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This week on After Reality, I’m catching up on life after filming and getting back into the rhythm of everyday life post-reality TV. I’m sharing personal updates, including celebrating my five-year wedding anniversary with a much-needed parent getaway, and a heartwarming reunion with my friend and former Bachelor castmate, Casey Shteamer Patak.

Then, I dive into Kevin Federline’s new book, You Thought You Knew, which really surprised me. I found it heartfelt and honest — more of a love letter to his kids than a money grab — as he opens up about his life, his relationship with Britney Spears, and what fatherhood has meant to him.

And yes — I officially met my new AI co-host, Echo (I even found out what Echo was wearing… and might’ve said “I love you”). Stay tuned till the end for my thoughts on the latest Bachelor Nation headlines: Mel Owens hometowns, Gerry Turner’s tell-all, new engagements, and Rachel Kirkconnell on Extra Dirty.

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Today I’m joined by Stefanie Parker from the She’s All Bach podcast as I open up about my big return to television — and yes, it’s on HGTV! We chat all about filming The Bachelor Mansion Takeover (premiering this February), what inspired me to say yes to reality TV again, and how it felt stepping back into the spotlight after years away.

I also share the excitement, the nerves, and what it was like leaving my kids at home to take on this once-in-a-lifetime experience. Plus, we touch on a few Bachelor Nation updates — from Gerry Turner’s tell-all to a surprising contestant apology. No spoilers here.

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This week on After Reality, I’m catching up after fall break and sharing a few family updates—then diving into some unexpected news that stirred up a few emotions. Let’s just say, Taylor Swift has been my soundtrack lately.

From there, I unpack the latest Bachelor drama, including Nicole’s bold “power villain” move on Mel Owen’s season, with a little help from the sharp minds at Game of Roses.

And to wrap things up, I celebrate the incomparable Diane Keaton with a touching Meryl Streep tribute and reflect on how Diane’s timeless spirit continues to inspire me.

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I’m back! After a whirlwind few weeks working on a new project, I’m catching up with you all and sharing some personal updates — from our family’s fall break adventures to celebrating my five-year wedding anniversary. I also touch on the latest pop culture buzz, including Taylor Swift’s new album and the Nicole Kidman divorce news.

Then, I dive into The Golden Bachelor and its lead, Mel Owens — breaking down what’s working, what’s not, and why the ratings might be struggling. I share clips and commentary from fellow podcasters like Reality Steve and Game of Roses, who’ve had plenty to say about Owens’s low energy this season.

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In this episode of After Reality, I’m diving into all the chaos and calm of the week — from family life to the latest reality TV drama. ABC just announced the new Bachelorette, Taylor Frankie Paul, and I’m sharing my thoughts on her colorful past, including her Mormon background and her previous domestic violence arrest.

I’ll also play a clip from my good friend Dave Neal’s podcast, where he shares such a positive message about navigating the negativity on social media — something we could all use right now. Plus, I touch on Mel Owens’ recent apology and give you a peek into what’s been happening with my own family, including a few funny mom moments.

Sometimes, amidst the chaos, it’s the little things — like binging The Summer I Turned Pretty — that bring joy. So grab a cup of coffee, settle in, and let’s unpack it all together.

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In this episode, Reality Steve and I dive deep into the latest buzz surrounding Bachelor Nation, and trust me, there’s a lot to unpack! We kick things off by breaking down the upcoming Bachelor Nation cruise — from its jaw-dropping price tag to the big names involved, like Tyler Cameron and Jesse Palmer. But with low ticket sales looming, could this be the beginning of the end for the cruise? We discuss the possible fallout and what it means for the franchise's future.

Next, we turn our attention to the highly anticipated search for the next Bachelor. Rumor has it that producers are looking for someone refreshing—not famous, not an influencer, and not an athlete. So, who could it be? We speculate on potential candidates and what this shift could mean for the show’s direction.

We also get into the Bachelor in Paradise finale, breaking down the final couples—Jess and Spencer, Kat and Dale, Alex and Andrew—and wondering how much after taxes those final two are walking away with after their lucrative Paradise deals. Spoiler: Uncle Sam is definitely taking a hefty chunk.

Then, we dig into the drama surrounding Nick Viall’s interview with Kat, which left her visibly upset. Before wrapping up, we touch on the latest Bachelor Nation headlines: Andrew Firestone’s mysterious and quickly deleted divorce announcement, JoJo Fletcher’s exciting pregnancy news, and DeAnna Pappas’ new podcast where she’ll be opening up about her dating life and journey to sobriety. If you’re a Bachelor fan, this episode is packed with insider info, speculation, and all the juicy details you won’t want to miss!

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On this episode of After Reality, I had the absolute pleasure of sitting down with Christian Long and his mom, Wendy Long, the dynamic duo behind the Oh Honey podcast. I’ve quickly become a big fan of their intergenerational conversations—their charming banter and thoughtful advice always make me smile.

Christian shared how he convinced his (initially hesitant!) mom to co-host the show with him, and we dug into their family dynamics—like what it was like for Christian to grow up as the youngest of three boys, plus his recent jury duty experience. Wendy opened up about her past acting career, and we touched on everything from the challenges of reality TV and social media to the importance of family meals.

Since Christian is a devoted Bachelor viewer, we couldn’t resist filling Wendy in on the latest tea about Mel Owen’s upcoming season. And to wrap things up, we ended with a fun and heartfelt rapid-fire that had us all laughing and sharing from the heart.

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On this episode of After Reality, I sit down with the fabulous Susan Noles — The breakout star from The Golden Bachelor. We talk about her Kris Jenner surprise moment, her podcast Golden Hour with Kathy Swarts, and what it’s like finding love again in her golden years (including the difficulties of long-distance) We also talk about the beauty of tough love in parenting and friendship.

Susan also opens up about her past marriage, raising kids, self-love, plastic surgery, celebrity encounters — including her recent smooch with Bradley Cooper — and her pearls of wisdom for anyone still searching for companionship. We also dive into the future of The Bachelor franchise and her thoughts on room for improvement. Susan dishes on her latest Tv appearance on Hulu's Got to Get Out.

✨ Stay tuned until the end for a spicy and heartfelt rapid fire that you won’t want to miss 🍸

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On this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Molly Mesnick to dive into life after The Bachelor. We get real about the highs and lows of reality TV fame—navigating social media, the pressure to keep showing up in the spotlight, and the challenge of creating a “normal” life once the cameras stop rolling.

Beyond our shared reality TV history, Molly opens up about marriage, parenting, and her thriving career in real estate. She shares incredible parenting and relationship advice, plus her honest take on why The Golden Wedding left her feeling a little icky. We also look ahead to the future of the franchise—and you won’t want to miss the reveal of which hit reality show she and Jason just turned down.

It’s heartfelt, unfiltered, and a must-listen for any Bachelor fan.

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In this episode, Daniel Trujillo and I dive into all the good stuff — pop culture, personal stories, and those little life observations you can’t unhear once someone points them out. We break down the Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce phenomenon — her business genius, her songwriting magic, and their internet breaking podcast episode on New Heights.

Daniel gets real about his first job as a dishwasher (we’ve all been there… or at least eaten there), his martial arts journey in Gracie Jiu-Jitsu, and how he now teaches self-defense to kids and women — with a big focus on awareness.

Of course, we couldn’t resist dishing on our favorite TV obsessions: predictions for The Summer I Turned Pretty, some hot Bachelor in Paradise takes, and a mutual agreement that authenticity, personal growth, and genuine human connection never go out of style.

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On this episode of After Reality, I cover everything from pop culture headlines to personal moments from my week. I get into the news about Andy Byron possibly suing Coldplay over a viral video, and I share my honest thoughts on the current season of Bachelor in Paradise—let’s just say, I have some strong opinions about the direction it's headed and which contestants are standing out (for better or worse).

I also reflect on the heartbreaking loss of some true legends this week: Ozzy Osbourne, Hulk Hogan, and Malcolm-Jamal Warner. Their impact on music, entertainment, and culture won’t be forgotten.

Plus, I give some updates on true crime cases, including Lori Vallow Daybell and Brian Kohberger. And on the personal side, I share a few family stories—like my daughter cutting her own hair, my son’s dentist visit—and wrap things up with TV recommendations. Thanks for stopping by!

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I was so excited to put this funny, unfiltered conversation out into the world—but in the rush of things, the last part of our chat didn’t make it into the original release. So here it is, the full version of my episode with Brad Smith—because it’s just too good not to share again.

We unpack some of the wildest recent moments in pop culture—like a CEO’s meltdown at a Coldplay concert and the drama heating up around The Golden Bachelor. We get into the good, the bad, and the hilarious sides of reality TV, share behind-the-scenes stories, and open up about some deeply personal topics, including fertility and the pressures women face. It’s real, honest, and full of laughs—just the way I like it.

@BradCSmith

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In this episode, I sit down with Brad Smith to unpack some of the wildest recent moments in pop culture—like a CEO’s meltdown at a Coldplay concert and the drama heating up around The Golden Bachelor. We get into the good, the bad, and the hilarious sides of reality TV, share a few behind-the-scenes stories, and open up about some deeply personal topics, including fertility and the pressures women face. It’s real, unfiltered, and full of laughs—just the way I like it.

@bradcsmith

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In this episode of After Reality, I’m sharing a little birthday update, a wild visit to my psychic (who had thoughts on Mel Owens and his possible ABC exit), plus a recap-ish of the highlights from the Bachelor in Paradise Season 10 (2025) premiere. We get into the tea on Mel’s divorce settlement, the new format shakeups, and yes—this show is still very much a popularity contest.

One standout moment? Dale Moss shows up, and the vibe instantly shifts. It’s wild how much of a difference a finalist makes. I also play the funniest clip from star contestant Katt Izzo that seriously had me in tears.

And don’t miss the bad Trump impression from bartender Wells Adams—complete with clown music in the background. His quote? “I feel like America needs this. It’s inflation, tariffs… it’s a lot of crazy things happening, and we need to watch a bunch of idiots make out with each other on the beach.” Yikes!

Tune in for who’s vibing, who’s leaving, and who just might be the next Bachelor.

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In this episode of After Reality, I dive into the explosive controversy surrounding Mel Owens, the newly announced Golden Bachelor. To set the stage, I share a clip from Mel's recent podcast interview—originally brought to light by my friend and go-to scoop expert, Reality Steve.

Mel's remarks have caused quite a stir. He openly stated his preference for women aged 45 to 60 and shockingly admitted to the show’s executive producer that “if there's 60 or over, I'm cutting them” (his words, not mine!). He even referred to it as an “NFL term.” If that wasn’t enough, he expressed a desire to “stay away from artificial hips and wigs” and emphasized how important it was for a partner to have a fit “profile” to match his own active lifestyle.

Steve joins me in the hot seat for his take on this unfolding drama. He breaks down the backlash sparked by Mel’s comments and discusses how a clip from Claire and Emma's Love to See It podcast quickly went viral. Steve also highlights the tricky spot ABC is now in—casting women over 60 would contradict Mel’s stated preferences, while casting younger women could undermine the entire premise of The Golden Bachelor.

I also had to call in a very special guest for his perspective: my dad, Papa Robertson. Having found love again after 39 years of marriage, his insight is as personal as it gets. Papa Robertson didn’t hold back, calling Mel “a bit tarnished” and questioning whether The Golden Bachelor is the right platform for him.

This episode takes a hard look at Mel Owens' comments, their implications for the Golden Bachelor franchise, and whether ABC should consider recasting its lead. Join me for a juicy discussion, a fast hot take from Reality Steve, and my dad’s relatable wisdom as we unpack this developing story!

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In this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Stefanie Parker from She’s All Batch to dive into everything Bachelor Nation. We chat about the latest breakups, marriages, and baby news, and I share some personal reflections on my own past breakup and what it’s really like living in the spotlight. Stephanie and I also speculate about the future of Bachelor in Paradise and how the franchise is evolving in the age of social media. To top it all off, we end with a fun rapid-fire question segment that’s sure to make you smile.

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In this episode of After Reality, I sit down with the amazing Emma-Louise, host of The Ambitious Introvert podcast and a coach who’s passionate about helping introverts thrive in an extrovert-centric world. Emma shares her fascinating journey—from 17 years in the skies as an air traffic controller and flight attendant to becoming a coach who empowers introverts to embrace their strengths.

We dive into the unique challenges introverts face, like managing energy, avoiding burnout, and navigating a world that often feels louder than we’d like. Emma opens up about the power of self-understanding and self-acceptance, sharing actionable strategies like scrambling your phone apps to reduce distractions, setting boundaries, and rethinking your approach to social interactions.

This episode is packed with practical tips, heartfelt insights, and plenty of “aha” moments to help introverts not just survive, but truly thrive—on their own terms. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, drained, or like you’re living life on someone else’s terms, this conversation is a must-listen!

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