So, you’re a Christian, and you’re wondering if Hinge is the right place to find that special someone who loves Jesus as much as you do. It’s a fair question. Navigating the world of online dating as a believer can be tricky. You don’t want to swipe your way into some weird, faithless fling, but you also don’t want to limit your options to a super niche, gospel-centric app where every profile pic looks like a church directory photo. (You know the ones I mean – the awkward side hug pics from the mission trip? Yeah, no thanks.)
But hey, Hinge promises to be “the dating app designed to be deleted,” and it’s all about finding real relationships. Sounds pretty good, right? But is it Christian-friendly enough to help you find a Proverbs 31 partner or someone who knows the story of Jonah wasn’t just a guy on an extended beach vacation? Let’s dive in and figure out if Hinge is a dating blessing or if you’re better off finding love elsewhere, preferably with someone who can name at least three of the disciples. (Spoiler alert: one of them is not “Paul.”)
The Basics: What Is Hinge All About?
Before we get all judgmental (you know, like when your grandma gives you that look when you’re not at church on Sunday), let’s break down what Hinge is all about. The app stands out because it focuses on creating connections, not just casual hookups. Unlike Tinder, which can sometimes feel like a shallow pool of bad decisions, Hinge tries to make sure you’re actually chatting with people who are serious about finding love. You answer fun prompts like “What’s your biggest pet peeve?” or “What’s your most irrational fear?” (Spoiler: mine is turning into Lot’s wife after one too many glances back at exes). This leads to deeper, more meaningful conversations — you know, like asking if your match is more of an early riser like Noah, or if they’re a bit of a procrastinator like Jonah.
But what makes Hinge particularly interesting for Christians is its flexibility. You can be as open about your faith as you want to be. You can include your religious beliefs in your profile, which means you don’t have to randomly drop “Jesus is my homeboy” into your opening line like a holy curveball. So far, so good, right?
Is Hinge Actually Christian-Friendly?
Now, here’s the big question: is Hinge really the place for Christians looking for love? Let’s not sugarcoat it — Hinge is not specifically designed for Christians, and you’re going to run into a variety of folks with different beliefs. You could very well end up matching with someone who’s more into “spirituality” than the Bible or someone who checks the “Christian” box but hasn’t been to church since Easter five years ago. (Oof, we’ve all met that guy.)
That said, Hinge does let you filter your matches by religion, so you can specifically search for people who identify as Christian. You can narrow it down to meet people who, you know, actually know what a psalm is and won’t refer to the Bible as “just some really old book.” It’s not as targeted as a site like Christian Mingle, but it gives you some leeway to make sure you’re not getting set up with a random agnostic who thinks church is just a quaint place to get married.
And while Hinge doesn’t scream “Christian dating app,” you’re not alone if you choose to use it. Tons of Christians, from all denominations, are on Hinge, mixing it up with the rest of the world. So, it’s kind of like finding a solid group of friends at a wedding where you only know the bride — a little awkward at first, but could turn into something fun.
Pros and Cons for Christians on Hinge
Let’s break it down a bit more — what are the perks and the pitfalls of being a Christian using Hinge?
Pros:

* Religious Filters: You can search specifically for Christians, which means you’re not stuck explaining to someone what a “quiet time” is or ...

Need advice on how to break up a Christian dating relationship? A famous 50s break-up song gives us this little bit of dating advice on how to break up: “Breaking up is hard to do.” No, ya think?
Whether you are a Christian single couple in a courtship or an online dating relationship, how you break up a relationship will be emotionally painful for both of you. If you are contemplating a break up of your dating relationship, considering the following dating advice may help you avoid a wrong decision while making it as easy and painless as possible.
6  Christian dating Advice Tips on How to BreakUp and Ending a Relationship
Ask the Lord for wisdom ( see James 1:5)
As a single Christian, praying for guidance and wisdom in the matter of a breakup should be the very first course of action before making any dating decisions. You will be less likely to make a mistake if you do so.
Discuss the dating break-up possibility with family and friends
God often leads through our parents’ dating advice, even if they are not Christians. Proverbs teach that there is wisdom in using a multiplicity of counselors, so also discuss the possibility of a breakup with trusted Christian friends. They may very well give you some much-needed advice that helps you make a decision or puts the relationship in a completely different light. Be sure to use these valuable resources.
Be honest, but speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15)
Never bash your dating partner personally, which will only hurt them even more and affect their self-worth for quite some time. Do you really want to do that? Instead, tenderly explain why you feel God’s leading you to end the relationship. As you do this, remember the “Golden Rule”, and how it would feel if someone was breaking up with you.
While face-to-face conversation allows for far better closure, if that is not possible, a handwritten letter is the next best thing. A typed or emailed “Dear John” letter is seen as cold and mean.
Don’t delay the inevitable
Okay, you’ve prayed over the breakup. You’ve discussed the issues with family, minister, and friends. You know what you need to do. Delaying the obvious now will not only cause more pain for both of you but will delay the healing process. By acting now, you give the Lord opportunity to begin leading both of you to the soulmates He has in mind.
Many delay breakups because they may be using the other person until “something better” comes along. Another reason for delayed breakups is that the other person is manipulating by putting the person who wants the break up on a “guilt trip” to remain in an unhealthy dating situation.
Make a clean break
Right, this is going to be hard, but you must be strong here because it is in the best interests of both to move forward. This means after the break up there should be no face-to-face meetings (if possible), no emails, telephone calls, letters, etc. While some couples may agree to remain friends, the data suggests that in over 90% of breakups, this fails miserably and only lengthens the healing process.
Learn from the dating experience
Use this dating experience to learn from your mistakes, and build on the future. What has the Lord taught you about yourself? What has he taught you about what you need in a husband or a wife? If you’ve sexually sinned in this relationship, remember Jesus forgives and cleanses (1 John 1:9). Finally, thank Him for the bright plans He has for you (Jer. 29:11).
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