Episode 32 — and yes, recorded as file #32 in my dictaphone. Just one of the little signs that you’re always more supported than you think.
This short, raw episode (recorded straight from the car), serves as a reminder for the moments that life brings you to your knees — physically, emotionally, spiritually.
It's to honor the surprising signs of love that still surround us — even when everything feels heavy or lost.
We’ll talk about:
What happens when you finally stop escaping your pain.
The courage it takes to say no — and what can unfold when you do.
The quiet reminders that love still exists, even if it’s not visible.
Why the lowest moments often open unexpected doors.
This episode is all about remembering that even when it feels like everything is falling apart, love is still present — often in ways you don’t yet see.
Resources & Support:
If this episode resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you! Share your reflections or reach out on Instagram.
Looking for deeper support? Explore my 1:1 coaching or my coaching program for childless and childfree women. Visit @iam.anne.visser on Insta or www.iamannevisser.com.
Let’s Connect:
Your stories remind me why I do what I do. Don’t hesitate to share your thoughts or experiences.
Much love,
Anne☀️
The holiday season can be challenging—a time meant to be joyful often brings up feelings of loneliness and struggle, especially for those without children. In this episode, I share personal experiences, including an insight in my recent plant medicine retreat in the Colombian jungle, and offer insights on how to navigate this emotional time.
We’ll talk about:
This episode is all about finding ways to hold space for yourself and others when the holidays don’t feel so festive.
What You’ll Learn:
Resources & Support:
If this episode resonated with you, I’d love to hear from you! Share your reflections or reach out on Instagram (link in bio).
Interested in deeper support? Explore my 1:1 coaching sessions or join my online program designed for childless and child-free women. Visit @iam.anne.visser on instagram or www.iamannevisser.com
Let’s Connect:
Your stories remind me why I do what I do. Don’t hesitate to share your thoughts or experiences!
Much love,
Anne☀️
In this episode of Am I a Mother? I sit down with Nadine, a 50+ vibrant and inspiring woman who chose a childfree path. We explore societal expectations, personal choices, and the unique freedom and challenges of living life outside the traditional mold. Nadine shares her journey, including an unexpected parenting experience as a foster mom, her relationship with her parents’ expectations, and the deep insights she gained along the way.
Whether you're exploring your own path, curious about the child-free experience, or simply drawn to authentic storytelling, this episode offers inspiration, connection, and valuable food for thought.
What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
Want to experience working with Nadine? Nadine is a body-oriented therapist and energy healer based in Leiden, the Netherlands. To book a session or learn more about her work, visit her website https://www.bijnadine.nl.
Work with me:
If you’re on your own journey of exploring motherhood, being child-free, or navigating childlessness, this is how I offer support:
Visit www.iamannevisser.com, find me on insta @iam.anne.visser or reach out directly to learn more.
If you enjoyed this episode, please:
Stay tuned for a follow-up episode where Nadine shares how her child-free lifestyle inspires her work with clients in her practice.
& Remember Nadine’s advice to her 30-year-old self: “You were right all along.” Listen to your intuition, especially when it whispers softly.
Much love, Anne☀️
Creating impact in this world where there is so much emphasis on the value of having kids and starting a family, especially for women, can feel very heavy.
In this episode I take you on this journey and hope to inspire you to find YOUR unique way of creating impact.
All of this inspired by just having attended the funeral of a person that made a huge impact on me and many others, by his personal mission to help others in need. This person is Peter Zeeman, the beloved father of my high school best friend. He touched the hearts of many and opened his house and his family to friends but also kids in need, like I was one day.
Rest in peace Mister Zeeman. Thank you for all you've done and the impact you've made.
In this episode I speak to currently childfree Veerle Beelen da Costa David, who is a coach on inner and outer journeys.
This episode is about self-discovery, setting boundaries, and making personal choices amidst constant movement and change. We go from Veerle moving to Australia and the challenges she faced during the pandemic, including job loss and adjusting to new environments.
On a deeper layer we talk about finding purpose, toxic relationships, whether travel is an escape or actual help. And whether your travel dreams should end when you desire to become a mother.
How do you create YOUR best life?
Thank you again Veerle! Find my guest on insta @unpackbyveer.
Did you get a travel itch by listening to this podcast? Or do you want to try out the digital nomad lifestyle? I host my next transformational coworking retreat in Feb/March 2025 in Portugal.
Send me a DM on insta to know more! @iam.anne.visser
Much love,
Anne☀️
Sometimes it just strikes. You did not fail. You succeeded. At creating a life that lights you up. Against all odds.
A quick and dirty recording from my mom's house, in the village where I grew up, on an evening where I joined a kids event that used to trigger the F*** out of me.
Let me take you on a journey to a small town called Hippolytushoef (The Netherlands).
Next Mamacita Moment: June 21, at the beach near The Hague. Get your tickets here: https://www.iamannevisser.com/mamacita-moment
More info on my events and coaching on https://www.iamannevisser.com.
Check out @iam.anne.visser for daily stories ☀️
Much love,
Anne
In this episode I go all into my current fears in dating and how I deal with my struggle of self-acceptance. Going from a painful past relationship to meeting someone special, referred to as 'Mr. Number 5' I share my fears and the internal voices that threaten to sabotage my happiness.
Check out this episode for the importance of inner work, learning to handle emotions, and keeping your heart open!
For more of this: join my upcoming Mamacita Moment, on June 21st, live in The Netherlands where we celebrate childless and child-free women.
Want help navigate similar challenges? Send me a message on instagram @iam.anne.visser or check out my website: www.iamannevisser.com.
More info on the Kura Manifestion Program I refer to in this episode? DM me on insta!
Last but not least, feel free to drop in my DM to connect.
Much love,
Anne
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:30 The Desire to Run Away
01:40 Dating Experiences and Mr. #5
07:28 Reflections on Past Relationships
10:38 Personal Growth and Coaching Journey
16:21 Navigating New Relationships
22:19 Invitation to Connect and Upcoming Events
In this heartfelt episode, Anne opens up about the complex emotions surrounding Mother's Day, especially for those who are childless by circumstance, child-free by choice, or doubting motherhood. She shares her personal journey from feeling triggered by Mother's Day to finding peace and empowerment.
Anne discusses her struggles with entrepreneurship, her attempts to heal her relationship with her mother, and the importance of acknowledging and moving through difficult emotions to find joy.
Throughout the episode, Anne provides insights on handling societal pressures, personal insecurities, and the significance of community support in navigating life's challenges.
Are you ready to raise your vibe so you can shine?
✨ Healing ritual: Shine sister!
📆 Friday May 10, 7-8.30 PM CET
📌 online via ZOOM, replay available
Get your ticket here: https://iamannevisser.plugandpay.nl/checkout/masterclass-shine-sister-shine?test_token=NQ5jJ3EKXymL
Want to connect based on this episode? Send me a DM on insta: @iam.anne.visser. I'd love to be in touch with you!
Much love,
Anne
00:21 Exploring Mother's Day Emotions and Childlessness
02:18 Sharing Personal Struggles and Insights
05:56 Dealing with Business Challenges and Personal Growth
08:33 Emotional Journey Through Family Dynamics and Self-Reflection
13:02 Connecting Childhood Emotions to Adult Challenges
17:27 Embracing Emotions for a Brighter Life
17:43 The Power of Acknowledging Pain and Joy
19:38 Navigating Emotional Healing and Mother Relationships
21:21 Personal Journey: Overcoming Emotional Challenges
24:20 Sharing Vulnerabilities and Seeking Support
27:15 Healing Rituals and Mother's Day Reflections
31:46 Offering Support and Overcoming Insecurities
33:50 Invitation to a Healing Ritual: Shine Sister Shine
(thank you AI for helping me and writing my show notes this time! you did a great job)
In this podcast episode, I share my raw and honest journey of falling into a toxic relationship due to my deep desire for motherhood and a romantic partnership.
This is my experience of being involved with a narcissistic individual. I know the use of this term is becoming popular and going into naming/shaming/blaming is easy. This episode is not here to blame, it’s here to emphasize the importance of recognizing toxic behaviors early on and knowing when you are an ‘easy’ victim.
I share practical tips with you for that difficult phase of desiring motherhood or a romantic partnership badly. Moreover I want to make you aware of the need for real change that goes beyond mere mindset shifts.
Do you seek additional support? Check out my coaching program, "Am I A Mother?", next launch October 2024, which offers a comprehensive journey of self-discovery and healing. The program provides tools and guidance for embracing authenticity and creating a life aligned with your deepest desires. If you want to start working today in a 1:1 setting, just send me a DM on Instagram: @iam.anne.visser.
00:00 Opening: A Raw Dive into Choices and Emotions
00:13 Welcome to the Podcast: Intentions and Goals
01:54 The Heart of the Matter: Navigating Toxic Relationships and Motherhood Desires
06:31 Personal Journey: From Desire to Self-Discovery
14:09 The Bigger Picture: Choices, Risks, and Recognizing Desires
18:43 Practical Advice: Avoiding Toxic Relationships and Making Conscious Choices
26:41 Personal Coaching and Support Offerings
28:28 Reflecting on Past Relationships and Lessons Learned
37:10 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
Retreat diaries! Are you still doubting to join my coworking retreat?
You need to hear this; we're covering all the basis...
Whether you need a dedicated space to do admin tasks, or a beautiful setting to create content, today we cover what coworking is and what YOU can get out of it.
Hear it first hand from a super special guest and how she planned out 6 months of her next steps in just 1 WEEK with me! 🌟
Follow me on IG @iam.anne.visser and be ready for me to drop new dates.
Much love,
Anne ☀️
Grieving over something that never physically existed is one of the hardest forms of grief. I was invited by Laura Gallis to talk about this type of grief.
Grief is so much more than about a person. It can also be an unfulfilled wish, like the dream to become a mother one day. 🌟 How do you mourn something you never had?
Hear my personal experience and how I found meaning in supporting other women on their journey. 🌈
For 1:1 support, reach out to me via insta or my website.
Much love,
Anne
Join me in exploring motherhood, choices, and finding your own path to self-empowerment. Connect with me and join the conversation:
- Follow me on Instagram: @iam.anne.visser
- Share your thoughts using the hashtag: #AmIAMother
- Check out my website: www.iamannevisser.com
Subscribe to the 'Am I A Mother?' on your favorite podcast platform to never miss an episode. Don't forget to leave a review and share it with others who might benefit from these empowering conversations.
Thank you for listening and being a part of our podcast community!
*This podcast is in Dutch
If someone wants to have a conversation with you that you are not ready to have... These thoughts are going through your mind:
- is it ok to say 'no, I don't want this right now'?
- how to express how I feel?
- should I go for it because I care about the other person?
This episode gives you guidance on this difficult topic! I delve into the complex conversation of differentiating selfcare vs selfish. I share my own stories and lessons, while also inviting you to reflect on your own experiences as you listen.
Join me in exploring motherhood, choices, and finding your own path to self-empowerment.
Connect with me and join the conversation:
- Follow me on Instagram: @iam.anne.visser
- Share your thoughts using the hashtag: #AmIAMother
Subscribe to the 'Am I A Mother?' on your favorite podcast platform to never miss an episode. Don't forget to leave a review and share it with others who might benefit from these empowering conversations.
Thank you for listening and being a part of our podcast community!
Dreading the holidays? Here are 7 ways to CREATE happier holidays for all of you who are not looking forward to the holidays.
This time of year can be triggering for those feeling childless, who are not happy being single, have 'difficult' families or any other way that makes you feel like you are not where you want to be in your life. I was like you. Christmas used to mark my (felt) failures in life: still single, still unhappy in a relationship, still no motherhood in sight, still a difficult family situation.
But no more! I took control over my own happiness and here are 7 things that I do that help me navigate Christmas as a happy single, childfree, and powerful woman!
In this episode we explore Daniek's journey, a beautiful entrepreneur who spent 3 days with me at a 1-1 coworking retreat.
We all know how easily we can get distracted by other things that take our attention, be it business or personal. Focusing is just hard! For those times: the peer pressure of coworking helps a lot.
Daniek went into this retreat with the desire to kickstart a new phase in her business journey. And to focus more on what she wanted to get DONE.
Find out more about how she conquered her profession in this exclusive live.
Are you looking for focus and togetherness? Visit my website for upcoming retreat details; the door to more energy and focus awaits!
Welcome to another episode of Am I A Mother?! In this raw and honest conversation, I delve into the complex emotions of jealousy, doubt, and fear that often arise in our lives. I share my own personal stories and lessons, while also inviting you to reflect on your own experiences. Join me in exploring motherhood, choices, and finding your own path to self-empowerment. Episode Highlights: - Understanding the moments when jealousy, frustration, and suppressed longing come up - Reflecting on personal experiences and struggles - Distinguishing between different emotions and learning to communicate about them - Nurturing self-acceptance and self-love in the face of doubt - The importance of voicing and sharing difficult feelings responsibly Connect with me and join the conversation: - Follow me on Instagram: @iam.anne.visser - Share your thoughts using the hashtag: #AmIAMother Subscribe to the 'Am I A Mother?' on your favorite podcast platform to never miss an episode. Don't forget to leave a review and share it with others who might benefit from these empowering conversations. Thank you for listening and being a part of our podcast community!
@rise.with.regine invited me for an amazing talk on Instagram Live!
Listen to our lovely conversation about alternative motherhood, how to deal with triggering questions and so much more!
Thank you so much Regine!
Much love,
Anne ☀️
‘I got so much done these 3 days, it feels as if I was here for a week’.
Daniek Nellissen and I just wrapped up the co-working and camping retreat and my heart is beating so fast! ❤️
Honestly, doing an after talk live is a bit scary because what if it doesn’t go well?😵💫
But you know me, I trust myself and I like searching for these edges 😍
As it was live and unprepared you see a genuine talk and connection on what worked well in this retreat.
Let me summarize for you. Daniek said:
“You’re a great host.”
“I was completely taken care of without being mothered.”
“ I got much more done than I get done at home. I was so focused and it helped me that I didn’t have to think of food and such.”
“We had the best mix of work and fun. It’s shows me it doesn’t have to be only work.”
“I enjoyed my space to do my own things.”
“I am not a camping person but I had a wonderful sleep, I felt like being in a safe little bunker with a comfy bed.”
In one sentence she said: “if you’re doubting, that means you’re leaning towards a yes. Do it.”
Much love,
Anne ☀️
Do you believe it’s possible for you to turn your passion into your business?
If I’m honest… for the longest time I thought it were the lucky few who were able to do it.
But now I let go of the urge to:
have it all right now and instead I allow myself to become better with time,
succeed the first time and insteadI allow myself to have no-one-joining-my-sh*t,
know it all and instead I allow myself to learn,
take big risks and make large jumps and instead I allow myself to take small steps.
It’s all coming towards me. I am building the business and the life of my dreams.
On my terms.
How? Check the live. It all starts with listening to the pull.
Do you dare to listen?
Much love,
Anne ☀️
How do you measure self love?
How do you invest in getting more self love?
For me it was a dark hole for years.
Even the question: ‘is my self love on point?’ had me clueless.
Looking back and looking at the relationships I’ve had (which is a good indicator for your level of self love) my answer is: definitely not.
But in the moment…. I was too scared to look at my own self love. Because I knew it required choices. Like leaving the relationship I was in.
Fast forward to now. My self love rose to a point that I invest in myself, my growth, my happiness, support and joy easily. Abundantly.
I pay for all of it with a smile on my face.
Because I know I’m worth it.
How do you look at self love? Is it on point? If not, are you willing to take a first step today?
Much love,
Anne ☀️
4 simple steps to take when things don’t work out
Use them, for big and small things,
For practical and emotional situations.
They always work.
Bye people. I’ll be waiting for the car service a bit longer
now ;)
Much love,
Anne ☀️
