You’ve deleted the apps. You’ve made the promises. Maybe you’ve even joined a men’s group. But the cycle of relapse keeps coming back. Why?
In this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez breaks down the real reasons men keep falling into the lust cycle—and it’s not just about lust.
We dig deep into emotional avoidance, unhealed wounds, and the trap of isolation, then walk through 9 practical, grace-filled steps to break the cycle for good. If you’re ready to move beyond shame and into lasting freedom, this is your roadmap.
🎯 3 causes behind relapse that most men miss
🛠️ 9 action steps you can start using today
🤝 A clear invitation to real brotherhood and healing
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Too many men are stuck—not because they lack motivation, but because they’re waiting.
Waiting for clarity.
Waiting for the perfect timing.
Waiting to feel ready.
But here’s the truth: perfect conditions don’t exist, and delayed action kills momentum.In this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez breaks down 5 powerful, biblical reasons why you need to move before you feel ready—and how clarity, confidence, and calling all begin with obedience. You’ll learn how to overcome hesitation, silence fear, and take the next bold step toward becoming the man you were created to be.
With real stories, Scripture, and practical steps, this episode will challenge and equip you to stop circling the runway and start living with direction.
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Stuck in a rut? You’re not alone—but staying stuck isn’t neutral. It’s dangerous.
In this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez unpacks 10 brutally honest reasons why you might be spinning your wheels—and more importantly, how to break out of you're rut starting today.
If you’re serious about becoming the man God created you to be, you can’t afford to drift, delay, or live on autopilot. You were made to lead yourself well, to build, to fight for your calling, and to leave a lasting legacy.
We’ll tackle the real reasons behind the frustration—things like trusting your feelings over truth, having no systems, procrastination, poor discipline, and misplaced identity—and equip you with practical steps to reclaim momentum.
Because here’s the truth: Nothing changes if nothing changes.
✅ Stop coasting.
✅ Take ownership.
✅ Build the life you were called to lead
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On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez sheds light on the common struggles men face in achieving success and provides two practical steps that you can take to begin on your own success journey.
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This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be.
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On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez shares four key pathways to finding your God-given purpose and how it can change your life.
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This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be.
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On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez shares seven of the most powerful rules he's learned as a Marine Corps Officer to forge unstoppable self-discipline.
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On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by
Allan Draper.
Allan is a serial entrepreneur whose owned over 28 businesses and counting. He specializes in scaling small businesses and helping entrepreneurs transform an idea into a thriving business. Allan is also the host of the Business Growth Pod designed specifically to help those wanting to start and grow a business.
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This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be.
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On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez shares 12 lessons he's learned over 12 years of service in the United States Marine Corps.
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On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by
Carl Thomas.
Carl and Ray focus on defining shame, exploring how it sustains unhealthy sexual habits, and identifying the steps necessary to break free from it. They also discuss the impact of genuine community in managing shame effectively.
Carl's organization provides resources, including the Live Free Community app, for men seeking freedom from undesired sexual behaviors. Additionally, Live Free Wives provides a supportive environment for spouses healing from betrayal. Carl has recently authored a book titled "When Shame Gets Real: A New Way to Talk About Sex, Porn, and Masturbation."
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This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be.
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On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez continues a powerful series discussing the top 10 qualities of strong and mature Christian men.
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This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be.
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On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez continues a powerful series discussing the top 10 qualities of strong and mature Christian men.
Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course.
This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be.
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On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by
Remi Adeleke.
Remi was born in Western Africa, but following the death of his father, he, his mother, and his brother relocated permanently to the Bronx in New York City. After years of making regrettable decisions, Remi joined the Navy in 2002 and later became a Navy SEAL.
As a SEAL he saw multiple combat deployments alongside some of the world's most elite men. Ending his successful naval career in 2016, he was led to pursue a career in speaking and acting.
Since then, Remi has played roles in Transformers, 6 Underground, Plane, Ambulance, and Special Forces: World's Toughest Tests. He has also written and directed multiple award-winning short films.
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This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be.
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On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez continues a powerful series discussing the top 10 qualities of strong and mature Christian men.
Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course.
This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be.
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On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez begins a brand new series on the top 10 qualities of strong and mature Christian men.
Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course.
This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be.
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On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by
Morgan Snyder.
Morgan Snyder is an author, speaker, and fellow podcaster who serves on the executive leadership team at Wild at Heart. Morgan has contended for the wholeheartedness of men and women alongside John and Stasi Eldredge for more than two decades. He has led over a decade of Become Good Soil Intensives and sold-out Wild at Heart men’s events across the United States, United Kingdom, South Africa, and Australia.
His passion is to both be shaped by and shape the men and women who are shaping the kingdom of God. He certainly has shaped much of what you have heard here on the last 98 episodes of the Becoming Men Podcast!
In 2010, he established BecomeGoodSoil, a fellowship of leaders whose global reach offers guidance for the narrow road of becoming the kind of person to whom God can confidently entrust the care of his kingdom.
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This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be.
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On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by
Brian Barcelona.
Brian is an author, speaker, evangelist, and the founder of One Voice Student Missions and The Jesus Clubs. Through these ministries, Brian and his team have reached hundreds of millions of people around the world with the truth of the Gospel. Today Brian and Ray sit down to talk about the importance of spiritual fathers, discipleship and what evangelism looks like in a digital age.
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On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by
Justin co-founded Gather Ministries with his wife, Jennifer, and created the WiRE for Men devotional. His passion is to encourage and equip men to pursue God more earnestly and to enjoy more of His goodness and love. Justin is writing The WiRE Series for Men—a set of books for the publisher David C Cook. His many articles and books have been featured and seen on Charisma, Moody Radio, Focus on the Family, GOD TV, The Christian Post, Crosswalk, LifeWay Men, Outreach Magazine, CBN, and other media outlets.
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This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be.
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On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by
Don is a podcaster and business owner/investor, CFO of a real estate company, and serves on the elder board of Valley Creek Church, a church he and Suzanne helped start over 30 years ago. Don and his wife have an awesome podcast called Crazy Cool Family that is dedicated to showing parents how to create amazing families by building their lives around Jesus and helping their kids to do the same.
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This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be.
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On this BONUS episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is interviewed by Nathan Spearing on The Life On Target Podcast.
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This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be.
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