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Behind the Paddle
Porcelain Victoria
97 episodes
3 weeks ago
Send us a text What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth with productivity and independence. When profit becomes more important than people, our natural variations in planning, focus, an...
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Send us a text What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth with productivity and independence. When profit becomes more important than people, our natural variations in planning, focus, an...
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Sexuality
Education,
Society & Culture,
Health & Fitness,
Relationships
Episodes (20/97)
Behind the Paddle
E97: How to be you Part 8
Send us a text What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth with productivity and independence. When profit becomes more important than people, our natural variations in planning, focus, an...
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3 weeks ago
53 minutes

Behind the Paddle
E96:The Rage Before the Storm: Living with PMDD
Send us a text In The Rage Before the Storm: Living with PMDD, Porcelain Victoria delves into the raw, cyclical reality of Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder a condition that turns the body’s natural rhythm into emotional warfare. Blending medical insight, feminist critique, and intimate storytelling, this four-hour episode explores the science, stigma, and survival behind PMDD. From hormonal sensitivity and misdiagnosis to relationships, rage, and reclamation. Support the show Check out our soc...
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3 weeks ago
30 minutes

Behind the Paddle
E95:How to be you part 7
Send us a text What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth with productivity and independence. When profit becomes more important than people, our natural variations in planning, focus, an...
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1 month ago
54 minutes

Behind the Paddle
E94: Collars and Creatures: Inside the World of Petplay
Send us a text What happens when humans shed language, drop to all fours, and find freedom in a collar? In this deep-dive Petplay episode of Behind the Paddle, host Porcelain Victoria explores the culture, psychology, and practicalities of pet/handler dynamics from ancient animal rites to modern pup hoods and kitten ears. You’ll hear: What petplay is (and isn’t): clear consent lines, why it’s not zoophilia, and how sexuality ranges from non-sexual nurture to explicitly erotic power exchange.A...
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1 month ago
45 minutes

Behind the Paddle
E93:How to be you part 6
Send us a text What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth with productivity and independence. When profit becomes more important than people, our natural variations in planning, focus, an...
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1 month ago
53 minutes

Behind the Paddle
E92: The Nordic Model vs. Decriminalization
Send us a text Behindthepaddle podcast takes listeners inside one of the most polarizing debates in feminist and political history: the Nordic Model versus decriminalisation of sex work. With personal testimony, global case studies, and voices from sex-worker–led groups like SWARM, Scot-PEP, and Umbrella Lane, this episode dismantles myths, exposes the harms of Ash Regan’s proposed “End Demand” Bill in Scotland, and contrasts it with New Zealand’s evidence-based model of decriminalisati...
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1 month ago
38 minutes

Behind the Paddle
E91:How to be you part 5
Send us a text What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth with productivity and independence. When profit becomes more important than people, our natural variations in planning, focus, an...
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1 month ago
1 hour 1 minute

Behind the Paddle
E90:Burgers and Ballgags: Inside Munches and Play Parties in the BDSM World
Send us a text From diner booths to dungeon floors, “Burgers and Ballgags: Inside Munches and Play Parties in the BDSM World” explores the social and sexual spaces where kink comes alive. Porcelain Victoria guides you through the history, the people, and the rules that shape these gatherings from the casual comfort of a munch to the charged intensity of a play party. This is not porn, not fantasy, but the real story of how community, consent, vulnerability, and desire meet in public kin...
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1 month ago
51 minutes

Behind the Paddle
E89: Secrets in the Sheets: Husbands, Fetishes, and the Cost of Silence
Send us a text Welcome to Behindthepaddle. I’m Porcelain Victoria, and this episode… is a tender one. Today, we’re stepping into the bedroom but not just for fun. We’re pulling open the drawer of secrets. Hidden fetishes. Quiet urges. And those deeply human moments when a husband or partner finally tells the truth… to the person they love most. We’re talking about the difference between being honest and being unfaithful. Between sharing a kink and hiding it with someone else. Between keeping ...
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1 month ago
42 minutes

Behind the Paddle
E88: How to be you part 4
Send us a text What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth with productivity and independence. When profit becomes more important than people, our natural variations in planning, focus, an...
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1 month ago
53 minutes

Behind the Paddle
E87:Crayons, Contracts, and Care: Inside the World of DDLG and Caregiver/Little Dynamics
Send us a text Behindthepaddle Podcast invites you inside one of the most tender, misunderstood, and intimate corners of the BDSM world: Caregiver/little dynamics. We explore the acronyms (DDLG, CGL, MDLB, Littles, Middles, Brats), the psychology of regression and attachment, the rituals of rules and punishments, and the playful, sometimes erotic, worlds of diapers, pacis, and discipline. We dive deep into: What regression really is (and isn’t)Why structure makes Littles feel safeThe brat’s d...
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2 months ago
51 minutes

Behind the Paddle
E86: How to be you part 3
Send us a text What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth with productivity and independence. When profit becomes more important than people, our natural variations in planning, focus, an...
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2 months ago
22 minutes

Behind the Paddle
E85:Kink vs Fetish
Send us a text In this episode, I dive into one of the questions I hear all the time: what’s the difference between a kink and a fetish? These two words get thrown around a lot, but they aren’t the same thing and understanding the difference can change how we see ourselves and our sex lives. I share my own experience as someone who needs BDSM in my life to feel whole and authentic, but who can still enjoy and orgasm through vanilla sex. For me, kink is the language of my desire not always req...
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2 months ago
41 minutes

Behind the Paddle
E84:How to be you part 2
Send us a text Hello welcome to Behindthepaddle podcast, what happens when your brain constantly pulls you in opposite directions? When one part craves structure while another needs novelty, or when one side thrives on patterns while another demands constant stimulation? This fascinating tension sits at the heart of Ellie Middletons transformative book "How to Be You," which we explore in depth on this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast. The book presents a "pick-and-mix" approach to execu...
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2 months ago
48 minutes

Behind the Paddle
E83: Beyond The Dungeon: Exploring SSC, RACK & PRICK in BDSM
Send us a text Welcome to Behind the Paddle podcast. Today we are speaking about BDSM not as a hobby, not as a kink to be giggled at behind closed doors, and not as a fleeting curiosity but as a world. A world of power, of discipline, of trust. A world of deeply human longing and deeply consensual depravity. A world some of us live in every single day. Whether you’re new to this world or have bruises that still carry stories from years past, this episode is for you. Let’s begin with a truth: ...
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2 months ago
1 hour 9 minutes

Behind the Paddle
E82:How to be you part 1
Send us a text Hello welcome to Behindthepaddle podcast, what happens when your brain constantly pulls you in opposite directions? When one part craves structure while another needs novelty, or when one side thrives on patterns while another demands constant stimulation? This fascinating tension sits at the heart of Ellie Middletons transformative book "How to Be You," which we explore in depth on this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast. The book presents a "pick-and-mix" approach to execu...
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2 months ago
37 minutes

Behind the Paddle
E81: How It all began- How i become a whoreified deviant
Send us a text Hello and welcome back to Behind the paddle podcast in todays episode I share my deeply personal journey into sex work, from discovering sexuality through late-night TV at 12 to performing webcam shows as a teen and entering in-person work at 17. My story highlights how lack of proper sex education and support made me vulnerable. Without guidance, I turned to virtual spaces like Second Life, where I first monetized my sexuality. Throughout, I experienced adults failing to...
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2 months ago
58 minutes

Behind the Paddle
E80:Revolting Prostitutes p22 Finale
Send us a text Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 215-221 of Revolting Prostitutes, a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical themes of agency, labor, and the intersections of identity and exploitation. In this intimate reading, Porcelain brings her unique perspective to the text, offering insights and reflections on the issues that shape the lives of sex workers worldwide. Tune ...
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2 months ago
28 minutes

Behind the Paddle
E79: I was Charged with Brothel Keeping part 2 Brothel keeping laws
Send us a text In this raw and urgent episode of Behindthepaddle, host Porcelain Victoria breaks her silence after being charged under Scotland’s archaic brothel-keeping laws—laws that criminalize sex workers for simply trying to work together in safety. Porcelain shares her personal story of the raid, the trauma of being treated like a criminal for surviving, and the systemic violence embedded in legislation that claims to “protect” while actively endangering lives. This is more than a story...
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3 months ago
37 minutes

Behind the Paddle
E78:Revolting Prostitutes p21
Send us a text Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 204-215 of Revolting Prostitutes, a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical themes of agency, labor, and the intersections of identity and exploitation. In this intimate reading, Porcelain brings her unique perspective to the text, offering insights and reflections on the issues that shape the lives of sex workers worldwide. Tune ...
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3 months ago
42 minutes

Behind the Paddle
Send us a text What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence. Diving into Ellie Middleton's "How to Be You," we explore how capitalism has trained us to equate our worth with productivity and independence. When profit becomes more important than people, our natural variations in planning, focus, an...