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Coffee, Grief, And Gratitude
Coffee And Grief
90 episodes
1 week ago
Anne Gudger and Maria Gibson are widening the grief conversation, talking about the things we don’t normally take the time to talk about. We’ll hear different people’s grief stories and talk with them about their experience of grief throughout their lives. We get learn new things every time. We’re here to ask questions, not prescribe answers. We’re not experts in your grief. We’ll hear stories about death, sickness, politics, dementia, loss of youth, loss of self. Anne Gudger’s memoir, THE FIFTH CHAMBER is out now. Follow her at: Annegudger.com. Find us on FB at Coffee and Grief Community.
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Anne Gudger and Maria Gibson are widening the grief conversation, talking about the things we don’t normally take the time to talk about. We’ll hear different people’s grief stories and talk with them about their experience of grief throughout their lives. We get learn new things every time. We’re here to ask questions, not prescribe answers. We’re not experts in your grief. We’ll hear stories about death, sickness, politics, dementia, loss of youth, loss of self. Anne Gudger’s memoir, THE FIFTH CHAMBER is out now. Follow her at: Annegudger.com. Find us on FB at Coffee and Grief Community.
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Coffee, Grief, And Gratitude
Grieving and Holding the Dead Close with Rebe Huntman

Rebe was 19 when her mother died. She didn’t allow herself to feel her grief, following well-meaning advice to put her grief aside. Thirty years later, Rebe went on a quest to know her mother, to grieve her. She traveled to Cuba and learned to grieve from a culture that holds their dead close. She saw it was possible to communicate with the other side, and it changed her relationship to her mother and her grief. 

 

Rebe Huntman is a memoirist, essayist, dancer, teacher, and poet who writes at the intersections of feminism, world religion and spirituality. For over a decade she directed Chicago’s award-winning Danza Viva Center for World Dance, Art & Music and its dance company, One World Dance Theater. Huntman collaborates with native artists in Cuba and South America, has been featured in Latina Magazine, Chicago Magazine, and the Chicago Tribune, and has appeared on Fox and ABC. A Macondo fellow and recipient of an Ohio Individual Excellence award, Huntman received support for her debut memoir, My Mother in Havana: A Memoir of Magic & Miracle (Monkfish Book Publishing Company, 2025), from The Ohio State University, Virginia Center for Creative Arts, Ragdale Foundation, PLAYA Residency, Hambidge Center, and Brush Creek Foundation. She lives in Delaware, Ohio and San Miguel de Allende, Mexico.

 

Thank you for letting us be in your ears.

 

Coffee, Grief and Gratitude is created by Anne Gudger and Maria Gibson, a mom/daughter duo who talk about grief. 

 

You can find them on Facebook at Coffee and Grief. Please join their private Facebook page: Coffee and Grief Community.

 

You can also email Anne and Maria at: coffeeandgrief@gmail.com

 

Anne’s memoir, THE FIFTH CHAMBER, a memoir of loss and love, is available wherever you get your books.

 

Once you’ve read THE FIFTH CHAMBER, Anne would be so grateful if you’d share your honest thoughts on Amazon and Goodreads. Thank you for taking a few minutes to review!

 

We’d love you to like and share the podcast! 

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1 week ago
43 minutes 7 seconds

Coffee, Grief, And Gratitude
Coffee Talk #73, October 2025

We’re thrilled to bring you our recent Coffee Talk #73 from October 2025. We hope these five phenomenal writers/readers/humans and their stories are just what your heart needs today. We’re delighted to bring you Asha Dore, Bob Macauley, Brad Snyder, Karen Bonofiglio, and Rebecca Thompson. Enjoy!

Thank you for letting us be in your ears.

 

Coffee, Grief and Gratitude is created by Anne Gudger and Maria Gibson, a mom/daughter duo who talk about grief. 

 

You can find them on Facebook at Coffee and Grief. Please join their private Facebook page: Coffee and Grief Community.

 

You can also email Anne and Maria at: coffeeandgrief@gmail.com

 

Anne’s memoir, THE FIFTH CHAMBER, a memoir of loss and love, is available wherever you get your books.

 

Once you’ve read THE FIFTH CHAMBER, Anne would be so grateful if you’d share your honest thoughts on Amazon and Goodreads. Thank you for taking a few minutes to review!

 

We’d love you to like and share the podcast! 

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3 weeks ago
47 minutes 49 seconds

Coffee, Grief, And Gratitude
Don’t Lean into Regret with Chelsea Pegues

Chelsea shares her triple griefs: the death of her beloved dad, Eddie, her mom’s dementia, and recovering from being hit by a car while she was out for a run. In our conversation you’ll hear Chelsea talk about her love for her dad who was “magic.” She tells us grief taught her how to “pick through the rice and find the beans.” She shares her grief wisdom: “Meet people without judgement. When we share, it gets a little easier, we breathe a little deeper.”


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Coffee, Grief and Gratitude is created by Anne Gudger and Maria Gibson, a mom/daughter duo who talk about grief. 

You can find them on Facebook at Coffee and Grief. Please join their private Facebook page: Coffee and Grief Community.

You can also email Anne and Maria at: coffeeandgrief@gmail.com

Anne’s memoir, THE FIFTH CHAMBER, a memoir of loss and love, is available wherever you get your books.

Once you’ve read THE FIFTH CHAMBER, Anne would be so grateful if you’d share your honest thoughts on Amazon and Goodreads. Thank you for taking a few minutes to review!

We’d love you to like and share the podcast! 

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1 month ago
43 minutes 58 seconds

Coffee, Grief, And Gratitude
Coffee Talk #72 September 2025

We’re delighted to bring you our recent Coffee Talk #72 from September 2025. We hope these five phenomenal writers/readers/humans and their stories are just what your heart needs today. We’re delighted to bring you Ali Shaw, Christina Rivera, Kate Carroll de Gutes, Jasmine Nothing, and Liz Scott. 

 

Thank you for letting us be in your ears.

 

Coffee, Grief and Gratitude is created by Anne Gudger and Maria Gibson, a mom/daughter duo who talk about grief. 

 

You can find them on Facebook at Coffee and Grief. Please join their private Facebook page: Coffee and Grief Community.

 

You can also email Anne and Maria at: coffeeandgrief@gmail.com

 

Anne’s memoir, THE FIFTH CHAMBER, a memoir of loss and love, is available wherever you get your books.

 

Once you’ve read THE FIFTH CHAMBER, Anne would be so grateful if you’d share your honest thoughts on Amazon and Goodreads. Thank you for taking a few minutes to review!

 

We’d love you to like and share the podcast! 

Enjoy!

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1 month ago
43 minutes 7 seconds

Coffee, Grief, And Gratitude
Grief as a Synonym for Life with Doug Chase

Doug shares openly about many layers of grief from the death of his mom to being estranged from his kids. He talks about his mom who would say Kindness is the best thing. He says that thinking the best of people is his strength and can also be his weakness. He shares how in his grief he had to protect himself which doesn’t come naturally so he leaned into other people’s words. We love that he said grief is for everybody. Everybody experiences it. “All I can do is allow myself to experience grief and have empathy for others grieving.”

 

 

Doug Chase is a writer and retired bookseller living in Oregon with his spouse and two ridiculous cats. His writing has appeared in City of Weird: Thirty Otherworldly Portland Tales, The Untold Gaze, and Deep Overstock Issue 7: Horror, as well as a few places online. He has been a regular reader at the Burnt Tongue reading series and a few other events in Portland, and hosts a regular reading series with his own writing group and special guests. 

 

Thank you for letting us be in your ears.

 

Coffee, Grief and Gratitude is created by Anne Gudger and Maria Gibson, a mom/daughter duo who talk about grief. 

 

You can find them on Facebook at Coffee and Grief. Please join their private Facebook page: Coffee and Grief Community.

 

You can also email Anne and Maria at: coffeeandgrief@gmail.com

 

Anne’s memoir, THE FIFTH CHAMBER, a memoir of loss and love, is available wherever you get your books.

 

Once you’ve read THE FIFTH CHAMBER, Anne would be so grateful if you’d share your honest thoughts on Amazon and Goodreads. Thank you for taking a few minutes to review!

 

We’d love you to like and share the podcast! 

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3 months ago
43 minutes 28 seconds

Coffee, Grief, And Gratitude
What I Carried in Silence with Melanie Brooks

In this episode, Melanie Brooks openly shares the experience of her father dying from AIDS and how, as a family, they didn’t talk about him being sick. It took her 20 years to look at the silence and grief. 

 

Her dad was infected with AIDS from a blood transfusion during surgery. Her dad was a surgeon. He thought he’d die in months so he decided to keep his health a secret to avoid the stigmas around AIDS. He and their family lived with the silence for ten years. 

 

Melanie shares some beautiful insights around grief. She says, “I couldn’t move forward without looking back.” She believed she was preparing herself for years, but nothing could prepare her for the loss.


Melanie Brooks is the author of the memoir A Hard Silence: One daughter remaps family, grief, and faith when HIV/AIDS changes it all (Vine Leaves Press, 2023) and Writing Hard Stories: Celebrated Memoirists Who Shaped Art from Trauma (Beacon Press, 2017) She teaches creative nonfiction in the M.F.A. program at Bay Path University and in the M.F.A. program at Western Connecticut State University and professional writing at Northeastern University. She holds an M.F.A. in Creative Nonfiction from the University of Southern Maine’s Stonecoast writing program and a Certificate in Narrative Medicine from Columbia University. She has had numerous interviews and essays on topics ranging from loss and grief to parenting and aging published in The Boston Globe, The Toronto Globe and Mail, HuffPost, Yankee Magazine, Psychology Today, The Washington Post, Ms. Magazine, Creative Nonfiction, and other notable publications. She lives in New Hampshire with her husband, two children (when they are home from university), and chocolate Lab.

 

Thank you for letting us be in your ears.

 

Coffee, Grief and Gratitude is created by Anne Gudger and Maria Gibson, a mom/daughter duo who talk about grief. 

 

You can find them on Facebook at Coffee and Grief. Please join their private Facebook page: Coffee and Grief Community.

 

You can also email Anne and Maria at: coffeeandgrief@gmail.com

 

Anne’s memoir, THE FIFTH CHAMBER, a memoir of loss and love, is available wherever you get your books.

 

Once you’ve read THE FIFTH CHAMBER, Anne would be so grateful if you’d share your honest thoughts on Amazon and Goodreads. Thank you for taking a few minutes to review!

 

We’d love you to like and share the podcast! 

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3 months ago
47 minutes 15 seconds

Coffee, Grief, And Gratitude
Coffee Talk #71, July 2025

We’re delighted to bring you our recent Coffee Talk #71 from July 2025. We hope these five phenomenal writers/readers/humans and their stories are just what your heart needs today. We’re delighted to bring you Clare Simons, Debby Dodds, Laura Cathcart Robbins, Rebe Huntman, and Zane Thomas. 

Thank you for letting us be in your ears.

 

Coffee, Grief and Gratitude is created by Anne Gudger and Maria Gibson, a mom/daughter duo who talk about grief. 

 

You can find them on Facebook at Coffee and Grief. Please join their private Facebook page: Coffee and Grief Community.

 

You can also email Anne and Maria at: coffeeandgrief@gmail.com

 

Anne’s memoir, THE FIFTH CHAMBER, a memoir of loss and love, is available wherever you get your books.

 

Once you’ve read THE FIFTH CHAMBER, Anne would be so grateful if you’d share your honest thoughts on Amazon and Goodreads. Thank you for taking a few minutes to review!

 

We’d love you to like and share the podcast! 

Enjoy!

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3 months ago
45 minutes 39 seconds

Coffee, Grief, And Gratitude
Coffee Talk #70 June 2025

We’re delighted to bring you our recent Coffee Talk #70 from June 2025. We hope these five phenomenal writers/readers/humans and their stories are just what your heart needs today. We bring you: Lisa Cowan, Mary Klinger, Nancy Townsley, Shavaun Scott, and  Suzy Vitello. Enjoy!

Thank you for letting us be in your ears.


Coffee, Grief and Gratitude is created by Anne Gudger and Maria Gibson, a mom/daughter duo who talk about grief. 

 

You can find them on Facebook at Coffee and Grief. Please join their private Facebook page: Coffee and Grief Community.

 

You can also email Anne and Maria at: coffeeandgrief@gmail.com

 

Anne’s memoir, THE FIFTH CHAMBER, a memoir of loss and love, is available wherever you get your books.

 

Once you’ve read THE FIFTH CHAMBER, Anne would be so grateful if you’d share your honest thoughts on Amazon and Goodreads. Thank you for taking a few minutes to review!

 

We’d love you to like and share the podcast! 

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3 months ago
42 minutes 43 seconds

Coffee, Grief, And Gratitude
Layers of Grief with Phillipa Leseberg

In this episode Phillipa Leseberg reads from her new memoir: HIS NAME IS ERIC: a book that records her love story with her beloved husband Eric who died from cancer. It’s a love story, a story of resilience and advocacy, and so much more. 

 

Phillipa shares how through Eric’s illness and death, her concept of grief expanded. Grief started when Eric’s health first declined. Eric grieved his loss of work. Phillipa grieved the loss of her husband’s mobility. They grieved through all the treatments. Together they experienced intense grief when they realized treatments weren’t working. Philllipa grieves Eric, his death, and the life they had. 

 

Phillipa Leseberg is a Kiwi-American adventurer, dolphin & whale swimmer, advocate for juicing and organic food, and debut author. Her memoir, HIS NAME IS ERIC, chronicles the journey of soulmates Phillipa and Eric, facing the unthinkable: a stage-four cancer diagnosis that upends their lives. His Name is Eric is a tribute to resilience, courage, and hope when conventional medicine fails to provide the desired results. It offers an authentic love story while exploring alternative healing paths for cancer.

 

Based in Seattle, she lives a life filled with travel, adventure, writing and frequently visits her daughter and beloved pup in Hawai’i.

 

You can find her at: 


https://www.facebook.com/phillipa.leseberg  

https://www.instagram.com/phillipaleseberg/

https://phillipaleseberg.com/

 

Thank you for letting us be in your ears.

 

Coffee, Grief and Gratitude is created by Anne Gudger and Maria Gibson, a mom/daughter duo who talk about grief. 

 

You can find them on Facebook at Coffee and Grief. Please join their private Facebook page: Coffee and Grief Community.

 

You can also email Anne and Maria at: coffeeandgrief@gmail.com

 

Anne’s memoir, THE FIFTH CHAMBER, a memoir of loss and love, is available wherever you get your books.

 

Once you’ve read THE FIFTH CHAMBER, Anne would be so grateful if you’d share your honest thoughts on Amazon and Goodreads. Thank you for taking a few minutes to review!

 

We’d love you to like and share the podcast!

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5 months ago
33 minutes 20 seconds

Coffee, Grief, And Gratitude
Grief Connects Us Deeply with Becky Ellis

Becky Ellis shares about her dad’s experience as a Timberwolf in World War II and how that impacted him, then later her and the rest of their family. With her father sharing his story, she gained a deep understanding of who her father was. She was able to see him separate from her needs and desires. Becky says this uncovering was the “greatest moment of joy, the deepest moment of grief.” At 50, she finally got to see her dad for who he was, and she had compassion for him and what he endured. 

 

She’s learned the value of sharing stories over hiding secrets, and talks about how her relationships are different with her daughters than hers was with her dad.

 

Becky Ellis is a Timberwolf Pup. The daughter of a highly decorated World War II combat sergeant, she is a veteran of a war fought at home. She earned a BA in English Literature at UC Berkeley and has over twenty years of experience in the publishing industry. She teaches writing in Portland, Oregon, where she lives, plays, and has raised three daughters. Little Avalanches is her debut memoir. It was a finalist for the Oregon Book Award 2025. 

 

https://beckyellis.net

https://instagram.com/beckyellisauthor

Little Avalanches by Becky Ellis

 

Thank you for letting us be in your ears.

 

Coffee, Grief and Gratitude is created by Anne Gudger and Maria Gibson, a mom/daughter duo who talk about grief. 

 

You can find them on Facebook at Coffee and Grief. Please join their private Facebook page: Coffee and Grief Community.

 

You can also email Anne and Maria at: coffeeandgrief@gmail.com

 

Anne’s memoir, THE FIFTH CHAMBER, a memoir of loss and love, is available wherever you get your books.

 

Once you’ve read THE FIFTH CHAMBER, Anne would be so grateful if you’d share your honest thoughts on Amazon and Goodreads. Thank you for taking a few minutes to review!

 

We’d love you to like and share the podcast!

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5 months ago
40 minutes 53 seconds

Coffee, Grief, And Gratitude
Coffee Talk #69 May 2025 - A Reading Honoring Harvey

We’re delighted to bring you our recent Coffee Talk #69 from May 2025. This is a special Coffee Talk, honoring Monica Welty’s son, Harvey who died as a newborn. We hope these five phenomenal writers/readers/humans and their stories are just what your heart needs today. We bring you Becca Lynne, Jennifer Lynn, Katie Dominguez, Rebecca Mendez, and Virag Tunya. Enjoy!

 

Thank you for letting us be in your ears.

 

Coffee, Grief and Gratitude is created by Anne Gudger and Maria Gibson, a mom/daughter duo who talk about grief. 

 

You can find them on Facebook at Coffee and Grief. Please join their private Facebook page: Coffee and Grief Community.

 

You can also email Anne and Maria at: coffeeandgrief@gmail.com

 

Anne’s memoir, THE FIFTH CHAMBER, a memoir of loss and love, is available wherever you get your books.

 

Once you’ve read THE FIFTH CHAMBER, Anne would be so grateful if you’d share your honest thoughts on Amazon and Goodreads. Thank you for taking a few minutes to review!

 

We’d love you to like and share the podcast! 

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5 months ago
47 minutes 47 seconds

Coffee, Grief, And Gratitude
Play On With Kevin O’Connor

Season Two Episode Twenty-one

Play On With Kevin O’Connor

 

In this open-hearted conversation Kevin O’Connor tells us how he was born into grief. He came home as a newborn to an apartment above a funeral home. Living with death was always part of his life as his dad and uncle were undertakers and owners of a funeral home. He shares how his family supported others in grief. Sometimes he’d be a pallbearer for someone who didn’t have family. Sometimes his friends would be pallbearers too. He watched his dad treat everyone with respect. We especially love when he says, “I want people to say what a great last day I had.” And “witnessing and participating in death has helped me approach life in a much kinder way. I want to be remembered for what I was able to do for people.” 

 

Kevin O’Connor is the author of Two Floors Above Grief. His career spans over fifty years as a writer, teacher, principal, curriculum designer, and university instructor. He authors content and provides training in mathematics instruction, principal leadership, support for substitute teachers, LGBTQ advocacy, sexual health/Family Life, self-publishing, and marketing. He sings and performs in theaters. 

 

He is active with SMART Ride, a bicycling group that raises funds for HIV awareness, treatment, and education. He resides in Ft. Lauderdale with his husband, Leon. Their family includes five sons and seven granddaughters.

 

You can more Kevin here: https://www.podcastconnections.co/

LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/noemiberes/

Facebook: www.facebook.com/noemi.beres

Email: noemi@podcastconnections.co

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/noemi_beres_

Thank you for letting us be in your ears.

 

Coffee, Grief and Gratitude is created by Anne Gudger and Maria Gibson, a mom/daughter duo who talk about grief. 

 

You can find them on Facebook at Coffee and Grief. Please join their private Facebook page: Coffee and Grief Community.

 

You can also email Anne and Maria at: coffeeandgrief@gmail.com

 

Anne’s memoir, THE FIFTH CHAMBER, a memoir of loss and love, is available wherever you get your books.

 

Once you’ve read THE FIFTH CHAMBER, Anne would be so grateful if you’d share your honest thoughts on Amazon and Goodreads. Thank you for taking a few minutes to review!

 

We’d love you to like and share the podcast! 

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6 months ago
50 minutes 25 seconds

Coffee, Grief, And Gratitude
Coffee Talk #68 April 2025

We’re delighted to bring you our recent Coffee Talk #68 from April 2025. We hope these five phenomenal writers/readers/humans and their stories are just what your heart needs today. We bring you Annie Carl, Jen Violi, Nikki Darling, Nynke Salverda Passi, and Mary Mandeville. Enjoy!

Thank you for letting us be in your ears.


Coffee, Grief and Gratitude is created by Anne Gudger and Maria Gibson, a mom/daughter duo who talk about grief. 

 

You can find them on Facebook at Coffee and Grief. Please join their private Facebook page: Coffee and Grief Community.

 

You can also email Anne and Maria at: coffeeandgrief@gmail.com

 

Anne’s memoir, THE FIFTH CHAMBER, a memoir of loss and love, is available wherever you get your books.

 

Once you’ve read THE FIFTH CHAMBER, Anne would be so grateful if you’d share your honest thoughts on Amazon and Goodreads. Thank you for taking a few minutes to review!

 

We’d love you to like and share the podcast! 

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6 months ago
47 minutes 45 seconds

Coffee, Grief, And Gratitude
Incorporating Rituals With Shara Ruffin

Grab your coffee and come listen to this tender conversation with Shara Ruffin who talks about becoming comfortable with grief being part of life. She tells us some of the rituals she’s made part of her life since her daughter died and her mom-in-law too. She shares how important ritual is to stay connected to her beloveds. As a griever, as a human, she holds the fragility of life, embraces that grief is a process you engage with differently over time, and knows we all will eventually take our last breath. Shara says, “The only thing that’s left is the memory of you.” 

 

 

Shara is an independently licensed clinical social worker and former psychotherapist from Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. She holds a Bachelor's degree in social work from Lock Haven University of Pennsylvania and a Master's degree in social work from Howard University School of Social Work. Shara has specializations in grief, personality disorders, family trauma, compassion fatigue, military counseling, mindfulness meditation, ADHD, and anxiety. Shara is a Board Certified Tele-mental Health Provider. She’s the author of two journals: 90 Day of Inspiration: Study Companion for Social Workers Taking Their Licensing Exam and 90 Day Prayer Journal: A Journal for Social Workers.  

 

Thank you for letting us be in your ears.

 

Coffee, Grief and Gratitude is created by Anne Gudger and Maria Gibson, a mom/daughter duo who talk about grief. 

 

You can find them on Facebook at Coffee and Grief. Please join their private Facebook page: Coffee and Grief Community.

 

You can also email Anne and Maria at: coffeeandgrief@gmail.com

 

Anne’s memoir, THE FIFTH CHAMBER, a memoir of loss and love, is available wherever you get your books.

 

Once you’ve read THE FIFTH CHAMBER, Anne would be so grateful if you’d share your honest thoughts on Amazon and Goodreads. Thank you for taking a few minutes to review!

 

We’d love you to like and share the podcast! 

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6 months ago
37 minutes 4 seconds

Coffee, Grief, And Gratitude
Coffee Talk #44: March 2023

We’re delighted to bring you Coffee Talk #44 from March 2023. We hope these five phenomenal writers/readers/humans and their stories are just what your heart needs today. We bring you Carmel Breathnach, Jason Arias, Jessica Rich, Jill Deasy, and Rebecca Daniels. Enjoy! 

 

Thank you for letting us be in your ears.

 

Coffee, Grief and Gratitude is created by Anne Gudger and Maria Gibson, a mom/daughter duo who talk about grief. 

 

You can find them on Facebook at Coffee and Grief. Please join their private Facebook page: Coffee and Grief Community.

 

You can also email Anne and Maria at: coffeeandgrief@gmail.com

 

Anne’s memoir, THE FIFTH CHAMBER, a memoir of loss and love, is available wherever you get your books.

 

Once you’ve read THE FIFTH CHAMBER, Anne would be so grateful if you’d share your honest thoughts on Amazon and Goodreads. Thank you for taking a few minutes to review!

 

We’d love you to like and share the podcast! 

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7 months ago
48 minutes 25 seconds

Coffee, Grief, And Gratitude
Grief Up Close and the Long View with Pamela Gwyn Kripke

Pamela reads her essay that she says is partially the eulogy she should have written/shared about her father and didn’t. She braids some sweet childhood memories with her last memories of her dad. In moving through her grief, she tells us: “The rough emotions have taken a back seat to the good ones.” And her message to her younger self is to “accept each step of it. You don’t know the steps. And however you’re feeling, it’s all okay.”

 

Pamela Gwyn Kripke is a journalist and author whose writing has appeared in publications including The New York Times, The Chicago Tribune, The Chicago Sun-Times, The Dallas Morning News, The Huffington Post, Slate and Salon. Her novel, At the Seams, received the Arch Street Press First Chapter Award, and her new short story collection, And Then You Apply Ice, was a Finalist in the 2024 American Fiction Awards. Pamela’s fiction and creative nonfiction have been published in numerous literary magazines. Born in Manhattan, she got married in New York, had baby girls in Boston, was divorced in Texas and currently lives outside Philadelphia. She self-published a memoir called Girl Without a Zipcode.

https://pamelagwynkripke.com/

 

Thank you for letting us be in your ears.

 

Coffee, Grief and Gratitude is created by Anne Gudger and Maria Gibson, a mom/daughter duo who talk about grief. 

 

You can find them on Facebook at Coffee and Grief. Please join their private Facebook page: Coffee and Grief Community.

 

You can also email Anne and Maria at: coffeeandgrief@gmail.com

 

Anne’s memoir, THE FIFTH CHAMBER, a memoir of loss and love, is available wherever you get your books.

 

Once you’ve read THE FIFTH CHAMBER, Anne would be so grateful if you’d share your honest thoughts on Amazon and Goodreads. Thank you for taking a few minutes to review!

 

We’d love you to like and share the podcast! 

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7 months ago
42 minutes 8 seconds

Coffee, Grief, And Gratitude
Coffee Talk #43: February 2023

We’re delighted to bring you Coffee Talk #43 from February 2023. We hope these four phenomenal writers/readers/humans and their stories are just what your heart needs today. We bring you Amy Kortuem, Annie Gudger, Gayle Brandeis, and  MJ Atamian. Enjoy! 

Thank you for letting us be in your ears.

 

Coffee, Grief and Gratitude is created by Anne Gudger and Maria Gibson, a mom/daughter duo who talk about grief. 

 

You can find them on Facebook at Coffee and Grief. Please join their private Facebook page: Coffee and Grief Community.

 

You can also email Anne and Maria at: coffeeandgrief@gmail.com

 

Anne’s memoir, THE FIFTH CHAMBER, a memoir of loss and love, is available wherever you get your books.

 

Once you’ve read THE FIFTH CHAMBER, Anne would be so grateful if you’d share your honest thoughts on Amazon and Goodreads. Thank you for taking a few minutes to review!

 

We’d love you to like and share the podcast! 

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7 months ago
36 minutes 56 seconds

Coffee, Grief, And Gratitude
All That Matters is Love with Casey Mulligan Walsh

Casey reads from her gorgeous new memoir: The Full Catastrophe: All I Ever Wanted, Everything I Feared. She talks about her many griefs that could have undone her, and how, while we can never be prepared for major loss, her early experiences with loss helped carry her through later ones. She shares how she’s grown through grief. Her compassion for herself and others shines through our entire conversation. 

 

 

Casey Mulligan Walsh writes about life at the intersection of grief and joy, embracing uncertainty, and the nature of true belonging. Her memoir, The Full Catastrophe: All I Ever Wanted, Everything I Feared, was published with Motina Books, February 2025. She has written for The New York Times, HuffPost, Next Avenue, Modern Loss, Hippocampus, Barren, and numerous other literary magazines. Casey’s essay, “Still,” published in Split Lip, was nominated for Best of the Net. She is a founding editor of In a Flash literary magazine. She also serves as an ambassador for the Family Heart Foundation, an organization dedicated to raising awareness of the genetic lipid disorder that has affected her family across generations.  Casey lives in upstate New York with her husband, Kevin, a chatty orange tabby, and too many books to count. Learn more at www.caseymulliganwalsh.com.

 

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Coffee, Grief and Gratitude is created by Anne Gudger and Maria Gibson, a mom/daughter duo who talk about grief. 

 

You can find them on Facebook at Coffee and Grief. Please join their private Facebook page: Coffee and Grief Community.

 

You can also email Maria and Anne at: coffeeandgrief@gmail.com

 

Anne’s memoir, THE FIFTH CHAMBER, a memoir of loss and love, is available wherever you get your books.

 

Once you’ve read THE FIFTH CHAMBER, Anne would be so grateful if you’d share your honest thoughts on Amazon and Goodreads. Thank you for taking a few minutes to review!

 

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7 months ago
47 minutes 43 seconds

Coffee, Grief, And Gratitude
Coffee Talk #46: May 2023, A Reading Honoring Harvey

We’re delighted to bring you Coffee Talk #46 from May 2023. It’s a special reading, honoring Harvey, Monica’s infant son who died days after he was born. We’re honored to support Monica in these yearly readings, to keep talking about Harvey who has touched so many lives. We hope these five phenomenal writers/readers/humans and their stories are just what your heart needs today. We bring you:  Anat LeBlanc, Anne Richardson, Blix Aviv, Julie Serafina, andTracy Rose Stamper.

 

If you’d like to donate to the scholarship fund in Harvey’s honor that Monica mentions, here’s the link: https://www.givecampus.com/campaigns/7956/donations/new?udac=EONLINEFORM

 

Thank you for letting us be in your ears.

 

Coffee, Grief and Gratitude is a created by Anne Gudger and Maria Gibson, a mom/daughter duo who talk about grief. 

 

You can find them on Facebook at Coffee and Grief. Please join their private Facebook page: Coffee and Grief Community.

 

You can also email Anne and Maria at: coffeeandgrief@gmail.com

 

Anne’s memoir, THE FIFTH CHAMBER, a memoir of loss and love, is available wherever you get your books.

 

Once you’ve read THE FIFTH CHAMBER, Anne would be so grateful if you’d share your honest thoughts on Amazon and Goodreads. Thank you for taking a few minutes to review!

 

We’d love you to like and share the podcast! 

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7 months ago
1 hour 45 seconds

Coffee, Grief, And Gratitude
Pedaling Hard with Ronit Plank

Season Two Episode Thirteen

 

Pedaling Hard with Ronit Plank

 

Ronit Plank reads from her fabulous memoir: WHEN SHE COMES BACK and talks about her grief of losing her mom, her family, and her sense of self. She shares gems about writing memoir along with talking about how all of her family relationships have evolved, how healing has come through writing and having honest conversations. She reminds us all that “your story matters.” 

 

Ronit is a writer, teacher, and editor who hosts the podcast Let’s Talk Memoir. Her work has appeared in The Atlantic, The Rumpus, The New York Times, The Iowa Review, Hippocampus, The Washington Post, Writer’s Digest, American Literary Review, and elsewhere. Her memoir WHEN SHE COMES BACK, about the loss of her mother to the guru Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh and their eventual reconciliation was named Finalist in the 2021 Housatonic Awards, the 2021 Indie Excellence Awards, and was a 2021 Book Riot Best True Crime Book. Her short story collection HOME IS A MADE-UP PLACE won Hidden River Arts’ 2020 Eludia Award and the 2023 Page Turner Awards for Short Stories. She earned an MFA in Nonfiction Writing at Pacific University, speaks on and teaches memoir writing, and is Creative Nonfiction Editor at The Citron Review. You can find out more at ronitplank.com

Her Substack: https://substack.com/@ronitplank?utm_source=profile-page

Her Instagram: @RonitPlank

 

Thank you for letting us be in your ears.

 

Coffee, Grief and Gratitude is a created by Anne Gudger and Maria Gibson, a mom/daughter duo who talk about grief. 

 

You can find them on Facebook at Coffee and Grief. Please join their private Facebook page: Coffee and Grief Community.

 

You can also email Anne and Maria at: coffeeandgrief@gmail.com

 

Anne’s memoir, THE FIFTH CHAMBER, a memoir of loss and love, is available wherever you get your books.

 

Once you’ve read THE FIFTH CHAMBER, Anne would be so grateful if you’d share your honest thoughts on Amazon and Goodreads. Thank you for taking a few minutes to review!

 

We’d love you to like and share the podcast! 

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7 months ago
48 minutes 27 seconds

Coffee, Grief, And Gratitude
Anne Gudger and Maria Gibson are widening the grief conversation, talking about the things we don’t normally take the time to talk about. We’ll hear different people’s grief stories and talk with them about their experience of grief throughout their lives. We get learn new things every time. We’re here to ask questions, not prescribe answers. We’re not experts in your grief. We’ll hear stories about death, sickness, politics, dementia, loss of youth, loss of self. Anne Gudger’s memoir, THE FIFTH CHAMBER is out now. Follow her at: Annegudger.com. Find us on FB at Coffee and Grief Community.