Join Kurt and Denette as they share their deeply personal journey through infidelity, broken trust, emotional healing and what it looked like to get there. Discover how they navigated one the darkest chapters of their marriage before child loss, to find hope and redemption. This candid conversation offers insights and tools for couples facing similar challenges.
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Timestamps:
Infidelity and Broken Trust: 00:44
Discussing Hard Subjects: 02:39
Hope and Clarity: 04:15
Emotional Healing and Connection: 20:18
Shame and Guilt: 22:56
Unspoken Tensions: 28:24
On the Other Side: 36:47
Building Trust: 54:10
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What really lights him up in marriage—and what shuts him down completely? In this eye-opening episode of the Broken for Better Podcast, we’re diving into the emotional, physical, and psychological turn-ons and turn-offs that women experience within marriage. From communication and presence to hygiene and affection, we’re getting real about what creates connection—and what kills it. Whether you're newlyweds or seasoned spouses, this conversation will help you better understand the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways intimacy is built—or broken. Tune in for honest insights, relatable stories, and a few surprises along the way.
What really lights her up in marriage—and what shuts her down completely? In this eye-opening episode on the Broken for Better Podcast, we’re diving into the emotional, physical, and psychological turn-ons and turn-offs that women experience within marriage. From communication and presence to playfulness and affection, we’re getting real about what creates connection—and what kills it. Whether you're newlyweds or seasoned spouses, this conversation will help you better understand the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways intimacy is built—or broken. Tune in for honest insights, relatable stories, and a few surprises along the way.
In this episode, we’re going beyond the hashtag and digging into what real relationship goals actually look like... the kind you can’t capture in a cute photo or a viral post. We talk about the deep work of building a relationship rooted in patience, respect, trust, and true friendship. If you're tired of the highlight reel and ready for the real thing, this one's for you.
In this episode of the Broken for Better Podcast, Kurt and Denette Schaer share 10 powerful, practical ways that transformed and strengthened their marriage over their 28 years together. 💍Whether you're newly married, facing challenges, or simply wanting to deepen your connection, these game-changing tips will equip you with real, everyday tools to love and serve your spouse better.Marriage is a journey — and small intentional shifts can create a lifetime of lasting love.👉 Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and leave a comment with your favorite takeaway!
In this episode, we’re diving into how to create meaningful family memories without breaking the bank. As marriage coaches—and parents ourselves—we know that some of the best moments don’t come from big spending, but from intentional time together. Whether you’re saving for the future or just want to simplify, we’re sharing our favorite budget-friendly traditions, creative ideas for family fun, and mindset shifts that help you focus on connection over cost.Tune in for practical tips, real-life examples, and a little heart-to-heart encouragement to help you build stronger bonds—without the price tag.
Parenting changes everything—your schedule, your priorities, and sometimes even your connection with your spouse. In this episode of Broken for Better, we’re diving into the challenges and joys of maintaining a healthy intimate life while raising kids. From navigating exhaustion to keeping the spark alive, we share real talk, practical tips, and encouragement for couples in the trenches of parenting. Because your marriage matters, and intimacy doesn’t have to take a backseat.Listen in and let’s grow together! 💛
In this week's episode of we dive into the powerful role parents play in shaping the future of their children by teaching them how to dream big. Parenting isn't just about providing for your child's needs—it’s about equipping them to believe in their potential, face challenges with resilience, and set their sights high.
Join us as we explore practical tips and heartfelt advice on nurturing big dreams in your kids, and how the principles of growth, encouragement, and perseverance can empower them to reach their full potential. We’ll also discuss how building strong, supportive family dynamics can create an environment where dreams are encouraged, embraced, and pursued.
Broken For Better, is a nonprofit organization on a mission to equip and empower marriages and families to become everything they were meant to be. Tune in for this inspiring conversation that will leave you motivated to help your kids reach for the stars!
Parenting can be one of the most rewarding and yet most difficult things we will ever do. It was an honor to have Tim Couet of Prodigal Man be with us for this very important and timely conversation. Join Kurt and Tim as they talk about all things fatherhood and give real life tools and applications to challenge and encourage you to be the father you always wanted to be!
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Highly Favored? What does living a highly favored life really mean? What does that look like "when bad things happen to good people"? How do we grapple with our faith on the other side of loss? This month leading up to the launch of the new book: "Highly Favored? Discovering Hope in the Shadows of Grief" (Available on all platforms 2/6/25) we will be releasing new episodes packed with stories, insights, and powerful discussions to help us be ready for the journey ahead. Join us we talk more about the mindset, the mission and the heart behind this book. You can pre-order your book here: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/highly-favored-denette-schaer/1146770410?ean=9798988725626 Want to give financially? https://deka.gives/broken-for-better All the links - stay in touch: https://linktr.ee/brokenforbetter?fbclid=IwAR2f3cwNmMsA8IXgK37HAcmQllKJMOlo0MKUmGixKFLOwMmOoKkdMkbPvVo
Highly Favored? What does living a highly favored life really mean? What does that look like "when bad things happen to good people"? How do we grapple with our faith on the other side of loss? This month leading up to the launch of the new book: "Highly Favored? Discovering Hope in the Shadows of Grief" (Available on all platforms 2/6/25) we will be releasing new episodes packed with stories, insights, and powerful discussions to help us be ready for the journey ahead. Join us we talk more about the mindset, the mission and the heart behind this book. You can pre-order your book here: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/highly-favored-denette-schaer/1146770410?ean=9798988725626 Want to give financially? https://deka.gives/broken-for-better All the links - stay in touch: https://linktr.ee/brokenforbetter?fbclid=IwAR2f3cwNmMsA8IXgK37HAcmQllKJMOlo0MKUmGixKFLOwMmOoKkdMkbPvVo
Highly Favored? What does living a highly favored life really mean? What does that look like "when bad things happen to good people"? How do we grapple with our faith on the other side of loss? This month leading up to the launch of the new book: "Highly Favored? Discovering Hope in the Shadows of Grief" (Available on all platforms 2/6/25) we will be releasing new episodes packed with stories, insights, and powerful discussions to help us be ready for the journey ahead. Join us we talk more about the mindset, the mission and the heart behind this book. You can pre-order your book here: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/highly-favored-denette-schaer/1146770410?ean=9798988725626 Want to give financially? https://deka.gives/broken-for-better All the links - stay in touch: https://linktr.ee/brokenforbetter?fbclid=IwAR2f3cwNmMsA8IXgK37HAcmQllKJMOlo0MKUmGixKFLOwMmOoKkdMkbPvVo
Highly Favored? What does living a highly favored life really mean? What does that look like "when bad things happen to good people"? How do we grapple with our faith on the other side of loss? This month leading up to the launch of the new book: "Highly Favored? Discovering Hope in the Shadows of Grief" (Available on all platforms 2/6/25) we will be releasing new episodes packed with stories, insights, and powerful discussions to help us be ready for the journey ahead. Join us we talk more about the mindset, the mission and the heart behind this book.
You can pre-order your book here: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/highly-favored-denette-schaer/1146770410?ean=9798988725626
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Is it hard to manage the holidays? Does it take a toll on your marriage or enhance your marriage? What are some of the things you would change if you could when it comes to one of the busiest times of the year? Join Kurt and Denette as they talk about how the HOLIDAYS and how to face them in a healthy way.
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Is it really beneficial? We love each other and don't see the point. What does pre-marital counseling/coaching actually look like? Join Kurt and Denette they talk about the why behind the process and what they have seen work (and not work).
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Do you have any stress in your marriage? If you are married then the answer is YES. Stressors happen in every relationship and are a normal part of building a life together. So, let's talk about it. Join Kurt and Denette as they discuss what this looks like in a healthy way.
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What are healthy expectations? What do we do when our expectations and our reality don't line up? Join Kurt and Denette as they give some real time tools on the hard topic of "expectations in marriage".
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What is marriage coaching? Is it helpful? Is it only for couples that are really struggling? Join Kurt and Denette as they talk all things marriage coaching. (What it is, how it works and what to expect.)
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The first half of the year has flown by and we've had people asking how things have been going, what we've been up to and what's coming. This pod we will reflect on the our journey so far, and give you a sneak peek into some exciting plans we have for the months ahead. Thank you for being a part of helping build stronger marriages and families. If you are interested in joining us at the Grounded Relationship Conference Aug. 23-24, get more info here: https://www.relevantchurch.com/grounded-conference/ Want to give financially? https://deka.gives/broken-for-better All the links - stay in touch: https://linktr.ee/brokenforbetter?fbclid=IwAR2f3cwNmMsA8IXgK37HAcmQllKJMOlo0MKUmGixKFLOwMmOoKkdMkbPvVo
How do you balance it all? Do you find it hard to find a healthy balance navigating the good and the hard things? The next few weeks we are going to be taking a deeper look with the help of some other amazing couples that are walking out very real and authentic scenarios that many marriages face.
This week Andy and Deanna Cowdery join us to co-host this very important topic on grief and loss. Walking through the loss of youngest son was the hardest thing we have (and hopefully ever will have) to face as a couple. We share parts of our journey in hopes that even one person facing extreme loss and grief finds a little bit of hope. If you are interested in more about our story we would be honored for you to check out more regarding our son's legacy at: https://brokenforbetter.com/make-it-count/
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