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Black Millennial Marriage
Mikey and Randie Chapman
197 episodes
9 months ago
We are Mikey and Randie Chapman, and your hosts of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast. This podcast was created as a way to stay connected to one another. It was also formed so that we could have representation, meet other couples, and provide a space to talk about our 10+ years of relationship experience, including our years of marriage, and all we’re learning, unlearning, and loving about marriage.
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We are Mikey and Randie Chapman, and your hosts of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast. This podcast was created as a way to stay connected to one another. It was also formed so that we could have representation, meet other couples, and provide a space to talk about our 10+ years of relationship experience, including our years of marriage, and all we’re learning, unlearning, and loving about marriage.
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Black Millennial Marriage
BMM EP 178: Proof of Life [Season 7 FINALE]
Magic Mind's got a Black Friday offer, it's currently 50% off until the 6th of December, only with my link:https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPDBF Use my code RANDIEPDBF for 50% off #magicmind Hey y’all! It’s the end of. . . . the SEASON! So, here’s a longer episode to reflect on this long ass year. Tune in as Mikey and Randie reveal the 3 biggest things that affected them and stood out to them this year, and their favorite episodes and collabs. Later, they have a relationship check-in rating sex, money, communication, and parenting. During the check-in they both express hardships, disconnection, the fun, and still as always . . . love. Then, before the fight or flight they gift superlatives, an annual tradition for the most supportive and engaged Patrons. Superlatives range from “Most likely to burn shit up” to “Most likely to wear white people down.” Mikey ends the episode with a fight about Randie’s sleep talking, but of course it’s all love as they show each other some PDA. It has been a long ass $&(@)@_! year, but they and you made it. Praise GOD. As always, your hosts appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful. They’ll see you in 2025! To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you’ll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more. BlueSky Profiles: Randie: https://bsky.app/profile/ranthesolarpunk.blksky.social Mikey: https://bsky.app/profile/eastatlantamike.bsky.social Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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11 months ago
1 hour 34 minutes

Black Millennial Marriage
BMM Indie 177: What's Going On
My productivity hack: https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPD20 Use my code RANDIEPD20 for 20% off #magicmind . . Hey y’all, The temptation to roll over and die is . . . well, tempting. But in this Indie Randie details the 4 things keeping her afloat, helping her resist despair, and inspiring her to imagine a better future. Because if Bisan from Gaza can show up, then so will she. Tune in as the shorter half of the BMM podcast shares her feelings on the world around her, the fear she and everyone else is feeling, and the raging determination she has to survive as those who came before her did. In the EP, Randie talks green juices, the Dodo Bird’s Youtube channel, her favorite go to app for self-care, and her new found fascination for Solarpunk art, activism, and literature. She hopes you’re being extra extra extra extra compassionate towards yourselves. And hopes you’re also taking care of your mental, physical, and all the things in between. Why? Because she wants you to survive too. Items Mentioned: → My productivity hack: https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPD20 Use my code RANDIEPD20 for 20% off #magicmind → Parable of the Sower, by Octavia Butler: https://bookshop.org/p/books/parable-of-the-sower-octavia-e-butler/19767724?ean=9781538732182 → Rest is Resistance: A Manifesto, by Tricia Hersey: → https://shorturl.at/F85If → Finch App: https://finchcare.com/ Become my friend. Binxie would love to meet you! → Randie’s Friend Code: HEB6GN4MLD → Get the rest of the EP’s resources and mentions: https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/qs5afe3o6nd9mljfv0cup/EP-RESOURCES.pdf?rlkey=rq301e6yc9inkm1mpdaga4ofj&st=4g3zn504&dl=0 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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1 year ago
32 minutes

Black Millennial Marriage
BMM EP 176: Phew. Glad We Didn't Know That.
My productivity hack https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPD40 Use my code RANDIEPD40 for getting 40% off your subscription (available only for the first 10 orders) . . . In hindsight, there are many things the Chapmans are glad they didn’t know before they got married. And they bet you would agree. Tune in as one of your favorite couples discuss what was worth finding out . . . all after the fact. For Mikey, it’s how deep fatherhood really is. He realizes he was thinking too small when his original goal was to be better than his dad. For Randie, it’s learning that none of their plans mattered. Life lifes, whether you’re good or not. And more. It’s a fun convo with a semi-heated fight or flight that’s about . . . you guessed it. Electricity. God, they’re old.

But it’s all love, as always, when the Chapmans show each other some gratitude during their PDA. As always, they hope you enjoy.
 Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family: http://bit.ly/JOINBMM * Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/
 Follow BMM on Social Media: 
 * FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB * IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG * Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact * Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com * Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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1 year ago
1 hour 24 minutes

Black Millennial Marriage
BMM Indie 175: That Thing Ft. Dontea' Mitchell-Hunter
Get your Magic Mind subscription here https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPD20
 You get up to 48% off with my code: RANDIEPD20 . . . “It’s been 3 weeks since you been lookin’ for your friend” and that’s all the more reason to call a therapist.

Hey y’all! Tune in as Randie chats with therapist and podcast host of the Situationsh!t Podcast, Dontea’ (Don-Tay-Yah) Mitchell-Hunter. Together the two talk letting people play in their faces, Dontea’s work as a self-worth therapist, the reasons why we as people tend to attach ourselves to unfulfilling relationships and friendships, and then some. It’s a great convo full of gems and the shorter half of the BMM podcast hopes you enjoy.
 
 Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family: http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Connect with Dontea’ : - Free therapy consultations: https://www.soireesintherapy.com/book-now - Skip consult and book a session now via email: info@soireesintherapy.com - Listen to the Situationsh!t Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/situationsh-t/id1572306399 - Follow the Situationsh!t Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/situationshitpod/ - Follow Dontea’s therapy work on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/soireesintherapy/ Follow BMM on Social Media: 
 * FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB * IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG * Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact * Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com * Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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1 year ago
51 minutes

Black Millennial Marriage
BMM EP 174: BMM x Labyrinth of the First Gen Podcast
Get your Magic Mind subscription here https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPD20 You get up to 48% off with my code: RANDIEPD20 . . Hey y’all, tune in to hear the Chapmans collaboration with the wonderful Weyu Shameka. Host and podcaster of the Labyrinth of the first Gen podcast. On this episode, Weyu interviews Mikey and Randie about family, immigrant families and parents, marriage, and community. It was a good convo and they hope you enjoy! Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon Family: http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Follow Labyrinth of the First Gen on Instagram @LabyrinthoftheFirstGen What to Expect in Season 3 of the Labyrinth of the First Gen Podcast: Meet the First-Gen Pioneers: Explore the inspiring journeys of first-generation immigrants who are redefining success on their own terms. Unveiling Bolivian-American Identity: Join the founders of NYC's acclaimed restaurant, The Llama Party, as they share their experiences navigating Bolivian-American heritage.Breaking Barriers in Brazil: Be empowered by Brazilian powerhouse Mercedes Santos as she challenges traditional gender roles and inspires social change. Palestinian & Muslim Identities Intersect: Delve into the complexities of navigating Palestinian and Muslim identities within the United States. Don't miss the season premiere starting July 30th! Tune in every Tuesday for a new episode. Follow BMM on Social Media: FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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1 year ago
46 minutes

Black Millennial Marriage
[FLASHBACK] BMM 012: Things to Do Before You Get Married
Try Magic Mind for free here: https://magicmind.com/RANDIEPDTRIAL With my code RANDIEPDTRIAL (just cover shipping!). Hey y'all! Your favorite bi-monthly podcasters are here tehehehe. But no seriously, the Chapmans know everybody's going through it in some way and that's why they're back with a Flashback. Tune in to hear the opening convo and see what Mikey and Randie have been up to, and then vibe out to an oldie but good episode. BTW, don't forget to let them know what you think of Magic Mind! . . Everyone has a bucket list and so do the Chapmans. In this episode the couple talk about 10 things they believe every couple should do together before they get married. From arguing in front of a parent to having sex in an unconventional place, Mikey and Randie laugh it out as they reminisce on all the things they did before their wedding and how it helped them in the long run. Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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1 year ago
58 minutes

Black Millennial Marriage
BMM INDIE 172: Let's Talk About Lichen Sclerosus Ft. Kathy Ruiz-Carter
Hey y’all! Tune in as Randie sits down with Kathy, host of the Lichen Sclerosus Podcast. Kathy was diagnosed with LS 5 years ago at 40 and the life-changing diagnosis paved the way for her podcast and organization on a mission to educate women about the auto immune disease that commonly affects the genitals. In this episode, Kathy details the symptoms she experienced before diagnosis, the sub-par medical care she initially received, and how living with this diagnosis affects her body, marriage, and children. It’s a wonderful, informative conversation that highlights how powerful women are (In Randie’s humble opinion). You’ll not only enjoy the interview, but you’ll get insight into how to maintain a healthy vulva and what to do if you are experiencing LS symptoms. Items Mentioned: **As Amazon Associates we earn from qualifying purchases at no additional cost to you. It’s a great way to support the show and there’s also no pressure or hard feelings if you’d prefer to skip the links.** Listen to the Lichen Sclerosus Podcast: https://followthepodcast.com/lspodcast Follow Kathy on IG: https://www.instagram.com/lichensclerosuspodcast/ and every where else at Lichen Sclerosus FAQ: https://lssupportnetwork.org/lichen-sclerosus-overview/ DONATE to the Lichen Sclerosus Support Network: https://givebutter.com/lssn To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you’ll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more. Book a Podcast Strategy Session with Randie! https://wordieproductions.com/pick-my-brain-strategy-session/ Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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1 year ago
41 minutes

Black Millennial Marriage
BMM EP 171: This Again?
Hey y’all!

Tune in as Mikey and Randie talk about money . . . again. 

And the backstory involves Youtube Premium and wondering who gon’ pay the bill LOL.

Together, the Chapmans reveal what’s been going on with work and money, and all the POSITIVE things they’re doing instead of—or in conjunction with— the “bad” habits. The “good” habits range from speaking up and refusing to isolate from friends, re-parenting themselves, and not OD’ing on chocolate. There’s more but you gotta press play.

Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight wishing Randie would love him in a more goofier way…? But it’s all love as y’all know, when in the end they show each other some PDA. As always, your hosts appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful. View their registry here: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/24UJLF8RYINYR * To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you’ll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more. 
 * Join our newsletter! https://blackmillennialmarriagepodcast.myflodesk.com/newsletter * * Pitch to be a Guest on our show: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfAHXaoMiu9HpxgM4ZtsjbwJiiPvIhTYjG4yeKH2KKREkr50w/viewform Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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1 year ago
1 hour 9 minutes

Black Millennial Marriage
BMM Indie 170: The Tale of 3 Mikes
BMM INDIE 170: The Tale of 3 Mikes Listen to us on: Youtube | iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Hey, (in our best Mikey voice), he’s back. In his first Indie episode of the season, Mikey reflects on three versions of himself.  Inspired by the beef between Kendrick, Drake, and Cole (until he opted out), the taller half of the BMM podcast gives a music lesson and explains why he believes that in life, he chose Jermaine’s route.   Tune in as Mikey nerds out (again) about all things music and personal growth. Items Mentioned: To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you’ll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more. Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae: https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ BMM 002 Almost Breaking Up & Non-Negotiables: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-002-almost-breaking-up-non-negotiables/id1363790050?i=1000407452259  Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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1 year ago
22 minutes

Black Millennial Marriage
[FLASHBACK] BMM 082: Game of Moans
Hey y'all! Mikey and Randie are doing something new and will be dropping flashback/memory lane episodes on Fridays. Tune in to hear Game of Moans. This was another fan favorite back in the day. Happy Listening! . . . The Chapmans are BACK for Season 2! The theme? Plot twists. For their first episode back Mikey and Randie talk about sex. But wait! There’s no tears, no disgruntlement, or deep conversations, only laughs and a little shade. Together, they ask each other questions ranging from, “What’s your most embarrassing moment in bed,” “Has my rank changed?”, “What do you wish we did more of?” and that’s just the beginning. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight questioning Randie’s hate of his favorite show, “How I Met Your Mother.” It gets heated, but as always it’s all love when the Chapmans end the episode with public displays of affection. Recorded right before the Coronavirus stopped the world in its tracks, the couple hopes you can take a load off and smile it out with this episode. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you’ll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more. Join our newsletter! https://blackmillennialmarriagepodcast.myflodesk.com/newsletter Pitch to be a Guest on our show: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfAHXaoMiu9HpxgM4ZtsjbwJiiPvIhTYjG4yeKH2KKREkr50w/viewform Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 **Most product links are affiliate links. At no additional cost to you, we may receive a small commission if you purchase via our links. It's a great way to support us and our work. But no pressure and no hard feelings if you'd rather not. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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1 year ago
57 minutes

Black Millennial Marriage
BMM Indie 168: Am I Cracking or Snapping?
Randie thinks she’s cracking..or snapping. Tune in as the shorter half of the BMM podcast shares some heartfelt thoughts about money, wounds, patterns, cycles, and being herself. Happy Listening. Items Mentioned: **As Amazon Associates we earn from qualifying purchases at no additional cost to you. It’s a great way to support the show and there’s also no pressure or hard feelings if you’d prefer to skip the links.** * Book a Podcast Strategy Session with Randie! https://wordieproductions.com/pick-my-brain-strategy-session/ 
 * To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you’ll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more.
 * Ancestors Said by Ehime Era : https://amzn.to/4dmxD91 Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com * Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098
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1 year ago
16 minutes

Black Millennial Marriage
[FLASHBACK] BMM EP 088: 4Ever Ever, It Ain't All Bad
Hey y'all! Mikey and Randie are doing something new and will be dropping flashback/memory lane episodes on Fridays. First up, an episode from 2020 when they were celebrating 4 years of marriage. This was a fan favorite back then and they hope you still enjoy it! Especially because the couple just celebrated EIGHT years married! Wow. So many things have stayed the same. haha. Happy Listening. . . . The Chapmans have been married for FOUR years, and in this episode they reflect on only the good parts. Together the couple share what they’re grateful for and detail their favorite moments of year four. Later, Mikey shares that he’s learned Randie is still deep and capable of great change and transformation, while Randie reveals she’s discovered that perhaps her husband is plagued by patriarchy too. Finally, there are two fights. The first is about Randie’s “man-hating bag,” and the other about Mikey’s inability to realize who he has married. But, in the end it’s all love when they show each other some PDA. It hasn’t been the average four years, so tune in and hear all about it. Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Do you want them to continue to stay together forever ever? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. Items Mentioned: To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you’ll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more. Join our newsletter! https://blackmillennialmarriagepodcast.myflodesk.com/newsletter Pitch to be a Guest on our show: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfAHXaoMiu9HpxgM4ZtsjbwJiiPvIhTYjG4yeKH2KKREkr50w/viewform Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 **Most product links are affiliate links. At no additional cost to you, we may receive a small commission if you purchase via our links. It's a great way to support us and our work. But no pressure and no hard feelings if you'd rather not. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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1 year ago
1 hour 14 minutes

Black Millennial Marriage
BMM EP 166: Holistic Marriage Ft. Dr. Tiffany Smith + Mr. Horace Smith
Hey y’all! Mikey and Randie are back for Season 7. The Chapmans done batch recorded and everything lmao. In this episode the couple interview Dr. Tiffany Smith and her husband Mr. Horace a.k.a. Mr. Smith. Tune in to hear your hosts chat with the couple about their love story, the challenges of Horace living with chronic pain, functional medicine, and the surprising benefits of aromatherapy. Dr. Tiffany even gifts BMM listeners with a special offering. Later, Randie brings a fight or flight about Mikey’s freudian slip concerning her . . . hair. But it’s always love, as the couple end with PDA. As always, Mikey and Randie appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful. *BTW: Today (April 24th) is the couple’s EIGHT year Anniversary! Show them some love. View their registry here: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/24UJLF8RYINYR Items Mentioned: Connect with Dr. Tiffany on IG https://www.instagram.com/dr.tiffanymsmith/ Dr. Tiffany's Offering for BMM listeners: Text selflove to 702-919-4249 To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you’ll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more. Join our newsletter! https://blackmillennialmarriagepodcast.myflodesk.com/newsletter Pitch to be a Guest on our show: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfAHXaoMiu9HpxgM4ZtsjbwJiiPvIhTYjG4yeKH2KKREkr50w/viewform Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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1 year ago
1 hour 12 minutes

Black Millennial Marriage
BMM EP 165: We Made Lemonade
Hey y’alllllllll!

The Chapmans are out of the Bat Cave and want to tell you all about it. In this episode they discuss Randie’s revelation, Mikey’s heart felt intentions, and the thing that finally made them realize they need to QUIT the house buying process (for now). Later, the couple gives out Patreon Superlatives to their most engaged Patrons of 2023. The Superlatives range from the most delulu to the one most likely to be Robin Hood. Then, Randie brings a fight or flight that asks Mikey why he is always throwing away her shit. But it’s all love as you know when they end the show with some PDA. As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful. View their registry here: https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/24UJLF8RYINYR Items Mentioned: * BMM 023 It’s a Hard Knock Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-023-its-a-hard-knock-life/id1363790050?i=1000419418837 * To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you’ll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more. 
 * Join our newsletter! https://blackmillennialmarriagepodcast.myflodesk.com/newsletter * * Pitch to be a Guest on our show: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfAHXaoMiu9HpxgM4ZtsjbwJiiPvIhTYjG4yeKH2KKREkr50w/viewform Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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1 year ago
1 hour 12 minutes

Black Millennial Marriage
BMM EP 164: Plastic Off the Sofa [UNEDITED]
Hey y'all! Mikey and Randie are sick right now, but would never leave you hanging. So tune in for a raw and unedited version of "Plastic Off the Sofa". These kinds of episodes don't have any music or any edits, and they are a favorite of those on Patreon because listeners get a BTS look into what crafting an episode is like. This episode in particular was a very popular episode last year, downloaded over 4k times and so they wanted to share the original and uncut version with y'all. They'll see y'all next week when they get their voices back. About this episode: Mikey and Randie haven’t had a relationship check-in in a long long time, until today that is. For the inaugural episode of Season 5, tune in as the couple rate sex, family, communication, self, and money on a scale of 1-5. The convo is all things juicy, funny, and enlightening, and they hope to inspire you to check in with you and yours as well. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight asking Randie to be more considerate than she is. But it’s all love though, when in the end they shower each other with PDA and thank the other for being the bomb ass spouses they are. Items Mentioned: Join Our Patreon http://bit.ly/JOINBMM Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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1 year ago
1 hour 1 minute

Black Millennial Marriage
BMM Indie 163: Sister, Returned Ft. Bri
Like Saturn, the sisters have returned to one another. Tune in for this extra special Indie where Randie interviews her baby sister, Bri. In this episode they discuss their childhoods, and Bri reveals what little Bri wants from Little Ran. Later, Bri talks about what going no contact with certain family members has taught her, what she does to take care of herself, and what being a sister means to her. This indie is full of warm hugs, apologies, love and laughter, and the girls hope you enjoy. Items Mentioned: **As Amazon Associates we earn from qualifying purchases at no additional cost to you.** BMM Indie 064: https://redcircle.com/shows/18770380-ea84-4e44-99ce-d28b950cf790/episodes/1335aa42-cc0e-4907-bb05-acc303d98506 Ho'oponopono Prayer: https://www.google.com/search?q=ho%27oponopono+prayer&rlz=1C5CHFA_enUS1082US1082&oq=ho%27oponopono+PRAYER&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUqCggAEAAYsQMYgAQyCggAEAAYsQMYgAQyBwgBEAAYgAQyBwgCEAAYgAQyBwgDEAAYgAQyBwgEEAAYgAQyBwgFEAAYgAQyBwgGEAAYgAQyBwgHEAAYgAQyBwgIEAAYgAQyBwgJEAAYgATSAQgxOTQ1ajBqN6gCALACAA&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8#ip=1 To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you’ll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more. Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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1 year ago
49 minutes

Black Millennial Marriage
BMM EP 162: What You Been Up To?
Hey y’all! With just a few more episodes left for this season, Mikey and Randie are back with an update. In this episode, they detail what’s been going on with them. They shed light on weight loss and gain, new projects, layoffs, and more. But what they also really want is for you to tell them what YOU have been up to. It’s getting closer and closer to the end of the year and they need your reviews, feedback, emails, and all that jazz. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight about Randie’s “ways,” and after fighting, the Mrs. decides to fly. But it’s all love, when in the end they show each other some PDA. As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful. Items Mentioned: Try Magic Mind at www.magicmind.com/bmm with code BMM20 BMM 023 It’s a Hard Knock Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-023-its-a-hard-knock-life/id1363790050?i=1000419418837 To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you’ll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more. Join our newsletter! https://blackmillennialmarriagepodcast.myflodesk.com/newsletter Pitch to be a Guest on our show: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfAHXaoMiu9HpxgM4ZtsjbwJiiPvIhTYjG4yeKH2KKREkr50w/viewform Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 **Most product links are affiliate links. At no additional cost to you, we may receive a small commission if you purchase via our links. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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1 year ago
56 minutes

Black Millennial Marriage
BMM Indie 161: It Is Finally Safe
So what had happened was…Randie’s mom heard her Indie episode, Mothering Myself. And like, duh right? That was always a possibility. And still..Randie was scared shitless. Tune in to hear about the creative block Randie's been experiencing, her thoughts on her own cowardice behavior, and what finally accepting her safety means for her. She wonders…what will it look like now for her to create solely for her and solely out of love for her inner child and adult self? Well, we’ll all find out together and it'll start with this episode. Items Mentioned: **As Amazon Associates we earn from qualifying purchases at no additional cost to you. You get the exact same products and service you'd get from Amazon already and you'll be supporting our podcast.** Try Magic Mind at www.magicmind.com/bmm with code BMM20 BMM Indie 136: Bad Trip: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-136-bad-trip/id1363790050?i=1000550704964 BMM Indie 141: Mothering Myself: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-141-mothering-myself/id1363790050?i=1000555955894 BMM Indie 149: Big Ran. Little Ran. Ft. Randy H: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-149-big-ran-little-ran-ft-randy-h/id1363790050?i=1000588049011 DECK: African Goddess Rising Oracle Deck by Abiola Abrams: https://amzn.to/3FTFHhX What is the Mother Wound, Bethany Webster: https://static1.squarespace.com/static/59779f182e69cffa18f2305c/t/601a1cae705c9530fa1ab810/1612324022651/Bethany+Webster+-+What+is+The+Mother+Wound.pdf BOOK: Discovering the Inner Mother, Bethany Webster: https://amzn.to/47lRC44 To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you’ll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more. Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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1 year ago
36 minutes

Black Millennial Marriage
BMM EP 160: Why Do Millennials Fall in Love [UNEDITED + REPRISED]
Hey y'all, Hey! It's a good day for a throwback. And in this episode the Chapmans highlight BMM EP 059: Why Do Millennials Fall in Love? Do you remember that episode? It was a lot of fun and Mikey and Randie wanted to share the unedited version of that episode with you. In this episode, Randie reads a listener’s love story that started at Sonics, involves a little head, and ends in a lasting marriage. Later, Mikey and Randie answer a listener’s question that reveals why they got married and also why they believe millennials are shying away from the commitment. Before the episode’s end, the Chapmans hypothetically renegotiate terms of their relationship and engage in a fight or flight that gets deeper than expected. However, as always Mikey and Randie reel it in with some always appreciated PDA and they hope you enjoy. Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step. NOTE: The unedited versions of the episodes are episodes without any editing. It is raw audio from the recording session before the public gets the cleaned up version. Normally, the couple only share these versions of the podcast with their Patreon, but a rabbit hole gave the Mrs. the idea to share this particular episode. Let the couple know if you like these kind of episodes and walks down memory lane. We hope you enjoy! . Items Mentioned: Grab some Magic Mind at www.magicmind.com/bmm and use our code BMM20 for 50% off a subscription or 20% off your first order. Hurry! The 50% discount only lasts for 10 days from our episode airing date. To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you’ll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more. Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Pitch to be a Guest on our show: https://forms.gle/N1ycUcmCXhchxuWm7 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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2 years ago
1 hour 23 minutes

Black Millennial Marriage
BMM MINI 159: We Kinda Sorta Turned Out Fine
Hey y’all!

Tune in for the Chapman’s first mini episode this season. As a reminder, Minis are all about their experiences as parents and in this episode Mikey and Randie reveal what parenting Drew has made them realize about their childhoods. The list ranges from being hit a lot to, in some cases, wishing they had the parents they wanted. It’s a fun episode in that Randie and Mikey really enjoyed recording it and chatting about this wild ride called parenthood. Later, the couple end the episode with some PDA to Drew and to each other in their roles as parents. And just so you know, you don’t have to be a parent to relate to this episode. In fact reach out to the Chapmans if you’re a parent, aunt, uncle, guardian, friend of a friend who’s a parent and tell them what the children around you make you remember about your childhood. The answers may surprise you. As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful. Items Mentioned: * To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at http://bit.ly/JOINBMM there you’ll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more. * Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ * BMM Mini: Let’s Not Fight: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-mini-lets-not-fight/id1363790050?i=1000487751107 * BMM Indie 149: Big Ran. Little Ran. Ft. Randy H: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-149-big-ran-little-ran-ft-randy-h/id1363790050?i=1000588049011 Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFB IG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIG Twitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: blackmilmar@gmail.com Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Pitch to be a Guest on our show: https://forms.gle/N1ycUcmCXhchxuWm7 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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2 years ago
44 minutes

Black Millennial Marriage
We are Mikey and Randie Chapman, and your hosts of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast. This podcast was created as a way to stay connected to one another. It was also formed so that we could have representation, meet other couples, and provide a space to talk about our 10+ years of relationship experience, including our years of marriage, and all we’re learning, unlearning, and loving about marriage.