected? In this enlightening episode, we reveal how to transform disagreements into opportunities for growth and deeper connection.
We delve into three vital strategies:
Through real-life examples and practical advice, we'll help you reshape the way you and your partner handle conflicts. Learn how to communicate effectively, foster empathy, and find solutions that strengthen your relationship.
Don't let disagreements disrupt your bond—tune in to discover the keys to a more harmonious and loving partnership.
Like, share, and subscribe to stay updated on our latest episodes and gain more valuable insights into building successful relationships. Let's transform conflicts into lasting connections together!
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Welcome back to "The Couple on Fire Podcast"! In tonight's special rerun episode, we're tackling a sensitive yet vital topic: how to rejuvenate your marriage when it feels like you're the only one trying. We know that relationships can face uphill battles, but what steps can you take to make a positive change on your own?
Join us as we share 4 powerful, faith-driven strategies to help you breathe new life into your relationship. Rooted in wisdom from the Good Book, these actionable tips are designed to empower you to reignite the connection with your spouse.
Whether you're currently navigating a challenging season or simply want to strengthen your marital foundation, this episode is packed with insights to elevate your faith, family, and future.
Tune in tonight, and let's embark on this journey together!
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Welcome back to The Couple on Fire Podcast! In this special episode, Kristy and I revisit the timeless journey of navigating marriage through its various life stages. From the exhilarating days of newlywed bliss to the transformative middle years and into the wisdom-filled later stages, we explore the unique challenges and joys each phase brings.
Join us as we share heartfelt stories, practical advice, and spiritual insights designed to strengthen your connection with your spouse at every turn. Whether you're just starting out or have been dancing together through life's seasons for years, this episode offers valuable guidance to help your marriage not just survive but truly thrive.
Tune in and let's reignite the flames of love and partnership, taking your faith, family, and future to the next level.
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Do you ever feel like your relationship could use a little spark? In this episode, we dive into the real secret to building a stronger, more connected marriage—encouragement. From cheering on your spouse's dreams to offering words of affirmation when they need it most, we're breaking down how simple acts of support can create huge changes in your relationship. Join us as we explore why lifting up your partner isn't just nice—it's essential for a thriving marriage. Plus, we’ll reveal how this one powerful habit can make both your personal and married life better than ever!
🎉 Throwback Episode Alert! 🎉
🕰️ We're bringing back one of our all-time favorites with Marriage experts and edutainers, Jay & Laura Laffoon!
💑 In this episode, we dive deep into the importance of Putting Your Spouse First and why it's the foundation for a thriving marriage.
🔥 Plus, we're sharing some EXCITING opportunities on the horizon you won't want to miss!
✨ Mark your calendars for our upcoming CYM events on October 6th & 7th, 2024!
Don't miss this classic episode—it's just as relevant today as it was when we first aired it!
In this episode of "The Couple on Fire Podcast," my wife Kristy and I delve into the profound significance of marriage and why it holds the utmost importance in our lives. Drawing from our Christian beliefs, we explore how marriage has been a transformative force in our personal growth, spiritual unity, and family foundations. Join us as we discuss how marriage aligns with God's design, offers unique opportunities for spiritual growth, and serves as a solid foundation for building a strong Christian family. Through sharing our own experiences and providing practical insights, we shed light on the path to unlocking personal development and experiencing fulfilling relationships through the sacred journey of marriage. We invite you to tune in and discover why we believe marriage truly matters the most, and how it can ignite your faith, family, and future. Learn More: joshandkristy.com
We're bringing back one of our most popular episodes where we dive deep into a topic that hits close to home—Unrealistic Expectations in Marriage. 🌟
In this eye-opening episode, we explore how those idealistic standards we often set can create hidden challenges in our relationships. From the myth of the perfect partner to the pressure of keeping up a picture-perfect union, we uncover the real impact these unrealistic expectations can have on our marriages.
Tune in as we share candid insights, personal stories, and actionable tips for couples at any stage of their journey. Whether you're just starting out or have been together for years, this episode offers valuable wisdom on how to set realistic, healthy expectations that strengthen your bond. Let's keep the conversation going and ensure the flames of understanding and love continue to burn brightly in our relationships. 🔥
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In this special re-run, we dive into the core message of 'The Couple on Fire' Podcast: the importance of taking that first step and just starting. 🔥
Reflecting on our journey, we explore the challenges and triumphs of initiating something new and meaningful. From our initial steps in ministry to the evolution of our podcast, we share our personal experiences as recovering alcoholics, our commitment to spreading God's word, and how we've navigated the complexities of a blended family.
Whether you're a long-time listener or new to our community, this episode is a testament to the power of just starting, the beauty of growth, and the impact of faith in our lives. Join us as we discuss not just the 'why' but also the 'how' of beginning a venture that's close to our hearts.
Tune in for an inspiring conversation about the essence of starting something new and meaningful. Your journey begins with that first step—don’t wait, just start!
In this episode of The Couple on Fire Podcast, we're diving into what it really means to live a healthy life. We'll break down the misconceptions and share practical tips to help you achieve true wellness. Join us as we explore:
Less is More (Balance) - Discover how finding balance in all areas of life can lead to better health and well-being. We'll discuss why sometimes doing less can actually mean more for your overall health.
Don’t Believe the Hype - Not every fad diet or trendy workout is right for you. We'll talk about the importance of listening to your body and choosing what works best for your unique needs.
Consistency is the Secret - Learn why consistency trumps intensity when it comes to maintaining a healthy lifestyle. We'll share strategies to help you stay on track and make lasting changes.
Goals Matter, But Not Like You Think - While goals are important, it's crucial to focus on health rather than vanity. We'll explain why setting goals centered around being healthy and feeling good is more sustainable and fulfilling.
Tune in to hear our insights, personal experiences, and actionable advice to help you embrace a healthier, more balanced life. Don't miss this episode if you're ready to redefine what it means to be truly healthy!
Join us on this episode of The Couple on Fire Podcast as we welcome Eloy and Stephanie Martinez to share their insights on playing the “long game” in relationships. Drawing from their own experiences and biblical wisdom, Eloy and Stephanie discuss how making thoughtful, long-term choices can pave the way for a stronger, more resilient relationship.
Tune in to hear practical advice on balancing immediate needs with long-term goals, maintaining family bonds through faith, and the key investments every couple should make for their future together. Plus, enjoy some heartwarming stories and a sprinkle of humor as Eloy and Stephanie share their journey of blending love, faith, and family.
Don't miss this inspiring conversation on how to play the long game and build a lasting relationship that honors God.
In this episode of "The Couple on Fire Podcast," we dive into the delicate balance between humor and harm in marriage. While laughter is often called the best medicine, it's crucial to recognize when jokes can cross the line and cause unintended pain. Join us as we explore the potential dangers of poking fun at your spouse and offer insights on how to keep humor healthy and uplifting in your relationship.
We'll discuss:
Understanding the difference between intent and impact.
The importance of building and maintaining emotional safety.
Effective communication strategies to ensure humor strengthens rather than weakens your bond.
Harnessing the power of positive reinforcement to enhance your connection through loving, playful humor.
Grounded in biblical wisdom, we'll reflect on Ephesians 4:29 and the importance of speaking words that build up and benefit your spouse. Tune in to discover how to navigate the fine line between humor and hurt, ensuring your marriage thrives with joy and respect.
