What do sheitels, sample sales, and settlement agreements have in common? They’re just part of the plot in this week’s Call Her Tatty.

Chava sits down with powerhouse frum divorce attorney and longtime bestie Gity Kogan to talk real Jewish divorce. They cover the messy stuff no one warns you about: Gett refusals, courtroom chaos, and the emotional rollercoaster that comes with breaking up and moving on.

There’s legal advice, kol isha moments, and surprisingly deep girl talk. One minute they’re fighting over dishes from Macy’s, the next they’re unpacking the difference between hate and indifference.

👠 For girls who get it
📜 For tatties who don’t
🎧 For anyone who’s ever yelled "WHERE’S BEIS DIN?"

00:00 Intro and Gity’s vibe check
04:15 The real process behind a frum divorce
10:10 When things get petty (sheitels, china, and the group chat)
18:30 Beis Din breakdowns and Gett refusal
31:50 Sample sales, music therapy, and retail teshuva
41:00 What healing actually looks like

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